Continue to feel sorry for yourself and feel like you will never be able to find another girl like her. Get yourself a new, beautiful girlfriend who makes you feel even more love and attraction that your ex-girlfriend ever did. When a guy says to me, “I can’t get over my ex-girlfriend,” I ask him whether he wants to get over her, and if he does, what he has actually done about it. A lot of guys get stuck in and focus a lot of their energy into feeling sorry for themselves, complaining to friends that love hurts and reminding themselves of the pain rather than actively looking for ways to move on from the experience. In some cases, when a guy says, “I can’t get over my ex-girlfriend,” he’s actually saying, “I don’t want to get over my ex-girlfriend because I don’t want to move on and risk being hurt again. If you have been left devastated by your ex’s decision to end the relationship, it’s only natural that you might want to crawl off into a corner and hide away feeling sorry for yourself. However, the longer you stay there, the longer you will hold on to the hurt and the more it will ruin your confidence and begin to eat away at your natural sex appeal to other women.
A broken heart takes time to heal, but the harsh reality is that the more you focus on how bad you’re feeling and how difficult it is for you to get over her, the worse you’re going to feel and the longer you’re going to feel that way. For most guys, the only way to get over an ex-girlfriend who dumped them is to get out there and start having sex with other women.
Of course, if your confidence has taken a beating from the break up, the idea of approaching women and picking them up to have sex may seem like an impossible dream, right? As you will discover from the video above, the only thing that’s holding you back from approaching and picking up new women is you. What you need to do is become willing to learn from the experience of being dumped and become a better man as a result. After being dumped by his girlfriend, Matt went off into a corner to lick his wounds by staying at home and playing video games, jerking off to porn and drinking beer while he watched sports and movies all weekend long.
Almost six months later, he was still hiding away from the world at his home on the weekends and had begun to feel really depressed. The longer he hid away from the world, the more he continued to idealize his ex in his mind by only focusing on the positives about her.
What he didn’t realize back then was that every woman and every relationship is different.
He didn’t know that it was not only possible, but very easy, to have an intense, loving connection with another woman if he was just willing to open his heart to it.
So, the only women that seemed interested in him were unattractive women that didn’t make him feel the same way as his ex did. Luckily for Matt, after almost a year of wallowing in self-pity, he found The Modern Man after searching around online for ways to approach and pick up women. By learning from our programs and a phone coaching session with me, Matt rebuilt his confidence and now enjoys the kind of success with women that most guys think is impossible. When I talked to Matt, he said that a big part of his reluctance to get over his ex-girlfriend was his lack of confidence in himself as a man and the belief that a beautiful would be interested in him because of it.
Insecurity in a man is a huge turn off for women, so his lack of confidence was always going to be a barrier to attracting new women into his life.
I hear back from Matt again 3 weeks after we talked and he’d already gotten laid with two different women and was dating a hot girl who was sure to be his next girlfriend. One of the most important things that I taught Matt and that he learnt by going through some of our programs here at The Modern Man, was the ability to trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman when he met her. As you will discover from the video, it is possible to make a woman feel attracted to you in ways other than just looks, money or social status. Most women are much more flexible about what they find attractive in a guy than most men realize, which is a huge opportunity for you if you want to get over your ex-girlfriend or re-attract her back into a relationship with you. My name is Dan Bacon I am 100% committed to helping men succeed with women and relationships.
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Just days after eye witnesses saw Twilight stars Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart making out in public in LA, he is saying he is single! Recently, a guy contacted me and asked, “Dan, I’m good looking, but can’t get a girlfriend.
I would love to personally reply to everyone, but it’s physically impossible to be an email buddy to 100s of new guys every week and still have time to make posts and videos for the site and live my life. There are some women who will only ever accept an extremely good looking guy for a boyfriend, lover or husband. The majority of women have what I call an Open Type, which means that they are open to being with many different types of guys (in terms of looks, race, financial status, height, weight, etc) as long as the guy can make her feel attracted and drawn to him in other ways.
In the peacock bird species, the male bird shows off his colorful plumage and hopes to be selected by the female bird for his appearance.
In the human species, it is the woman who gets dressed up, wears make up and tries to look as physically appealing as possible to be selected by the best males for her appearance. Many modern men have become confused with all the advertising messages they see on TV, which show men being adored and lusted after for being good looking, having six-pack abs or wearing the latest fashions.
