The only way that I can justify giving you my help is if you have a legitimate reason for getting back together with your ex. Here is the deal, before you try to get your ex boyfriend back (if he cheated on you) I am going to ask you to do something that may be a little unorthodox.
You are in a very unique situation so I am going to ask you implement the no contact rule for an entirely different reason. If after that amount of time you still want to get your ex back then I say you should go right ahead.
Since we are dealing with someone who cheated on you the thing you really need to figure out is if he is the type of person that will cheat on a moments notice. The time has come, you have waited, hopefully 45 days, and it is finally time to try and start getting your ex boyfriend back. Alright, now that I have that out of the way lets dive in to how you should contact your ex boyfriend after 45 days. What is going to happen is that when you finally do decide to contact them they are going to be filled with joy.
Before I move on I am going to take a few moments to go through each of the choices and explain why texting is the way to go. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. But if I did want him back would asking him to leave ruin my chances of getting him back or make him miss his comfort of his previous living arrangements with me (increasing the chances of him coming back)? Me and my boyfriend been dating for only 4 months now but during this time we argue and fight about one thing all the time which is his ex.
Probably is, I begged and constantly messaged and texted him non stop and he told me he wouldn’t read any of my emails and going to change his number.
My ex cheated on me and I knew about the other woman but he insisted there was nothing going on. However, if I have learned anything from my tenure here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery it is that what people say and what people do can sometimes be completely different things. Through this page I am going to show you exactly what you need to do in order to leave your ex with feelings of regret. I know that what everyone on this site really wants is a step by step plan tailor made to help them get their ex boyfriends back. One of the biggest concerns from visitors to Ex Boyfriend Recovery has to be if their ex boyfriend would even consider a reconciliation. Of course, what you say in public, or on the internet and what you know to be true can be completely different.
So, when I started reading all of these forum comments of guys saying that they didn’t ever regret letting their exes go I got curious to see just how many of them were searching the internet for advice on how to get their girlfriends back. In the example I gave a few sections above I literally proved that there are actually more men regretting letting go of their exes than women. It all seemed so fun in your head yet after your breakup things aren’t going exactly how you thought they would go.
The Quick Way- Essentially regret will kick in 1-4 weeks after the breakup of a relationship. Well, when you date someone for close to a year you get used to talking with them every single day.
I want you to imagine that in every relationship you get into with a man you are going to be given a number between 1 and 10. The only problem with that is the fact that sometimes men don’t realize how good they had it with you.
Now, I want you to imagine that he dated another girl and she doesn’t compare to the standard you set.
Right now the goal you are shooting for is to become someone that your ex would regret letting go. It shouldn’t come as a shock that men are attracted to beautiful and intelligent women.
If I were to take these two women and line them up against a wall and ask random men to meet each one of them separately something tells me that most of the men would choose the intelligent woman over the non intelligent woman for a long term relationship. Throughout my book, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO you constantly hear me talking about the Ungettable Girl.
Because if a girl is like this then that means she isn’t going to be overly available to a man.
So, the first big thing I think you need to realize is to STOP making everything in your life about your ex boyfriend. Every woman who I have advised to master the art of moving on to create an opportunity to get their ex back has been given an opportunity to get him back. Now that you have the basic principles down one pressing question remains, when do you put all this moving on to get an opportunity into effect? If you have never heard of the no contact rule then I am just going to let you know that it is an ESSENTIAL part of making an ex regret leaving.
The no contact rule is a widely accepted philosophy that after a breakup you should enter into a period of no contact with your ex. However, if you have some weird circumstance where it’s not possible for you to complete the 30 day period then just run it by me in the comments section of this page and I will get back to you within a day and give you some help on what to do.
I can tell you that as smart and clever as I am when it comes to dealing with people it drives me up the wall when I know for a fact that someone is ignoring me. When I started this section I talked about how the no contact rule can work on two fronts to incite regret. Getting an ex boyfriend back is hard work and most of the women who fail on here fail because they are lazy. Look, you can’t expect to just do the no contact rule and wake up one day to have him at your doorstep.
In other words, you need to use that time of solitude to become someone that he will regret.
