21.11.2013

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I mean, on the one hand you want nothing more than for her to respond and on the other hand you just want to yell at her at the top of your lungs for ignoring you. I mean, you kind of need to be on speaking terms with her for to agree to be in a relationship with you. You see, I wanted to create an entire guide around how to navigate a worst case scenario in which your ex girlfriend will not talk to you and I think I did a pretty good job.Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back?
In order for this page to be effective we are going to have to start operating under one assumption.
Assumption- Your ex girlfriend is completely ignoring you no matter how many times you reach out. In my opinion, that is the absolute worst case scenario you can find yourself in if you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back. Communication is a HUGE part of relationships and without it, it will be impossible to successfully convince your ex girlfriend to get back with you. While I can’t guarantee that your ex girlfriend will get back on speaking terms with you I will make you one promise. So, when we operate under the assumption that your ex girlfriend is ignoring you then we can pretty much consider that to be a failure. Now, when most men experience failure they go home with their tail between their legs defeated but that’s not going to be you. Remember, you are going to use this section as a learning tool to determine what you did wrong.
Below I have compiled a list of the most common reasons that cause an ex girlfriend to ignore you.
This is a relatively common one and can come in the form of begging or just not knowing when to end a conversation.
However, just like every married couple there are times where we get into small disagreements on things (and I am usually always wrong, seriously.) When these disagreements do happen it is usually over something I said or did and for maybe half a day she will ignore me on purpose. Maybe you said or did something during or after the relationship that caused her to be so hurt that she ignores you on purpose. Something tells me that if you saw a picture like that with some random guy and your girlfriend you would be pretty upset. So, after days pass and the dust settles both your girlfriend and you are left to pick up the pieces. Weeks pass after the breakup and your every attempt to reach out to her are thwarted by her silence. Look, if you get into too many fights with your girlfriend or your ex girlfriend then she is going to ignore you. At this moment I have written around 1,277 words and if you have read every single word up until this point then I am going to assume that your ex girlfriend is ignoring you. Your ex girlfriend consciously ignored you and as a result you turned into a fumbling bumbling idiot chasing her around. Seriously, she may have known that you would have reacted this way if she ignored you and she wanted you to chase her around so she ignored you on purpose so that exact thing would happen.
In addition to being a bit of a guru when it comes to helping men get women back I also know a thing or two about helping men get over women.
Well, my best advice when it comes to getting over an ex is to completely cut them out of your life in every way. Of course, the more you send your ex girlfriend messages like this the more she continues to ignore her. It is literally insane of you to think that badgering your ex girlfriend with messages like the ones above are going to suddenly make her want to talk to you when they haven’t before. Instead, you are going to have to change your approach if you ever expect to get her to talk to you again. In fact, I picked up this idea from the unlikeliest of places, the pickup artist community. What I ended up doing is taking one of their core ideals (the push pull theory) and slightly altering it so it can help men get their ex girlfriends back. Pushing = Doing things that push your ex away to make her think that you aren’t interested in her. Imagine that your ex girlfriend has just broken up with you and you do what 90% of men do who want their ex girlfriends back do, you start blowing up her phone with text messages. Heck, the best pickup artists in the world are able to successfully balance this scale and get hundreds of women to go home with them so why the heck can’t we take a page out of their book on what it takes to fascinate a woman? No, when I talk about pushing I am referring to doing things to make your ex girlfriend feel like you are disinterested in her. Put simply, for 21 – 45 days you ignore your ex girlfriend in every way shape or form.
Well, since you didn’t wait the full NC period (21 days) you are going to have to start your no contact period over from day 1. So, we need to change her perception by making you into someone worth talking to and the time you have during NC is ideal for that.
What I would like to do now is give you a brief introduction to each of these qualities and propose the necessary changes that you will probably have to make to increase the chances that your ex girlfriend will want to talk to you down the road. While there is certainly more to getting a woman to talk to you than the way you look and dress it certainly doesn’t hurt to improve your visual appeal to her. However, after the interview has concluded you have determined that there is one clear cut winner. Assuming that you don’t just want to get back on speaking terms with your ex girlfriend but you actually want to get her back the actua act of trying to win her back is similar to a job interview.
Except instead of applying for a paid position you are applying to be in charge of your ex girlfriends love life and the last thing the she wants to do is hire someone who is going to do a bad job. This entire guide revolves around the assumption that you want to get back on speaking terms with your ex girlfriend and the worst way to do that is to freak out over every little thing that your ex girlfriend does or says.
