Recently, my wife posted The Husband List: 12 Non-Negotiables, which has received many comments from readers wondering what the wife list looks like.
Earlier this week, I wrote the article An Uncrafty Guy’s Guide to Making a Vision Board about keeping you visually focused on your dreams. Just like character is the most important quality of a good guy, the woman you’re going to marry should have good character as well. When it comes to finding your wife, I’ve heard “equally yoked.” It has nothing to do with weightlifting for those of you guys who like muscle women. In your eyes, she should be a “10.” When my wife walks in the room, I’m awestruck by her every time. You’re going to be spending a lot of time with her, so she should be able to hold a good conversation. These are qualities a single guy should look for, but if you’re already married, then a good guy would most definitely honor his commitment.
I think its important to remember these are reminders for what to look for, not a list to judge our spouses by once we commit. So if you bring Him into your relationship, there is no telling what kind of wonders He will do.
Actually, Ross…when you marry someone your covenant is between you, your wife and God because God created marriage as a Holy covenant. Try to love her for all good things she has and forget about the flaws…everyone is flawed .
Statistics show that women prefer men who take a lead role in the relationship during courtship.
If you practice universal love with everything around you, you are a rare and wonderful human being.
If you have read through the adjacent list carefully and thoughtfully you may well have displayed the virtues of patience and concentration! Think of your own experiences - realise the vital importance of honesty - with yourself (honesty is the baseline virtue).
Beauty - See your life as a search for beauty: in your surroundings, in your relationships and in your thoughts and actions. Everything in Nature is alive in its own way;is on its own adventure, and deserves its own well-being. HODJAPASHA ART and CULTURE CENTER,RUMI,The name Mevlana Celaleddin-i Rumi stands for Love and ecstatic flight into the infinite.
The Mevlevi, or Mevleviye, one of the most well-known of the Sufi orders, was founded in 1273 by Rumi's followers after his death, particularly his son, Sultan Veled Celebi (or A‡elebi, Chelebi) in Konya , from where they gradually spread throughout the Ottoman Empire.
The Mevlevi Order is also linked to other Dervish orders such as the Qadiri (founded in 1165), the Rifa'i (founded in 1182), and the Kalenderis.
Following a recommended fast of several hours, the whirlers begin to rotate on their left feet in short twists, using the right foot to drive their bodies around the left foot. The Mevlevi Sema Ceremony is proclamated as an INTANGIBLE WORLD HERITAGE in Traditional performing art social practices themes by UNESCO in October 2005. Your future wife should love you just as you are, regardless of anything you’ve done in your past.
She shouldn’t be critical of the people who you love and have been loyal to you throughout your life. Love can overwrite any of the qualities above, but having these qualities will certainly make your lives easier once you are married.
It was a picture of God’s relationship with Israel, who was constantly leaving the worship of Him and depending on themselves and other false gods. There I discovered the need to begin and end every gathering with definitions of or challenges to have the right kind of commitment. Whether you are Christian, Muslim, or Jewish, we all have some version of the Old Testament.
When you break that covenant with your spouse you are also breaking a covenant with God no matter what the reason. Additionally, couples which conform to traditional stereotypes of leadership tend to have much more sex which is considered indicative of a healthy marriage.
If you are like the other 99% of us, then you will be a dynamic mix of good and bad qualities.
Your awareness of them through reflection on your actions will determine how, and to what extent, you grow. Rumi is one of the great spiritual masters and poetical geniuses of mankind and was the founder of the Mevlevi Sufi order, a leading mystical brotherhood of Islam. He is the Divine Voice giving the good news to those seeking beauty , truth , goodness , light and Divine Truth. Today, Mevleviye can be found in many Turkish communities throughout the world but the most active and famous places for their activity are still Konya and Istanbul.
The Mevlevi Order was outlawed in Turkey at the dawn of the secular revolution by Kemal AtatA?rk in 1923.he Mevlevi Sema Ceremony Mevleviye are known for their famous practice of whirling dances.
The body of the whirler is meant to be supple with eyes open, but unfocused so that images become blurred and flowing.
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You may think you can do some missionary dating, and turn that situation around so she will believe everything you do, but you’re probably going to be very disappointed with some bad side effects.
If she’s not close with her family, and doesn’t have any good friends, that’s not a good sign. There will be minor adjustments along the way, but if she nags you about your core characteristics, it won’t get any better in marriage. But when saying Good by the World’s standards, the only good we can be is in our effort to strive to be more like Him.


