This entry was posted in Picture and Image and tagged Breathing, Choose, I Love You, Ignore, Love. Justine, 38, believed her reliable fiance was a doting stay-at-home dad, so why was he telling other women he was a professional fighter competing in Russia?
I already had two teenage daughters from a previous relationship, and it was strange to think about looking after a tiny baby again.
I met Stephen in August 2011 through on online dating website and had been instantly attracted to him. After just four months together, on Christmas Day, Stephen gave me the best present I could ever have dreamed of as he pulled out a ring. I had never been more sure about anything – he was perfect and I knew we would always be happy together. So when I found out I was going to have his baby, I was over the moon – and so was he. But Stephen was there by my side as we broke the news to Courtnay, now 15, and Jordan, now 14, and they were just as overjoyed about it as we were. When our baby boy, Jay, was born in January 2013 there were tears of joy in Stephen’s eyes. Stephen had struggled to get a job, so we agreed that I would return to work and he would be the stay-at-home parent. We were a proper little family and I felt like the luckiest woman on the planet to have such a dependable man. But then, when Jay was just four months, my sister Cherie bowled me over with a shocking discovery.


She had been using Stephen’s phone to make a call and stumbled across pictures of his private parts that he had sent to another woman. With the evidence in plain sight he confessed that he had been messaging this woman and exchanging pictures. He told me he had been looking for an escape from the pressures of parenthood, but that it had gone no further than the messages. I asked him to leave so I could think about what I wanted, but within a few weeks he had won me round again. I still loved Stephen and we had just found out I was pregnant again, so I decided to give him another chance.
His main priority was to make sure me and the kids were happy, and he was always arranging family days out. As I looked up at him I knew he was right, and I thanked my lucky stars that I had given our relationship another chance. My Stephen was a stay-at-home dad, but here he was telling several other women that he was fighting in competitions in Russia. I was working hard to provide for us and our babies while he sat at home telling other women that I wouldn’t sleep with him – I saw red. He even had the cheek to admit that sometimes he wished he had a different and more exciting life. I told him not to come home that night and in my rage I threw all his stuff out into the garden. We had an eight week baby and we were engaged after all – I had even picked out my wedding dress.


I didn’t hear from him for two days and then my friend sent me a text with a picture – she had seen Stephen out at a cafe with another woman.
He said he thought we had split up and had been talking to this woman and meeting up with her. He insisted that nothing more had happened between them, but I had heard enough so I ended it there and then.
We’ve now split up for good – I feel like I don’t even know him anymore and I know I can never trust him again after uncovering his web of lies.
I can’t believe that the father of my two little babies could walk out on me so easily, but I’ll never take him back.
The struggle of my life created empathy - I could relate to pain, being abandoned, having people not love me. But I was also nervous about how my two girls would react – it was very soon after all.
It wasn’t an escape, it was just I said a few things which I shouldn’t have done and I know that’s my mistake.



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