They have been led to believe that if they just look good enough, women will approach them like female actors do in Hollywood movies and TV shows. Women LOVE it when they meet a guy who doesn’t make the Pretty Peacock mistake of trying to use his looks to attract her and instead uses his personality, behavior and communication skills to turn her on in many different ways at once. If you go through life trying to get women to select you based on looks, you will be dancing the wrong mating dance. It is a fact of nature that human women can (and will) select a man based on his personality, behavior and communication style.
He might be overweight, have a gap between his teeth, be short, bald or from a race that you think isn’t attractive, but she will find him attractive. This fact of attraction is a difficult thing for most men to accept, but it’s the true reality of the human mating dance. You either believe what you see in the media and what women SAY or you watch what people actually do. Most guys don’t realize how easy it is to attract a beautiful woman because most guys approach and hit on her in the wrong way. Imagine for a moment that you’re at a social event with a hundred other guys and one beautiful woman walks in. How many of those guys would want to hit on her, have sex with her and have her as their girlfriend?
Yet, approximately 95 out of 100 of them wouldn’t really care whether or not she has a nice personality, is intelligent or has good long term potential as a girlfriend or wife. The beautiful woman in the room knows that she can have any one of those hundred guys if she really wants to…and that’s just so boring for her.
If a woman is beautiful or at least decent looking, all she has to do is dress a little sexy, put on some makeup and do her hair and she can have pretty much any guy she wants.
It’s not easy for a woman to find a guy who can make her feel the way she really wants to feel when with a guy.
Yet, most women don’t want to behave like a peacock bird who selects a male for his looks.
Is it possible that his personality traits, behavior and way of communicating with her made her feel attracted enough to start a relationship with him and then made her want to start a family with him?
Is it possible that a beautiful woman doesn’t have to be with a guy who looks like a male model or has millions or billions of dollars to be truly attracted to him and happy in love with him? Are looks and money the main things that a woman needs from a guy, or could most women be a lot less shallow about looks that you might imagine?
We men want to find a beautiful looking woman because that is what is important in terms of feeling proud of her, having beautiful children and feeling a continued attraction to her physical appearance, long enough to procreate. If she meets an average or below-average looking guy who can attract her in more important ways and make her feel the way that she truly wants to feel when with a guy, then she will be a winner in life for being with him. Yes, she could hold out for a male model billionaire, but that isn’t the ONLY type of guy she can feel attracted to. A woman’s attraction for a man is mostly based on how his personality, behavior and communication style makes her feel.
Instead of a woman wasting her whole life trying to find a guy who looks like a perfect male model and has a billion dollars, she will happily accept a guy who looks okay and has the potential to do well in life. If you are like many modern men, you have been confused by what you’ve seen in magazine advertisements, on TV shows and in movies. You may have even heard women saying that they only like handsome men or that they will only go out with a very good-looking guy. Women DO say that sort of thing, but it doesn’t mean that they cannot feel intensely attracted to average or below-average looking men for other reasons.
You will go away from my site today and you will see evidence of what I am talking about EVERYWHERE.
You will overhear a beautiful woman talking about how much she loves a guy and he will NOT be good looking like a model. You will see beautiful women walking along with a boyfriend or husband and the guy will not be a good-looking man. You may think that women are stupid, brainless or mad for not seeing that you’re a good looking guy and then rushing to be with you. Almost everyone you meet won’t understand attraction and will believe what they get told in the media or what people SAY rather than what people do.

When you understand how to attract women, you see that most guys just don’t get it and are walking through life feeling insecure about their looks and hoping to be chosen by women like a Pretty Peacock. You will then notice that a very small percentage of guys don’t play the Pretty Peacock game and effortlessly attract women with their personality, behavior and communication style.
Attraction is the feeling that a person gets in response to features and qualities of another person.
The sooner you accept it, the sooner you can stop thinking that the human mating dance is the same as the mating dance of the peacock bird. You can stop feeling so insecure about your looks or attached to the meaning of your looks and start focusing on attracting women with things that are within your control (i.e. It gets drummed into their head that they are good looking and they grow up expecting to have women flock to them. Some good looking guys grow up and are confident, masculine and know how to talk to women in a way that turns them on. Yet, not all good-looking guys are truly confident or masculine (in their thinking, behavior and actions) and most don’t even know how to turn a woman on during a conversation. You will have been able to attract, pick up and have sex and relationships with women whom you are NOT attracted to, but you can’t seem to attract and keep the quality women that you are really attracted to.
