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Notice how newsreaders, advertisers and other public voice artists now speak to their audience. A million nannying laws protecting me from myself — the government interfering in every aspect of my life, like an over-coddling parent. The thing about fear is that the biggest, most urgent fear will take precedence in your mind over any smaller fears.
In fact, it’s fair to say that changing your focus is the primary method ofA not experiencing social anxiety. This sort of thing actually happens regularly — people have great social experiences while their focus is on positive things. 2) Fix diet to remove allergens you may personally suffer from (trial and error, but dairy is a good place to start), and make sure you eat enough of the right foods to get the vitamins you need. 6) Focus the mind on things which bring you personal fulfilment (you will figure these out as you go along). The studious among you may notice a similar structure to Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs (or even the Eight-Circuit Model of Consciousness for the really avant-gardeA ) emerging.
One major message of the book, for example, is that you cannot getA everyA girl to like you.
Another major message of this book, which ties strongly into the previous point concerning green-, grey- and red-zone girls, is that your looksA doA matter. Sleazy then covers all the foundations of becoming attractive to women, including fashion, grooming and looks, and how to have basic interests in life to talk about which will make you stand out from Average Joe.
With other personal development books, you may have become accustomed to picking and choosing which bits are of interest to you and pursuing them, whilst ignoring or glossing over the bits you believe you already have handled.
I therefore urge anyone reading this book, especially newcomers to seduction, to take their time and really consider each point Sleazy discusses.
Minimal GameA is written entirely from the perspective of a single man who has had a lot of experience with women. 1) Such theories are usually extremely difficult to prove and are conjecture at best, although they are often presented by the writer as fact. Another common issue facing men isA anxiety, either specifically around women, or in a broader social context. Again, the reason for the omission of coverage of these issues is that Sleazy himself has not personally had to face them.
Men who already know what they are doing with women will find that the book will clarify and consolidate their existing knowledge.
This review covers the book 8 Steps to a Pain-Free Back: Natural Posture Solutions for Pain in the Back, Neck, Shoulder, Hip, Knee, and FootA by Esther Gokhale, as well as Esther Gokhale Method and its associated products as a whole.
Esther Gokhale Method is a system of exercises for improving posture and relieving back pain. On watching this video, one thing I was immediately impressed by is that Esther Gokhale herself clearly embodies her own principles regarding good posture and appears healthy and vivacious as a result.
Upon receiving the book, this rule came to play a bigger role in my life than I ever predicted.
Another astonishing benefit of the postural exercises taught in the book were my increase in height. Most importantly, I have experienced reduced pain in my life from ingraining the new postural habits taught in the book and by performing exercises such as Stretchlying and Stretchsitting daily. Stretchlying — This an exercise you do at bedtime, and if you find the position relaxing like I do, you may well fall asleep in this position, allowing your spine to be gently stretched throughout the night. Stretchsitting — This exercise allows a comfortable sitting position which gently stretches the spine as you sit. If you want to become taller, move and stand with more grace andA be more attractive, and install healthy postural habits to effectively treat back pain, 8 Steps to a Pain-Free Back is the book for you.A The Esther Gokhale Method has had a profound positive impact on my own personal health and postural habits, and on the way I have come to view the psychological role of posture on both the individual and societal level. I consider 8 Steps to a Pain-Free Back essential reading for anyone serious about personal development who has back pain or postural issues, or who simply wants to learn more about this somewhat overlooked andA under-taughtA topic.
RyanH is an interesting guy to read simply because of how much he has changed since starting to write on Personal Power Meditation.
RyanH, in these paragraphs above, seems to have found a solution: dissolve the prizing of monogamy as a philosophical relic, and instead choose to communicate with the opposite sex when needs align at that time.
For a long time I had noticed that announcers, analysts, websites, blogs, and fans constantly spout the same memes about players, teams, etc.
A lot of what I said is a repeat of certain topics on this board such as being present, ignoring your life story, etc. Having met Aaron Sleazy in real life, it is in some ways hard to imagine that this mild-mannered German is the same deviant who spends his evenings hanging out (sometimes literally) at club nights whose names range from a€?Trailer Trasha€? to a€?Torture Gardena€?, trawling for pussy.
Sleazy Stories joins author and protagonist Aaron Sleazy on his adventures in London circa 2008, for it was around this time that Aaron Sleazy had discovered the mena€™s movement known as the a€?Seduction Communitya€?, a collection of online discussion forums with the sole purpose of sharing knowledge on how to most efficiently pull girls.
