In this post, I’m going to provide 4 different examples of what to say to your ex to get her back. Firstly, I want to point out that these examples are to be said on a phone call or in person, not via text. If she currently isn’t answering your calls, you need to text her to get her on a phone call with you only. On a phone call or in person, you will also be able to get her laughing, smiling and feeling good when talking to you, but via text – there is no guarantee that you will get that reaction. Text is usually the worst method of getting an ex back, because if your ex currently has a negative perception of you, she will read your text messages through a filter of that negative perception.
For example: If a woman broke up with a guy because he was insecure, she is going to look at his texts as coming from a place of insecurity.
On the other hand, if the guy was to get her on a phone call or talk to her in person and he is a new and improved version of himself, her perception of him will become more positive and her protective guard will go down. On a phone call or in person, what you need to say to her is something along the lines of, “Hey look – I just wanted to point out that I now understand why you broke up with me and I accept that.
After giving her that kind of apology, the next step is always to try to get her to meet up with you in person, where you can then make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you. Cheating hurts, especially when the person who was cheated on was fully devoted and committed to the relationship. Not all cheating break ups can be recovered, but based on the 100s of cases that I’ve dealt with over the years (20% of those being cheating break ups where the guy cheated on his woman), about 80% of these situations can be recovered and the woman will agree to give the relationship another chance. After that, you need to get her to meet up with you and make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you at the meet up. Although he might stay with the woman for a year or many years, he won’t ever feel as though he wants to fully commit to her. Yet, if he gets in contact with her, apologizes and ask for another chance, she won’t always be willing to give it, especially if she has other guys interested in her.
In cases like this, the woman won’t always be willing to immediately meet up with him and get back together, but there are specific tactics that a guy can use to speed up the process and make her feel as though she really is losing the love of her life. This is probably the most common of the ex back situations I deal with, where the woman is able to move on quite quickly after a break up or she already had a replacement guy ready to go in the background. In cases like this, the woman usually finds a new guy that gives her the kind of emotional experience that she wasn’t getting in her previous relationship. For example: If her previous boyfriend (or husband) was needy, insecure or clingy, then she will be attracted to guys who are more emotionally confident and secure than he was.
Another example is when a woman was in a relationship with a guy who wouldn’t commit.
So, in situations where the woman has moved on, what a guy needs to do is improve his ability to make his ex feel attracted and respectful towards him on the phone and in person. When he talks to her on the phone or in person, he needs to getting her laughing, smiling and feeling attracted to his confidence and emotional strength and security as a man, rather than talking to her from a low emotional state or trying to suck up to her by being extra nice and courteous.
From there, the guy needs to be able to get her to meet up with him in person so he can get her to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for the new and improved version of himself. Prior to the meet up, he also needs to ensure that he is using other techniques (that I only ever reveal in my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System) to bring down her protective guard and make her feel more willing to meet up with him in person. When she begins to feel attracted to him again, her feelings with naturally begin to change and she will look at him in a more positive light. In cases like this, relationships can get back together right away, but they usually take anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months to fully rekindle. As long as he makes his ex girlfriend (fiance or wife) feel a strong, renewed sense of respect and attraction for him, she will naturally begin to change her perspective of him and the gates to a rekindled relationship will begin to open. For example: If she hated him during the break up and was turned off by how he handled himself afterwards, she will potentially have a negative perception of him. However, if she meets up with him and he is now the sort of guy that she can look up to and respect (i.e. Okay, I hope these 4 examples of what to say to your ex to get her back have helped you understand the approach you need to take with the initial conversation. If you need any further help, I recommend that you watch my step-by-step system for getting a woman back and begin the exciting process of getting her back. My name is Dan Bacon I am 100% committed to helping men succeed with women and relationships. I've already helped countless men to get their woman back and I know that I can help you too.
If you want me to help you get her back, don't leave my site until you watch this FREE video training on how to get your woman back now. Watch the free training and you will learn how to get her back NOW without having to waste time ignoring her, or waste energy trying to convince her to give you another chance. To get an ex-girlfriend back, you have to start by making her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you. For example: If a guy was too needy, clingy, jealous or protective, he needs to be able to show her that he has realized why he was thinking and feeling that way, as well as let her see that he really has changed.