You may have been able to attract some beautiful women, but they quickly or eventually lost interest in you and dumped you…and you still don’t know why. A good looking guy can definitely attract a woman with his looks initially, but that doesn’t mean the woman will continue to feel attracted to him once they begin talking. His looks will suddenly begin to seem unappealing to her and she will find it difficult to feel any attraction for him at all. In my training programs (ebook, audio and video formats) here at The Modern Man, I teach guys how to attract women in more than 100 different ways.
Yet, the reason why you will see beautiful women with ugly, overweight, short or bald men is that women CAN be attracted in other ways.
When a guy has real confidence, it means he believes in himself and in his abilities at all times. If you can only manage to feel confident around unattractive women, but you then lose confidence in yourself around attractive women, it means that you are insecure.
Not all beautiful women will accept an ugly or average looking guy who is confident, but many will because most women have what I call an Open Type, meaning that they are open to being with many different types of guys as long as the guy can make her feel a sufficient amount of attraction for other reasons. She knows that when they begin a relationship, the initial attraction to looks will become less important. To be certain about being able to pick a woman up, you need to know how to attract her in many different ways at once. The more ways that you can make women feel attracted to you, the more attractive you will be to women. Many guys make the mistake of thinking that being masculine is only about being tall, having a buff body or a full head of thick hair.
A man who has the mental and emotional masculinity to remain strong under pressure is the sort of man that she can rely on now and in the future. Yet, a guy who looks good, but is fairly weak emotionally means that she will have to carry him through life and protect him (emotionally) during challenging times.
To survive, thrive and prosper in this world, it’s important to be able to get along with others and communicate in a way that makes people respect you and like you.
A woman might think that you look good, but if she talks to you and you don’t feel good, it will quickly begin to turn her off.
One of my female friends once told me that she was introduced to a really good looking guy through friends and everyone was so excited for them to meet because she was beautiful and he was a 6ft 3inch tall handsome guy with a perfect gym body.
That same girl is now married to a scruffy looking guy that she met in a bar and she has moved from the city out to a farmhouse that they recently got a mortgage on together. She was always a city girl who loved shopping and partying, but she has been completely transformed by the love that she now shares with her husband. I remember when they first got together and she posted up some photos on Facebook of them as a new couple. Some good looking guys will see them together and think that she is making a mistake by being with him or she is selling out, but she isn’t. When a woman feels attracted to a guy for many reasons OTHER than looks, she will actually come to really like his looks…even if he doesn’t look like a good looking guy. Yes, looks can initially attract women, but the majority of women do not select men purely based on looks because a man’s looks is not the most important male trait for her or for the human race. She needs a man who can survive, thrive and prosper while keeping her safe and making her laugh and enjoy the love that they share. Guys who are good looking and who also know how to attract women in other ways will find it extremely easy to have sex with beautiful women, get a beautiful girlfriend or wife.
However, guys aren’t good looking, but who know how to attract women in other ways can have just as easy access to beautiful women. The more skilled an average or below-average guy is at attracting women with his personality, behavior and communication style (e.g.
Imagine what would happen in your life if you knew exactly how to instantly attract women and make them feel an intense emotional connection with you and unstoppable desire for who you are as a guy.
Imagine talking to a group of women and effortlessly making them fight over which one will “win” you over…and then picking the woman you feel most attracted to. Imagine having a beautiful girlfriend who goes out of her way to please you and worries about you losing interest in HER rather than the other way around. Could it be possible that a guy can attract women in ways other than looks and money, or do men need to be Pretty Peacocks and stand around looking as pretty as they can in the hope of being selected by women? It has taken me YEARS to work out the more than 100 different ways to attract women, but you can learn it in a matter of HOURS.
You can learn this stuff now before other guys find out about my techniques and start using them to attract the women you want. If you want to stop saying to yourself, “I’m good looking, but can’t get a girlfriend,” then let me help you right now. I’ve already helped 1000s of guys become successful with women with my simple to use techniques and I can help you too. I will email you 3-4 times a week with new tips, techniques and examples of how to attract women for sex and relationships.
I didn't know what to say or do to attract women, so I was single and alone for a long time. When I created the controversial attraction techniques that I now teach here at The Modern Man, beautiful women began flooding into my life and I've enjoyed my choice of women ever since. I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too.
