Does the “fantasy scenario” I just described sound like your reality right now?Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back? So, what I want to do for you now is teach you a method in which you can turn your current reality into the fantasy situation that I described above. Of course, before I can really dive into dissecting this game plan there are a few important things that I need to discuss with you.
This entire page is premised around the idea of getting a woman (your ex girlfriend) to chase after you. He typically courts her by buying her flowers, saying nice things and making big romantic gestures. So, the point of this article is to flip the gender roles and get your ex girlfriend to start chasing you instead of the other way around. It basically describes an overly needy and desperate ex boyfriend who is trying to get his girlfriend back. It’s like no matter how many times you try to swat these things away they never leave. So, rather than trying to salvage the situation by reasoning with her you should take the opposite approach and let time salvage it. Look, if you were a GNAT to your ex then she is going to form certain assumptions about you.
But for those of you who don’t know what it is I would like to give you a quick crash course. The No Contact Rule- A period of time between 21 days, 30 days and 45 days in which you completely freeze out (do not talk to) your ex girlfriend. Now, I realize that some of the readers who are new to this concept may still be a little confused as to what the no contact rule entails and some of the purpose behind it. Ok, now that I gave you a quick crash course lets turn our attention to the reason for why you are here. You remember the hypothetical situation I was going on and on about above where you were a GNAT to your ex girlfriend and she would want nothing to do with you?
Assuming you were GNATTY she is going to be conditioned to think that you are going to be the one chasing her. However, once you implement the no contact rule you are going to be doing the exact opposite of what she is expecting. Of course, since the no contact rule strictly forbids you from doing that the phone calls and text messages that she is expecting will never come. This is when something very interesting happens and it also happens to be the second way in which the no contact rule can help you to make your ex girlfriend chase you.
No seriously, if this woman walked up to you and gushed about how incredible you were right now you would walk around feeling like a million bucks. She wants to feel wanted in loved in a relationship just like every other woman walking this earth. Of course, what happens to us all when we feel wanted and loved by the same person too much? However, when you take all that attention away via the no contact rule something very interesting begins to happen.
All of these are the chase factors that women are looking for in a potential mate and they are all something that all of the celebrities above have in spades.
Now, for those of you who are sitting there rolling your eyes and thinking that the celebrity factor is the only reason that these types of celebrities have thousands of women chasing after them I want to introduce you to a celebrity that is arguably more talented than everyone on that list that no woman chases after. Because, he doesn’t do a great job of hitting on all the chase factors that women have. So, while Buscemi is considered a celebrity he didn’t really do a great job on hitting on the chase factors that attract women. So, now that you understand the power of chase factors lets turn our attention to understanding what they are one by one. Below I have compiled a list of the major chase factors that cause women to chase after men. Well, lets go down the list one by one and really get a good grasp of what each of these are. One of the children is playing with an amazing toy while the other child doesn’t have any toys to play with. When they are told that they aren’t capable of accomplishing something they will most likely take the necessary steps to prove you wrong.
Now lets turn our attention to what women want in a man outside of the obvious romantic things. When a woman sees a man that can bring these characteristics to the table she is not only going to be immediately turned on but she will actively chase after him to win him over.
One of the biggest mistakes that I see men continually make after a breakup with their ex girlfriend is the fact that they are way too available for them.
Of course, I am not expecting you to become a celebrity so I am going to dumb this down to a level that us regular guys can achieve.
Lets spice things up a little bit more and say that before all these people you know started coming up and saying hi to you at the restaurant your date didn’t seem that into you. Your intelligence, humor, beliefs, ego, openness, compassion and logic are really what can keep a woman interested in you.
Of course, I have often wondered what would happen if someone had an amazing personality but was lacking in looks.
Be able to get a girl who is a 10 out of 10 on looks to chase him based on his personality? Well, in order for that to happen he would have to really have an interesting personality that would be out of this world. I had a gentleman email me today asking me a question about how he could get his girlfriend back. Now, based on the sheer volume of questions I get on a daily basis I find it hard to respond to emails but something about this particular mans email made me want to read it.