Remember, life starts at the end of your comfort zone so it is time to step outside the comfort zone and make yourself into the best version of you that has ever existed. So far, this whole guide has been about one thing, making an ex boyfriend regret his decision to leave your relationship. Many of you probably think I am going to give this huge monologue on power and how you must always have the upper hand but I promise that this isn’t a mistake because of not having the power. Now, I know the two of you are broken up right now but if you think back to your relationship were you constantly talking his ear off? Now, lets fast forward to the present where you are bombarding him with text messages and calls. With every text or call bombardment by you, you are further cementing his position that he is glad that the two of you don’t date anymore. However, every time you break no contact to selfishly feel better just to talk to him you could be damaging your chances at making him truly regret letting you go. While it has opened up my life in many different ways it has also forced me to dissect every little thing that happens in my personal life. But for me it is literally like torture because I know whats happening while its happening and I can’t do anything about it. Because you waited so long to respond I was constantly checking my phone for your response. Can you imagine what would happen if you got a guy used to a certain schedule when it comes to texting you and all of a sudden you interrupted that schedule? The second a guy feels that he has something to lose (which would be you in this case) is the second he realizes just how much he cares for that something or someone ;).
I guess the ultimate trend is that you have to have moments where you are very available to a guy and then suddenly become unavailable and then swing back to available and then back to unavailable and so on and so forth. I guess the question on the table right now is how do you implement this trend to re-attract your ex boyfriend?
I would like you to take a moment and revisit the section I wrote about on the no contact rule and how it can help you. You want this to happen because if he gets antsy about you contacting him it means he wants it to happen deep down. Remember, the point of this is to spread your interactions out so you leave him wanting more. One of the biggest mistakes I see women make after the no contact rule is going from zero to sixty way too fast. Yes, the ultimate goal we are trying to achieve here is to put you in a position where you and your ex can chat all day long without a hiccup. So, the smartest way is to slowly work your way to a point where you can talk for a long period of time throughout the day.
I am a guy so I can tell you that most men daydream and usually when we really daydream about a girl we like it can be a powerful way of igniting our true feelings for that girl. One of the most powerful ways you can re-ignite your exes feelings for you is through the power of daydreams. In other words, you are going to cast your daydream bait out there and hope he bites the line and starts daydreaming about a future with you and him in it. The daydream that someone would want their ex boyfriend to daydream about if they were to use this particular text should be a romantic getaway in Hawaii. If you don’t leave your ex boyfriend wanting more during an interaction with him (texting, calling or in person) then that interaction should be viewed as a failure. Well, the idea is to really get them hooked into what you are saying and then all of a sudden end the conversation…. So after a year of dating, my boyfriend and I slowly started getting distant because baseball started for him and track and work took up a majority of my schedule.
Last Sunday, No Contact finished, so I decided to send an interesting text… no response. So the next day, I send a heartfelt message saying how I apologize again for how things went down and that I wanted to start over and sent hopeful wishes that his semester is going well. So later on that day or the next day (I forget), I respond say I’m doing well and ask how his work has been. So then I skip a day because it was the third day and respond the next day (Friday, saying how I really like the album and I ask how he’s been), no response.
My boyfriend of six months dumped me a few days ago because he didn’t fall in love with me, but he said he loves me and cares about me. Slideshare uses cookies to improve functionality and performance, and to provide you with relevant advertising.
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In this section I am going to give you some insight into the male psyche so you can understand why a man will cheat on you.
As stated above, you are going to have to decide if you want to take your ex boyfriend back. Now, before I go into some long explanation about each step you should take I do feel it is important to mention that I have put together a HUGE resource on how to get your ex back here. They have waited all this time to hear from you and when that moment finally comes they are going to be so excited that they will probably run up and down the stairs and do all the things that guys do when they are happy. As I have said multiple times throughout this site, you have to earn the right to call your ex or in this case, your ex has to earn the right to call you. Can you imagine getting a letter after 45 days of no contact from someone that you thought didn’t want to talk to you? I had been dating this guy for 6 months and everything has been pretty good for the most part.
We’ve been in a long distance relationship but seeing each other once or twice every month and using Skype to communicate every day in between. We are not living together, we just see each other at school, in our dates, and in family occasions. And by seeing, do you mean they’re togerher for sure or he’s just talking to her? I guess its not so effective coz im still somewhere around… He still lives here coz of contract for apt. Finally I ended our 5 year relationship one day when she called his cell phone when we were together and he tried to lower the volume and act like it was someone else. Just be consistent and be clear with yourself with what you want and what you can’t control. Imagine if you could be such an influence on your ex that you could make him choose to come back to you.