Sleazy Stories is a first-person narrative of Sleazya€™s time in London during his university placement at the London School of Economics. That is where the similarities end however, as I dona€™t remember George Orwell getting any blowjobs from 16-year-olds in nightclub toilets.
The unambiguously titled stories (a€?Pulling a cokehead from a gay cluba€? and a€?Recruiting a masterful cocksuckera€? to name two at random) range from the straightforward (man meets woman, man dances with woman, man fucks woman in club toilet 2 minutes later) to the bizarre (man meets man at train station, man goes on gay date with man, man hastily leaves after having dinner bought for him at expensive restaurant and being propositioned for sex). While morally bankrupt for the most part, with egomaniacal scenes such as researching one of his conquests on Facebook to find a€?she was in a relationship, which amused mea€?, and another moment gleefully reflecting on a different girl, a€?I taught her how to give proper blowjobs a€“ other men should be grateful for thata€?, the book also has heart, as Sleazy is not afraid to describe his several failures and his frustrations in trying to find out what went wrong. Sleazy Stories, unlike most books connected to the Seduction Community, is not a self-help book. Through simply looking at the world through the eyes of Aaron Sleazy, you may well start to think, feel and behave like Aaron Sleazy. If you have not yet been exposed to the full extent of the debauchery going on behind the scenes in bars and clubs, or in the sexual sphere in general, this book will go a long way towards showing you a€?what women are really likea€?, shattering any preconceptions you may have about a€?gooda€? and a€?bada€? girls in the process, and showing you that the line between them is blurred if not non-existent. Sleazy Stories, while not without its flaws, is shocking, hilarious, and will change your reality forever. Earlier this year I was pleased to interview author and seduction expert Aaron SleazyA for Interesting Times magazine. Here I am pleased to offer you the full, unedited interview, discussing the mind of Aaron Sleazy and how he has used meditative methods for over 16 years to achieve excellence in his endeavours, including seduction which he is most renowned for.
This audio is perfect for refreshing yourself before heading out, taking a relaxing moment, focusing the mind, drifting off to sleep, meditating, unwinding and de-stressing or preparing for something. This program is NOT suitable for you if you have ever been diagnosed with depression or any other mental illness. The information presented here is for your educational use only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.
Written permission is required from the author to include posts in their entirety on your site or in print. Also notice how children themselves are featured prominently as authority figures in many adverts, talking down to adults who comply without question. I mean, this is a classical lesson in purposefullyA transferringA anxiety to an audience, since fear is probably the easiest way to rally people to your cause.
When you feel good, other positive memories connected to that feeling are made easily available to you. Do you feel like you constantly stressed about things and want something different you can do yourself? Without it, all the psychological tricks and methods in the world won’t shift your baseline happiness in a positive direction.
Particularly for many younger guys, move out of your parents’ house if the situation is anything less thanA great.
Simultaneously move attention away from things which do not bring fulfilment or which bring harm. If you are currently depressed, this may well negatively affect your motivation to the point whereby it is difficult to get any of these things done.


It will help clear out the garbage which has been put in your head by product salesmen and people who are delusional or just plain wrong.
The wisdom in this book is so simple, yet so accurate, that it is the sort of thing fathers should be telling to their sons when they come of age.
He explains that women are sexual beings and that they enjoy sex as much if not more than men, and that a woman’s interest in you as a man is primarily sexual. Sleazy then instructs you in the basics of approaching women and beginning an interaction with them, including the aforementioned methods to ascertain her level of interest.
Therefore the book is almost entirely based on observation and the simple rules Sleazy has learned. For example, it is my observation that a significant proportion of men finding the seduction community have problems beyond just their relationships with women: they commonly have issues relating to other people in general, on an emotional level.
Sleazy’s proposed solution to anxiety is only to pursue girls who have shown some initial interest in you. Sleazy himself has indicated in other materials that he was emotionally balanced and socially capable before beginning his adventures in seduction. However, in my opinion, this book is most suitable for complete beginners, up to an intermediate level. If I ever have a son, he will one day become the proud recipient of my by-then dusty and tattered copy ofA Minimal Game. The method is described in full in Esther Gokhale’s seminal bookA 8 Steps to a Pain-Free Back. The book is so effective at drilling into you the basics of good posture that, for the next several weeks, posture came to be a lens through which I viewed the world. Once I began implementing the new techniques I had learned from the book (and the publicly-available YouTube videos) I felt a new sense of personal power and improved emotional management stemming directly from my adjusted posture.