Maybe it was the fact that he was scrambling for an explanation of what the heck happened with his girlfriend.
However, his inability to fully commit to her or at the very least do something to show her that he wanted a future with her too caused his demise. If there are any women out there reading this then I apologize if I am about to offend you. According to an article from the Huffington Post since the beginning of time women prefer men with resources and in today’s day and age resources are equal to money.
The two of you are exactly the same except the one big difference between you is that your clone has money and you don’t. It’s not often that you see an ugly guy being chased down the street by a million women.
No, it just means he is going to have to hit some of the other chase factors a little bit harder. Speaking of hitting the other chase factors lets talk about what to do with them now that you understand what all of them are.
Part three of this guide is really where everything I have been talking about up until this point comes together. It’s really where you increase your chances of having your ex girlfriend chase after you for a change. I listed the chase factors above to show you the types of qualities that men have to have in order for a woman to chase him. Just because your ex girlfriend dated you at one point doesn’t mean her hardwire has changed. You would have essentially become everything that your ex girlfriend could ever want in a man causing your odds to go up that she will chase you. But before you scoff and move on to the next article in your internet search I want to ask you something.
I promise you that you will be hard pressed to find someone with more experience or better credentials than me in the digital romance space. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. This goes against the grain a little I guess, but I posted here before my story its too long but short of it is, was friends with this girls years ago, lost contact. I think you do, just avoid any jealousy moves and show her that you’re improving through your social media posts. Chris, me and my ex are talking and I’ve worked out and realized what caused the breakup of our relationship, I was too closed minded and controlling and to be honest a bit mean and cold towards her. My ex & met at work and very quickly go into an amazing relationship which she instigated. She had a situation a couple of years before we met where an ex boyfriend of hers was killed in a fight outside a pub, I don’t think she ever has been able to properly come to terms with that and I think there were traits that I have that reminded her of him in some ways. There was one night around 3 months after we’d been together that I had a little drunken run in with a friend of mine that really upset her, frightened her. She eventually called it quits and blocked me on her phone which was ridiculous considering she sat outside my office, we saw each other and went to lunch still every day and I just used to message her work phone outside of work, so the blocking was pointless.
Just after the Christmas (a year after we first got together), I ran into an issue at work and was fired and she also was fired as the company had found messages from her about the situation and saw it as her interfering. We continued contact and meeting up and she’d stay over occasionally and we even slept with each other again around the June time, it was more than friends but less than a relationship and I think she may have just been keeping in contact as sort of a comfort.
This contact of texts, calls and meeting for lunch continued right through to the following March. I recently started a new job which is no more than 5 minutes from her office and walking around at lunchtime really brings back the memories of her and I. That’s the skeleton of past to present, but to re-iterate that she is stubborn and has blocked me in every way. I am still completely in love with her and desperately want her back but the combination of her attitude, stubbornness, the fact that she has had or has another guy, has blocked me in every way possible would tell me that it’s an impossibility, what do you reckon????? No, I don’t think she has any other social media apart from LinkedIn and she disconnected from me on that. Understood about leaving it for time but it’s been a year or so since I last met up with her and she had since met another guy and blocked me on everything, so I think I need to just accept it. I still see her at least 3 times per week because she’s in my drum line (group of 15 people). Well, if you step back and think about it getting another human being to actively pursue you romantically is not a simple feat.
If you get your ex boyfriend to start chasing you does that mean you will eventually get him back?
For now, I want to invite you to check out what the E-Book covers before you continue reading this guide. The first and most important lesson I can teach you about getting an ex boyfriend to chase you has to do with logical thinking.
One thing I have come to learn about women is that they tend to be a little more relationship oriented than men.
Now, I will admit that I can’t speak for every single guy out there but what I am about to say holds true for almost every male I have ever known in my live.
