Slideshare uses cookies to improve functionality and performance, and to provide you with relevant advertising. True Core Self-Confidence – MentalState• Core Self-Confidence means having Complete control of your mind• Understanding your thoughts• Having Self-Confidence means you have a complete understanding of how your Mental state influences your Frame or State of being• A healthy mental state will mean a positive self-image• An Optimistic outlook regardless of negative experiencesTip 3: Practice positive thinking. One of the things that keep people from changing their life is the fear of failure and lack of self-confidence to overcome this fear. Be thankful for what you have in life, starting with the most obvious things such as family, health, etc.
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Most people are afraid of public speaking, though this is a good way to enhance self-confidence.
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One of the major barriers to productivity I often hear about when I meet sisters across the world, is the lack of self-confidence. Firstly, I want to remind you that Allah has honoured women, affording us rights more than 1400 years ago and endowing on us the opportunity to earn the highest stations in Paradise, through the various roles we play as daughters, wives, mothers and Muslimahs in our society. What kind of language do you use in your daily life, whether at work, home or in the community? When negative thoughts and whispers enter your mind then remind yourself of the positive language. One of the most powerful exercises I have done with my mentor on a regular basis, is to discuss and write my own strengths. Confidence is not something we are all born with, but it is certainly a quality we admire in people around us. When I look back to my days of low self-confidence, I re-call compliments being vital to giving me a boost – especially when they were from people I respected, like my teachers. Meeting new sisters is always a test of our own confidence as it can take us out of our comfort zone, but it is also a great way to improve your self-confidence by telling people about yourself.
Being able to do things without depending on others is a huge morale booster as it gives you a sense of empowerment and self-dignity. There is a beautiful du’a which encapsulates the need to always ask Allah to help us improve ourselves in our faith and character. About Lotifa BegumLotifa Begum has gained huge insight into a wide range of productivity-related issues and has delivered workshops for sisters on issues relating to time management, personal development and productivity. Want to Learn More Practical Tips Designed according to Quran & Sunnah to Boost Your Productivity?
Upgrade your knowledge and skills to lead a truly productive Muslim life in today’s modern age with advanced productivity training and tools designed in accordance to the Quran & Sunnah. Become an active member of the Productive Muslim community and enrich it with your thoughts. As someone who is getting over her fear of driving, I can say that I can relate to this a lot!! Masha Allah am inspired by this and In shaa Allah as an type of sister who loves to speak out I will use these words of advice in my daily life to achieve my goal. This was quite helpful; I had a hard time recently, and Allah has brought this to me, so thanks to Him and then to you again! Salaams sister I have Retinitis pigmentosa and this really lows my self esteem beacause I have to be depented on others. I reall y like this article because I don’t have much confidence sometimes and sometimes I do .
MashaAllah a wonderfully refreshing article which has reassured my faith once again in the endless mercy of Allah… It is in His Magnificent wisdom that he gives us some amazing gifts and makes us deficient in some things so that we can remain humble and recognize our need of His constant help and support. A great article and many thanks for taking the trouble to encourage the female ummah – very good of you to knowledge share. It goes over the 5 parts of Core Self-Confidence and the characteristics of a self-confident person. Alwaysbe aware of your body language and until confident body language is habitpractice fixing it regularly….
When you walk with a straight back, looking in front of you, and not on the ground, it gives you confidence.

You can do this in many ways, but one of the most reliable ways is to expand your knowledge.
Of course, when doing something, you can fail or make a mistake, but mistakes are part of life, and we learn from them. It’s a community of like-minded individuals who are passionate about knowledge, awareness and self-improvement. I know from personal experience that is isn’t easy to develop confidence – some people are born with it, but I believe for most of us, it has to be developed and nurtured as we grow! We only have to look to our historical examples of female scholars such as Aisha bint Abu Bakr to learn that achieving confidence is not a sign of arrogance or being against Islamic values. The first step is to develop a positive mindset and have the belief that you are capable of doing what you set out to accomplish with Allah ‘s Help. Don’t allow yourself to be put down by these thoughts, as this will prevent you from achieving your set goals. Once you know what you are good at, you can gain a sense of self-fulfilment and maximise your confidence. Before you go to an event, meeting or somewhere where you can network with people, think about the interesting things you like or have done to use as talking points.
This may be doing something you haven’t ever done on your own before, like learning a new skill or practising a new hobby. It is no easy task, and this du’a will give you the strength to be confident and productive Muslimahs!
I always had low self confidence in high school but since i started college my teachers have helped me discover my hidden talents.
We go over the Emotional, Physical, Mental, and Spiritual State of someone who has Core Self-Confidence as well as the people they surround themselves with. Of course, you do not have to do everything from this list, but just pick the tips you like most and try them. Accept yourself and others for what they are and try to see the positive side in every situation.
Then analyze your thoughts and events of the past days and weeks, and maybe you will see the cause-effect relationships. If you cannot easily answer these questions, think on who you are, why did you come to this world for. Internet is a wonderful tool, and of course, there are lots of informative books, magazines and newspapers. Building self confidence is not something that one day falls from the sky, or a lottery that a lucky person wins. In fact, one can be confident in their faith whilst being a Muslimah in pursuit of her goals. This will take some internal work and will not be done overnight, but start by telling yourself that Allah wanted you to be the best Muslimah you can be in every aspect of your life – this will get you on the road to developing confidence. Try writing down negative feelings and thoughts, then tell yourself the opposite of what have you have written. This short exercise should take no more than 20-30 minutes but will serve as a great way to increase your confidence, especially when you are feeling down. Although this should be carefully balanced with avoiding feelings of pride or complacency, accepting compliments when you’ve earned them can remind you that you have good qualities and traits to contribute. For many sisters I meet, there are so many dreams and ideas they have, yet the environment or family expectations mean they are unable to pursue such activities. Hopefully it will ensure that the people you talk to have a interesting conversation with you and remember you as a confident Muslimah! I always say negative words to myself and under estimate my capabilities even infront of others. I am learning to grow through the different challenges Allah is putting on my way as a graduate business student, and I love, absolutely LOVE the fact that He is making me independent of all besides Him.
If you apply these 9 tips you will be well on your way to self-confidence, these are the very same tips guys like Tony Robbins, Sean Stephenson, Stephen Covey, and Eckhart Tolle recommend for gaining Self-Confidence! Try them and you will definitely get to build self-confidence, and most importantly, change yourself and your life! She is particularly interested in topics regarding introversion, consciousness and subconscious, perception, human mind's potential, as well as the nature of reality and the universe. It is really disheartening to see Muslim women who are so talented, educated and ambitious thwart their progress and productivity because they have low self-esteem.

