Our goal is to help you by delivering amazing quotes to bring inspiration, personal growth, love and happiness to your everyday life. So, you have read so much about how to get your ex girlfriend back on the web, but you are still trying to get her back, don’t you? The problem is that normally you find superficial advices on the internet to get your ex girlfriend back.
In this post, I will teach you how to get your ex girlfriend back from a psychological standpoint. If you have listen so many love songs and read numerous romantic novels, then you might think that love is something mysterious that can’t be understood.
If you think this way, let me tell you that love is not something mysterious that can’t be understood. A girl who raised in family which always had financial problems may fall in love with a rich guy. I don’t say that this is the only reason why we fall in love with someone; however this is the main reason behind why we fall in love with a certain person. Now what will happen if that girl gets a high-paying job and she becomes richer than her rich boyfriend after a while? In that case, if her rich boyfriend may not fulfill her other unmet needs then probably she will feel less attraction for him which might cause a breakup. You might have guessed that she broke up with you because either you were not fulfilling her unmet needs or her unmet needs had been changed. So, it’s your job to find out her unmet needs you were fulfilling in the starting of the relationship. In this case, you need to find out her new unmet needs and then try to project yourself as though you can fulfill her new unmet needs. Off course, she is not aware of her unmet needs because she might not have read psychology. If you have read economics, you may have known that the price of a product goes high if it is in demand. Your ex girlfriend dumped you because you might not be that attractive for her as you were before. If you are around with some unattractive and average girls then you will be considered as an attractive guy by hot girls, too.
The more in demand you become in opposite sex, the more attractive you are considered by them. This is the reason why I teach guys that they should learn how to attract girls if they want to get an ex girlfriend back. If you manage to attract a few girls (no matter whether they are attractive or not), then you will become attractive again for your ex girlfriend.
So, now make your plan and strategy considering these two points, and you will be on the right track to get your ex girlfriend back.
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Almost everyone in life had a situation when they had a fight with their girlfriend or even broke up with her over something, and since you are here, I guess it has happened recently for you as well. Now it doesn’t matter whether you are a woman who is trying to get her ex-boyfriend back or ex-husband, or if you are a man that is trying to get your ex-girlfriend back or your ex-wife. A new revolutionary product in the market today, allows you to easier understand women and men and the way our mind work, and help you bring the love of your life to your arms, only by using  simple text messages, this product is called : Text your ex back, and in the rest of the article, I would like to tell my own personal story and give you the text your ex back review.
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After using the techniques and words suggested on text your ex back, I have found it extremely helpful. First to understand the mind of my women, what makes her happy, what triggers her, and the process of getting her heart back was incredible for both of us.
Our conversations and dialogs have improved, and it seems like after this crises, we actually understand each other better. If you want to get your ex back, I will definitely recommend it, It has worked for me, and you can try it too! It turns out that, that particular quote is going to tie directly into what we are going to be talking about today with your ex girlfriend.Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back?
You see, today we are going to be focusing on the most fatal mistakes that men make when they are trying to get their ex girlfriends back.
But perhaps more importantly I am going to be giving you solutions for how to proceed if you have committed these fatal mistakes. For example, if you were to say, call your ex girlfriend up 20,000 times in a day I will be giving you a quick game plan on what to do to improve your odds of winning her back in the future. Now, before I dive into explaining the format of this page I do want to mention that I am not going to be pulling any punches with you today. Basically what I am going to be doing is describing the mistake you could have potentially made when trying to get your ex girlfriend back and why it was a mistake. I figured it wouldn’t really help you at all if I pointed out your mistakes and offered absolutely no solution at all on how to fix the mistake.
Well, it means that if you committed a fatality mistake you have a very hard upward battle ahead if you want to win your ex girlfriend back. Now, I am not saying that your chances are completely ruined all I am saying is that they are diminished.
Why begging for an ex girlfriend back seems to be a mans first instinct after a break up is beyond me.
Look, as much as women hate to admit it they like men who are alphas and there is nothing alpha about a man who sits there and begs for her back. Women don’t have the internal need for feeling wanted that men do because they feel wanted all the time. So, the solution for overcoming this mistake has more to do with repositioning yourself into a position of power more than anything. Right now, where things stand you really don’t have a great shot of winning your ex girlfriend back. Well, what if I were to tell you that there is actually a really simple way that you can do this and change the game to your favor?
Look, you have already set a pretty strong precedent in your girlfriends mind that you want her back. I want you to completely cut her out of your life in every form imaginable via the no contact rule.


We are going to operate under the assumption that your ex girlfriend likes having her ego stroked by you through your begging. Now, I will be the first to admit that this is a trait that is more common to men but there are plenty of women out there who just long to feel wanted by a man.
As an ex recovery expert I am always studying experiences from the readers I have here at Ex Girlfriend Recovery. A man who doesn’t accept the breakup with his ex but instead of crying, begging or acting crazy he just goes full robot mode and goes right into a no contact rule on his ex. Well, by the time the no contact rule ends and he is ready to try to get his girlfriend back he is at a completely different place than he was when the breakup initially occurred. In fact, he has grown so strong in this no contact period that he kind of doesn’t even care if he gets his girlfriend back or not. Do you think a man who follows the “something special” plan I just laid out above has a better shot of winning his ex back than a guy who begged for his ex back? Did you know that in addition to this site I also own another relationship website called Ex Boyfriend Recovery? I noticed something today when I was on it that I think is relevant to what we are talking about with mistake #2. The premise of the show is that I let women call in and ask me anything they want about their ex boyfriends. Well, today I did this routine for the first episode I recorded but not the second and third ones. I learned that if I don’t game plan these episodes beforehand then I am not nearly as effective and it takes twice as long to complete an episode. This got me thinking about the men on this site that are trying to get their ex girlfriends back without a game plan. It truly is a fatal mistake if you don’t have a well thought out and focused plan to get your ex girlfriend back. Look, I am here to help you in any way that I can so your game plan doesn’t even have to be from this website.