For example, you may tell yourself that you are too short, fat, socially anxious, nice, or bald. His friends kept telling him that he needed to “get back in the saddle” and they really tried to encourage him to go out with them and to start socializing again. As he saw it, there was no point in going out to meet other women as no woman could ever match up to his ex. Over time, he convinced himself that she was the only one for him and that he’d never find love like that again. By hiding himself away, Matt was preventing himself from discovering that love is abundant, everywhere and comes in all different flavors and forms. Of course, it was difficult for Matt to see that as a possibility because his confidence had taken a beating, which then turned women off. The hot girls that he would have easily fell in love with simply weren’t interested in him because he lacked the all-important confidence and fearlessness about love that women look for in a guy. About 6 months later, Matt sent me another e-mail and informed me that he’d gotten promoted at work, had a bunch of new friends and he and the hot girl were in a relationship. Develop the skill of being able to attract hot women so you can find a great replacement for your ex, or go through my proven process for getting an ex back? Robert insists that even though people think he has girls running after him because of his star status, its actually not like that at all! Such women will reject every guy who doesn’t appear to be good looking according to her standards. Most women are seeking more important, useful traits in a man such as confidence, the ability to make her laugh, potential to do well in life, the ability to make her feel girly in response to his masculinity, the ability to be respected by other men and get along with people in general. Most women know that their attraction to a guy’s looks will fade and what is most important is his ability to make her feel attracted in other ways for life.
It also allows the woman to select a man for how his personality, behavior and communication style makes her feel. If you are able to attract a woman with those things, most women (not all) will forget the fact that you don’t look like a perfectly sculpted male model. A woman might go around saying that she wants a handsome footballer or a rich businessman, but she will happily have sex with or even marry a guy who isn’t either of those things, as long as he can attract her in several other ways. You either accept it or you go through life feeling insecure because your Pretty Peacock dance still isn’t working.
They are going to feel sexually attracted to her and want to be with her based on her LOOKS. She knows that men are attracted to her because of her looks, so for her, getting a guy is not a challenge. A guy who doesn’t want her just based on her looks and makes her impress him first, before he becomes fully interested. Most guys react to their feelings of attraction and show 100% interest in her immediately or pretend not to be interested, but she can tell that they are.

If she is beautiful, most guys will instantly like her and they will hope to be chosen by her for looking good (e.g.
She wants a guy to have more important traits that human men need to survive, thrive and prosper in this world.
His pretty face or perfectly sculpted gym body isn’t necessarily going to pay the bills when they are trying to pay off a mortgage and raise a family, but his determination, emotional strength and social intelligence will. She wants a man who can make her feel attracted in longer lasting ways, rather than just the fleeting feelings of initial physical attraction that she may feel for a good looking guy. How could she let herself get pregnant to him!?” and they will assume that the guy must be rich or have a huge dick.
Do guys have to have male model looks to have a beautiful girlfriend or wife, or can they attract women with their personality, behavior and communication style? Yes, she can feel attracted to looks, but instinctively, she knows that looks are not the most valuable and useful trait that a guy can have. Her life is going to be GREAT because she is attracted to her man and he makes her feel the way she really wants to feel with a guy. The good-looking guy is always surrounded by beautiful women and it seems like that is how it is supposed to be; beautiful people with beautiful people. In terms of a woman’s attraction for a man, she can feel attracted to a man for 100s of different reasons, not just looks or money. Maybe their mothers, sisters, relatives and friends tell them how good they are going to be with the ladies when they grow up. All those compliments you got as a child and young man about being handsome and good looking suddenly came into question. Most human women will assess a guy’s personality before they make a decision about whether they will have sex with him or date him.
Most men are not rich and most men only have an average-sized penis, yet they still manage to get a girlfriend or wife or have sex with many beautiful women. A beautiful woman wants a guy who believes in himself no matter what; even if she tests him during a conversation and tries to make him feel insecure. Confidence is extremely attractive to women, but you should also be backing that up by attracting her in other ways as well.
Other guys looking on won’t understand why women feel so attracted to you, but you will.
Yet, the type of masculinity that women are attracted to the most is a man’s inner masculinity. She doesn’t care about what she used to think because this guy (now a friend of mine) makes her feel the way she really wants to feel. People were jokingly (but seriously) saying that he was batting out of his league and that he was so lucky.
He’s a good guy alpha male, which is the type of alpha male that people respect and admire and that women lust after and then fall madly in love with.
Getting women to compete over you makes the process of picking up 10x easier, but most guys simply don’t know how to do it.
However, if you choose to remain in the dark about attraction, it will continue to feel like one of the most difficult, frustrating, depressing things that you ever have to deal with in your life. All of these reasons may actually be a fact of life for you (right now), but they don’t have to hold you back from getting a girlfriend for life. No girl that he met since getting dumped made him feel anything close to what his ex-girlfriend made him feel. I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too. Robert says especially the girls in LA are not impressed by him, because they are all actresses themselves.
