Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance. God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Do you accept the things you cannot change, change the things you can and know the difference?  Sometimes all three of those things can be difficult to do.  Which part is the hardest for you? You’ll also receive “7 Keys to Living a Passionate Life” that will launch you on the path to aligning with your passions!
Your life is meant for so much more than being a life-long doormat for deadbeats, losers, gossipers, nay-sayers, dream-crushers, energy vampires, users, abusers, ragers and passive-aggressive backstabbers.
A person at peace can immediately recognize a consciousness in crisis, whereas those in crisis cannot fully understand themselves or others.
I know you want to be a good person and be helpful to people in need, but it's impossible to give to others if your energy has already been used-up. Boundaries and risk management are very important parts of living a healthy and positive life. Sometimes a person needs us to abandon them, but we hang-on anyway, which can be devastating for both parties.
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Staying in an unhealthy relationship can keep both of you from finding your way and moving to the next level in your life.
This is your life, and you have the right and responsibility to make good decisions for yourself. Misery loves good company, so if you are surrounded with drama, gossip and fools you may want to consider that you are presently at risk of becoming one of them. If your positivity immune system is low, any exposure to a person afflicted with negativity can poison your life.
One of the fastest ways you can profoundly change your life is to rid yourself of toxic people.
Being alone is much better than being around negative people out of loneliness or desperation. The way to send a clear message that you are ready for better people in your life is to kick the rascals to the curb.


The intimate space of your personal life should be reserved for amazing, beautiful, radiant souls — good, wholesome and loving people. Escaping a toxic relationship can feel like breaking a piece of your heart off; like a wolf chews its leg off to escape a steel trap. Leaving is never easy, but sometimes it's necessary to save yourself, and others, from dying inside. Some people have abusive, negative, controlling tendencies in their blood; they are wired for havoc, bickering and deception. Some people know of no other way to interface with others except through their created chaos.
There is more than one way to lose your life; quickly through violence, or fettered-away and wasted around dreadful, toxic people. People who are out of control desperately need to observe your healthy boundaries in-action to learn from your example. Practically every successful person you know of is successful, in part, because they moved the destructive and disruptive people out of their lives.
Who you allow into your life, mind and heart are among the most important decisions you will ever make. And if you are not, just know that in every new minute that passes you have an opportunity to change that. People often turn away from good advice because they need something another person can never give them — discovery.
Even professional therapists, psychologists, and social workers draw boundaries to limit exposure to their clients. Helping others can sometimes even be a convenient distraction from addressing our own unresolved issues. Some have less obvious ways, such as the "helpful" enabler, who sends you off to your destruction with a helping hand and a smile.
As much as we would like to help others avoid pain, sometimes we have to let go and allow them to receive their own painful lessons.
When someone you know is so toxic and destructive that they are poisoning your life, you have to create some distance.
Some are "doubt-whisperers," who plant seeds of non-belief in your heart to take root, only so they can then console you in your inevitable moment of defeat. You can still be a charitable person who helps and cares about people, without helping those very people destroy your life. And especially, if your positivity immune system is low, any exposure to a person afflicted with negativity can poison your life. Learn how to draw a line and learn how to enforce it — let people know what is and what is not accepted by you.


It is easy to find ourselves in denial about someone's behavior because we so deeply wish they could escape their pain and suffering. One thing always reveals their sometimes hidden identity — after you have been around them, consider how you feel; have you been depleted and drained, or energized and inspired?
Cleanliness and order are good Feng Shui, which applies to people even more than it does to the things in your life.
People must save themselves, and you can only help a person who genuinely wants it and is ready. Love yourself enough to say no to people who diminish your chances for a beautiful and empowered life. Chaos is their home-court advantage where they play their mind-games so they can have power over you; it's a rigged game you can never win. Their lives are full of emptiness, chaos, and dysfunction, and they will bring their misery and pain into your life with full-force if you allow it.
Then there are others who have the outward appearance of success and are seemingly not self-destructive in nature. Scrub down your brain with a wire-brush and remove their insanity from the corridors of your mind.
Align yourself with a new tribe of healthy people who are supportive of your highest good and greatest potential.
These people do not destroy themselves, but instead survive through the destruction of others — these are the users. Inoculate yourself immediately by creating a safe space and aligning yourself with healthy people. Make a clear decision on the type of people you want in your life and if they don't make the cut, create some distance. You are in danger: your health, your peace of mind, your happiness and maybe even your life. Find the people who are living the positive lifestyle you wish for yourself and who share your values, and create a new family of friends that you can call, "home." Your new positive and supportive tribe will edify you, strengthen you and empower you to serve others in ways you would have never before imagined.
Either of these types of people will latch-on to you in a death-spiral and take you down to the depths of hell with them — if you allow it. If you have to go it alone for a while until you find your healthy tribe and chosen family, that is fine.
It doesn't matter if it is a close relative, a parent or a childhood friend; no matter the history — when people are toxic, disruptive and dysfunctional with no reasonable signs of recovery, then they need to go.




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