I am sure that you have probably spent an hour searching for one and then you came across this site and saw that my guides were insightful and helpful.
I called it Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO and basically put all of my knowledge down for you to absorb. Many of these sources were forums full of women asking men if they ever regretted breaking up with their exes.
Saying in public that you really regret letting go of your ex girlfriend can be perceived as a weakness but I know enough about the way relationships work to know that a lot of what men say publicly is meaningless.
That means that every month about 9,900 women are typing that particular phrase into Google. In other words, statistics say that more men than women actually regret letting their exes go. I think the best way I can explain this to you is to explain the regretting process of men. I remember after I broke up with a girlfriend I started regretting my decision a bit later I think it was predestined though.
One of the biggest problems I think that women have when it comes to getting an ex back revolves around how much effort you put into getting him back. I love the effort I really do but the fact of the matter is that you are putting your effort in the wrong place.
Both of these women were considered to be the same level of attractiveness except there is a huge difference in personality between the two of them.
In other words, the guy is always having to work to get her attention and while many guys whine about the chasing process deep down we all kind of like it.


I know that is a weird thing to say for a site that specializes in reuniting women with their exes but it’s almost like you have to train yourself to NOT want your ex boyfriend. You still want your ex boyfriend back but you have accepted the fact that even if you do everything right things might not fall in your favor. If you are faking moving on then it is really not happening and you are more likely to be insincere.
However, experience has taught me that nothing should ever be set in stone and there are certain situations where 30 days isn’t practical. If you are able to lull a men into a sense of false security where he is hopeful for the future and can see happiness with you and then you sweep the rug out from under him something amazing happens. In other words, as long as you do the no contact rule with no breaks it should stir up some type of regret within your ex boyfriend.
When I first started this site I was a little afraid to speak up and hurt your feelings so I let it slide but I am not like that anymore.
There are things that you can do that can cause an ex boyfriend to NOT regret letting you go. While there is still a lot more to cover on that subject I think it can speak volumes to look at some of the most common mistakes people make. It’s not like you are doing anything too crazy like throwing a rock through his house window.
I am not saying that this was the reason he broke up with you but it was an annoyance that factored into his decision. You may feel something inside of you that tells you to talk to him because he is your “best friend” right? In this section I am going to literally teach you what you need to do to make any man regret leaving you. Believe me, if it was easy then every broken hearted girl would have the ability to wrap a man around her finger. However, if you are willing to put in the work then I assure you that you are going to put yourself in the best position to get an opportunity to win him back. Yes, I am going to literally tell you how you need to interact with me in order to get me to fall for you.
For example, if I really like someone I try to figure out exactly what they did to make me like them. Now, I do feel it is important to hit the pause button here so I can explain exactly why I chose to use an example of us meeting for the first time. Lets say that the two of us found each other attractive, we talked for a few hours and exchanged numbers so we can stay in touch. This is a really good sign because any time that you can get a guy to check his phone for a response it means that you have value to him in someway.
I know it is a messed up game to play but it’s worked on me every single time and its worked on billions of other men too. Actually, lets move on so we can see how we can apply this new found trend to your ex boyfriend.
One of the hidden aspects of the no contact rule is the fact that it allows you to ramp up the tension. Well, you can’t leave your ex boyfriend wanting more if he knows he can have you all the time. However, it is more powerful if you do it the way I am trying to show you as opposed to doing it right out of the gate. If I go on a date with a girl I like and I am so enthralled about my dating experience with that girl that I daydream about her when I am trying to fall asleep then that is a really good sign for her because it means that the next day I am going to wake up and the first thing I think of will be her. You get a fishing pole, put some bait on a line and then you cast that line into the water in the hopes that a fish will bite the bait and get hooked on your line.
Notice how it is not specified if it is you or your ex who will be taking this trip to Hawaii. Eventually we barely hung out and I understood he was genuinely busy because of colleges, baseball, and having guy time with his friends. In hindsight I should have lengthened the response a bit more to seem like I’m busier. Whether you have just broken up recently, or some time has passed and you feel like you want to get your ex boyfriend back, you need to apply these 4 key strategies. I am not really that kind of person that disclose much about myself experience especially on the internet but today i am going to make an to exception I really never intended to say to anybody that i used a spell to get what i wanted in life not cos i am ashamed of it but cos some may never believe cos its seem like something that can never happen. I have found that a lot of the women who I have worked with who have been cheated on decide not to get their ex boyfriends back because they feel a lot better about themselves after they read the process on this page.