If she isn’t interested in forgiving you, it means that your behavior, body language, vibe and overall approach to her has been unattractive. Your ex became your ex for a reason and at the time of breaking up with you, her feelings for you had changed and she no longer wanted to be in a relationship with you.
If you’re looking for advice on what to say to your ex-girlfriend to get her back, you may already have fallen into the trap of saying what you think she wants to hear, but if your efforts have so far failed to get you the results you want, maybe it’s time to accept that what you thought she wanted to hear was wrong, right? Something many guys do when they desperately want an ex to change her mind is to beg and plead with her to be given a second chance. This is a mistake on many levels, but not least because resorting to begging and pleading is not an attractive trait in a man.
Your ex became your ex for a reason and if that reason is connected to a change in your attitude or behavior in the relationship which led to you becoming clingy, overly possessive, or needy, hounding her in this way will do nothing to change her feelings for you.
Women are not flattered by a guy begging in this way; they are completely turned off by weak, wimpy behavior and insecurity of any sort in a man. A big part of begging and pleading is often to make every kind of imaginable promise in an effort to get a second chance. You can’t take any kind of effective action to fix things if you don’t actually know what needs to be fixed. A woman does not want to have to spell out what needs to be fixed, she wants a guy to be tuned-in enough to her body language to be able to figure it out for himself. She not only wants him to be able to recognize the problem, she wants him to take the lead in doing something about it, and showing her through the improvements he makes that he has learned from the mistakes he made and become a better man as a result. If your words are not backed up by actions, you’re simply making empty promises and she has no reason to feel any differently about you.
Another trap many guys fall into when trying to get an ex to change her mind is to blame her for their mistakes.
Unless a guy is able to recognize and admit to the mistakes he made, he’s not in a position to learn from them and take effective action to become a better man as a result. An ex-girlfriend becomes an ex for a reason and getting her back comes down to demonstrating that real improvements and changes have been made. Focusing your attention on what to say to your ex-girlfriend to get her back is missing the point. You need to demonstrate through the way you behave and your attitude that you’ve learned from the experience and you’ve made changes for the better to become a better man, and, more importantly, a man with attractive qualities that will make her want to take you back (e.g. Empty promises are not enough to change the way she is feeling, and getting her back is all about showing her that you mean what you say and you’re making changes for the better.
To get her to want you back, you need to show her that you have what it takes to make her feel the way she wants to feel in a relationship, and that means developing the qualities that make you a sexually attractive man she’ll find hard to resist. The process of getting her back begins with figuring out what changes happened and, from there, you then need to take action to make the changes and improvements needed to fix things.


Change your focus away from what to say to your ex-girlfriend to get her back and place it on what to do to get your ex-girlfriend to see you differently and feel differently about you again. When you are able to admit that you made mistakes and you are able to accept the break-up, you are in a strong position to begin the process of getting her back. View customer success stories, browse our products or watch this mind-blowing video about success with women by Dan Bacon (founder of The Modern Man). So she broke up on you because she learned you’re having an affair with another girl- what to do now? Another thing you can do is to visit her in her university and wait for her to finish her class.
After everything you did which took you months most probably, now is the time to confirm if there’s still a chance to get back your ex.
Though she’s likely irritated of you stalking her, she still liked it and she’s mostly waiting for your annoying presence every day.
It won’t take long for her to learn about your whereabouts which will make her think you have already forgotten her and have moved on. So, with all those efforts and sacrifices, let’s just assume your ex is trying to show motives that she wants you back. These are some of the most frequent reasons you hear from your partner when he is announcing he wants to break up with you. Learn what you have to do and what not to do in order to get your ex back as soon as possible and be happy with him. Hello every body, my name is Rouland and I just want to let you all know that having a broken heart is not an easy thing, but no matter how bad your situation may be, I want to let you all know that there is a way to get your ex chasing you around again wanting to be with you, because this is exactly what I did when my girlfriend left me for someone else and I am happy today cause she is back. Hello everyone i want to share a live testimony on how Dr Alex was able to bring my husband back to me, myself and my husband were on a serious breakup, even before then we were always quarreling fighting and doing different ungodly act.. My husband packed his things out of the house and we had to live in different area, despite all this i was looking for a way to re_unite with my husband, not until i met Dr Alex the great spell caster who was able to bring my husband back home, Dr Alex cast a love spell for me, and after some time i started seen results about the spell…. After being in relationship with emma for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused.
