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I have to share my testimony to the world because i don't know who it might be helpful to. Do I Still Love My ExEmotions are quite difficult for many people to understand.This is because many emotions and feelings are very personal issues, oneswhich are not often discussed. Once you figure out whether or not you still love your ex, you will be able todeal with the issue and then move on from there.How can you determine what your feelings are for your ex? If you still love your ex, you likely want to see your ex or talk to your ex onthe phone quite often.
You need to make a decision--do you want to get back together with your exor do you want to get over your ex? The only way that I can justify giving you my help is if you have a legitimate reason for getting back together with your ex. Here is the deal, before you try to get your ex boyfriend back (if he cheated on you) I am going to ask you to do something that may be a little unorthodox. You are in a very unique situation so I am going to ask you implement the no contact rule for an entirely different reason. If after that amount of time you still want to get your ex back then I say you should go right ahead. Since we are dealing with someone who cheated on you the thing you really need to figure out is if he is the type of person that will cheat on a moments notice.
The time has come, you have waited, hopefully 45 days, and it is finally time to try and start getting your ex boyfriend back. Alright, now that I have that out of the way lets dive in to how you should contact your ex boyfriend after 45 days.
What is going to happen is that when you finally do decide to contact them they are going to be filled with joy.
Before I move on I am going to take a few moments to go through each of the choices and explain why texting is the way to go. 579Get Your Boyfriend Back If You Have A Child Together174Your Ex Boyfriend Blocked You… What Now?
My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. But if I did want him back would asking him to leave ruin my chances of getting him back or make him miss his comfort of his previous living arrangements with me (increasing the chances of him coming back)?
Me and my boyfriend been dating for only 4 months now but during this time we argue and fight about one thing all the time which is his ex.
Probably is, I begged and constantly messaged and texted him non stop and he told me he wouldn’t read any of my emails and going to change his number.
My ex cheated on me and I knew about the other woman but he insisted there was nothing going on. I never found out that he was dating her , until I asked her myself – this was after I had slept with him on a day that should have been our anniversary , 5 days after he was already dating her –Request unsuccessful.
A few months ago, I was dating this guy, but I wasn’t sure what I wanted and so I ended up breaking up with him. Before we get to the advice, let me tell you a little story about a time I was in this exact situation. If you think you really love this guy and you honestly want to be with him, you can consider telling him how you feel. This is going to sound really weird but for the next month I don’t want you to talk to your ex boyfriend. WHAT???Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? Yup, I know it sounds ridiculous but trust me, doing this will stack the odds in your favor in a very unique way.
Now, that is wrong on so many levels but you are going to use this type of thinking to your advantage. One of the most interesting things about text messaging is the fact that every holds their texts as sacred.
IMPORTANT – You cannot move on to this text message until you successfully complete the first text message above. The key with this type of text is to get your ex to remember the good parts of your relationship.
If you haven’t already realized this, getting your ex back can be a very complicated process. Forgot to mention the conversation did not end well as I replied ok and it just ended as he was trying to make a effort to talk!
To this day I can’t think of a more helpless feeling than sending a text message or calling your significant other and being ignored on purpose.
I can’t tell you how many times I get this question on a daily basis from desperate men out there.
Ok, I went through the emails and comments from yesterday and I received this question in some way, shape or form twelve times. So, if you are one of these 4,380 men wondering why your ex girlfriend is ignoring or avoiding you allow me to tell you what I tell every one of these men. Now, since I am such a stand up guy I am going to give you in-depth analysis of the most common reasons your ex girlfriend may have for ignoring you. Well, for starters the two of you just broke up and many experts say that going through a breakup is sometimes worse than losing a job and if any of you have lost a job when you absolutely needed money then you will understand the pain that goes along with that. Of course, usually women focus in on something specific that you did wrong during the breakup and remain angry at that. For example, if your ex girlfriend walked in on you and her sister in bed then she is absolutely going to have all the motivation she could ever need to stay angry at you and ignore you.
One time there was this guy that became so desperate to get his ex back that he crashed her wedding and tried to break it up. If your ex girlfriend views you as that crazy ex then that could be a motivating factor in her attempts to ignore and avoid you. Have you ever had a girl that was head over heels for you to the point where it was kind of creepy.
Apparently, the crazy Dutch woman in the story above got arrested for stalking but that isn’t really what I am getting at here.
Though, I will admit that if you call your ex that much you should be arrested for stupidity AND stalking. Anyways, if you show up at your ex girlfriends house unannounced and uninvited multiple times then congratulations you are the stalker guy pictured in the gif above.
Batman Shooter (Not Even Worth Mentioning This Guys Name)- I am sure you remember the day the Dark Knight Rises came out in theaters and some nut ball went in with a machine gun and shot people.
Columbine Shooters- Two mentally unstable young men go into school one day and essentially start a massacre. So, if your ex girlfriend perceives you as emotionally or mentally unstable then you have a serious problem because she put you in the unstable category with the people mentioned above. Lets say that I call your ex girlfriend like crazy, I show up unannounced, I threaten to hurt myself if she doesn’t cooperate and the list just goes on and on. I know, I know, it sucks to even think about this possibility but it is a possibility so I can’t leave it out. As many of my informed readers know this isn’t the only self help relationship website I own. So, it could be possible that your ex girlfriend is ready to move on from you entirely and that is why she is ignoring or avoiding you. In my experience, in helping people with relationships for three years I have learned that it is extremely hard for people to cut their exes out of their life entirely. So, the odds are in your favor that your ex girlfriend won’t be able to move on from you by cutting you out of her life entirely. Now that we understand the main reasons for why your ex girlfriend may ignore you lets shift our focus to what you need to be doing to prevent that from happening.  Now, in my book, Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO, I go through a specific set of steps that you have to follow in order to get your ex girlfriend to NOT ignore you.