If that is really what you are looking for then I urge you to check out the Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO system that I am always going on and on about.
Obviously, there are a lot of different reasons that a man will ultimately decide to cheat on his girlfriend but I would have to say that the most common reason would be because he is just plain horny.
You clearly came here because you want your ex boyfriend back and I want to help you do that but above all I want to help YOU. If you are familiar with my site then you know I am a really big believer in the no contact rule. You may find that after 45 days you just don’t have the same desire you did to get him back when you first started the NC period.
I can go days, sometimes months without checking certain emails (I have multiple.) Secondly, there is no way that you can get an instant response. He has never introduced me to his family but talks about them all the time as he is really close to them. We are just any other couple, we have some fights but i know we are happy until one day everything changes. Then it seems everything was getting better but when I asked him if its fine with us, he replied not really.
I’m devastated we are both madly in love with each other and our 1st loves I just don’t understand how u can leave the love of your life for someone u just met !
I asked whether he still like her and want to be with her or not he said no they just friend. Either you continue doing this until you get fed up, or muster up the courage to respect and love yourself.. He said after the fact that he felt all the constant talking and texting we did felt forced and obligated.
In essence, I suppose it can be argued that this guide is all about improving your chances of making an ex want you back which is what almost everyone on this site wants.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
Heck, a lot of people have already succeeded in trying to get their exes back through my guides. Of course, as I predicted above most of the men that chimed in said that they didn’t. Now, obviously if a breakup occurs the number that you were given has fallen below a satisfactory level. We are always obsessed with getting the newest things and sometimes that carries over into our relationships. One thing that I constantly notice about these type of women is the fact that have more in their life than men. So, while you have hope alive you don’t want to be caught in limbo land so you start doing things to kind of move on.
The point of this exercise isn’t to tell you that you have no hope or anything morbid like that. Every single one who has done this successfully (that I have heard back from) has always said to me that their ex started chasing them again.
I am still a fan of the 30 day no contact period so if it is within your power to complete one I would say to complete it.
Instead of walking home depressed and with his tail between his legs, you sweeping the rug out from under his feet will create this sense that he lost something and this sense makes a man realize how much he really liked you in the first place. When the two of you were first dating he was probably on the edge of his seat for every text response. With this in mind you are going to have accept that fact that you may have to make some major changes and put in some major work. I can’t promise that you will succeed but I can promise to raise your chances substantially.
After a while I started to become hyper aware of these trends that women do during interactions that work almost every single time. The reason I did this as opposed to using one where the two of us are imaginary exes is that I want you to grasp the concept first. In other words, your ex boyfriend is almost expecting you to become annoying and beg him to take you back at some point. You want him to wake up the next day and be checking his phone every five seconds hoping that you will text him. So, the day after your initial first communication (which wasn’t supposed to last all that long) I want you to enter into a full no contact mode for a day. Now, you have waited 30 days for this moment and now that it is finally here you just let loose and we talk all day long.
Well, the fishing analogy holds true to what you are going to be trying to do with daydream bait.
Me and him are both going to prom with different people and I just miss him so much and I want to be with him again but idk if I should wait till after prom before I contact him or try to talk to him more before prom so we can hangout there. But eventually it got to the point where the love he gave to me was vanishing and I became very needy and sad. He texted twice in these two months saying that I shouldn’t keep thinking about it and that I should move on in life, because he wants to see me happy. Lately we’ve been fighting over everything and one day the fight was large and he told me the doesnt love me like before and he wants to break up.
Of course, I still want you to read this page because it contains valuable information on understanding the mind of a cheating boyfriend and how to approach the situation you are in.
While I think it says a lot about the advancement of humans that we have slowly developed into a race that seeks out a significant other we weren’t originally intended to do so. Which leads us to the next section.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
Now, the whole point of the no contact rule was to NOT contact your ex so you aren’t exactly allowed to respond to them after they contact you during the initial 45 day period.
You have to say just the right thing at just the right time for things to work out the way you want them to. He has also never met my family but in my culture it’s improper unless marriage is around the corner.
