Ever since the creation of this site there has been one strategy that it has been associated with it above all others.
You know, that pesky little rule that forces you to ignore your ex boyfriend on purpose for a certain amount of time with the hope that he will miss you and you can be that much further along with your plans to win him back.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
I must admit that while I get a lot of association with the no contact rule I am not the one who initially came up with the idea but if I ever do meet the person who came up with it I would shake their hand. Because I have seen the power of the no contact rule (if it is implemented correctly) firsthand and it is POWERFUL! And these are just a small handful of the women who have gotten back in touch with me after they got their exes back (using NC.) I literally have HUNDREDS of stories just like this saved to my iMac.
Anyways, I don’t think there is any doubt about the fact that the no contact rule does work when it comes to getting your ex boyfriend back.
When it comes to getting your ex boyfriend back you always need to have a contingency plan. This page is going to be very long because I am going to be tackling things in an in-depth manner (like always) but at the same time I am going to make sure that this page is going to be very easy to digest because what we are talking about here is very advanced stuff.
That means that if your ex boyfriend were to call you, text you, Facebook message you or contact you in any other way, shape or form you would flat out ignore him.
Now that you have a brief idea of what the no contact rule is lets move on to talking about how we measure a failed no contact period.
Now, maybe old age is starting to catch up to me (which at 25 would be kind of pathetic) but I can’t think of anything outside of those two reasons.
Luckily, the two reasons I gave above are all we need to really have an in-depth discussion. Pretty much the whole reason women get excited about the no contact rule is the fact that it has the power to potentially make their ex boyfriends miss them so much that they will want to come back to them on the spot once the period of time is up. While it almost never works out that way (NEWFLASH you have to do more than just no contact to win your ex back) it can be very saddening when you don’t even receive a response from your ex after no contact.
Most women are under the impression that if their ex boyfriends do not message them during the no contact rule it means that NC is not working. Because, in order for you to even have a chance to win your ex boyfriend back you have to communicate with him.
That is the situation you are in if your ex boyfriend doesn’t contact you after the no contact rule is complete. I recently went through the comments here on Ex Boyfriend Recovery and compiled a list of the first 20 women I could find who implemented the no contact rule on their exes. That means that 17 out of 20 women had successful no contact periods while the other 3 women didn’t. This means that there is an 85% chance that you will have a successful no contact rule in which your ex boyfriend gets back in touch with you. I gave you ironclad instructions to NOT contact your ex under any circumstances (except the ones here) and you disobeyed my orders.
A woman breaking no contact early because she either misses her ex or he calls her during the no contact rule is without a doubt the most common mistake I see on Ex Boyfriend Recovery.
Of course, after further investigation I find out that she really didn’t do the no contact rule right as she broke it 3 days in after he messaged her on Facebook and she would sporadically break the no contact rule throughout the 30 days.
You see, this woman was under the impression that the no contact rule meant that she could respond to him only if he contacted her first.
Notice how the NC period starts on the left of the line and then as time goes by it ends on the right of the line.
Because, instead of giving your ex boyfriend time to reminisce and miss you, you are signifying to him with your actions (of interrupting NC) that you are still into him and as a result he isn’t going to respond the way you want him to after the no contact rule.
The point I am trying to get at here is you have to be disciplined when it comes to the no contact rule. Of course, I created this page for women who are in a worst case scenario situation in which the no contact rule doesn’t work. So, lets move on to the exciting part of this article, figuring out what to do if things aren’t going your way after the no contact rule. Lets assume that you are in a worst case scenario where your no contact rule has just failed. Then at day 31 (the day after day 30) you send a text message to your ex boyfriend and he doesn’t respond.
Luckily for you I have come up with 5 strategies on how to approach a failed no contact rule.
If you go back and read my original thoughts that I had on the no contact rule years ago here what do I recommend that you do if you mess it up? Mess It Up= breaking it prematurely by messaging your ex boyfriend in any way shape or form outside of the allowed instances.
It means that if you determined that you were going to use a 30 day no contact rule and on day 12 you broke that no contact rule then you have to restart the 30 days from that point on. We are assuming a worst case scenario so that means that no only did you break the no contact rule (and not start over from square one) but you also reached out to your ex boyfriend AFTER no contact was over and he ignored you.
Rather than taking a step back and re-evaluating the situation they continue to text their ex or call him. This comes off as desperate and will have the opposite effect of what we are trying to accomplish here.
So, what I have been recommending to women lately (with great success) is a staggered approach to the no contact rule. Lets say that you have contacted your ex boyfriend after your failed no contact rule and he has ignored you. Well, rather than messaging him again the next day I would say jump back into no contact for a week and try again.
If you fail at getting his attention again after a week then go back into no contact for 2 weeks.