In other words, if you follow the advice laid out on this page you will most likely move from your ex girlfriend ignoring you to her not ignoring you. Ok, now that we have that out of the way lets take a look at how the three steps above can help you regain your exes attention. Right now your ex girlfriend is ignoring you (on purpose) and you are kind of freaking out about it.
I have been through my fair share of experiences in which someone I really care for ignored me on purpose and let me tell you it is a very disheartening feeling.
What do you think happens to most men when an ex girlfriend they really want to talk to ignores them on purpose? They become super desperate and turn into those calling and texting terrorists that I mentioned above.
I am always telling the women over on my other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, that men are the ones that crave admiration but the truth is that human beings in general love to feel admired and the last time I checked human beings also included women.
So, why is it that woman are constantly chasing the guys that don’t make them feel loved or admired?
Well, it’s because they think that eventually a guy is going to change and show them the admiration and love they feel they deserve.
An underlying reason that your ex girlfriend could potentially be ignoring you is that she knows it will illicit a reaction from you.
In his mind she would come home, feel horrible about the whole situation and apologize profusely to him. Now, what ended up happening was that when his girlfriend came home and realized he wasn’t there she decided to go out and spend some time on herself which essentially crushed my friend.
In other words, the expectation that you are going to be like every other guy in the world is there. So, if you can overcome that expectation and do the opposite of what she is expecting all of a sudden it will be her who starts to rethink things and realize the mistake she has made.
In my E-Book, Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO, I recommend something I like to call the no contact rule. If you are successful in your attempt to turn the tables on your ex girlfriend then congratulations, you have completed the first step of the process.
Step one (turning the tables on your ex) was all about putting her in a frame of mind where she is wanting to hear for you or wanting to message you. Well, if you have read this far down on the page then I am assuming that your ex girlfriend is currently ignoring or avoiding you.
Probably because she isn’t really looking forward to your text messages or phone calls.
It basically primes her so that she is looking forward to your text messages or phone calls. Once you feel you have your ex girlfriend properly primed or looking forward to hearing from you (step one) you can go ahead and reach out to her to test and see if she is going to ignore you anymore. Your text message has to be so interesting that it would be impossible for your ex NOT to respond to it. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back.
The next day I send her a text explaining how I thought a lot about the night before and I would like a proper talk about it. I know this seems like a lot of texting her, and I wish I had gotten the idea of messaging her in a way that she could read the message without letting me know last night.
After the breakup we did No Contact during December, but then I contacted her by her birthday on January.
I am currently going through the avoiding period with my ex fiancee and am highly doubtful that she’s trying to remove me from her life completely as her and I have a two year old daughter together.
Its been a 5 month now, grl who cheated with other man, didnt cme back to me bt i stil love her, i thnk we’ re completly finish, there is no geting back. Anyway, at the end of phase 2 one day I just got impatient and texted her something like ‘ for the past few months we have been spending a lot less time together. For the next month I tried (2 times) to pin down a time and location for us to meet and discuss but she always had some reason (probably legitimate) for those times to not work, e.g. I kept waiting to hear from her about when she wants to meet up till the middle of month 3 (because I was not sure when she returned from her trip abroad). I know I may appear to be a very sore loser so far but here is the thing: I want this relationship to grow and I would still like to get back with her because she did not technically cheat on me. I do not plan to have any contact of any manner EVER with her, unless of course, she clearly expresses her desire to meet.
Our goal is to help you by delivering amazing quotes to bring inspiration, personal growth, love and happiness to your everyday life. I want to talk about a worse case scenario situation and what you should do if you are faced with it. For many visitors to this website being blocked by an ex is the absolute worst thing that can happen.
The truth is that I have seen hundreds of women be blocked by their exes and I never quite know what to say to them. Many of you who are avid readers of my site understand that the main purpose of this site is to help you get your ex boyfriend back. Well, winning an ex back is a very complex process (especially if you were blocked.) Of course, in an effort to bring you more value I put together an E-Book that you can follow step by step to achieve this goal. However, the issue that you are running into is that he is obsessed with you for the wrong reasons. Ok, a woman who visits this site and reads about the no contact rule will probably want her ex boyfriend back. The challenge that you are going to faced with is to determine if he is worth the effort required to turn his bad feelings into good feelings but more on that later. For now I would like to dive a little deeper into the mindset of a man who has blocked you.
My point here is that what I talk about on this page may be hard to hear but it is going to prepare you and maybe get some light bulbs to go off. If you are wondering about my particular situation I wasn’t actually officially dating the girl I blocked. Here is the main point I am trying to make about your ex boyfriend blocking you in this instance. It hurts because every time he does his feelings for you surface and maybe your relationship was very painful to him. No matter what there are always going to be those ex boyfriends out there that will hold things against you and look for revenge. One thing that we already know is that a man who blocks you to get back at you or to hurt you is not being mature about the situation. If an ex boyfriend blocks you to get revenge or to hurt you then one thing you already know right off the bat is that he is being very immature about the breakup.
This first thing I want you to get through your mind is that USUALLY not all of the blame goes on him for wanting revenge. Of course, most men are dumb and they fail to realize that they aren’t the only ones with eyes. Hmm… perhaps I should be role playing here because this may be a little complicated to explain without the proper context. While most women may not mean it when they say it, I know you well enough to know that you are serious about it. The second thought that I will have relates to what I was talking about above (with you being pretty, liking the attention and flirting with other guys.) You see, all throughout our relationship I hated that you flirted with other guys. This is one of those very rare occasions where actions don’t match up with the truth of how a man would be feeling about the situation. If your ex boyfriend were to block your phone number and you went crazy on Facebook trying to contact him the fact that you want to be in touch with him so badly will feel good to him because it means you want him. Remember above when I was talking about how I was actually glad that I was immature in my first relationship because it forced me to evolve and become a more mature human being and I could bring more to the table in the future?