Now, I do want to clarify and say that there was NO alcohol that this girl had drank so all of this was just a part of how she was acting.
My feelings actually weren’t hurt when all this emotional craziness was happening from her. I turned to my buddy to see what he thought of the idea and the second I saw his face I knew… I knew I was going to have to endure more of this craziness at the mall.
When we arrived at the mall I did my best to distance myself from the overemotional blonde that I had spoken to at the dinner. Of course, the brunette that I was talking to was grabbing a few scarfs (it was winter) and trying them on. As a joke she thought it would be fun to YELL at the top of her lungs “HE’S STEALING THIS SCARF!!!
Mall security ended up coming to talk to us and I had to explain to them that she was joking. Now that you have a better idea of how being too emotional can work against you lets apply that knowledge to your ex. Probably THE biggest mistake that I see from women who have bough Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO is that when the time finally does come to initiate contact with their ex they are not thinking about things logically. Believe me I understand how hard it is to remove emotion from the equation when you are dealing with someone you care about beyond belief.
Removing emotion from the equation will be the single biggest challenge you will face when it comes to getting an ex boyfriend to chase you again.
However, if you are able to talk to an ex boyfriend without emotion then you are going to make great strides in your attempt to get him to chase you. Relationships are usually based on an emotional connection that you establish with another human being. So, when you turn off your emotions in order to think logically about a situation how can you possibly re-attract someone? After all, it is their emotional connection or feeling towards you that will cause them to chase you and in order to develop that connection with them you need to tap into your own emotions. You have decided that you want me back and you have worked really hard to remove emotion from the equation any time we communicate in text or in person. I guess we should hit the rewind button and start at the beginning because in order to figure out how you can get him to chase you again you need to understand a few basic concepts. More often than not I have found that a lot of the women who come to this site screw things up by thinking with their hearts instead of their heads (again, are you seeing the connection to logical thinking?) After a break up please don’t fall into the trap of becoming a text gnat.
Another thing that I want to point out is that in the example I provided above what set the text gnat off was not getting a response from the person that they were texting. A few hours into our first conversation I knew she was a text gnat but she was a new breed of text gnat. Ultimate Text Gnat- Someone who sends long emotional texts in bunches, has a high ratio of messages sent and a short response time. Let me give you a little background because the content within the message here is kind of an important deal. Turns out, I was at a party hosted by my friend where we were going to watch the latest UFC fight at the time.
All of the examples I provided from my real life experience technically cannot be applied to your situation.
So, knowing this you are in a situation where at one point you had your boyfriend right where you wanted him, chasing you.
I have alluded to this in a lot of the previous pages on this site but I have never really taken the time to go in-depth, until now.


So, when it comes to getting an ex to chase you again you can’t do what you did before for a couple of reasons. Getting an ex boyfriend to chase you again will require patience, strategy and a bit of luck. I know, I know it isn’t exactly the most exciting thing in the world to talk about but it is an important thing to grasp. When you love someone so completely and that person leaves you it is like they take a part of you and you will do anything to get that part back.
The only problem is that being emotional is usually the OPPOSITE way to get that part back. One of the most interesting things about running a site that helps women is the fact that I meet a lot of people. Women who are older tend to be more patient because they grew up in a time where they had to be patient.
So, I urge you to go against the grain and actually complete your NC period without any slip ups! The second form of patience we need to talk about today is the kind that you need to have when you are IN contact with your ex. Being in no contact, like I talked about above, means you are currently in the no contact period with your ex boyfriend.
Obviously, this section is going to focus on the block of time that you are IN contact with your ex.
