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04.06.2014
A couple of days ago, I found myself wishing, praying for a boyfriend who would make me happy. And yes, wanting a relationship for me doesn’t come from wanting to be complete or needing love or wanting to be happy – I am complete! I want you to know that the contents of this article are without a doubt my most precious experiences on this earth and if I were to die tomorrow I know for a fact that I would be at peace with how my love life has gone.
So, for almost two years I have sat at my computer listening to your very personal stories without really sharing much information about my own personal life.
And every single day I do my very best to write things that will give you insight into why men do the things they do.
Hmm… but before I get into that maybe its a good idea for me to tell you about where I was in my life before this incredible year. Turns out that it was pretty cold that day so I got to wear a scarf with my nice leather jacket out to see the movie which was actually pretty exciting for me because I love the way it looks. I mean, I am very self sufficient person and relying on anyone for help seemed like a weak move to me. Yup, a year later I am ready to admit that during this time last year I was very lonely and sad that I was the beacon of light for so many of you when I didn’t feel like I deserved that title. You see, for me there was nothing I really wanted more for Christmas than having someone to love me. This may sound a little weird but I think I have an unfair advantage over most men when it comes to relationships due to the popularity of this site.
As a result, any woman that I would meet with has these characteristics would be immediately crossed off my list for dating because I know they would probably cheat on me given the right circumstance. Well, I happened to be scrolling through Facebook around the middle of the day on December 27th and I stumbled across a video of a beautiful woman giving this little girl a present for Christmas. So, I did what any self respecting man would do with a crush with a woman who he hasn’t even met would do, I looked through her Facebook. Seriously, even before I had talked to Jennifer I knew that she was drop dead gorgeous which is always a little annoying to me because I knew that if I did work up the courage to talk to her I was going to be extra self conscious about my own looks. So, I decided to take the risk and message her on Facebook about how sweet I thought the video of her and the little girl opening the present was. Oh, and if there are any men out there reading this then I want you to know that the only reason that I did end up getting a response from Jennifer here was because I was genuine in how I felt about the video. It took her a while but she eventually responded and we started getting to know each other. I was disappointed when I heard this because I really didn’t believe in long distance relationships but I am getting ahead of myself again. One thing I want to make crystal clear was that Jennifer intimidated me and as weird as this sounds it attracted me to her. Just look at those pictures above and that’s just the tip of the iceberg to how good she looks. She wasn’t playing around at a silly job just trying to make enough money for a party on the weekend. This is going to sound horrible but the women that I have been on dates with in the past weren’t very intelligent.
You have to put your heart and soul into the effort and even then there is no guarantee that you will come out victorious. They will talk to multiple women at the same time and then after a long time pick one to end up with. I just know that I would be hurt if I found out that someone who I was developing strong feelings for was talking to a million other guys the same way she was talking to me. In this particular case I think my all or nothing attitude served me well as it proved to her that I wasn’t playing games. Jennifer and I had a lot of obstacles to overcome and of course that means that I had to be the one to figure out a way to overcome most of them.
Jennifer and I first made contact with each other on December 27th of 2013 through Facebook. Of course, I said above that we lived in separate states which prevented us from meeting each other.
So, our first obstacle was the fact that even though we were developing feelings for each other we hadn’t met each other and neither of us was going to fully commit to someone until we were sure and that required us to meet each other.
This was definitely a little out of my comfort zone because I was not that big into parties or motorcycles and that seemed to be all that this week was about. I remember when she first proposed the idea to me I was a little afraid for a number of reasons. Oh, and then you add in the fact that while technically we were in neutral ground in Florida she was still at an advantage because we would be at her house. It was definitely a big risk that I thought about a lot but ultimately I came to the conclusion that a girl like this was worth the risk.
I purchased my airplane tickets to see her on March 12th – 18th about a month in advance. By buying my plane ticket to Daytona Beach, Florida I had to make sure this relationship worked. I almost felt like I was preparing for a test and if I failed I would literally be dead inside.