Well, it could be entirely possible that your ex boyfriend hasn’t gone through this evolution yet. Where him blocking you because it hurts to talk to you has a lot to do with the emotions he has towards you and him blocking you to cause you pain is done from a place of anger, him blocking you because he never wants anything to do with you again is done from a place where you have pushed him to the point of no return. In other words, him blocking you because he never wants to talk to you again is the worst case scenario for pretty much everyone reading this page. Speaking from personal experience there have been times where I have become so angry that I threw logic out of the window completely. About four years ago I was dating a girl and we got into a fight (like couples tend to do.) It was four years ago so there are a few things that you need to understand.
Look, while I may have thought those horrible things in my head if you were to go deep inside my mind at the time I really didn’t mean any of them. No matter how you slice it a breakup is a highly emotional situation and it is almost a guarantee that things are going to be said (from both sides) that neither person means.
So, lets say that your ex boyfriend said this to you after your breakup and a day or two down the road you realized that your number has been blocked on his phone. You remember that whole “when emotions run high, logic runs low” speech I gave you at the beginning of this section right? Well, the thing about emotions running high and logic running low is that eventually logic does return to run the show. The infographic above is actually kind of cool because you can see the progression from anger back to logic.
What I am going to do now is go through the entire progression in the picture so you can understand exactly what is happening in his mind. I said that in about 60% of the cases an ex boyfriend will end up getting back in touch with you after he blocks you.
For every women reading this page having this happen is the worst possible outcome that they can think of. It is at this point that I would like to admit that I have actually blocked people from my life that I was serious about never talking to again and to this day I haven’t ever talked to them.
Lets start with the ex girlfriend first since I am sure that she is the one that you really want to hear about.
The thing you have to understand about this girl was the fact that the two of us just weren’t a good match for each other. After we broke up I made a decision to block her so I wouldn’t even be tempted to get back into that situation ever again.
Maybe me blocking her was done from a mindset of emotion as opposed to logic but in all honesty I am glad I did it because there was no way that I could have been happy with her. So, basically I decided to block my ex because I determined that there was no way that she could improve my life.
My second story of blocking someone was completely different but just as important because it can give you some important insight into how men think.
However, this friend who had feelings for me pushed me to that point very quickly when she started harassing me. Every time I would tell her in a very nice way that I think she should move on she would harass me. Once I told her this she settled down for a little while until I didn’t text her back immediately and then the harassment resumed. Now that you have a better understanding of why an ex boyfriend may block you I would like to turn your attention to HOW an ex can block you. As always, I am going to go in great detail into each of these methods so you can fully understand the situation you have found yourself in. I would say that an ex blocking you from his phone is the most common thing that I hear about when I talk to women on this site.
Well, getting blocked is never a good thing but I will tell you that if you get blocked from his phone don’t think the world is over.
Now, I don’t know your situation specifically but what I do know is that if your ex blocks you through Facebook it is not a good thing.
When you block someone from your phone (at least on the iPhone) it isn’t really that hard to unblock them.
In my view these are all the same as text messaging (with the exception of Snapchat.) What you need to keep an eye out for is if you are being blocked from his regular phone and from these little applications. Still though, an ex boyfriend who blocks a girl is usually doing so through a highly emotional state.
Usually they communicate through talking on the phone, through Facebook or other social media outlets. Essentially, this is where your ex boyfriend blocks you from his phone, through Facebook, through applications and through his email. It doesn’t take a genius to realize that some forms of blocking are worse than others. Once you learn that you have been blocked by your ex boyfriend it is your job to figure out in how many ways you have been blocked. Of course, I still haven’t told you what to do if you are faced with the worse case scenario of a full out blockage.


I am going to say something that I have been putting off for a while now because it is going to be very hard for you to hear and you will probably hate me for it but it needs to be said. In other words, you are in the worst possible position because you are at his mercy completely.
You are going to want to get in touch with him as soon as possible in any way you can possibly think of. I am not going to take the time explain what the no contact rule is since I talk about it so much on this site. Throughout this entire page I have thrown around a pretty interesting statistic relating to women who have been blocked. I have found, when talking to the women who have been blocked, that in 60% of cases their exes end up getting back in touch with them.
The no contact rule will force you to be patient and it will also prevent you from being tagged as that psycho ex girlfriend I talked about above.
Right now you are conditioned to think about your ex boyfriend as opposed to thinking of yourself.
Make the necessary changes in your life to become incredible and make sure you let the world know about it on social media.
This may be an embarrassing thing for me to admit but for years after I broke up with my ex girlfriend I would check up on her Facebook profile.
Here is the interesting thing though, two years after the breakup occurred between us I didn’t have any feelings for her at all.
Your in a better position than I was because the breakup between you and your ex boyfriend is probably still fresh which means both of you probably still have feelings for each other.
You see, her mind was in the right place with the mutual friends but she didn’t really use the mutual friends in the right way. If you are betting against a message being sent like this then I think you owe me some money ?? .
I would actually say that you want this message to be sent because it is going to force your ex to think about you. In fact, I would say only ask about him once and then move on to talking about something else. Well, after the no contact rule is complete would be a great time to initiate a conversation.
At a time it was had to trust him cos he kept asking for material i had to pay foras wrong as i was, i thought he was reaping me off my money.Just when i thought to say no more he finished what i had asked him to do for me.