She fails to commit to this statement however, and for good reason: such a statement is practically impossible to prove scientifically, and I feel she is keen to protect her method from being seen as drifting into the realm of pseudoscience. They are laid out in picture form, which meant I had to turn some of the more complex exercises into short mental movies in order to figure them out. This exercise is particularly valuable for computer users like myself who wish to minimize damage caused by long periods spent sitting in front of a screen. However, its sales blurb says it is simply live action recordings of the exercises in the book, so it likely delivers on this. If you watched the Stretchsitting video mentioned earlier, you will note that she instructs students to place a folded towel over the back of a standard folding chair.
This point is made as a passing suggestion, and she does not currently offer a corset in her product range. He is someone dedicated to discovering the way the world works experientially, and is always updating his ideas and worldview in response to those experiences. You watch the player take the handoff and go for 10 yards and think about what a great guy he is — meanwhile the camera zooms in to his helmet so you get a good look at his face. However, having actually joined him on such nights out and witnessed him perform some of his morally dubious yet sexually ostentatious manoeuvres, I can attest that Sleazy Stories is, for the most part, probably a fairly accurate account of the adventures of the worlda€™s top womanizer.
This was the same Seduction Community that was novelized in Neil Straussa€™s popular semi-fictional offering The Game. Its style is very dry and observational, providing a matter-of-fact account of events rather than the sensationalism found in other Seduction Community-related works such as The Game. For we must remember that, however stoic in his story writing, Sleazya€™s single-minded focus is shagging birds, and in the book this becomes a lens through which he begins to view all of lifea€™s events. Sleazy also deep down cares for the girls he seduces, and many a sad moment is spent in reflection of his girlsa€™ feelings: a€?When I think back, I consider it a shame because you dona€™t often meet girls you really like, and I really liked her. Firstly, Sleazy is a native German speaker, and while American slang is predominantly used throughout the book, at one point he suddenly decides to call somebody a a€?twata€? (a decidedly British insult, thus reflecting his time spent in London). For example, while on a night out during my time first reading Sleazy Stories, I was in a bar talking to a girl I had met just moments earlier when the thought suddenly crossed my mind: a€?I should probably finger her nowa€?. It is important that you seek the advice of your Doctor or qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your health, diet, fitness regime or intended health programme.
To consider this further, imagine you ordinarily have massive social anxiety — but you just found out a bomb was about to go off in a room full of people.
When you feel bad or in despair however, the memories related to those feelings are more readily available instead. Since humans are generally predisposed towards focusing on negatives (which many scientists believe is an evolutionary survival adaptation), their negative experiences dominate this stack.
Additionally, regular exercise, even just 15 minutes a day, will make many health- and mood-related issues disappear. Yes, tucking your chin (particularly if you use computers all day) can fix what dozens of self-help books won’t even touch! For young men, it is also extremely important that you find older male role models (mentors) to learn from and mimic.
In fact, it assumes the reader has very little knowledge of many aspects of the social realm, such as basic fashion and common-sense views regarding women and relationships. Sleazy instead allows you to draw a big sigh of relief by relieving you of this impossible responsibility. Thankfully he goes into great detail on how to do this step-by-step, providing basic steps for fashion and grooming, and solutions to fix common problems with your looks. He also hammers home the point that plenty of women are out there looking for sex right now and all you have to do is go and meet them. He talks about how to lead an interaction in a sexual direction from the very start via touching and how to go about asking her to leave the venue with you.
I have to make this point quite clear, because I have met up with several guys from the seduction community in the past and commonly found that each guy has at least one basic area where they are simply not doing what they are told. By only writing about what he has observed, Sleazy avoids indulgences such as attempting to interpret women’s psychology, or trying to explain behaviour of either sex by invoking biological theories or evolutionary psychology. My idea explaining this is that the seduction community attracts largely an audience of technical- and analytical-minded men who have for various reasons neglected their own emotional growth and are now somewhat out of step with the rest of society (except when dealing with other men who are quite similar to themselves). The idea behind this is that it is less of a psychological hurdle to approach women who seem interested. It is understandable therefore that he would not want to speculate on solutions to problems he has not faced. However, the book’s lessons are so fundamental, that to get anywhere with women on a consistent basis you would have needed to know the information in the first place. The premise of the book is straightforward: Around 90% of people in post-industrial countries will suffer from back pain at some point in their lives. This pain has become progressively worse over the last few years as my computer use has increased due to my work. I talked about these psychological changes in several posts on the forum, but I will summarize them here: Standing up properly seems to improve emotional flow on a vertical axis running from the base of the spine to the crown of the head.