I think you nailed some of the key ideas and liked it so much that I decided to reply without reading more comments.
But Christianity teaches that God descended into his creation and became a man (Jesus), precisely so he could be like us. You may have the right to leave but I would strongly encourage you if you can stay get counseling and try to make the successful. Communication and forgiveness (not keeping accounts) are two of the great keys to a successful marriage.
If a guy is in a dating relationship, and it’s not working out, I would not give advice to get married as a solution. In those chapters, it is constantly mentioned that the man’s wife should be equally yoked.
I can tell you these 2 tools made all of the difference in the world to my husband and my relationship.
A leader gives of himself and ensures the safety and well being of those he (or she) is with.
See the virtues as your psychological spine - upright and strong rather than fragile and twisted. Rumi was born on 30 September 1207 in Balkh in present day Afghanistan to a family of learned theologians.
The Mevlevi were a well established Sufi Order in the Ottoman Empire, and many of the members of the order served in various official positions of the Caliphate. At their dancing ceremonies, or Sema, a particular musical repertoire called ayin is played. The Sema takes place in a large circular-shaped room that is part of the mevlevihane building. Each of these intimate half-day and full-day tours will immerse you in a unique aspect of Turkish history and culture.Get expert help choosing the best hotels for yor needs and budget for your stay in A°stanbul and Turkey, Fethiye, Antalya, Marmaris, Bodrum, A°zmir, Gaziantep, Canakkale, Cappadocia, Black Sea, Gallipoli, Ephesus, East Turkey.
Most of the characteristics we think we want in a wife aren’t ones that make for a good, lifelong relationship. If you can’t trust her, maybe you’re not ready to date her or maybe you need to work on confidence issues within yourself.
Even with this list, both of you are still going to bring some kind of baggage into the relationship.
Yet, I’m not sure many married men are able to think like you describe without another concept. In several chapters, it was considered wrong for a man to marry a Gentile, or someone who did not believe the same. These are practical, everyday, biblical tools that EVERYONE can benefit from, even if they are just a gentle reminder to people who live them day to day. Escaping the Mongol invasion and destruction, Rumi and his family traveled extensively in the Muslim lands, performed pilgrimage to Mecca and finally settled in Konya, Anatolia, then part of Seljuk Empire. This is based on four sections of both vocal and instrumental compositions using contrasting rhythmic cycles and is performed by at least one singer, a flute-player (neyzen), a kettledrummer and a cymbal player. In all those areas in Turkey you can find different variations of tour programmes from walking tour to Full package tours according to our all budget guests. A few others might include: she likes football, she drinks beer with my buds, and she’s at least a full C.
Just remember, “charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting.” She should be beautiful down to her soul because that kind of beauty lasts forever.
Hosea married a prostitute… And yet despite her cheating and unfaithfulness, he remained faithful to her. It sucks because we are both Christians but she hates going to church with me because she says I stare at other women who are from my culture or look like it. This was simply because these women would turn the man away from his belief in God and introduce him to a life of sin. I know how hard it is to be married to someone i was unequally yoked with and I’m praying for you guys. When his father Bahaduddin Valad passed away, Rumi succeeded his father in 1231 as professor in religious sciences. There is also a Mevlevi monastery or dergah in Istanbul, near the Galata Tower, where the sema ceremony is performed and accessible to the public.During Ottoman Empire era, the Mevlevi order produced a number of famous poets and musicians such as Sheikh Ghalib, Ismail Ankaravi (both buried at the Galata Mevlevi-Hane) and Abdullah Sari. The oldest musical compositions stem from the mid-sixteenth century combining Persian and Turkish musical traditions. In the 1950s, the Turkish government, began allowing the Whirling Dervishes to perform annually in Konya on the Urs of Mevlana, December 17, the anniversary of Rumi's death.
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One of my friends is a stay-at-home wife with three kids, and she works harder than any of my friends with careers.
Indeed, if one buys a CD of Turkish Sufi music, chances are it will be Mevlevi religious music.
They performed in France, for Pope Paul VI, and at the Brooklyn Academy of Music and other venues in the United States and Canada - under the direction of the late Mevlevi Shaikh Suleyman Hayati Dede.
During the Ottoman period, the Mevlevi order spread into the Balkans, Syria, and Egypt (and is still practiced in both countries where they are known as the Mawlawi order).