So, it is easy to see how a great number ofpeople can be confused about their feelings for their exes. Perhaps you have called your ex’s voice mail just tohear his or her voice, or maybe you have driven by your ex’s house or placeof work in hopes of seeing him or her outside.
In this section I am going to give you some insight into the male psyche so you can understand why a man will cheat on you. As stated above, you are going to have to decide if you want to take your ex boyfriend back.
Now, before I go into some long explanation about each step you should take I do feel it is important to mention that I have put together a HUGE resource on how to get your ex back here.
They have waited all this time to hear from you and when that moment finally comes they are going to be so excited that they will probably run up and down the stairs and do all the things that guys do when they are happy. As I have said multiple times throughout this site, you have to earn the right to call your ex or in this case, your ex has to earn the right to call you.
Can you imagine getting a letter after 45 days of no contact from someone that you thought didn’t want to talk to you? I had been dating this guy for 6 months and everything has been pretty good for the most part. We’ve been in a long distance relationship but seeing each other once or twice every month and using Skype to communicate every day in between. We are not living together, we just see each other at school, in our dates, and in family occasions. And by seeing, do you mean they’re togerher for sure or he’s just talking to her? I guess its not so effective coz im still somewhere around… He still lives here coz of contract for apt. Finally I ended our 5 year relationship one day when she called his cell phone when we were together and he tried to lower the volume and act like it was someone else. Just be consistent and be clear with yourself with what you want and what you can’t control.
After I dumped him, he told my friends that he loved me more than anything else in the world. Sometimes it takes time for feelings to develop, and it’s totally possible that it took you a while to realize he is who you want to be with. Ask yourself a few questions: if he dumped his girlfriend for you tomorrow, would you be able to be in a committed relationship with him? We never made anything official before, because i was going through a tough relationship, and when I (FINALLY) got out of it, in hopes to being with him, i find out he has a girlfriend, and he wasnt really open to me about seeing this other girl, even though we talked ALOT about how we felt about eachother, we occasionally got into fights about it, and my ex was a little over protective, and kept us apart, yes this is an affair that happened, but thats a long story behind, anyway.
We have funny videos, exclusive interviews, and hot new entertainment release clips and trailers. In fact, if done correctly, a text message can bring up reminiscent feelings that can set you on the right path to getting your ex back. Now, out of those suitors, throughout your years in the dating realm there has had to be one guy that didn’t pick up the hints. The text receiver was clearly ignoring the sender but they refused to accept that fact so they kept texting until they they could get a response. The better idea is to wait until the opportune moment where can maximize the power of the text message. By completely taking 30 days to yourself without texting him or talking to him at all you are slowly taking control of the situation. It is basically the ultimate way to get him checking his phone every five minutes to see if today is the day that YOU will text HIM. The way you accomplish this is by going into great detail on one of the most positive experience that you had together as a couple. Well the idea behind it is pretty simple, send a text message to your ex that could potentially get him jealous and bring up some of the lovey dovey feelings that he felt during your relationship.
He broke up with me because he didnt felt anything for me anymore, one week after our breakup he started to date all of a sudden another girl.
Instead of leaving it at just one missed text or phone call you up the count to thirty and it’s almost like someone else is controlling your actions.
More specifically, I am going to let you in on why your ex girlfriend is ignoring you or avoiding you on purpose. So, if twelve is my daily average of receiving this question then that means that this question is asked a total of 4,380 to me every single year by 4,380 different men. Another common thing that I know women get angry about is something you said about them during a heated argument or fight. You know, the ones where the crazy ex boyfriend stalks the ex girlfriend until she has to take out a restraining order.
Sure, as men we all like to feel admired by the opposite sex but there is a point where it can become too much. It’s a creepy looking guy that just follows one specific person around without being seen.
In fact, I also own another website called Ex Boyfriend Recovery in which I help women try to get back with their exes. In fact, I wasn’t even close to the second person to have this epiphany about moving on.
Only a select few can do it successfully and guess what, yours truly couldn’t do it during his first breakup.
However, if you want her back in your life permanently there is a lot more you have to do than to just regain her attention.
Seriously, there are moments where you just want to scream at the top of your lungs at how unfair your love life is. Now, my friend (who worked from home) was absolutely furious that he decided to one up her by not being there when she showed up at home. You see, my buddy was sure that when he came home he was going to teach his girlfriend a lesson and she was going to apologize to him.
Your ex is trying to teach you a lesson by ignoring you so she is going to have a similar expectation that my friend had about his girlfriend. However, if you want more advice on what length of time you should use when you implement the no contact rule I recommend reading my book or checking out this article. While this is essentially in making her not ignore you it doesn’t necessarily mean that she will stop ignoring you.
That means that whenever you do reach out to her via a text message or a phone call she isn’t responding or picking up. So, don’t even think about reaching out to your ex until you have successfully turned the tables on her. That made her very upset and sad and we had a short talked were she again asked me to stay over, which I declined because I was confused about my feelings. Last night I messaged her on facebook again, this time being a bit more open about my feelings and opening the possibility of us working things out.
We have been talking a bit and I become the terrorist exboyfriend, I got really, really nervous about her new relationship (which was a friend of mine and is no longer) and an surgical intervention she had so she told me not to talk to her anymore and has been ignoring my text since then (two weeks ago). We had a great time and we talked a lot via text messages, but then I became the GNAT and acted irrationally, she was hot and cold and used mixed messages which drove me mad. That may partly be because we never really spent a lot of time together for extended periods, except for the start of the relationship. From my experience in failing to set up a time in the previous month, I responded ‘sure, let me know when you would like to meet’ so that she could pick the time that works best for her.
