An unidentified man became quite jealous of his girlfriend’s coworker sending her a text message. The jealous boyfriend obviously wasn’t convinced by this admonition, so his texting foe decided he needed to be as real as possible. One of the most common reasons that girls break up with their boyfriends is that these guys become more and more jealous, controlling and possessive. The second reason that guys become jealous and controlling is because they are really afraid to lose that special girl, and they feel that if they don’t keep an eye on her, she is going to slip away or some other guy is going to take her away from them. In an effort to thwart any sort of behavior that may lead to cheating, the boyfriend decided to write the following text message — and what followed is quite intriguing. After all of his accusing, jealous boyfriend has the audacity to cry like a baby about his girlfriend’s coworker getting up in his face? I believe that this is a combination of two reasons: first, if they really like the woman they are with, they want everything in that relationship to be perfect, which means that expect their girlfriend to be perfect as well – perfect in a way that they imagine “perfection” to be, so they try to adjust who she is, how she acts, and how she lives her life to their own standard of perfection.


Thus, these guys try to keep their partner away from any “threat.” At first, a girl might be flattered by such attention, thinking that the guy really cares about her.
Some guys don’t let their girlfriends go out on their own with friends, being afraid that some other guy will seduce her.
By way of analogy, imagine if you moved from a budget housing to  this beautiful luxury home. It’s only a matter of time, however, until the girl realizes that the reason the guy is so territorial about her is not because of who she is but because of his own insecurity about her and himself. I have to say that in many cases this is the only option, as many guys are unable to understand or change their jealous ways. Other guys tell their girlfriend what to wear, how to keep their hair, who to hang out with and otherwise trying to control their life. You would probably want to make sure that the kitchen, the furniture, the shower and just about everything in that house was perfect.


If you really love the guy however and you are committed to the relationship, it’s worth at least trying to fix the problem before you leave him. A woman who is in a relationship with a jealous and controlling guy will sooner or later will feel both unhappy and even suffocated and will also lose attraction to her guy, as jealousy is one of the most prominent signs of lack of confidence. The first and the necessary step that every jealous guy should take is to realize and acknowledge that he has a problem – that his behavior is irrational and detrimental to the relationship. Have him read this article on overcoming and abandoning jealousy, which will provide very simple yet very practical steps on handling this problem. For many people this article is an eye-opener and is a start to a completely new outlook on their partner and on their relationship.



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