I would like to focus specifically on the biggest problem I see from women who are currently in contact with their exes, trying to force things. Lets say that you actually completed a 30 day no contact period without any slip ups and you are now in contact with your ex. Quality block texting is probably the single most important tactic you can use when you text ANYONE (not just your ex) to get them to chase you. Well, like anything this important it can be a little complicated to explain all at once so I have found that the very best way to make it understandable for you is to divide it up into two categories. The TV episode theory is the basis behind QBT (quality block texting) which is something I really preach in The Bible. End each episode on a cliffhanger with the intent of making the audience tune in again next week.
You see, throughout this site, if you are an avid reader, you will notice that every once in a while I mention the importance of leaving your ex wanting more. Now, imagine if you could use this type of feeling to get your ex chasing you, constantly wanting more. In my book, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO, I talk a lot about how you should text your ex boyfriend. When you normally text someone (with the intent of having a conversation) you usually do so until one of you grows bored and stops talking to eachother. What I mean by that is what if I told you to divide up that straight line into certain time blocks where you focus on only QUALITY conversation instead of quantity?
Whenever I talk to someone that I am interested in I always cut my conversations with them prematurely.
My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of.
I initiate a breakup before but he pull me back however a week later he told me he wanted a breakup simply because he has no feeling for me and he prefers to be alone than in a relationship.
No matter how i beg he wont budge and insist with the breakup at last I told him that i will give him 3 months to lead the kind of singlehood life he wants and i will not contact him at all and end of 90 days let me know if he really prefer singlehood life. I would want to know if NC still applies bcuz its stated to NC for 30days but i have promise not to contact him for 90 days? If NC does not, can you please advice or help me what are the other ways that i can get him back?
Its has been 2 weeks since i last had the conversation of giving him 90 days to lead the kind of life he wants and wil,l not disturb him. Today 03 May he text me in the morning stating weather was bad and ask me to take care which i have not responded. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 16 months (We celebrated every precious months!) At the beginning of our relationship, my friends warned me about his infamous dating history. Recently, I got in a big bank loans for my father sake, and had to work terribly hard to get the money. Days later I asked him out for a proper answer (second mistake?), I was difficult because he didn’t want to face me, but he came.
I pampered he so well and we were very compatible in sex, so I thought I’m still somewhere in his mind. So all of that makes me keep my hope… Since recently I in a bad mood and usually make him tired and stress like me, what if that’s just his temporary feeling for that girl? Yesterday I found out that he is now officially dating the new girl, after the break up just 2 weeks!!! We were a good team, helped lots of people (yes, I am proud of us) and had some laugh together. People break up all the time, but that doesn’t mean it should feel right that you and your boyfriend broke up. There is always a possibility that you can your ex can work some things out and come to a resolution after the split.
The first thing you need to do is figure out what happened to cause the two of you to break up in the first place. Giving them space is key because it will show them that you have moved on and that you have options out there as well. If you try too hard to get your ex back and the situation is out of your hands you’ll end up driving him farther away and decrease your chances of him ever wanting to be with you again. If you feel your boyfriend left you because of your appearance try to think about what changed. Lose the extra weight if you need to, start wearing the makeup again the way he liked it, do your hair the same way you used to have it when you first met him, and etc. When you are in a relationship with someone for a while it is easy to get complacent and forget how to be as romantic as the two of you first were. That’s right, dating other men is a great strategy on getting your ex boyfriend back. This strategy will also show him that you aren’t worried about him and you have moved on as well, which will spark his interest in you all over again. Showing your ex that you are happy and enjoying life will make you look more attractive to him than if you were acting depressed, sulking, bitter, and angry all the time. In fact, he might end up hating you to the point where he doesn’t even want to talk to you again.
If you want to get your boyfriend back one of the worst things you can do is start chasing him all over the place. Frequently trying to hang around your ex boyfriend and actively trying to get them back every time you see or talk to him will drive him farther away from you.
Whenever you go somewhere and you know he’s going to be there make sure you look great. In order to shake these assumptions you are going to utilize something I like to call the no contact rule. If that is you and you would like more of an explanation as to how it works I recommend reading the in-depth guide I wrote about the no contact rule here. Well, if you were to implement a no contact rule you are going to reshape what your ex girlfriend thinks about you. Remember, she is thinking that you are going to continue to blow up her phone with text messages and phone calls.