In order to be successful you are going to have to keep your emotions and check and understand that this isn’t going to happen overnight.


A lot of you are probably starting from a point in time where your ex girlfriend is already super mad at you for whatever reason. Down the road they probably will but when we first start out things aren’t going to be a little rocky. A common example includes an ex girlfriend approaching your best friend and badmouthing you.
Oh, another one of my favorites is when she tells her little girlfriends something about you and then somehow you wind up finding out.
These types of things set most men off and they go into full rage mode and the first person in their path is their ex girlfriend.
Just understand that if anything like this happens to you your ex girlfriend is reacting to the emotions she is feeling due to the breakup and if you engage her in any way in a negative manner you are just going to reinforce the fact that she is doing the right thing by ignoring you. I mean, when you look at the actual definition of personality it seems that, that is what I am talking about but the truth is that, that is not what I am talking about. Now, I realize that in this guide we are trying to get back on speaking terms with your ex but the truth of the matter is that once you do get on speaking terms with her you are going to have, to have something interesting to say and that is where your personality comes into play. Well, the truth is that opposites can attract but they don’t attract as much as someone with common interests. For example, something tells me that if you were cloned and were able to talk to an exact replica of yourself the two of you would get along swimmingly. I know that sounds a little weird but if you really think about it, it can work if you are smart about how you do it. One of the most common mistakes I see from men is the fact that when they do talk to their ex girlfriends on the phone or through text messages they always steer the conversations towards things that they want to talk about. For example, if their favorite TV show started a new season they will bring that TV show up in a conversation even if their ex girlfriend knows nothing about it. Instead, a better approach would be to steer the conversation into the direction of topics that only interest her. I want you to take out a piece of paper and write five things down that your girlfriend likes. Now, while my wife is not my ex girlfriend I am going to list five of her top interests so I can illustrate my point. Chances are that if you have written a list of five topics down there is going to be at least one topic that your ex girlfriend is interested in that you have little to no knowledge about.
Looking at the list I made for my wife above I would have to say that, that would be #4 for me. Well, imagine if I decided to take initiative and take a professional dance course and learned to dance? What if I kept it a secret from my wife and all of a sudden I surprised her with not only my new dance moves but my knowledge of dance. Imagine if you were talking to her one day and you just blew her away with your knowledge of dogs (assuming she was a huge dog lover.) I am willing to be she is going to think you have a good personality then?
Basically you need to interest her with not only the way you look but also with the things you talk to her about. With (STEP 1) I went over the main reasons for why an ex girlfriend would ignore you after the breakup. With (STEP 3) we discussed the many different ways that you can completely rebuild yourself into a man that your ex girlfriend would want to talk to.
The most important thing that you have to understand is that the tide theory can only be achieved through text messages.
Now, you being the beach bum that you are you have decided to stay on the beach the entire day.
You were at the beach the entire day and you were a firsthand witness to the tide slowly but surely carrying the water deeper and deeper into the beach and yet you couldn’t really pinpoint exactly how it happened because it was such a gradual process. The whole principle relies on the fact that you can slowly but surely improve rapport and trust with your ex girlfriend until you are on speaking terms again. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back.
But that all changed when she invited me to her friend’s wedding a month into our relationship. I decided not to contact her for a week, and sent her a text message asking why she did what she did. A few days after that, she showed up in her Facebook profile photo with a new guy (a blue collar, rugged manly man in the full bloom of his manliness, no less), and sporting a brand new hairdo. After three weeks I did try to contact her and get her to see me so we could talk in person.
My girlfriend of 8 years has recently broken up with me due to her becoming really unhappy in the relationship. My girflfriend broke up with me about 5 weeks ago although she took a break of 2 weeks before deciding. I was always the one to initiate the contact until just before she started to ignore me, where she restarted a finished conversation and tagged me in a couple of things on social media, and I noticed that she was asking who I was with and was laughing at messages when she wasn’t before.
I was never nasty to her in any messages and have just tried to explain from my side how I see it, but it is obviously different for her in her mind and this is what I have just accepted.
She mentioned the moving in thing to me, and around 6 weeks before the break she was talking about marriage potentially one day. My ex and I were in love and have been together for a year and i’m also her first love. I have used the NC and during this time she contacted me but I ignored it untill after the 31 days I have set out, then I replied her and on that same day we talked shortly on the phone, she said she wrote to know how am doing cos its been a long time and she hoped I was doing great. I want to start out by saying, its my fault and i should have never took her love for granted. This blog has any and everything to do with things that remind me of my girlfriend and how great our relationship is.. If you follow the advice that I have laid out in these four steps you will maximize your chances of getting back on speaking terms with her.
