Now that I am in my twenties, I am still un confident in some areas of myself, but over the past few months, I have become more confident. Usually this 'perfect' is super skinny, tall, luscious hair, perfect skin and well just the perfect life.
Get Things In Perspective: Sometimes when I am having a moment about my thighs or nose, I look at the bigger picture.
Don't Compare Yourself: Comparing yourself is so easy to do, but such a dangerous thing to do.
Do Something About It: When I was constantly unhappy with the fact I put on weight last year, I decided to stop moaning about it and do something.
Dizzybrunette3 is a UK beauty and lifestyle blog, written by a make up obsessed dizzy brunette. I must admit that there are a few items right now in my make up bag that I am completely digging. Trying new things builds your confidence because it means you’re always gaining new experiences and learning.
You’ll never realize the extent of what you can accomplish until you start challenging yourself.
Have you ever not done something because you feared you would mess up and embarrass yourself? Nowadays, we can do almost anything on a smart phone: send emails, play games, and even watch movies. Living in close quarters with someone – friend or stranger – can become a toxic situation very quickly. I am not sure if this is what growing up is all about, or maybe trying to be more positive, but honestly, it's quite refreshing to not be hung up so much about things anymore. I think sometimes you have to think, ' right I am healthy, I am alive, I have loving family and friends, this is more important.' There is more to life than looks, and seriously because my thighs aren't as small as they were as a teenager doesn't mean people won't like me anymore. You go on the Daily Mail and look at celebrities and think 'why don't i look like that?' In reality, celebrities have so much help, they have daily make up artists, stylists, nutritionists, whilst do me and you have that?
I knew that I wasn't happy and this wasn't going to change, but I also felt unhealthy and my clothes felt tight.


Although, I have days where I don't like myself, I'm much happier now than when I used to beat myself up about things every single day. It’s an easy confidence booster when you succeed at little challenges you set for yourself. Besides just being the polite thing to do, it puts people at ease and shows that you’re open to others.
When you do this, you show respect for the person you’re speaking with and, in some ways, command respect yourself. Imagine yourself comfortably taking up space. We’re told that physically taking up a lot of space exudes confidence and maybe even gives us more power, so why not visualize it too? I wanted to write a post about what I do to make myself feel more confident, as I see too many girls and boys on social media, putting themselves down. People like you for you, and usually that's cause of your personality not cause of what you look like.
Sometimes you have to step back and think 'hey it's not all about looks.' It's better to be kind, funny, loving, and fun than be a perfect Barbie. And after all, why would I expect anyone to be nice to me, when I couldn't even be nice to me? However when you look at the big picture, you come to realize that you have exceptional research skills.
The good news is that confidence can be faked, and acting confident can make you actually feel more confident. If you’re someone who fidgets with your hands (which is most of us) be aware of the habit. When we’re afraid, we tend to want to shrink ourselves, both literally and with our words. Unfortunately though, many of us tend to point out our perceived flaws around brand new acquaintances or people we’re trying to seem at ease with, as if we have to call them out before someone else does. When you do this, you get to just focus on being a great listener instead of trying to impress someone, which is impressing enough on its own! It makes me sad when I see young girls feel their fat and need to go on diets, and when youngsters are heading down to have plastic surgery.


No matter who you are, you can work on feeling more confident every day with these simple tips! Nobody will ever fall from the sky and grant you permission to acknowledge how awesome you are, so you have to give it to yourself and show the world the version of you that you’re most proud of! In this day and age of perpetually hunching over laptops, it can be really tough to maintain good posture.
If you can’t focus on keeping your hands still, find something to do with them, like holding a coffee or putting them in your pockets (in a not-too-standoffish way). It means that person has figured out how to showcase what they’re great at and downplay their insecurities.
Now don't get me wrong, I am not against anything like that, if something makes you happy then go for it, but I think it's sad we live in a world where we feel we need to be perfect. People dig personalities so much more than looks, and if they don't, maybe you shouldn't be hanging round with them. If something is making you deeply unhappy then its okay to change things, but please always do it for you and no one else.
Try these quick tricks to appear confident even on the toughest of days, and soon you’ll start to believe it yourself!
While some people are more confident than others, everyone is faking it ’til they make it on some level.
Secondly, everything is so air brushed and edited these days, that the girls in magazines, don't even look like the girls in magazines. Like don't get me wrong, filters, and editing the saturation are part of the fun but airbrushing too?



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