I suspect however that Esther is well aware of the link between posture and mood, and that this was a primary motivator for getting her method into the public domain in such a well thought through and polished form. It turned out that my sloppy posture while exercising was causing me pain which was stifling my pleasure and therefore stopping me creating the psychological connection between exercise and feeling good.
Luckily, Esther Gokhale does offer a DVDA of the exercises on her website for people who would rather just watch them being performed by real people. After a few nights spent in this position, I began to wake up without immediate back pain in the morning for the first time since I could remember. The purpose of this towel is to keep the spine in traction (in other words being gently stretched) while sitting in the designated healthy posture position. Even the most monogamous people around will generally still have fantasies or sexual thoughts about others at some time during their monogamous relationships. As I learn more and more about the intricacies of the game, the more the play-by-play announcers grate on my nerves. When you watch the game on mute, what really happens is this: The running back (Player A) lines up next to the fullback, the linebackers on the other team fall for a playaction pass due to a great fake by the quarterback, the fullback comes in and creams the safety and leaves a gaping hole for the running back (Player A) to run into, untouched, for an easy 10-yard gain.
The NFL incorporates a sideline view as well that does not allow you to see the entire length of the field. At this time, it was almost accepted truth in the Seduction Community that the necessary time taken from the moment of meeting a girl to having sex with her was between four and ten hours. The writing style therefore reminds me very much of George Orwella€™s Down and Out in Paris and London and, like that book, paints the picture of an impartial observer moving within and trying to make sense of a foreign world. The result of matter-of-fact observation combined with the single goal of shagging women can only be described as what romance novels would look like if they were written for men: porn, in other words. Additionally, some of the sex acts in the book are described with such Teutonic precision as to be almost medical.


The pornographic consequences of the chain of events that followed would be worthy of its own chapter in Sleazy Stories. Now, walking into a crowded bar or party or other social gathering, you aren’t likely to experience social anxiety whatsoever as your focus is consumed entirely by the good feelings and positive opportunities your good news has brought to your attention (so you might be cycling through scenarios of how to spend your new money or whatever, and this would consume your focus completely). The memories you have most readily available to you at any time are the ones which provide evidence to support your current emotional state.
Take a few minutes now to mentally catalogue your recent experiences (over the last few weeks or so) into two stacks: Successes and Failures. Sorry, you really can’t go it alone in life, despite our current culture of individualism and (faux) personal empowerment!
Antidepressants in this case may well give you the motivation you require to start exercising, fix your diet, and create new personal relationships — things which are going to serve you positively going forward. This is a good thing in my opinion, as many guys who find the seduction community really do have limited knowledge of such things which more socially-savvy people take for granted.
He explains that, actually, some girls will already be interested in you (for whatever reason), some will be ambivalent, and some simply won’t be interested in you at all. Sex is a numbers game, and if one woman is not interested, there are plenty of others who are. He also provides a backup plan for taking her contact details and arranging a meet-up if extraction is not possible right away.
This will be a breath of fresh air for many readers who are used to would-be Charles Darwins offering pages upon pages of conjecture. Sleazy does not address how one can go about cultivating such emotional intelligence which, in my opinion, is fairly essential to have when interacting with women.
In this case however, acknowledgment of the issues followed by directions to further reading may have been a fair solution. Esther Gokhale was first brought to my attention by Personal Power Meditation forum user realitygrill.
Since I had recently joined a gym around the time I received the book, I began putting my new postural technique into practice while at the gym.
The Stretchsit cushion is Esther Gokhale’s own personal invention, and is designed to replace the towel in order to provide more reliable traction. We are lambasted with this mating frame from all social media, from the very earliest days of our lives — from Disney films onwards. Men and women do seek both of these functions in a relationship, but a man is generally more preoccupied with the sex, whereas the woman is generally more focused on the security.
Their lack of knowledge of the teams and obviousA note-readingA was always an insult to my intelligence.
This means that somewhere around 50% of what goes on on the field is hidden from the TV audience, making it even easier to twist and distort the narrative to whatever they want.
