I have been active, exercised, but have struggled with depression and eating to make myself feel better. My mother has had an eating disorder since her 20s, and has stayed around 95-105 lbs most of my life.
These were personal attacks on my appearance, and that hurt more than I could possibly imagine. This is my friend Gabriel, we went to high school together, and I’m so glad to still know him today.
My body that will change as i grow older, that will not be the same 10 years later, as it was at 16. She shared some insights on beauty in a behind the scenes video for the shoot for this cover. She’s regularly cited her mother as one of her main supporters in terms of fostering her self-esteem in her beauty, inside and out. In the behind the scenes video, she also mentioned the role of laughter in her adult life and this definitely connects to the previous quote in terms of internal contentment being the origin for feeling beautiful. And so I hope that my presence on your screens and in the magazines may lead you, young girl, on a similar journey.
No matter what that beautifully blind brain of yours might think of you, you are a beautiful person.
Usually here on tumblr there are a lot of body positive blogs, blogs that show everyday women with whom you can relate. So I have big hips and thighs instead of berating them I say ” My thighs and hips are fantastic! If something is really bothering me I put it like this: I can either change it or accept it.
I eat relatively well, i get way more exercise now than i have since i was 16, and still my body looks this way, so this is me.
She said that a lot, especially when I felt the least bit beautiful which is, you know, as an adolescent you go through times when you feel ugly in general.
That for me is more important than my physical presentation because it’s through inner contentment and happiness that I care about my presentation.


There have been Black men heavily invested in making sure no one believes she’s beautiful. That you will feel the validation of your external beauty but also get to the deeper business of being beautiful inside.
I’ve never once been kissed, had someone or was looked at (knowingly) the way we all wish ourselves to be. To be body positive is a journey of self acceptance while advocating for and accepting our differences with others.
No matter what anyone else may say about you, or make you think about yourself, you are a beautiful person. I feel like I can’t say anything without it coming out wrong, or without it being wrong in some way. I want to apologize because I am such a failure, selfish, useless, pathetic, clueless, ignorant, stupid, shy, indecisive, insignificant and boring person and none of you deserve the burden of being with me. Girls are often bombarded with a certain type of body image though the media and not fitting that body type can often make us feel bad about ourselves. We are both part of the LGBT+ community and struggled with it in different ways when we were younger.
This dehumanization isn’t just emotional and interpersonal but is a foundation on which oppressions such as misogynoir and colourism rest on. I have thoughts of a boys face I like and how disgusted they would be as they cuddle me, the better options all around them. Body positivity is for everyone; fighting self-hate and working towards self-love and acceptance of ourselves and others through resources, visibility, and discussion! Though most of you will say I’m not, but deep down I know I am and probably always will be. This year for his 25th birthday he wishes to raise 25,000$ for The Trevor Project in efforts to prevent suicides of LGBT+ youth.
If Black women are to be loathed, Black men can justify their misogynoir as simply being what everyone else feels about us, and it is what everyone else feels about us. I love you, I love being with you and I love listening and talking to you, but I know that you probably deserve someone a lot more than me- I’ll always be a disappointment.


They seemed to be able to give a plastic form to formless things, and to have a music of their own as sweet as that of viol or of lute. I can see the jealousy when you know I eat a quarter of what you eat, and I can see you want to relapse. He has a bulimic sister and an anorexic best friend, he can’t have an anorexic girlfriend too. Lupita is still very well educated, from a Black immigrant middle class two-parent family and is thin in accordance with most Hollywood standards, so there are elements of privilege as well.
I still care about you loads, but it feels like there’s a giant rift now, and I have no idea what to do about it. I’ve never been able to share exactly what I was thinking with any of you because I am so unsure of myself. I know I ruin everything and fail at everything I do, but I’m trying to ignore all of that.
Because I love all of you, I love being with all of you and I love listening and talking to all of you, but I know that all of you deserve someone a lot better than me. I want to apologize if any of you read this because it will add another weight on your mind. And that fills me with guilt and regret and hate toward myself because life is hard enough without me adding more.
I know that one day, the walls of my self-ignorance will fall in and everything will crash down upon me.
There are things I keep hidden from all of you because I don’t want to hurt any of you more then I already have.
I hope that my writing this will not make everything awkward between any of us or make me lose any of you as friends or family.



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