She is so used to it in fact that she has probably grown complacent with what it really means.
All of a sudden someone comes up to you and tells you that there is no way you can jump over it.
In fact, a lot of them finish first once they figure out what men who aren’t nice are doing. Throughout March we were basically together without actually being together and it seemed everything was good. I haven’t actually done no contact since I just started looking into the internet for solutions and its already been a month and a half since our breakup.
I want it to be her that says were back together not me but i’m wondering, Will going NC at this point be effective and make her miss me at this point?
She is 20 years younger than me and extremely pretty and I think her attraction to me was my senior and respected role, ability to protect her and treat her well, my humour and that I’m a fairly good looking bloke and certainly young for my age.
After that, she seemed to see things differently, she was always concerned about me going out and wanted me to stop drinking.
She had a new job by then, a better job and she was a little happier but I was still unable to get her back. So, I sent her a long email (nice email) from a different email address (which wasn’t blocked) with the purpose of letting her know I was working back in the City and to try and rekindle some of those feelings and memories in her. We broke up do to the fact that I was not giving her the love and compassion that she deserved as I was going through at rough time after a car accident. It is actually pretty common knowledge among a lot of the women (and even some men) who visit this site.
Yet, if you type in a simple Google search and try to find something that actually can help you understand the process behind making a man chase you, you probably aren’t going to find anything that is worth your time to read. Granted, it is a very large part of the process but still, there is a lot more to recovering an ex than just getting him to chase you.
So, if I talk to one of the women and find out that she can be a little too overemotional at times I would be less inclined to chase that woman.
I usually hate going on these type of deals but my buddy begged me so I threw caution to the wind and decided to go for his sake.
One of the blondes was constantly casting looks over in my direction and saying stuff that I think was supposed to impress me. Instead, I remember thinking that a girl that acts like this is going to be unstable to date so in my eyes she became very ugly. However, the Bro Code clearly states that you never leave a man behind so I sucked it up and decided to join the group excursion.
Being able to talk to someone with logic instead of emotion gives you the ability to make smarter decisions and avoid common mistakes that I see every day here on the site. Using a logical mindset you should be able to identify certain factors or do certain things that can cause me to begin to re-develop an emotional connection.
If you want someone to chase you that is how you have to view your interactions with that person.
While there are times where a speedy response is required, in most cases I would say that a more measured response time is preferred.
The text message example I used above is a vague account of what I remember from my conversation with the Facebook girl. This girl was attractive (from her Facebook photos) if she hadn’t been a text gnat I may have very well taken her on a date without her even asking. After all, the main point of this article is to get your EX chasing you and not someone you just met.
Too many times have I seen women make the mistake of immediately contacting their ex during a breakup only to fall in the text gnat trap I described above.
Not only does it give your ex a chance to miss you but it also gives you a chance to get your head together. It is the block of time after no contact where you are allowed to talk to your ex boyfriend.
Following my advice in the E-Book or on the how to get your ex back page you have successfully opened up the conversation.
The first thing I would do would obviously be the NC rule and everything else I talk about in the E-Book and in this site.
Once I have done that I would build rapport with you and then end the conversation prematurely.
It will end our conversation on a cliffhanger and open up a possibility of me contacting you later. So, when I don’t get a date with someone I like I end up thinking a lot about what I could have done better to improve my chances. Then, 2 of his ex-girl friends also shown up and told me about their terrible memories with him.
We did everything together, we overcame hardship together (mostly his), we introduced each other to our families (as Asian, this somehow indicates a very serious and long term relationship). He used to ask me about our future, and if I wanted to marry him now or not (just 1 month before the break up, but back then I said not yet, and I extremely regret now). I believe that girl may never take care of him as good as I do, and he is the type who loves being taken care of. The time period between my texts and his texts (and vise versa) are at least 20 minutes, sometimes even 5 hours. The only way I can think of is by answering the next day, thus my time span would be pretty long. Around 3 weeks ago I found out he has been cheating on me when I was not around so I dumped him. Do you just miss him but he didn’t change but even so you want to try if he will change?