I reached out to her around the middle of the month to check if she was back but got no response. What surprises me is the fact that she could not find find any time for us to meet and talk but she found time to find this new guy. You tell them how you have this & that going on, how you're going out & enjoying your single life & no longer stressing, how you're keeping yourself busy with friends & family, how you still haven't found someone new but you're not looking, how you're okay now? Since 90% of the visitors to Ex Boyfriend Recovery want their ex boyfriends back I want to stay with that line of thinking.
In fact, upon research it seems that no one online knows what to do when faced with this situation. While I can’t guarantee your success 100% of the time I can tell you that many women (who have been blocked) have used my book, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO to win back their exes. I guess if there was ever going to be a positive reason for an ex boyfriend to block you this would be it.
So painful that he doesn’t want to remember it right now so he chooses to block you out of his life. So, while this is probably the best outlook for being blocked it is still never a good thing. I know that is an absolutely horrible thing for me to say but I am actually not ashamed about it.
Nevertheless, the immature idiot that I once was, was important because it taught me how to evolve into a more mature man. Like I said above, at one point in my life I went through a phase where I would have had no problem doing this. However, what I would like to do is give you some insight into what factors caused him to have these feelings of vengeance. Sure, there are cases where your ex boyfriend is just a psycho and will want revenge because he is crazy. They will latch on to everything you did wrong in the relationship as a reason for revenge. There are a few silver linings that I think are important to understand if an ex blocks you in this instance. While blocking an ex girlfriend is a bold action stating (GO AWAY) the ultimate truth could be that the man is just doing it so he can feel wanted by you… WAIT, WHAT? I did just that (said the most hurtful things possible.) I thought of every hurtful subject I could to twist the knife a little deeper.
The only reason I verbalized any of those thoughts was because I got angry and was looking for a way to hurt my girlfriend.
Emotions reign is only temporary and logic is usually left to clean up the mess that emotion made. Remember, the way this usually works is that your ex boyfriend will start off thinking with logic.
We fought constantly, we didn’t agree on a lot of serious issues and by the end the relationship was so toxic that I literally went to bed at night dreading the next day. Now, prior to this point I had only ever blocked one person in my entire life (that ex girlfriend I talked about above.) So, blocking someone from my life is very rare for me. She had pushed me to the point where I couldn’t take it anymore so I blocked her from everything and never talked to her again.
If he does block you through both the applications and the big phone it is not a good sign. I have even heard some cases where he can block your mutual friends for a while so he doesn’t have to see you in person.
If your ex boyfriend blocks you from his smartphone but he doesn’t block you from Facebook then technically you can still get back in touch with him through Facebook when you want. If you are faced with a situation where you are blocked by your ex in every way then your options are very limited. While there are a few things you can do to influence his decision there isn’t really anything you can say to change his mind.
Your ex blocks you (a strong statement from him saying that he doesn’t want to talk to you) and you decide that, that means you should try harder and confront him in person? However, what I can do for you is give you a link to a new guide I wrote that really goes in-depth on my new view of the no contact rule. These women didn’t have to do anything for their ex to get in touch it just happened all on its own. That tells me that your world doesn’t revolve around a guy and it also says that you have a lot of self confidence.
So, rather than sit in your room and cry about your situation I say you be proactive with the knowledge that he will be keeping an eye on you through Facebook. The two of us weren’t Facebook friends but her wall was semi public to where I could see the major events of her life. Curiosity is a powerful motivator and he will probably come snooping around in the near future to see how you are.
So, what she decided to do was use her ex boyfriend and her’s mutual friends to pass a long letter to him. Once you are in his head curiosity will take hold and he may start spying on your Facebook profile or grilling your mutual friends on how you are doing.
Enough time should have passed for him to calm down a little bit so if you play your cards right you could get a response. But it’s not always been bad, we moved out of his parents house and got an apartment and everything. Your answers will tellyou what you feel for your ex.• Do you feel a strong desire to see your ex? They were developed for real folks like you and are proven towork again and again.Of course, we cannot guarantee you will get an ex back who truly hasmoved on, but, if the flame still burns, these tips will fan that flameinto a bonfire of love between you and your ex love. I have found that a lot of the women who I have worked with who have been cheated on decide not to get their ex boyfriends back because they feel a lot better about themselves after they read the process on this page.
If that is really what you are looking for then I urge you to check out the Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO system that I am always going on and on about. Obviously, there are a lot of different reasons that a man will ultimately decide to cheat on his girlfriend but I would have to say that the most common reason would be because he is just plain horny.
You clearly came here because you want your ex boyfriend back and I want to help you do that but above all I want to help YOU.
If you are familiar with my site then you know I am a really big believer in the no contact rule. You may find that after 45 days you just don’t have the same desire you did to get him back when you first started the NC period. I can go days, sometimes months without checking certain emails (I have multiple.) Secondly, there is no way that you can get an instant response. He has never introduced me to his family but talks about them all the time as he is really close to them. We are just any other couple, we have some fights but i know we are happy until one day everything changes.
Then it seems everything was getting better but when I asked him if its fine with us, he replied not really. I’m devastated we are both madly in love with each other and our 1st loves I just don’t understand how u can leave the love of your life for someone u just met !
I asked whether he still like her and want to be with her or not he said no they just friend. Either you continue doing this until you get fed up, or muster up the courage to respect and love yourself.. He said after the fact that he felt all the constant talking and texting we did felt forced and obligated.
I easily could have gotten him back, but I was never sure that was what I really wanted, so I never went for it.