No, what you are going to do is read this section and understand what you did to make your ex girlfriend want to ignore you and you are going to take notes so history doesn’t repeat itself again.


Basically any time I need a good example of a guy who is pretty much the scum of the earth I go to Bob. Of course, the Bob experiment will blow up in her face but she doesn’t know that yet. Well, around day 14 your ex girlfriend texts you that she misses you and you break the no contact rule to respond to her.
In fact, the only way that you could even get back on speaking terms with her is if you build up enough rapport with her for her to trust you enough to let you back in her life.
We hit it off, had a lot in common, admired the same people, hated the same people, and had wonderful chemistry.
I wondered who killed my girlfriend and replaced her, because this wasn’t the sort of knuckleheaded language she used at all during our time together. This was unusual because in her entire Facebook image history, she was only ever blonde and curly, but now for the first time, she’s brunette and straight-haired. She had a penchant for Gone With the Wind, so I got her the 2-CD soundtrack, which was a rare and out-of-print item. Texting her is futile, and calling her would probably only infuriate her, so I doubt she’d answer anyway.
She did send me a text about two weeks after that saying she was going on vacation for a few weeks and would see me if I wanted, to which I didn’t respond.
After much thinking I realized we were approaching the situation from two completely different angles and that we would never agree on this, and it is best to draw a line in the sand on this chapter. I am going for the NC rule now, and will try and start a fresh when she contacts me, and for now will focus on improving myself. She must have really felt something for me and I am really angry with my self that I ruined it and just didn’t talk to her honestly beforehand. We were together for about a year and in that year i would get upset with her over the stupidest things . It may be possible that your ex girlfriend has determined that the best way that she can get over you is if she completely ignores you in every way? In fact, she declared that she was falling in love with me and said she could see a future with me. It was also a baffling reason to dump me, because she insisted on having The Big Bang Theory playing while we had sex – a show full of bizarre feminine guys who she claimed to find attractive.
She’d know this would only come from me because I have a way with being attentive and giving some very unusual gifts. We had a very intense 13 months together where we spent a lot of time together and went travelling for 3 months with no hiccups. She broke up with me 2 months ago because we had a huge argument over text and it sucked because she said she’s tired having me make her feel shitty. Would saying an emotional “I just miss you” message when she asks what it is a good idea ? She often complained that her previous boyfriends were all blue collar tradie types who couldn’t hold a conversation.
Before her leaving for America we had been talking about moving in and all sorts of plans for the future, and I actually mean like right before she left. She did block me on instagram and whatsapp, but only after me asking her to meet and talk, I got a bit annoyed when she said no as she had promised it when in Italy.
I’m so miserable without her and now i see her on Snapchat just partying and drinking all the time and it kills me because she shows off her body with very revealing clothes. Then after some days I asked her what her plans for the coming weekends are like so we can meet up and since then she has not replied. She claimed to find that it was refreshing that we were both university educated and had a similar understanding of the world.
And the fact that I suffer from tinnitus meant that I needed to wear earplugs during the deafeningly loud reception – little did I realise that this really rubbed her the wrong way. We never had much contact while she was away and she has came home saying that she cant do the relationship anymore and that her being away and us not having much contact gave her time to think and she realised how unhappy she actually was. It hurts me because she was so innocent when i first met her and now i feel like her sorority brainwashed her and took her from me.
She didn’t block me, so I can still see whenever she changes her profile image or cover image.
And she seemed to still have feelings for me but seems to be trying to resist them out of fear of me holding her back from doing the things she wants to do.
She is now wanting space and won’t listen to anything I have to say about all the good times we had. Although she was distant she did open up to me a little bit before she started to ignore me, that was when I asked to see her. I’m trying to give her the space she requested but its really difficult as I have never really had to do anything as an adult without her.
Since then I asked if we could exchange things and she has said no until she moves place (currently staying with friends). Even our mutual friends have talked to her and she said she’s done with the arguing and getting hurt by what i say to her. I just feel like theres more to it and don’t know which approach I should take to try and win her back. The next day i go to work i call her on break she tells me she is still messed up from the fight and end up leaving. She even dyed her hair blond after i’ve always tried to convince her to do it for me and she does it now trying to look more like her sisters. I don’t want her to cut me off completely and i feel like she is so she can get over being in love with me.



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