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Your boyfriend broke up with you and you are now sitting there wondering to yourself, “What do I need to say to get my ex boyfriend back?” You probably have all sorts of ideas running through your head, but often times you cannot pinpoint one that you feel would do the job. When my spouse left me, I deepened my relationship with Dr Asemota and was doing all the preparation he ask me to do for the marriage restoration. Anything you that will ever say to your ex via text will always be less effective than if you were to say it on the phone or in person.
The only goal of a text to an ex should be to get her on a phone call, so you can then arrange to meet her in person.
On the phone call or in person, she will be able to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you when she notices that you are confident and in an emotionally strong place.
I understand that I wasn’t enough of a man for you and I look back on that now and I laugh at how silly I was being, but I also feel bad for what I put you through. Then, when she pulls the plug by breaking up with him, he realizes that she was more than good enough for him and he wants to get her back, rather than having to start from scratch with a new woman. You are almost certainly over me, hate my guts and never want to see the likes of me again, but I do want to be able to take this opportunity to tell you something that you deserve to hear. In cases like that, she will usually find a guy who not only make her feel attracted and happy, but is more than willing to commit to her. I know that we’re not getting back together, but I do want to take this opportunity to tell you that I now do understand why you felt it was right to break up with me. Once that happens, she will then drop her guard and allow herself to open up and feel attracted to him again, even if just slightly to begin with. She will also find it much easier to forgive him and begin to forget the mistakes he made in the past, because he is clearly a much better man now.
This will happen when you can show her that you have already fixed at least made improvements to your issues and personal problems that contributed to the break up.
I mistakenly thought that I had to be that protective to ensure that I didn’t lose you.
Unless you are making your ex-girlfriend feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, then much of what you say will go in one ear and out the other.
Getting her back means getting her to change her mind, and that means getting her to feel differently about you again, but words alone will not change the way she’s feeling.
They’ll hound her with telephone calls, text messages, emails, and they may even show up at her work, and all because they’re desperate to talk to her and to get her to listen to them as they beg her to change her mind. For example: She might say that his clinginess and jealous behavior led to her choosing to dump him, but he’ll attempt to make it her fault by saying that some aspect of her behavior led to him behaving the way he did. Attempting to pass the blame achieves none of this, giving her absolutely no reason to change her mind. Instead of thinking about things to say to get your ex-girlfrien back, you need to think about things to do that make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you as a man. When she then became your ex, something about you must have changed to cause her to feel turned off, so what changed? We've already helped 1,000s of guys to achieve amazing success with women and we would love to help you too. She’s just waiting for that perfect move to make her feel and believe it’s really her you love. If you’re lucky enough that she picks up your call, grab the chance by telling her sweet words and thoughts. This time, you can ask her to go out with you for coffee or a drink but most probably during this time, she’ll still refuse as you need to do something more. Yeah, I know  what they have to say mean less for your ex at this time but it’s never wrong to give it a try. Ask help from your friends to whom your ex listen to and trust a lot. All your sacrifices and efforts from step number one are counted and remembered by your ex. You need to be prepared to take the risk, after all, you made the mistake so you should accept the consequence there is. If you believe you are already good looking, pretty sure there’s still something you can do to look better. If you’re ex is a beautiful and sexy, you know it’s not hard for her to find a new mate- someone better than you. Just do it simple, go out and have fun and let your ex know about it so she’ll think you are over her. No matter how bad you feel about your ex boyfriend, you have to let these emotions fly away. No matter how expensive the gift might be, it can never replace the gaps that you had in your relationships.