When he got a new girlfriend, I was jealous because all of his attention was no longer on me. It sounds like your ex was really heartbroken when you dumped him, and now he’s trying to move on with someone new. However, there seems to be a huge misunderstanding among the women out there on how to actually use text messaging effectively. Most women fail at texting their exes for the simple fact that they commit this texting sin and quite honestly it’s not even their fault.
First though, before we can do that, we are going to have to figure out how to create that opportune moment. After basically blowing off your ex for a month straight your first text to them better have some substance to it.
It is like their phone is their own personal sanctuary holding all their secrets and feelings about things.
If you do this correctly you will bring up his most positive feelings about the relationship and get him thinking about you in a different more positive light.
As a guy I can tell you that nothing makes you want a girl more than when you see her talking with another guy that is even moderately attractive. Don’t worry, I got your back and I want to help you understand the best way you can get him back. I told him I had been busy he said i could of replied obviously I would see his messages and calls and ask why I ignored him also we have had came to terms to be friends and then I done the the nc and he started missing me but I broke it because he message my sister asking where I was and then asked why I had been ignoring him what should I do? Of course, in addition to that I will also be giving you a game plan on what to do going forward if you are currently in a situation where you are being ignored or avoided. Well, sometimes when women get fed up with their exes they decide that they want to move on with their lives instead of being hurt all the time by an unresponsive ex boyfriend. No, there are a lot of capable people out there that can come to this conclusion on their own. She is hoping that it will draw out that admiration and love that she so desperately wants. He went to the movies, ate at a nice restaurant and by the end of the day, when he felt enough time had passed, he decided to come home.
Recently I said some hurtful things about her body that really made her mad and didn’t want to talk to me but later on did.
Im done healing myself, i thnk i realy love her, and i want her back in my life please Christ help me. For the first 6 months, she was unemployed so we spent about 80% of the weekends (fri-sun evenings) together. But I found it hard that in the next month (even with 2 weeks going to trips) she never could find any time to meet – and I had basically opened up my entire calendar for her.
The next thing I heard from her was in the second half of the month wishing me a happy birthday.
A week later, I got impatient and wrote a page long “emotional” email explaining my situation and angle to her also detailing that I want us to be together and the ‘breakup text’ was because I was upset at the time. Every time a woman comes to this site and decides to implement the no contact rule she is technically obssessed with her ex boyfriend. Sure, maybe there were some really bad fights and the relationship wasn’t as strong as she thought but if she is willing to try the no contact rule then deep down she really wants things to work and probably still loves her boyfriend.


Some of the women I blocked were exes and some of them were just friends that pushed me to the point where I couldn’t deal with them anymore. Essentially how this works is that every time your ex talks to you on the phone or through text messaging it hurts him. Maybe he is obsessed with you for the right reasons but it simply hurts too much to talk to you. Look, the thing you have to understand about men is that it is rare for us to be mature about our first few relationships.
I looked back and was disappointed with how I acted and I actively worked to make sure I didn’t repeat those mistakes ever again in my future relationships.
However, I am playing the role of an idiot boyfriend here so I don’t look at it that way. There are two things that will go through my mind when I decide to make the decision to block for this specific reason. This anger signifies when the logic switch is turned off and when the emotion switch is turned on.
While logic is slowly retaking the battlefield some of the good emotions are starting to kick in.
In fact, it means that 40% of exes could be serious about blocking you and may never want to talk to you again.
First though, lets take a look at all the ways that an ex boyfriend can block you from his life.
Most people don’t just hand out their numbers and they sure as heck put some thought into who they are blocking from their phones. As I said above, around 60% of exes do end up getting back in touch after they block their significant other. While there is still a 60% chance that he will unblock you down the road he may be more serious about the blocking if he takes the time to block you on all these little applications as well. Knowing what options you have is important because those options are going to determine how you play the game. Look, I am a fan of letters but the only time that they ever mean something to me is when I am dating someone. I want you to remember this attitude because it is going to be extremely important for you to have for what I say next. Of course, the world isn’t over so you decide to hang out with a few mutual friends that you and your ex boyfriend have. The one day he got the courage to tell me he needs a break or whatever and that he would still let me stay at home so I could have a home because I have no friends and barely any family and none I could stay with. I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time.
And i suffer heartbreak for ten months and i was not tired of loving him.so i took a bold step by contacting a spell caster who helped me bring my ex boyfriend back. She told me of a man called DR LAWAL KERIM, she told me he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot solve and she told me how he has help countless number of people in restoring their relationship.
Any unresolved emotions dealing with yourex could actually impact your future relationships--and not in a good way.
When something interesting or upsetting happens in your life, thefirst person you think to call is your ex.• How does it feel to think about your ex being with someone else?If you are still in love with your ex, the thought of him or her being withsomeone else probably makes you feel very jealous. Of course, I still want you to read this page because it contains valuable information on understanding the mind of a cheating boyfriend and how to approach the situation you are in.
While I think it says a lot about the advancement of humans that we have slowly developed into a race that seeks out a significant other we weren’t originally intended to do so.
Which leads us to the next section.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? Now, the whole point of the no contact rule was to NOT contact your ex so you aren’t exactly allowed to respond to them after they contact you during the initial 45 day period. You have to say just the right thing at just the right time for things to work out the way you want them to. He has also never met my family but in my culture it’s improper unless marriage is around the corner.
Three weeks ago, just before we even had our 8 month celebration, i’ve found out that she has another girlfriend, they have been in relationship for a month. How to say in a best way I don’t like the situation we are at at the moment without giving him ultimatum?
He says he has a better connection with her than me and that I should move on and start a new relationship.
But to me and everyone else they more like they in a long distance relationships more than a friend ?? I want to break up and end everything with my boyfriend but I can’t i keep going back and forgove him. I can understand that because ldr is hard, and it was easy to be with her while I was far away. If you’re going to bring up old feelings, you need to be 100 percent sure of what you want.