Women are looking for more useful traits in a man than just a pretty face or perfectly sculpted gym body. People can say whatever they want, but the reality is that women can (and do) feel attracted to men for many different reasons other than looks and money.
He might even be overweight or from a race that you think is not as attractive as your race. He’s confident, real and very masculine in the way that he thinks, behaves and takes action in life.
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Robert also reveals that he doesn't understand his new sex symbol status anyway, as he thinks he looks girly and weird. After experiencing the same thing her entire life where guys are hoping to get a chance with her simply based on her looks, she develops a need for a guy who makes her feel lucky to have been chosen by him.
There is no doubt that the socially accepted norm is that women are shorter than their men.Many women fear what others will think when they are taller than a man.
Because those women are superficial.Worse, short men are often judged harshly on their height alone and not viewed to be asA manly or capable as their taller peers. So what can you do…besides getting surgery to extend your limbs to increase your height? And, the way you feel about yourself rubs off on other people.The only way to build up your self-worth is to talk to yourself differently. It is also true that those are not the right women for you anywase!I can’t tell you how many fat guys I know that have girlfriends.
Seriously, one of my friends who was sought after by SO MANY men is now married to a HUGEA guy. If you hate your weight, and you feel as though it stands in the way ofA getting the girl you want, then you have to lose weight. The following video backs up that theory.The women in the video thought they were coming to meet a normal sized guy, but instead they end up meeting a fat guy. You can tell he has confidence and some game – so watch how the women react to that.Point? If youA have the confidence, then you have a good shot of picking up women no matter what you look like.3. Can’t Get A Girlfriend Because I Have Social AnxietyWorried about how other people view you? If you are still reading this page, then I would have to say yes.Always remember your desire to find a girlfriendA as you go out and seek help to overcome your social anxiety. In fact, there are plenty of bald menA that are sex symbols.This is a self-esteem issue, not a bald issue.
So, stop worrying about your head of hair (or lack of it!)Do you believe you can’t get a girlfriend for another reason than listed here? Plus get an eBook titled ' 69 Tips To Help You Get Laid: A Guide For Men In A Relationship Who Want More Sex' as your first free gift. It gets me mad that I see all these relationships and I can’t help but wonder is it me? I can be as sweet as molasses and everything I mentioned above but I can’t get a single date. Geez, I even stayed under the same house with a single girl while I was staying with a buddy of mine from the Army and still couldn’t get a date (it was my buddies sister). Truly that did kind of hurt me a little because I bet if it was anyone else they could’ve been on a date and put in her butt the same day lol. She turned out to be a snob anyways who has way to high of expectations and I hate talking bad about a woman but in all honesty, she was a bitch ever since I found out she was like that, she was real pretty too. I just keep a straight face and I’ll smile here and there if I see or think of something funny.
It really hurt my confidence so bad, but I always just told myself to look at the relationships and see how immature they acted and how irresponsible they were with each others trust.
Thenjoy I finally got a girlfriend because she struck me a certain way that I felt different about so asked her out and we started dating and I thought 18 or 19 years of my life waiting for this girl was worth it, but was too good to be true. That cut my confidence even more when she left me while I was in Afghanistan and she was in college. All those qualities of me that I listed is just ME nothing I felt like I needed to tack on or change, it’s just how I am. Not excessive jealous), hygiene is always priority, I dress nice, I USUALLY GIVE GIRLS COMPLIMENTS FOR GOODNESS SAKES! Like today I told a pretty waitress I liked her hair, that it was nice (and I always mean my compliments). THERE GOES ANOTHER GUY WHO TRIES IT AND IT WORKS JUST FREAKING FINE!I have and still am reaching the point of being seriously pissed off that I can’t find some person I can at least just enjoy some time with and have fun. I guarantee you I don’t have an anger problem because it takes A LOT to get me to that point. I’m tired of girls saying that like a little bad boy, but that bad chops down trees and other manly stuff and used to kill people for a living in the Army. I have a dark side that only comes out when I see fit.I dont hang around, look for, or cause trouble. In other words, the facts (and often they are just limiting beliefs that you are holding) that are rolling around in your head may be giving you a bleak picture, but faith can move mountains and create the picture you want. ReplyLeave a Comment Cancel reply you MUST enable javascript to be able to comment You can add a link to follow you on twitter if you put your username in this box.Only needs to be added once (unless you change your username).

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