I wanted her more than I think I have ever wanted anything in my entire life and I was going to do everything in my power to get her. In fact, my feelings for her had grown so strong that I was willing to change my outlook on a major statement I had made about long distance relationships. I changed my mind because I met the girl of my dreams and it just so happened that the only way we could be together was through a long distance relationship? Well, I will always remember that day because of how happy we both were and how perfect it was.
I told her that I loved her while walking alongside the beach with the full moon shining bright. Ok, so now that Chris and Jennifer are officially a couple all is right in the world, right?
By this point it was clear that Jennifer and I cared for each other on a very deep and intense level but neither of us were blinded by the serious obstacle that stood in our way. I had been planning for a talk about this issue for a long time and now that both of us had given the go ahead for the relationship we were ready to work together to figure out a solution.
Any time there is ever a problem in our relationship we both sit down and figure out how to work through it and without a doubt being forced so early into a situation where you have to figure out something like distance is a very tough test for a young couple. We both talked and agreed that neither of us were a fan of long distance relationships so it went without saying that the distance couldn’t last for long. We looked at our options and immediately concluded that it was a dumb idea to move to neutral ground as that would be harder on everyone involved. Jennifer already had a career in Pennsylvania so it would be asking a lot of her to pick up her life to move to Texas when I work from home and all I really need is a laptop and an internet connection to help people with relationships. If I was willing to make such a sacrifice (because picking up your life and moving is definitely a sacrifice) I wanted to know that she was just as committed to me as I was to her so I requested that we had to live together in Pennsylvania. She requested that if we do move in together to not make her wait around too long for a deeper commitment like marriage. My point is that I was even more delighted to hear that because I was looking for that type of a commitment as well. The plan was that I was going to move to Pennsylvania and we would live happily ever after. I have seriously, not met anyone in my life that has done that and I am sure she hasn’t either.
I was in a long distance relationship from March 19th to August 9th which is a total of 143 days.
Hmm… perhaps it would be more accurate if I said that I survived a long distance relationship for 143 days.
However, I did learn a lot about myself and my relationship with Jennifer during that time. When I look back to that time of our relationship the thing that I think really helped us thrive was the fact that we had a common goal and both of us sacrificed to achieve that goal.
This goal kind of shaped our mindset while in the relationship so that we were both convinced that this distance was only temporary. When she would get off work she would usually call me and we would talk on the phone for another hour or two.


In the four months that we were in a long distance relationship together we made a total of four trips to see each other. Now, above I did mention that the common goal we were both working towards was moving in together.
So, while in our long distance relationship together we both began looking at apartments that we could live together in.
I have been waiting to be this happy for pretty much my entire life and there it was, happiness, being dangled right in my face but I had to wait before my dream of living with the perfect woman was a reality.
What I am about to tell you are the things that they don’t tell you about long distance relationships. To me, it literally felt like I was living moment to moment and the only cure for the pain was hearing Jennifers voice.
It prevents you from focusing on healthy activities like working out, doing well at work or even socializing with friends or family at times. For the first time I finally understood what women on this site were feeling when they missed their loved ones. All I would have to look forward to during that time were the times I would get to see her in person (which was only four times in four months) and the fact that on August 9th we would be moving in together.
I know in the grand scheme of things four months doesn’t seem like a long time to wait but to me it felt like an eternity. I took that as a challenge because I definitely wanted to be the first and last person she ever rode in a carriage with so I grabbed her hand and together we tracked down where the carriages were coming from. That means I was planning this thing for a total of 94 days or just a little over three months. I watched the whole thing and after it was over it became blatantly obvious to me that I couldn’t do some silly little video for Jennifer. I wanted to be the man who gave her a proposal story that none of her friends could even come close to topping. She really had three main ones and after I heard them I will admit that I had this strong urge to be the one to make them come true. This one was going to be pretty easy to achieve since the apartment we got has a fireplace and by proposing to her (and her accepting my proposal) I would be her husband. Ever since she was a little girl Jennifer has always dreamed about riding in a hot air balloon. Basically I created a website, got it established and sold it for around $6,000 which was enough money to stay in Paris for 5 days.