Before you speak up, you need to realize that doing so might ruin your friendship with him.
I am not going to lie to you, sending a text message is a huge risk, if done incorrectly you will decimate any chance you have of that happy reunion you keep daydreaming about.
Right after a break up everyone involved is out of whack emotionally and are prone to do some really stupid things.
In fact, you have to slowly lead up to the moment where he or you will hopefully go out on a date again. I always like to say that you should make your first contact text so interesting that they have no choice but to respond.
Now, while it is important that you get him to think positively about you it is also extremely important that you remain as positive as well. I remember once that one of my married friends told me something very interesting about the male psyche. There is a lot more to this process and quite frankly this page doesn’t do a great job of describing exactly what you do step by step. I still love him i’ve been chasing him for over 2years right now and sometimes our chats go okay and sometimes it turns into a fight. Not prepared for that talk I didn’t express my feelings very well, and hurt her very bad.
Her and I broke up last June and were back together briefly in late October (briefly as in like two weeks) and we never really went public with it. After the first 6 months, she got a good job and our frequency of meeting up decreased – drastically in my opinion.
I had been told that she would go abroad for another work trip around this time for a couple of weeks in the later part of the month. Regardless, I still think she looks cute but she told me once that she is never approached at bars by guys. He is on her mind the second she wakes up for the day, the second she gets in her car to go to work and the second she closes her eyes to go to sleep. As a guy let me tell you it is a very humbling feeling when one moment you are on top of the world because you think a pretty girl is falling for you and then BAM!!
In other words, being immature at first was essential for me to evolve into a more mature and classy human being. Of course, I am all about turning negatives into positives so the thing that you have to understand is that very rarely do men communicate with their girlfriends through email.
At first I was calm but then I started freaking out, I really love this man to death and I know he loves me too it’s just that my anger towards him was taking a toll. The very idea of itmight make you feel sick inside, or it may make you feel angry at the otherperson. If you are new to my site then just a warning, every single page I write goes far more in-depth than my peers.
That means you can’t text, email, facebook, google plus or talk to your ex on the phone.
However, the biggest disadvantage for calling an ex is the fact that you could potentially get angry, raise your voice and start a fight if something is said that you don’t like. He said that he wants to be with me,but he doesn’t know about the love thing because he recently got his break up. I have been to his house a couple times, but since he travels a lot for work, I usually just travel with him or he comes to my state to visit me. The girl was into him and I felt a bit threatened… Fortunately the girl left the country and our relationship were back to good sweet days. Is it just sign of feeling guilty or he has strong feelings for me and still wants to take care of me?
We haven’t talked for a month, barely seen each other coz I made myself extremely busy! Suddenly, I was questioning all of my past decisions and wondering if I made a huge mistake. I have heard plenty of stories where women, in the heat of the moment, texted their exes multiple times, even after getting no response. So, if you are intrigued by this method but very confused I urge you to visit get my guide, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO. I was attatched to him and that was my fault i dont talk to him only if he starts talking to me because i dont want to scare him off.
However, I did mention above that if an ex blocks you it probably means that a part of him is obsessed with you. We are all human beings after all and the thing about human beings is that none of us are perfect. I wasn’t always angry either just once in a while but when I was I was mean to him despite everything he has done for me.
On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Yes i will admit to the fact that i f$$ked up so many times but we always got around our problem i don't mean avoid it i mean we fixed our problem like real adults but my stepson always thought i was not good enough for his mother. I explain all my problem to him, he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. You may even feel possessive, as if the other person is on your turf,stealing ‘your’ ex.Have you figured out how you feel about your ex? Every page draws upon in-depth research (from experts), stories from women who have had success and my own personal experience. He seems to be moving further away from me day by day, which means getting more involved with that girl.
Just like any normal girlfriend I harras him by text message begging him to take me back and all I did was get ignored.
But he was very absent there, didn’t even keep an eye contact with me, seems to be a totally different person.
Let him know privately that you’ve thought a lot about the past, and you wish you had a second chance with him. Handle every single text and interaction you have with your ex with as much grace as possible. It may take you a while to read through the entire thing but it will break every step of the ex recovery process down for you, in-depth.
Upon seeing no lights in there I started walking back but saw from across the street that she was returning home holding hands with another guy. He saved me from homeless ness and brought me to his parents home as a stranger one year ago from May 3rd, 2016. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, and it really happen as he said, i was very surprise, this is so amazing. So, rather than write more filler content I would prefer to talk about the stuff that can actually do something for you! In fact, there is a time and a place to use calling as a way to contact your ex but only after your ex earns the right for you to call them. Problem is this is the 2nd time (first time was after the first year) I acknowledge that I may have driven him to think about cheating.
When I went to his house he was still at the office (unbeknownst to me) and another girl answered the door and proceeded to tell me she was his girlfriend.
It’s a bit awkward to txt him, because I can just talk to him if I want since we still live in the same apartment. A part of me tells to move on and forget about him, but its been really hard, and a trusted friend told me to just message him, and see how things are going, but he holds alot back, and i think thats because of everything we went through. Since you are on my site I am assuming that you are interested in somehow trying to get your boyfriend back. It will also go into extreme detail about how you can use text messages to get your ex boyfriend back. It wouldn’t be surprising--most people who wonder abouttheir feelings for their exes do still have some strings attached which need tobe addressed. I feel I do a good job of explaining when the proper time to call is in the link I provided at the beginning of this section. I prevent breaking up saying I do not believe in all of this and that he is confused now and I wait for him to be back to his old self. Maybe stop hanging out with him and his new girlfriend so much, and start doing your own thing more.