You can also search online for the many other tools and articles on why self-confidence is important especially in women, in both professional and personal capacities. My advice is to keep trying until you are able to do this, it will in turn have positive psychological benefits for you and your family when you do what you love.
The ability to accomplish something completely independently will give you a real confidence boost.
I thought to leave this mail and read it later but I’m glad I read it immediately, Alhamdulillah. If you let negative thinking sabotage your productivity, then you may feel regret later in life. Read up on the female scholars and pious women, and take lessons from their personalities and ways they handled their affairs – they are the best of examples. Those who don’t they lack one of the most important, priceless assets of our lives: self-confidence. It is for our self that has weaknesses and abilities, moments of desperation and moments of joy and euphoria.Self Confidence means that we accept every moment as it is and appreciate the good and the bad from it. The failures discourage us, because we almost always attach them to our own inadequacy and incompetence (“I cannot manage anything!”).
This leads to easily give up and not to trust us for anything.We prefer to be «popular» instead of being really appreciated and liked, so we do not show what we are and what we can do. We even come to the point were we doubt their confirmation even for their love and that makes relationships very difficult and painful.Anyone who denies himself and undermines its capabilities and abilities, remains in “shadow”, unnoticed, and has a more rare opportunity to witness successes. Scientists suggest that apart from disturbances that have biological background, lack of self-confidence and self-esteem is the main reason for psychological problems.Self Confidence does not have a priceIt is not as important to have big self confidence as we have a big car, but to drive smart and well with what we have in order to go where we want when we want. We can have a fragile self-esteem often hit and questioned but nevertheless to live quite well with it.
Our goal is not to stop making mistakes but to avoid converting the inferiority feelings in obsessions.
We need to be able to see our weaknesses without blaming and punishing ourselves but trying to calmly and slowly improve without forgetting our “strong cards” (we all have one).Exercises on building self confidenceThe road to the conquest of self-esteem and positive self-confidence is no magic way, we do not just wake up one day and we have succeeded. Putting this in the future, many times you will find that almost nothing is worth the confusion caused you at the beginning.There is no reason to magnify the problems. Try to solve them, rather than feeling disappointed and desperate.Not everything is laid out “in your hands!”When you feel that you lose ground and that you cannot control a situation, remind yourself of the reasons to continue to have faith. Keep these moments of your life alive and revoke them in your memory when you feel that things did not turned out as you would like.
Relax and take control of the situation.Believe in your strengths, move ahead and accept that some things are not «in your hand».
Try not to start immediately to justify yourself, but listen and leave little time to think what you hear.Learn to ask the opinion of others, which is necessary to understand yourself better.
Yet all of us without exception have self-confidence in things we do in our lives as irrelevant they may seem.Experiment with your limitsMake every day an effort to try things you want, even small and not so important without the need to be successful. If for example you prefer another table from what they gave you at a restaurant, get it.If you believe that they should make you discount because you find the price a little too much, tell them and ask for a discount. To deny trying these simple things, this does not show you anything else but your own limits.The purpose of your actions must be experience, discovery, expansion of your understanding, «Look, this can be done too». Do not put yourself under the pressure of success, except in exceptional cases when necessary.It’s the journey that countsEach time you make a mistake, each time you start doubting and having negative thoughts try not to be disappointed and especially not to blame yourself about it. Show your self-mercy, as you would do for a good friend who came to ask for your help when he is experiencing a difficult situation.In such a case wouldn’t you try to stand by him and to encourage him? What is the reason to punish someone who learns and has difficulties?To believe in your self is like a long journey.
You will be many times lost in the way, you will wonder if you are made about this and sometimes you will lose your faith. You can also contact Alex for any comments or suggestions about the web site.1 CommentClick here to post a comment Cancel replyYour email address will not be published.

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