I bought the tickets for us and everything two months in advance of the trip which I scheduled for October 17th to October 21st.
I had been planning this proposal for what seemed like forever and I was determined to make sure everything went perfectly.
On August 22nd, 13 days after we had moved in together I was going to propose to Jennifer and attempt to catch her completely off guard. These rose petals would guide her to a TV that would play a video that I made basically set everything up. On the bed there was a note explaining to her that I had gotten her a private flight in a hot air balloon on September 27th.
As she got to my desk she would notice that there was another note that directed her to turn on the computer.
Basically the website told her that her dream of going to Paris had just come true and explained how I pulled the whole trip together. So, now that you have heard how I planned my proposal to Jennifer how do you think it went? I mean, in total I have written 7,351 words up until this point and what if I told you this epic love story for nothing. To make things cooler was the fact that the backyard we landed in was an 8 year old’s birthday party. Apparently in Paris it is tradition to put a lock on a bridge to symbolize your everlasting love. Even now at times I have to pinch myself to make sure that I am not living in some sort of dream because it all seems too good to be true.
She is a woman that comes around once in a lifetime and I was fortunate enough to not squander my opportunity with her. Once upon a time I used to suffer from what I call Prince Harming Syndrome — the tendency to date men who were either Trouble or TroubleD. I remember once I was sharing a dark story about a particular Prince Harming with my buddy Scott, when the man at the next table at the cafe interrupted. He then grabbed his brown leather briefcase, and whisked out of the cafe — like some masked psychoanalyst avenger. Perhaps you feel like you don’t deserve healthy love because of your weight, career, etc. Have you lowered your “dating bar” so low that now only the slimiest reptilian snake-y partners are wiggling through? Do you care more about money and good looks than you do about your self-esteem and happiness? Don’t let the prospect of saying goodbye to a Prince  or Princess Harming make you feel like a failure. Now I live a alcohol free, raw vegan lifestyle, and I live amongst 6 horses that I care for and that care for me ,and my heart. I still believe that my soul mate does exist out there, and that the right one will come along when I am ready.
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Well, wouldn’t you like a mans perspective on what it’s like to fall madly in love with someone?
In fact, I remember that there was this one moment around Christmas of 2013 that I went for a walk at night by myself to look at the Chirstmas lights.
The house looked like the epitome of Christmas spirit and near one of the front windows I spotted a beautiful Christmas tree with all kinds of presents scattered around it.
So, while I always give it my all when trying to help people I am also making mental notes of what not to do and what type of personalities do certain things. I have also used your breakups to my advantage by figuring out how men wronged you and doing the opposite of that. So, my unfair advantage is that because I have so much experience in seeing these types of mistakes I know I have to avoid them if I ever hope to have a successful relationship. Jennifer is clearly a beautiful woman and what made it intimidating for me is the fact that I have never dated anyone that comes close to looking like how she looks. I mean, me saying that I help women get their exes back isn’t exactly impressive unless you say it the right way. She suggested very early on that if our feelings continued to develop for each other we should meet on neutral ground in Daytona Beach, Florida for Bike Week. Firstly, I was going to be out of my element, out of my state and thrown directly into a hornets nest where she would definitely be judging me on if I was good enough for her. In other words, while I had been talking to Jennifer for a month and was getting a pretty good gauge on her I hadn’t technically met her yet.
If something went wrong between us she would have the support of her family right there and I would be labeled public enemy number one.
If you want to have any chance of winning a girls heart like this you have to be willing to take that risk and I was.


I knew that she had feelings for me and she knew that I had feelings for her but neither of us were willing to make things official until we had met in person. If things didn’t work out between us the worst she got out of the experience was a friend. I thought of everything imaginable that she could use as a reason for us not to work out and I had an answer to every single one. If you pull up my article on long distance relationships you can clearly see that I am not fond of LDR’s. So significant in fact that it takes me a very long time to develop that kind of love for someone and even longer for me to verbalize it.