Three weeks ago, just before we even had our 8 month celebration, i’ve found out that she has another girlfriend, they have been in relationship for a month. How to say in a best way I don’t like the situation we are at at the moment without giving him ultimatum? He says he has a better connection with her than me and that I should move on and start a new relationship. But to me and everyone else they more like they in a long distance relationships more than a friend ?? I want to break up and end everything with my boyfriend but I can’t i keep going back and forgove him.
I can understand that because ldr is hard, and it was easy to be with her while I was far away. However, as time went on I found that people wanted more and more of these step by step guides. Now, maybe when you were planning the breakup of your relationship in your head you thought it would be a good idea.
It is only until he goes out into the world and experiences the horror that is other women (who are not you) that he will finally realize what a mistake he made. It isn’t impossible that a long lasting relationship can become boring and sometimes if a guy feels like this he may want something new. Look, I totally have your back when it comes to getting him back or making him regret letting you go.
You see, more often than not these type of women really want to feel loved by a man but their whole life doesn’t revolve around that principle. The point of this is to put you in a position where you have an opportunity to reignite a connection and the best way to do that is to show your ex that your world doesn’t revolve around him. For example, if I were to be invited to a party and meet a very pretty girl I am sure that I would like her within minutes.
However, somewhere along the way it changed and he started getting annoyed with all the attention he was getting. While the texting between the two of us commences we are going to have a long conversation. So, when he sees that the opposite is happening, you ignoring him, he begins to get antsy and may even want you to message him a little bit.
I miss him so much I get sick to my stomach and cry myself to sleep I really don’t know what to do.
I would always mention how things were different and he apologized and said he would work on it better. T was cousins with a guy I had an one night stand with so I thought it would be weird is I had a relationship with T and I didn’t try anything. The first 1 month, there was no contact between us but he felt that I want him back from my posts on facebook and told my friends that he doesnt want me back.
Am that kind of person that have always thought that marrying a rich man will set me free in financially as a matter of fact i have been married to to four different men all for money i guess after every divorce with every one of them i didn't as much as i expected even when there was no prenuptial agreement signed. If you are new to my site then just a warning, every single page I write goes far more in-depth than my peers. That means you can’t text, email, facebook, google plus or talk to your ex on the phone. However, the biggest disadvantage for calling an ex is the fact that you could potentially get angry, raise your voice and start a fight if something is said that you don’t like.
He said that he wants to be with me,but he doesn’t know about the love thing because he recently got his break up.
I have been to his house a couple times, but since he travels a lot for work, I usually just travel with him or he comes to my state to visit me.


The girl was into him and I felt a bit threatened… Fortunately the girl left the country and our relationship were back to good sweet days. Is it just sign of feeling guilty or he has strong feelings for me and still wants to take care of me? We haven’t talked for a month, barely seen each other coz I made myself extremely busy! Maybe you thought that you would spend all of your time with your best friends hopping from bar to bar meeting new girl after new girl. It is a period of complete silence where you don’t talk or respond to your ex in any way shape or form. Now, that doesn’t mean I am going to date her because I am smart enough to know that there is more to a relationship than just sheer looks. Eventually I said we needed a break to breathe and figure things out which he disagreed and said we could work it out. But all of a sudden, one day he called to tell me he slept with someone and hence not sure of his feelings towards me.
He keeps posting on social media hinting that he misses what we had but I am not sure if he is really sincere. When I knew I stopped my posts on facebook and deleted our pictures and deleted his number from my whatsapp so I show him that I dont care.
But When i met my firth to be husband,i never expected i will fall for him so much i mean he was so charming cute and for the first time he made me feel safe like he will always be here for me not matter what happens. He performed a spiritual cleansing to banish negative energies that was fighting against our relationship and casted a love spell. Every page draws upon in-depth research (from experts), stories from women who have had success and my own personal experience.
He seems to be moving further away from me day by day, which means getting more involved with that girl. Just like any normal girlfriend I harras him by text message begging him to take me back and all I did was get ignored. But he was very absent there, didn’t even keep an eye contact with me, seems to be a totally different person. So, every interaction I have with her after the initial meeting is going to shape my perception of her.
I did this for 3 weeks after that he called me because he knew that my father is in hospital so I sounded cool. After four days, the man I missed dearly started to call me and told me how much he really missed me and that he is sorry for leaving me in the cold.