Well, lets imagine that you have completed the no contact rule and not gotten a response from your ex. Simple, you are going to continued the staggered approach and go back into the no contact rule for three weeks. Initially I talk about how I recommend a 30 day no contact rule for women who are trying to get their ex boyfriends back.


Now, I am not some sort of math wiz but by my count if you reach weeks using this approach 6 weeks will have already passed. In that case (and only in that case) it may be time to admit defeat and focus your energies in recovering from the relationship. Well, breaking the sacred bond of no contact like this pretty much defeats the entire purpose. The Purpose- To use silence to make your ex boyfriend realize what he is missing out on and to kick start his feelings for you. So, rather than trying a staggered approach to the no contact rule (which is heavily focused on trying to get your ex boyfriend to respond to you) the prolonged approach is geared towards making him miss you. While it is true that there are no contact rules that can be extended for up to 90 days I am not a fan of those type of prolonged periods. I have found that there is a correlation between moving on and a super prolonged period of no contact. 45 days is a perfect prolonged period because it gives your ex boyfriend time to miss you and at the same time not enough time has gone by for him to lose feelings in you yet.
Know that I have a very specific way that I like to teach women to reach out to their ex boyfriends after no contact. Look, I understand the temptation of not sending a good first contact text message after ignoring your ex boyfriend. However, you have to keep in mind that if you used the no contact rule on your ex boyfriend you just ignored him (on purpose) for hopefully 30 days. So, what I would like to do now is teach you my method for getting in touch with an ex boyfriend after the no contact rule. This is a small little screenshot of one tiny aspect of a redesign that Ex Boyfriend Recovery is going through.
This is the kind of effect your first contact text message needs to have on your ex boyfriend.
He will see it and be so intrigued by it that he will have to respond to your text message just to find out what you are going on about. If we dated in the past and you texted this to me after ignoring me for 30 days I would respond to it. I am intrigued by the fact that you ignored me for that long and are reaching out to me for the first time. I can’t tell you how many times I have stumbled across a situation just like the one described above through this site. Men have this funny tendency to come back into the picture after women have moved on already.
Well, I don’t have exact statistics on this or anything but what I do have is a theory. Well, instead of tinkering with the no contact rule what if you took the exact opposite approach and moved on without moving on.
Move on without moving on is an idea I came up with that basically leverages my theory above. Now, before I move on to our final strategy I will admit that this particular strategy is a bit riskier than the others.
My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of.
What if I sent a message to a friend and he saw the message I sent to my friend and it was about him? I am in LDR with my bf, it’s been 2 years we were together and now 4 months in LDR, since we moved to different places our relationship is on again, off again.
I love him so much, I want him to come and meet me but he refuses due to some work related issues and this is the root of our fights. He reached out to me that day wanting to return me my belongings (I brought it up couple of times before) So what if I actually do need to speak to him to get our stuff back from each other?
We did have small talk that day when I called him about picking my stuff up and he ended the call after the small talk.
I had an online relationship with a guy that lasted for one month and a half however he thought am cheating on him and talking to other guys but i was not!!!!
If you add an additional 4 from the four weeks you have ahead of you that means that 10 weeks will have gone by and you will have given your ex boyfriend plenty of opportunities to respond to your attempts to reach out. That means that in a perfect world you will be ignoring your ex boyfriend for 30 days straight. This needy persona is the exact opposite of what drew your ex boyfriend to you in the first place. I have done NC for a month previously and several small NCs whenever there was problem in relationship.
He seems to have moved on and has no regrets whatsoever or isn’t even upset that our relationship has ended, and only insists he feels guilty. Obviously I didn’t respond as I am truly honoring my 30 day NC period but now it has been two more days and he said nothing more after that. It doesn’t require a lot of thought and in the past your ex boyfriend responded to everything you sent him.
Of course, after you have gotten over the breakup and moved on you are no longer displaying that needy persona.
The thing is when I stop contacting, he knows that I am following NC rule and he does cross NC, it becomes a game for him. If I don’t bring up the topic of meeting, he is fine and talks everyday otherwise he is pissed and ignores me.
You can’t force him to change his mind but you can control yourself to see what the reality is.
He is so pissed or so into the game or whatever that he doesn’t talk properly whenever I break NC and it goes on like this for several days. He knows exactly what I am going to do and how long will I take to come back.He has all figured it out.
He keeps changing his whatsapp picture and staying online till late times so, is there another girl! THESE VERY SAME ENFORCEMENT AGENCIES, WHO HAVE SWORN TO PROTECT AND SERVE, OUR COUNTRY, AND CITIZENS ,ARE BUT SOME, OF THE CORRUPT,GREEDY TRAITORS .ENGAGED IN THE TYRANNY AND TORTURE.


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