She had been wronged quite a bit in her past and it was fair of her to wonder if she was just setting herself up for heartbreak once again.
In other words, it gave us something to work towards rather than both of us just wasting time. By then she had gotten home and wanted to get some dinner so we would give the other person some time to enjoy the rest of the day and then usually we would call each other an hour or two before bed and talk. Eventually each person involved in the relationship is going to get antsy and want to see each other in person. So, we averaged about one trip a month to see one another which is about the national average for a long distance couple I learned.
Eventually she found a few candidates that we both agreed were suitable and during one of my trips up to Pennsylvania we went apartment hunting.
All you want is to see that one person in your world that you know can make things better and for me that was Jennifer. I had initially just planned to make a nice little video recapping our relationship and propose to her that way but then I did the worst thing ever. The conversation always stuck with me and I definitely used it as inspiration for my proposal to her.
It was narrated by me and recapped our entire relationship, told her that I was about to make all of her dreams come true. After she finished reading the website I directed her to go over to the fireplace in our apartment so I could make her final dream of having a husband and drinking wine by a fireplace come true.
Turns out that there was another hot air balloon that went up at the same time as ours and we made friends with a few of the people on that hot air balloon.
Once you put your lock on the bridge and lock the lock you throw the key into the river below. As of this exact moment I am sitting at my desk writing this article and occasionally staring out the window.
Thankfully shortly after this talk I developed the inner strength and clarity of mind to leave this Prince Harming. Do you get attention and feel important every time you complain about how awful this partner is?
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So, I would meet her and her parents for the first time together, something I have never done before. For me, if things didn’t work out the worst that I would get out of it was heartbroken. What I felt with Jennifer when I met her was so strong that I knew for a fact that she was going to be in my life forever. I feel like if you put a normal couple in the same situation they pick at each other until a fight occurs. Now, one thing that we have been good at is that we were in constant contact with each other. One of the sacrifices she had to make was leaving her current living situation and finding a new one for us. In fact, towards the end of the day I was growing so impatient with waiting that I would literally pace around my room constantly staring at my phone hoping that her call would come soon.
Every day I didn’t see her was another day that I was fighting to hold myself together. She is the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about when I go to sleep.
I recognized, however, just because this man was no longer in my life, it didn’t mean my masochistic dating tendencies had left too.
I’ve bought the book so hopefully it’ll help me understand all this relationship stuff better!!!!
So i said to him ok i will come up there, which made no sense since the car had to get to my house. And there is no better way to live your everyday extraordinary than to share it with someone whom you love. Now, I wouldn’t ever let my parents or anyone close know that I was lonely because to me that was like admitting defeat. Now, and I am sure a lot of you are going to laugh, when she told me that she wanted to meet me for Bike Week in Daytona I literally thought Bike Week was a parade of bicycles.
I wanted to make a proposal that touched her as much as the woman was touched by the proposal in the video above. We figured it would bring things full circle if we had a nice small ceremony for family and friends on the beach in Key West. I needed to do some serious self-exploration, and understand why I had this urge to go towards bad boys — rather than run from them.
Plus, many thousands of peeps read this inspirational blog- so, what you share could be a helpful inspiration for someone else! Our divine nature does not need anything accept for release from the bounds of our frightened, primitive nature, which keeps it down and hidden. Usually on her lunch break she would give me a call and we would get to talk on the phone for a good 35 – 60 minutes. Jennifer always praised me for my patience but the truth is I wanted to scream half the time I was in Texas because of how impatient I felt. If you have supportive family and friends I would suggest telling them everything and leaning on them for support. Once each party in the relationship releases their soul, the two together are greater than the sum of their individual parts.
I mean, I am a human being with insecurities just like all of you and watching people cheat on each other or betray each other in the worst ways really picks at my own insecurities and can make them worse sometimes. After that phone call we would usually text each other for the rest of the day until she got off work at 5 P.M.
Nothing in your past is in your present making you do anything you don’t choose to do.
In general it gives me strength to cut a relationship and say bye to the guy as it was my decision and not imposed by the other.



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