Many practitioners kept their tradition alive in private gatherings, and thirty years later, the Turkish government began to allow performances again, though only in public. The picture of their marriage is a greater picture of Christ’s devotion to us, in spite of our unfaithfulness. He is loyal to his team members to the point of torture, capture, or death even if the team member does not uphold the code. The Bosnian writer Mesa Selimovic wrote the book Death and the Dervish about a Mevlevi dergah in Sarajevo.
From the 1990s, restrictions were eased and private groups re-emerged who try to re-establish the original spiritual and intimate character of the Sema ceremony.
Calligraphy Lesson in Istanbul,Ottoman - Turkish Calligraphy, also known as Arabic calligraphy, is the art of writing, and by extension, of bookmaking. He is prejudiced toward none because he knows that everything is the manifestation and actualization of God and he reflects this as a spritual state to the mind and heart of man Mevlana is asuperior and saintly master .
To say some commitments are not worth honoring is to miss one key thing that Kris wants us to see… Before you get married, throw everything into your premarital counseling because that is the time when you will realize whether or not you will have a relationship in which you can honor or you will struggle to honor. Just as the ocean can only fill the jug to its capacity , so mevlana can only fit into words and our perception in proportion to our capacity .
Quite obviously, there are some things that permit divorce (abuse etc), however for the majority, in the beginning it was not meant to be. He is a monument to spritually who , through his sublimity , displayed his moral values , his knowledge , wisdom love , intelligence , perception of God , behaviour , everything . If you are a sniper, you cannot afford to give up on your spotter, no matter how despicable he-she becomes. His is the true representative of the prophets , the highest element and realization of love and intelligence. Choose love that you might be a chosen one."To give up one's own existence and become non-existent in God , th is , to bind ones's heart completely to God , is shortest way to God . Photo Safari Tour in Istanbul ,Istanbul is an enchanting city of ancient beauty and modern charm . In this way that person no longer acts in accordance with his ego , doing the bad things that would cause harm to others. Each year thousands of people from the far corners of the world, travel to Konya in response to Mevlana's call of 735 years ago: "Come, come again, whoever you are, come!Heathen, fire worshipper or idolatrous, come! Real Whirling Dervish Ceremony in Istanbul,We will take you Fatih and Silivrikapi Monestries in Istanbul , Sufism Speech with Dervish EROLKnown to the west as Whirling Dervishes, the Mevlevi Order was founded by Mevlana Rumi in the 13th century. Mevlana's books are translated to many languages and are among the best selling books of their sort all over the world. At present, Mevlana, better known there as Rumi, is the "best selling poet" in United States of America. The Essential Rumi by Coleman Barks has sold more than a quarter of a million copies and is one of the top 1000 best selling books at Amazon. It is by far the largest selling poem book ever!Sufism is a mystical Muslim school of thought and aims to find love and knowledge through direct personal experience of Allah. Sufism, often referred to as the mystical dimension of Islam, was formerly understood in Orientalist scholarship as a spiritual movement that reached its apogee during the medieval period of Islamic history, with its crowning achievement being the brilliant literary productions in Arabic and Persian that became the classics of the Sufi tradition. Some Sufis (primarily in "the West") are involved with other religions, or no formal religion -- as directed by the higher source of wisdom within the human heart.
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Jewish community have lived in the geographic area of Asia Minor for more than 2,400 years. In the later Middle Ages, Ashkenazi Jews migrating to the Byzantine Empire and Ottoman Empire supplemented the original Jewish population of Asia Minor. At the end of the 15th century, a large number of Sephardic Jews fleeing persecution in Spain and Portugal settled in Asia Minor on the invitation of the Ottoman Empire. Despite emigration during the 20th century, modern day Turkey continues a Jewish population.The present size of the Jewish Community is estimated at around 26,000 according to the Jewish Virtual Library. The vast majority live in Istanbul, with a community of about 2,500 in A°zmir and other smaller groups located in the rest of Turkey. We can show you the photogenic side of Istanbul - the mesmerizing blur of dervishes in their whirling dance, the dazzle of the wares of the bazaar, the delicate beauty of long-forgotten gems of classical architecture hidden in the maze of city streets, the serene faces of old men relaxing in the smoke-filled haze of a teahouse, birds-eye views of Istanbula€™s scenic panoramas.
Calligraphy is especially revered among Islamic arts since it was the primary means for the preservation of the Qur'an.Ottoman Turkish calligraphy is associated with geometric Islamic art on the walls and ceilings of mosques as well as on the page.
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