Yes i will admit to the fact that i f$$ked up so many times but we always got around our problem i don't mean avoid it i mean we fixed our problem like real adults but my stepson always thought i was not good enough for his mother.
So, rather than write more filler content I would prefer to talk about the stuff that can actually do something for you!
In fact, there is a time and a place to use calling as a way to contact your ex but only after your ex earns the right for you to call them. Problem is this is the 2nd time (first time was after the first year) I acknowledge that I may have driven him to think about cheating. When I went to his house he was still at the office (unbeknownst to me) and another girl answered the door and proceeded to tell me she was his girlfriend. It’s a bit awkward to txt him, because I can just talk to him if I want since we still live in the same apartment.
He added me on Facebook and we talked there a few times, we met again without arraging it though and we teased each other.
Maybe i don't know what love is cos i never felt it for any one my ex husband the only detail i can give is that my heart literally beats fast when he was around me, anytime he ran his finger through my hair. I feel I do a good job of explaining when the proper time to call is in the link I provided at the beginning of this section. I prevent breaking up saying I do not believe in all of this and that he is confused now and I wait for him to be back to his old self. So, maybe the next day I decide to send you a text to say hello hoping to have another amazing deep and insightful conversation.
I always knew my past will come to hurt me no matter what i do but i never gave it to much thought cos i never thought i will meet this kind of man.
Each time it happened after I had pushed every possible button I could, simply because I felt I was not getting enough attention & then I even resorted to flirting subtlely on fb with someone in a mutual group. I exchanged numbers with her and left as I was in a rush to get out and she kept asking me questions. And so we talked on the phone, got everything out and he genuinely seemed like we would be together again.
At the time i meant him ,it was not a while before the relationship became serious cos i bet he loved me also. I agreed to do the Trisha show thinking maybe it will help fix our marriage but it made it even worse. I acknowledge I have a problem & I need to work on that but I love him so very much but unsure of what to do.
There are few more factors as well, he recently graduate and didn’t get a job he dreams about. Is it because he somehow miss me or used to know about every of my step, or just checking out of curiosity. Suddenly prom tickets were going to be on sale and he said he didn’t know if he wanted to go with me because everything was confusing right now. He wants me to beg for him back and said I have tall orders to ask for anything for myself right now since he is still deciding on rather or not he wants a relationship with me. Should I wait a bit more before I reveal I know about everything and hope that newest and excitement factor wear of and he will give up on her?
Someone please give me some guidance or motivation he is the love of my life and I’m so crushed that he’s left me for a girl he just met ! He told me I should go with my friends because he thinks I would have a better time with them and he said he wasn’t sure if he was going to go but if he did he would ask another girl. When i asked him as to why he did that, he said that he came to a point where he got confused, he questioned his self if this is still what he wants, if we are really for each other. Or tell straight away and tell him he has to make up his mind what he wants to do with his life?
She had been living with him since after we had started dating, and apparently I had been the other girl at the time. Should I still confront him about the other girl or just leave it and wait if he comes up with breaking up? He said nothing about it besides why I didn’t tell him earlier and a few days later we were at a bar each one on his own and he texted me to say he liked me too but he was scared of the distance (because I was leaving) because he just got out of a long distance relationship at the start of the summer. I was so much in love to not tell him about my pasted life i just wanted to left him know like this was the person i use to be but cos of him i changed .He brought me to the light.
I’m going to continue NC mostly to help me with my problem but should I forgive the cheating & try once more?
Meaning, he was sleeping with the both of us up until the time the two of us became official.
All the fights we had because of school, the pressure to graduate, the moments we didn’t have time for each other because of our situation, and the lost in communication. I got so upset because I would be there with my friends while he would be with his date and it made me so mad.
I guess that was not the case he grew mad at me and thought i was going to do the same thing to him just like my exes. Then it transitioned and he tried to break it off with the ‘original girl’ and had even stopped sleeping with her (this was confirmed by her as well). I blame myself because i didn’t saw what he is going through before, but i still think it is not right that he cheated on me. A senior boy then asked me to prom and i said yes because one it would make him jealous and two I would have sometime to take nice pics with and just have a good time with a friend. When my ex found out about the senior he deleted all our pictures except for one from prom last year and unfollowed me on Instagram and Twitter. He was basically living with a girl who was his ex in his eyes, but she still wanted him even though they weren’t having sex after he and I became official and he asked her to leave multiple times (this was also confirmed by her). Unfortunately I told him he means all to me, and I’m willing to work on our relationship to get it back on the track (probably another mistake).