You are probably still in love with your ex and can’t let him go, or perhaps you feel that the relationship can be fixed because there was a lot of things that was said that neither of you really meant.
If you are wondering how to get your ex boyfriend back these 4 tips can definitely help you regain that relationship you miss so much. Sometimes the reason he broke up with you is out of your control like he fell for another female then there may not be anything you can do to turn things around. If you feel like he broke up with you because he stopped being attracted to you, or the relationship wasn’t romantic enough then there are some things you can do to turn things around. Spark back up the romance between the two of you by asking him out on a date, taking him out to eat, cooking him something at home, giving him massages, telling him how much you care for him, and etc. Even if you aren’t really ready or interested in dating other guys you should at least try to make some friends with other guys. Taking this approach will only push him further away from you and make him not want to even think about reconciling with you.
Wear that dress he used to always tell you he likes and wear your hair the way you know he likes it. Then at the beginning of April she started acting up and saying stuff like she never got the space she felt she needed after we broke up.


We go out on dates casually but I end up letting my emotions get the best of me and asking her for another chance to be my girlfriend. She suddenly seemed to not trust me and when she wasn’t with me, was always worrying. I think if I’d put into place some of your suggestions at that time, things could have recovered as she was clearly still in love with me.
I never cheated on her, always treated her well, was always nice to her, always supported her. 2 days later she broke up with me (didn’t tell me why but I figured it out) because I was too clingy and I kinda of let myself go. Furthermore, when it comes to getting an ex boyfriend back it is the logical and less emotional woman who tends to win out in the end. Now, I am not denying the fact that being emotional can be a good thing in certain cases but it can really work against you if you are tying to get someone to chase you. Of course, if you are able to remove emotion from the equation you are presented with an interesting contradiction.
Instead, she didn’t approach the situation un-emotionally and did nothing to make me WANT to chase her.
Again, there may be certain cases where this is not true but I believe that in most cases it is. You ignore him if he contacts you and you aren’t allowed to reach out to him during the NC period.
Of course, the reason most women who try NC and fail is because they simply don’t have any patience. If I am fortunate enough to find a good TV show that is worth watching I will binge watch all the seasons in about a week or two. What if I told you that there was a way you can text someone, be in control and keep things interesting. However, when the time comes for me to finally get in an actual conversation with you (and I want you to chase me) I am going to implement the QBT theory. Now, obviously a lot depends on the content of the messages I sent you but if I do a good job it can definitely work to my advantage. You need to be logical in order to decide when you need to cut the conversation off and that can be really hard if you are establishing good rapport with your ex. They had a crush on him, he let them in, took care for them, slept with them a few times, then suddenly broke up and forgot everything. I still tried to come over his place at night to cook and clean things up, but his class ended really late so I couldn’t stay to see him (he is an 2D artist lecturer). Seemed like he tried to compensate me by buying me gifts, hold my hand, and ask me to hug him. As I know, he still have my photo as his lock screen and our photo in the home screen of his phone. I am aware that this is probably due to the fact that it is only a week after the NC and I have to be patient. But I didn’t know how to do it because he used to contact me all the time without me doing anything and now things have changed. There was a calm and relaxed atmosphere, he was on his laptop, I was reading, and we even said one or two words.
If this is the case then it is probably a good idea to just let go and let time heal and mend your relationship with him if it is meant to be. Show him that you can still be the same fun, exciting, pretty, and charismatic girl he fell for in the beginning and he’ll come back running to you. Talking to other guys will help you get your mind off your ex so you don’t end up constantly thinking, stalking or stressing over him. After he sees how happy and nice you are it will soften him a little and make him want to give it another try between you and him. If you follow the other tips above your ex will notice the positive changes in you and come seeking you. After some time has passed and he has some time to think about your relationship he will begin missing you realizing you don’t really need him.