When Sleazy arrived on the scene however, he quickly turned this notion on its head when he began releasing field reports describing how he had been able to have sex with women in nightclubs within minutes of meeting them a€“ and sometimes in as little as 30 seconds.
These quirks of language, although most likely unintentional, are actually rather hilarious in my opinion. EVERYBODY OUT!” regardless of your social anxiety, because the pressing matter would consume your focus entirely.
Sleazy highlights some common socially-conditioned beliefs men have about women which may hinder their progress. As a corollary to this issue of basic emotional intelligence, a section on general social skills would also have been welcomed.
This solution also does not indicate what to do in situations where a man’s anxiety is literally overwhelming him to the point where he cannot approach.
I found the following video of a talk Esther gave at Google about her method, and I recommend you watch it from start to finish if back pain and bad posture is something you suffer from. In other words, I came to realize just how much my first impressions of people were influenced by my (until now) unconscious analysis of their posture.
It is essentially a foam pad covered in rubber protrusions which grip the spine in order to keep it in place.
I found wearing the corset to be extremely comfortable, and it definitely provides extra support during sitting, walking and running. The reason for this is simple: a woman is only reproductively viable during a short period once a month, whereas a man is sexually viable every day, all year round. I couldn’t agree more with this sentiment, and this has come from my own personal witnessing of monogamy as a flawed system.
Thus, Sleazy changed many peoplea€™s perceptions of what was truly possible in seduction forever. Whether they are a point of criticism or whether they add to the flavour of the book, however, is up to the reader to decide. The key to breaking the back of any kind of depression or anxiety is therefore to begin collecting positive experiences which support the self-image you wish to hold of yourself. The idea now is, when you are entering introspective thought cycles, to begin to train yourself to access your Success stack first.
Even though I have been involved in the seduction community for a long time, Sleazy’s clear descriptions of such beliefs (and his direction to drop them immediately) pull no punches, and even I was caused to sit up a few times with the distinct feeling that someone had just poured cold water down my back. Wearing the corset also helped maintain the good postural habits I learned from the book, especially in the early days before they became ingrained. Most of the major religions of our time forbid sex before marriage, and prize celibacy and monogamy as the two virtuous choices for our sex lives.
Even if you see her you think about how she won’t like you once she gets to know you. Secondly, due to the repetitive nature of the book (each story essentially being about a dude going to a club to try and fuck somebody), the book is at times best read spaced out over a longer period. Meditation and other personal development methods and techniques are simply there to calm your emotions and keep you focused long enough to gain those positive experiences. I can confirm that, with practice, you can begin to do this quite quickly and get your Success scenarios to be the first things that pop into your mind whenever you are introspecting or your self-image is called into question. Yes, life is short, but by following this simple advice, you canA create timeA (or at least the illusion of more time). Sleazy provides ways of determining quickly if this is the case, for example by touching her in an innocuous manner and gauging her reaction. For this reason, even if you have been in the seduction community for some time and are generally doing well with women, you may still benefit from this book.
Yet some guys are either completely unaware of how they look or think that they are somehow special and these rules do not apply to them. I was able to begin enjoying exercise, and lost a whopping 10kg (22lbs) in around a month and a half. I personally found that it required some ingenuity to attach the cushion to a standard folding chair using the strap, and it might be a good idea for a future issue of the cushion to come with an additional form of attachment for standard chair designs.
The unfortunate outcome of these differences in focus is often that men will choose to stay in monogamous relationships out of fear that they will lose their sexual release should it end. Since learning to take my time over everything, via becoming mindful of myself, a year for me now seems to last ten years. Sleazy’s advice if the girl is not interested is simply to move on and find somebody else. TheA purpose of the strap as specified in the cushion’s documentation however is to allow the cushion to be attached to car seats. This can lead to very controlling and jealous behaviours from the man, as his sexual drive is consistently strong throughout the year — and most men are complete slaves to it. Suddenly the CEO of the company resigns, the police start investigating, protestors start protesting, and viewers start watching and talking. Sleazy places a lot of focus on learning to use your own time efficiently by only pursuing strong leads, as he feels many guys end up wasting a lot of their time on dead ends. Good posture helped me avoid injury, especially during running, where I had a history ofA tendinitis. It would, in this case, be attached by wrapping the strap around the headrest, which makes a lot more sense, since it would be difficult to attach the cushion to a car seat without a strap. The woman on the other hand will primarily fear a loss of security, either material or emotional,A should the relationship end.



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