It literally broke me because I feel like there is no way of getting back together because he unfollowed me.
I thought he was going to call i just wanted to give him space i mean my friends suggested i did that but time few by with no call no text the only time he came back to our house was to pick his remaining things. We were about to move back to his home town together and that would be a huge change for me. The first man i have ever loved was walking out of my life just like a mist that comes and go i wanted him back to show him that he changed me to show him with him am a different person,He kept saying he would not want the same thing to happen to him just like my exes i believed he still loved he though he never said but that thought made me contact Metodo the spell caster for help. Oh and I should mention, 2 days after I left from driving to surprise him, he finally made her move out since she lives in a whole other country. I personally want to forgive him, i still love him, and i want us to have our second chance but i want it to come from him coz he is the one that caused this. I texted him the other day (it’s been like 3 weeks since the breakup) just to ask how baseball was going and he responded within 30 seconds and sent long paragraphs about it and asked me how track was going. I saw positive comments about him and someone said she has actually seen, that is come in contact with him during the time he helped her. Since he didn’t initiated anything for us, i just want to be distant, to show him that im strong.
I think he got scared of us getting too serious since he is not ready for getting married yet and he is thinking this is the think I really want now or I will want if I move in with him to his hometown(which means moving the country). The convo lasted 30 minutes and I told him I had to go to bed and I’d see him the next day. I got back for Christmas and a friend that was his friend too told him he was about to make a move. Was not really sure what to believe i just thought i was desperate i need help right away or i was going to lose my dream man for life.
Like honestly i was not going to travel for over thirteen hours or so to look for metodo in were he leaves cos one i din't know anybody there and two my run my private spa so i had little all not time and it will be an expensive thing to do.
We are still in our last year in college, we are thesis partners and we are required to do it together, see each other every now and then.. I could not also get the materials he needed to cast the spell so i had to ask him to get them for me so i can give him the money to pay for them. Especially since they were among a list of things I told him men usually do to apologize since he wasn’t doing anything but explaining or more defending himself (which was the most annoying). Within the first seven week he sent me a some candle with some hand written don't really know what to call it but will say words to recite at night at the right hour. He was living a double life, and had even given the girl one of his cars (a Benz) thinking she would leave more easily. And I’ve been going out more than usual with my friends and having a great time with them but I have moments where I just get sad and miss him so much. We texted all day long and we met once outside his house for a quick kiss because he just came from work. Sorry for the rant, next question: how do I know he’s sorry?… I don’t feel he’s working hard to get me back. Just after those seven day i received a parcel with something he gave me instruction on how to use.
I told him to come with me and my friends for coffee but he was already out so we said to meet up later. This is no lie in anyway Stephen and i are back together now he is no slave to anything cos of the spell he is just the way he was before the spell only made him love me more and never talk or think about my past life.
Not everybody will believe this more over its just something on the internet but my heart knows every of this word that formed this entire comment is true.
Before I forget, even though they weren’t intimate, he admitted they had been sleeping in the same bed the whole time even though there are four other bed rooms in the house.
He didn’t answer the next day when I called him to meet up and discuss this so I went to find him. I asked him to tell me why he did this and he said I didn’t deserve to know because I spoke to him badly. When I asked him why he did kiss me if he wasn’t sure about it he said that he wanted to be sure and now he is. After one more time I accidently saw him we didn’t see each other or talked to each other for about a month and a half. About two weeks ago I went to the hospital and when he learned about it from a common friend he showed he cared about me for the first time, not to me though, to our friend. Now I’m in my home town for the holidays and I walked by his shop a couple of days ago with some friends. We stopped a little further to take something to eat and we saw him crossinf the street twice looking our way. Later I found out from my best friend that happens to be sisters with his best friend that her sister asked her a lot all that time when I was going to go to my home town and that means he asked. Even though I am still in love with him I don’t want him back right now but eventually I will, I just want him to realise he did wrong and what he lost and come back begging. My bff told me to be friendly but not to much, distant but not mean and not to show my feelings to him. She says that when I meet him I should said hi and even talk to him a little, just the basics.



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