Btw, we broke up because I kissed another girl at a bar after a few weeks of me having trust issues. We carried on with our relationship but whilst we were still in love with each other, it seemed like she always had issues with me and was getting herself all wound up all the time. I’m feeling like your response is kind of telling me that this time there is no chance so man up and get over it.
I think the issues she had were really within herself and probably to do with being scared of getting hurt or losing me given her previous experience. I asked her if I wanted to cuddle because I haven’t kissed her or touched her for at least 40 days. For the next 30 minutes I talked to her trying to get a gauge on what she was like and then I noticed something…. Now, the thing to understand about text gnats is that it will be very difficult for you to get your ex boyfriend to chase you if he considers you to be one.
That means that I have personally dealt with a lot of situations when it comes to exes and I can tell you that the no contact rule is the hardest thing for women to do. As I am sure you have already worked out younger women tend to end NC sooner than older ones. I WANT MORE!” It was a perfect cliffhanger because I had to wait an entire year to see the next installment and I never forgot that feeling. However, if you can get a good conversation going that line can usually keep growing for a long time.
I am dividing my texts up into these segmented blocks of quality time where I control everything. In return, I also became everything he needed, supported him with everything I know and I can. But even before I used the NC (yes, I am one of those who still had contact with their ex and went NC after 3 months) I had to wait a long time before I got an answer. One of the others, who knows about how I feel, even asked me since when my ex and me are getting along so well again. I really miss him and want him back in my life could you please help me in how to get him back. Instead talk about the good times the two of you used to have and try to keep the conversation brief.
3 months later she got cold, distant, I bugged her it seemed, I was nice always, maybe that. At this point, I chased her for a week or so then she said she really needed space, so I did NC for a we3k until I saw her at the gym went up and we flirted for a bit. Seems ridiculous how things have turned out given that we had such a strong connection…. We have a lot in common, both drummers, ethnicity, music lovers, memers (?° ?? ?°), athletes (same sport), weird, funny, energetic, and ALOT more content. She said after we broke up that she had given me enough chances and she did not want to give me anymore and that her feelings would not change. Please do not be alarmed as I will just be mentioning it as a helpful reminder that the particular sections I will be talking about on this page will be covered, more in-depth, in the E-Book. You want results faster than they can come and your ex is slowly but surely being turned off by this. I want to talk about the actual having a conversation with him because this is where you can really make strides in forcing him to chase you. When he ask me for official dating, I didn’t know that he was still somehow “unfinished” with the latest girl. He sad he loved me but the feeling stopped because I was so after the money and work, so busy that he didn’t see me as much, and I was always tired and doomed. Before be said goodbye, he admitted that he met a new girl (one of his students), and shift ALL of his feelings for her. Whatever it is you feel changed the way your boyfriend looked at you when the two of you first started dating try to change back to the way he was used to seeing you. Bought her a trip for her bday, I told friends there I had no idea what to do she was pulling away and it was killing me. I continued to treat her like a princess, shower her with gifts, look after her and never did anything to hurt her but she just got more and more unhappy. I literally have no way to contact her and we don’t have any mutual friends, so there is no way for me to get her to chase me or think about me (that I can see anyway). I asked if she’d received the message and she had but she asked me not to message her anymore. It’s like her way of moving on is to cut everything and force herself to hate me for whatever reasons she has. I know we’re both in High School but listen to this, were both going to the same college (coincidence, I know its weird).