I’m sure you are burning to find out how your ex boyfriend is coping with the break up. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. OGUNBO, This man is nothing but a great man that God have assigned to help us in our relationship and marriages etc, i never taught i could get married to Mark because we broke up 4 years ago just because i taught he was cheating with my friend and which was not true, that was how i almost loosed the man that i loved, but i thank Dr. No matter what happened with you and your ex, it’s normal to go through a period of time where you miss them and want to get back together with them. Getting back with your ex is (usually) a step in the wrong direction, and we want you to look forward to the future rather than staying stuck in the past. I dated a guy for a few months, and he broke up with me due to some misunderstandings, which I completely understood and forgave him for, now we are back together, as he admitted that breaking up was a mistake. My ex suddenly stopped speaking to me and a few weeks later he made an excuse to my friend about his friends being jealous of the amount of time he spent with me, so that’s why he stopped completely. I then realized that I was the prodigal, as I had left my first husband and had married another.
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Just tell me what you want and I’ll do it,” but the problem with this is that it only highlights the fact they obviously don’t know what it is they need to change to fix things. Your ex possibly hates you now because of what she knew but it’s definitely not yet the end of the world man! Anyway, to end all the suffering of your ex and frustration in your part,   you need to confirm now if it’s still ideal to continue doing such efforts. Girls can look like they feel nothing and that they don’t care about your efforts but somehow, someway, they are able to appreciate it and was glad about it.
Attend as many parties as you can with some of your common friends, as much as possible a party your ex is also attending.
The most important part to manage to win your ex back after break up is not to show that you need him.
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My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. OGUNBO for helping and putting a smile on my face by bringing back my man to me, and now we are happily married and living happily, so my friends out there that are having relationship problem, i will advice you contact Dr.
So read these quotes for a few reasons you shouldn’t get back with that loser who broke your heart, stop looking at his pictures and start realizing how terrific you are! Until such time that my friend told me he was cheating while were still together,wats worst was i caught him with another girl.
It was just me being silly and immature and not yet being grown up enough to handle a committed, adult relationship.
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All I needed to do was love you and trust you, but I wasn’t able to do that back then. Good thing if she just learned it from a friend but if she was able to caught you on the act with another girl, that’s absolutely a different story- something which may be hard to deal with.
This may not be successful as your ex may not cooperate at all because she’ll have that idea that you are involved with it. Since she’s wondering why you’re no longer annoying her, she’ll start to find out what’s up with you lately. Try your best to look good everyday because you never know when your ex will come across your way.
I mean, your ex has gone mad when she learned about your affair so there’s no way to get her back if she will know there’s this new girl you’re hooked up with. This means that you have to forget the midnight phone calls telling him how much you miss him, the walks around his house or his favorite cafe hoping that you bump into him. Read some deep, inspirational positive quotes that can help you open your mind to love and motivation. OGUNBO for help and i assure you that he is going to put a smile on your face because he has done mine.
I’m just saying, because you should keep in mind that it depends on the person and the situation. Now that has changed because I realize that in a relationship, you have to each other your full trust, rather than loving, but not trusting. But don’t worry, caught or not, these effective steps will help you get her back, hopefully. This is the most critical stage since it can either make her come back to you or lose her forever.
He will not fall for it and there is absolutely no chance you will get your ex back acting like this. Bring back these nice moments and you will have a good chance to get your ex back since it will remind him the wonderful memories you built as a happy couple. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. I don’t like being judged for getting back together with him, it was a decision we made together. On last Sunday my loving husband proposed to me and on October 15, I was remarried to my true covenant spouse. It will not only help you to let go, but it will also help you get some great ideas on how to get your ex back.
On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. You’re the one who know your girlfriend better so only you can tell if the above strategies will work for her or not.
If you’re not just concern about the present situation and you really want to be with her until the end of time, make her feel you’re not worth to be left behind. Also, you can tell if there’s no more chance for you to win her back on the very first place. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. If you want to get your ex back you have to dig deep and fix the real issues that ended in breaking up. And then, he will get an inner approval that he can do whatever he wants and you will still love him.
There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called Erica,she testified about how papa dodo brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa dodo e-mail address. Yeah that’s right, karma is a bitch and sooner or later they will get what they deserve.
Iyere, casted out on him that made him come back to me, today me and my family are now happy again today. If you want to get your ex back, just go on with your life and show him what he’s losing.
Not only will you manage to get your ex back, but you might get stuck in the past and risk that you are left behind when everyone else is moving on.
Iyere, for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great help.



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