No matter how hard it is or how much you want to talk to him DO NOT DO IT, even if he responds you have to ignore it. But since she wasn’t willing to take me back and I ws getting frustrated with insecurities and maybe one day she could find someone and leave me I decided to give her the break up she wants. The only bad thing I started feeling in the last 2-3 months of this phase is that our conversations were always centered around her – her boss, her job, things she does, where she wants to go, what movie she wants to watch, etc. I agreed to do the Trisha show thinking maybe it will help fix our marriage but it made it even worse. Each time it happened after I had pushed every possible button I could, simply because I felt I was not getting enough attention & then I even resorted to flirting subtlely on fb with someone in a mutual group.
I exchanged numbers with her and left as I was in a rush to get out and she kept asking me questions. Every time he thinks about you he is not filled with good feelings he is filled with annoyance. I acknowledge I have a problem & I need to work on that but I love him so very much but unsure of what to do. There are few more factors as well, he recently graduate and didn’t get a job he dreams about. Is it because he somehow miss me or used to know about every of my step, or just checking out of curiosity. Near the end of phase 2 I felt like I had been attempting to have an in-depth conversation with her about a semi-serious topic (in my opinion) for nearly 2 months but the low frequency of meeting up made it impossible to finish the regular chit-chat and still have time for semi-serious discussions. The next day, I wrote another page long email explaining to her that I still want our relationship to work out.
He’s a very mature man and he IS NOT like most men, he cries and shows his feelings a lot and is compassionate. He wants me to beg for him back and said I have tall orders to ask for anything for myself right now since he is still deciding on rather or not he wants a relationship with me. Should I wait a bit more before I reveal I know about everything and hope that newest and excitement factor wear of and he will give up on her? Someone please give me some guidance or motivation he is the love of my life and I’m so crushed that he’s left me for a girl he just met !
Also, hinting at the fact that the other guy did not bother me while not hinting at my thoughts about him being a rebound. When i asked him as to why he did that, he said that he came to a point where he got confused, he questioned his self if this is still what he wants, if we are really for each other.
Or tell straight away and tell him he has to make up his mind what he wants to do with his life? The handful of times I did call her, most of the times she did not pick up and never called me back either. He made everything seem ok and that we had made up after he told me he might want a break but then the next day I drive him to work in a shared car that he took with him and I got to his parents house to talk to his sister, and then I go hang out with him on his lunch break and we are pizza that he bought for us and after he kisses me and tells me that he loves me.
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She had been living with him since after we had started dating, and apparently I had been the other girl at the time.
Should I still confront him about the other girl or just leave it and wait if he comes up with breaking up? I’m going to continue NC mostly to help me with my problem but should I forgive the cheating & try once more?
Meaning, he was sleeping with the both of us up until the time the two of us became official. All the fights we had because of school, the pressure to graduate, the moments we didn’t have time for each other because of our situation, and the lost in communication. Then it transitioned and he tried to break it off with the ‘original girl’ and had even stopped sleeping with her (this was confirmed by her as well). I blame myself because i didn’t saw what he is going through before, but i still think it is not right that he cheated on me. Next day, I texted her a simple message that I hope we could be friends (signalling my acceptance of the fact that she has moved on).
He was worried I would hurt myself because I always said that (wrong of me) or hurt him physically or whatever (which I would NEVER DO) anyways his sister and mom drives me to work at 10pm overnight shift and sister hugs me. I tried sending a few light-hearted messages to her as you suggest on your blog (2 in the course of the following week) just so we could get talking again but still no response.. They say they’ll be there for me in the morning to pick me up but then during my shift I kind of lost it telling the sister through text and him that I wanted to die and stuff so she called the ambulance on me. He was basically living with a girl who was his ex in his eyes, but she still wanted him even though they weren’t having sex after he and I became official and he asked her to leave multiple times (this was also confirmed by her).
Unfortunately I told him he means all to me, and I’m willing to work on our relationship to get it back on the track (probably another mistake).
We were about to move back to his home town together and that would be a huge change for me. So then in the morning I get discharged from the hospital nobody is answering their phones and I live at least 45 minutes from the hospital. Oh and I should mention, 2 days after I left from driving to surprise him, he finally made her move out since she lives in a whole other country. I personally want to forgive him, i still love him, and i want us to have our second chance but i want it to come from him coz he is the one that caused this. The mom and his sister had said everything would be okay and that I could still talk to his sister and his mom. Since he didn’t initiated anything for us, i just want to be distant, to show him that im strong. I think he got scared of us getting too serious since he is not ready for getting married yet and he is thinking this is the think I really want now or I will want if I move in with him to his hometown(which means moving the country). We are still in our last year in college, we are thesis partners and we are required to do it together, see each other every now and then.. After all this HIS aunt answers and she lets me come stay for a few days till I can get a ride home. Especially since they were among a list of things I told him men usually do to apologize since he wasn’t doing anything but explaining or more defending himself (which was the most annoying).
He was living a double life, and had even given the girl one of his cars (a Benz) thinking she would leave more easily. Sorry for the rant, next question: how do I know he’s sorry?… I don’t feel he’s working hard to get me back.
We laughed a lot just like a day before all this and we have a lot of inside jokes always always even the last time we saw eachother told eachother that we love eachother and kissed eachother affection Was not lacking. Before I forget, even though they weren’t intimate, he admitted they had been sleeping in the same bed the whole time even though there are four other bed rooms in the house.
I haven’t contacted him now for like 4 to 5 days out of like 7 or 8 days of break up. And then day before valentines day ? texted her ( didnt text her in between 2 weeks ) what an amazing time we had together and i wish everthing could be better.



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