Over the month I tried very hard to show her I loved her and I did a few things for her like get her flowers and really show her how much I loved her when we hung out the few times. However, I decided to trust him and believed that I was his true love, that I was different. We talked about our difficulties several times, and he seemed to be fine, realized his lack of caring and promised to notice me more. At late night, he text me and said that “It was right to meet you today”, “I think I am making a mistake”, “I know I’m making a mistake but I can’t stop it”, “it’s torturing me now” and all I said was remind him to take care and wish him all the best. Let’s say you don’t do no contact, do you think his relationship with the new girl will not progress especially that they see each other always? But before that happens you have to be emotionally prepared so, you won’t end up being needy in the relationship. We understand each other really good, so a big family plus for me ?? ), some others and me were together from 7pm till 4 am.
She heard this and got angry I didn’t keep it private with us, she is big into privacy, which is fair, I was just worried she would leave me. The next night I got very drunk and basically was pleading to see her again, I did but it was an off encounter.
This frustrated me as I couldn’t understand how she could be unhappy with everything that I did for her. I actually feel really annoyed that she is able to do that after everything I did for her and I can be sure that her stubbornness probably wouldn’t allow her to even consider that she may have made a mistake, I honestly don’t think that she would allow herself to think about me, have you ever come across anyone like that? I’m just worried about how NC is gonna effect her since she sees me 2-3 times per week.
She said she was really confused because she felt like this side of me she did not know anymore and she said i know people can change and that relationships can change. I know we won’t jump from NC to best friends, but his behaviour made me a bit anxious.
We had this talk before he went to university because we were about to get together and his current university is 2 hours away (but in the end we still became a couple.
Got home and days later she dumped me over FB mail, saying she seen things different now with us, we did not click as a couple, no chemistry. I saw her again a couple of weeks ago where she walked past me with a couple of guys from her work and she totally blanked me. She ignores me and I ignore her… BTW I made a mistake of GNATing (going nuts at texting) a bit after the breakup, because I was confused. After that I really became like a GNAT and texted her alot and called her alot until she finally just said she did not want me to contact her. After that I sent him a long message saying thank you, remind him to take care and asked a friend to deliver him his birthday present that I bought in advance (maybe first mistake). Take the better choice of choosing yourself and healing and gaining emotional independence instead of begging for him back.
I know she saw me as she made a real effort to laugh like she was uber happy and then about 20 yards further on, one of the guys turned back so she must have said something. It didn’t seem like I was begging for her back though, I just wanted to know why she broke up and I was sending long text and what I though.
I Finally told her that I loved her enough to respect her decision but I love her enough to know that I would not give up on her and Im sorry. Yesterday was my birthday, I woke up early in the morning and text him to remind him about his birthday today (Yes, our birthday is consecutive, third mistake maybe, but it was our birthday so I was really confused). He seems like he is okay with me just being there and does not really care about me anymore” Yes, I noticed him looking at me pretty often and once he obviously tried to make me jealous.
She never blocked my number, she has not deleted me on facebook or removed any of our photos.
He didn’t confirm the break up and ignored me the whole day, didn’t even care if I could have kill myself (he knew me very well). The conversation was ok but not great, we seemed to still worry for each other, and he still has little feeling for me. Try to initiate contact after 30 days but make sure that you focused on yourself in that 30 days before you try to contact him. She said she understood and wished me well, said I was the most decent genuine guy she met and I was a great catch. She needs time I know to Focus on her new job as a nurse and get adjusted for the next month, Just kind of curious what I should do now?
I didn’t want her seeing what I was doing or where so I decided last week to block her on there, is this immature you think? We have not spoke, she has little interest in talking IMO so why bother, let us go our own way. I do believe she cares about me as friend, she knows im a good guy, maybe she wanted friendship but it was hard. Its been months and I think about her still, she got inside my mind but each week it gets easier for sure. Leave a Reply Notify of new replies to this comment Notify of new replies to this comment Lonely girl1 day 17 hours agoHi brad thank u for ur ex factor guide .
Be patient and try to let him chase you instead of you chasing him…my guide can help you with that. Focus on developing the attractive qualities for yourself and improve your mood and overall being.



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