By David HamiltonSelf confidence is one of the biggest things most people want for prosperity and success. So how do we generate that kind of confidence, that we see those “successful” people have? I look back at my information technology career in New York City, and how I started knowing very little about technology.
I worked my way up to the manager level because of my drive and work ethic from ground zero. This definitely helps for reducing resistance to taking action in starting a business, advancing our career. We often mistake confidence for the feeling of shining valiance and courage, that we think should be in place before taking action. They just did it, and then later noticed they were confident, but it wasn’t a second thought either way, whether they actually felt confident.
If so, try allowing them to be there instead of controlling them, this should free your energy up to act, instead of fighting with yourself. You see the feeling of confidence and real self-confidence don’t have to be there together. And practicing doing this will make you pretty much unstoppable with everything but the most extreme fears.


Awareness and mindfulness practice of allowing those fearful thoughts and emotions to be there, acknowledging them is one of the most powerful ways to have self-confidence in any situation. It’s building up a new relationship with fear, transforming it even to a fuel that can help propel you into action, is truly a wonderful thing. To create a story of how you want to show up in the world based on what matters most to you, and the kind of life you want to lead and the kind of person you want to be, deep down, every day. This gives us a solid guidance system to making sure we focus on what’s really important to do, regardless of the fear that is there.
For years, and years, and years I tried to get rid of fears first, tried to get self-confidence first and searched for countless ways on how to improve self confidence. Don’t be a technique chaser, trying to find that magic technique of how to increase self confidence. It’s all part of the skillset of learning how to build the muscle of change, anyways. Read previous post:How To Control Your EmotionsEmotion is at the root of being human, whether we like it or not. MenuFearless doesnt mean you're completely unafriad and it doesnt mean you're bulletproof, it means you have alot of fears.. If you’re shy by nature, the prospect of raising your hand to participate in a college class can be daunting.


Sometimes an unwillingness to participate in class comes from being unsure if you know the course material well enough to answer a question or give your opinion. If your fear of speaking up is a matter of intimidation, getting to know your instructors better may take care of the problem. It’s easy to combat this issue if you take steps to ensure that you are thoroughly prepared for every class.
As you read through assigned texts, make a list of questions you think may be asked during class discussion. If you have questions about a reading or were confused about something the instructor said, ask if you can meet with him or her and go over the content. Write a few quick notes that you can reference for an answer, and you’ll be more confident as you speak. Chances are the answer will be yes, and you’ll not only have a better understanding of the material, but will also gain confidence.



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