Your subconscious mind is already dismissing all this as a load of nonsense, so you don’t even have to try it. We start out at birth with a pretty full bar, and from that moment on we’re receiving plenty of strokes. Your low self-esteem is the result of too many negative strokes compared to the positive ones. Is there something you’ve always wanted to try, like a new class or a trip somewhere new and exciting?
There are plenty of other ways you can boost your positive strokes and reduce your negative ones. Low self-esteem ALWAYS forms in childhood when the individual is developing an initial view of how he or she, as a person, fits into the world. Signs of low self-esteem: social withdrawal, sensitivity to criticism, hostility, excessive pre-occupation with personal problems, physical symptoms like head aches, fatigue and insomnia (sleep disorders). 3. Some people may require talking to a counselor or an expert, especially those who went through a more challenging past.
A person should not allow the low self-esteem to hinder him or her from realizing the true potentials. If you think you are suffering from a low self-esteem, you can chat anonymously to a facilitator on the MobieG LIVE CHAT. It may be wildly different to how other people value you; if you think of yourself much more highly, you can come across as conceited or arrogant. All the confidence-boosting advice in the universe will do you no good if you aren’t even going to use it!
And that means getting angry about it, being willing to smash your entire worldview and work towards building a new one.
I would hope as a baby you received lots of positive ones – attention from loving parents. If someone is angry with you, you’ll take a hit to your self-esteem whether that anger is justified or not.


You feel worthless because you’ve had more emotional signals telling you this than positive ones telling you that you are valued. Exactly when and where you take this time is up to you, but during this time you are NOT to do any work, be interrupted by family or friends, or worry about anything else in your life. This is to reassure the self of the many capabilities and potentials that may be developed. Hugging may be a very simple act, but this could very well give warmth to a dampened spirit.
The way we value ourselves is an integral part of our worldview, and changing that is a big and scary task. A slight improvement every day for a long period of time will really add up, and your subconscious will be far less likely to try to sabotage these minor changes. It’s the equivalent of an alcoholic hitting rock bottom and choosing to quit drinking. It doesn’t matter what those particular strokes were, as long as we got a lot of them. If you’re stuck in a relationship like this, it is vital that you sort it out before you can hope to improve your self-esteem.
We cannot spend our entire lives working for others – we physically and emotionally need to receive something for ourselves. You may not have low self-esteem because of some deprived childhood – you might simply need more positive reinforcement. But the good news is that, if you’re willing to work at it, you CAN boost your self-esteem. If you can’t avoid toxic relationships, such as with work colleagues or family members, try to minimise how much time you spend with them.
We can gain great satisfaction from helping others, but it needs to come from a positive frame of mind: because we want to help.
A negative self-image will keep you from trying new experiences, learning new things, discovering new places.


Thousands of teenagers are known to routinely self-harm, though exact figures are hard to come by – it is estimated that 10% of UK teenagers have self-harmed, though the true figure could be much higher. A stroke from our loved ones is always more powerful than a stroke from some random guy on the bus, and the older we get the less effect each stroke has. However, it’s true that a prolonged negative environment (say, being routinely beaten in a prison cell) will bring down the self-esteem of even the most positive person eventually. All this needs is for you to receive more positive strokes than negative ones for a long enough period of time. They’re probably feeling just as worthless as you are – help each other, rather than arguing all the time!
If you feel good about yourself, you’ll get more benefit from positive strokes and feel less impact from negative ones. You can always help the less fortunate later, when you’re in a better position to do so.
Every little step makes you stronger, and eventually you’ll be strong enough to take bigger steps. That impacts on everyone around you – family, friends, colleagues, maybe the entire world.
If your self-esteem is low, however, you’ll find those negative strokes hurt more… and you may struggle to get any benefit from the positive ones at all! Your happiness is more important than hanging on for the sake of the children or whatever else.



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