Though I would definitely recommend formulating your game plan based on this website since I always do my best to make things as easy as possible for you. Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO– My step by step guide on how you can win your ex girlfriend back.
How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back– This was the very first thing I ever wrote for the site and this 12,000 word behemoth still holds true today.
How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Miss You– This guide is all about helping you understand the art that goes into making a woman miss you.
If you really think about it everything that I write for this site can be considered a game plan.
Simple, if you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back then all you are doing by getting into a fight with her is further pushing her away. It’s tricky though, because women always seem to know exactly what to say to put us into rage mode.
Still though, once you are in rage mode you are sticking to your guns and you don’t care how gets in your way. However, you need to realize that every single time you get into a fight with your ex girlfriend you are further damaging your chances of getting her back.
Anyways, at that point in time I was still a pimply faced teenager who had a lot to learn about relationships. Well, about seven days after the breakup I decided that I wanted to see my ex in person for more closure. As luck would have it that was also the day that my ex girlfriend decided to reach out to me with a phone call.
The final post breakup fight ended up being so bad that the two of us really never spoke again. However, for the sake of keeping the peace and not potentially starting a fight it’s best to keep your mouth shut where you would have otherwise started world war 3. Lets turn our attention to how to work your way out of a situation where you have already started a fight with your ex girlfriend.
I guarantee you that there is nothing you can say that is going to fully fix the situation like time will. Not only will it let time go by but it will give your ex girlfriend the opportunity to miss you. It’s this idea that Hollywood has implanted in us that grand gestures commonly seen at the end of romantic movies will work to your advantage. In other words, you think that if you buy your ex girlfriend a dozen roses, light the sidewalk with candles and romanticize things she will pick up the phone, call and tell you that she made a mistake by leaving you. Speaking from experience any time I have gone out of my way to spoil a woman with grand gestures (who I wasn’t in a relationship with) has never worked out. Well, Katie seemed to have a crush on me as well so as things were progressing we tried to find out more about each other (which is pretty common.) I will never forget that she told me that she had never had a boyfriend that had done anything special for her.
The specific example she gave was that she never had a boyfriend decorate her car in a sweet manner. In my mind I figured that I could use it to my advantage to gain points and further progress our relationship. Well, one day the opportunity presented itself and I took advantage by decorating her car with washable magic marker. Initially when I read the text I thought I earned some serious points but a funny thing started happening immediately after that. It wasn’t until a woman friend of mine explained the full extent of gifts and grand gestures that I finally understood my mistake. I went to Carol with my situation and she explained exactly what was going on in this girls mind. What Katie really wanted was a BOYFRIEND to do that for her or at the very least a guy that she was considering to be her boyfriend. I was not Katie’s boyfriend and I had not built up enough attraction with her yet to be considered in the running for being a boyfriend. This should hit home for you because you (probably) recently went through a breakup and your ex girlfriend is in a very upset state. In her mind you are no longer her boyfriend and you haven’t built up enough attraction yet for her to be considering you for being a boyfriend again. This means that any grand gesture you put into action or any expensive item you buy her is going to be meaningless to her. Your ex girlfriend has to be in the right frame of mind to be receptive to grand gestures and gifts. So, my advice to you is to not do any huge grand gestures or buy her any presents until the time is right. If you are abiding by my motto then the only time that you should give your ex girlfriend a present or make a big grand gesture is if you are back in a relationship with her. I am going to throw a couple situations out below and you tell me if these sound annoying to you. In story one you are the gnats and your ex girlfriend is the person that the gnats are buzzing around.
In story two you are the person that is constantly interrupting the person doing the all important world saving task. Some men are literally this annoying to their ex girlfriends after a breakup by engaging in something I like to call gnatting.
Then you have just become the annoying gnats in story one or the annoying person that constantly interrupts in story two. Imagine if you had called your ex girlfriend something crazy like 30 times in one day after a breakup? It prevents you from gnatting in the future and can help reduce the damage that you did when you were gnatting.
Of course, I need to be extra cautious with text messages after I get out of the no contact rule but you can read my guide, Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO for advice on how to approach that situation. As many of more avid readers know I am a fan of the 21 day no contact rule for men but special rules must be applied if you were a gnat in the past.
Because your girlfriend needs extra time away from you so she has time to remember what you were like in your non gnat form. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. I’ve just finished reading your amazing article and I agree 100% with your views and suggestions. The only problem is my girlfriend and I have only broken up a week ago and she’s been messaging and calling me from then till now. My question is shall I support her through this difficult time and then apply the no contact rule after her exams and when she returns back to her home country for the summer (she’s an international student) or shall apply the no contact rule now seeing as this would be the perfect opportunity to apply the rule as she needs the support more than anything. 5 months no contact broke rule several times bought her a car and nc solid for 3 months now.


I had work lunch at the hooters we met at and I brought back some really nice memories of meeting you and the great time we had.
I always felt that there was something going on but she kept telling me that nothing was going on. She felt that our relationship was just one big obligation because I had turned her life around.
She had become unhappy 2 years into the relationship (which is right around where I started to pack on the pounds and we didn’t go out as much, you know? She asked if we can still be friends, I told her we will never be just friends and that I have too much love for her to do that. I know that I’ll want her back but I am ready to accept the fact that I may not want her back.
I wrote her a breakup letter letting her know that I respect her decision to end our relationship and that my life was starting to take off in a good way. Before my previous post, when we were in the process of breaking up, she asked if we could remain friends. My ex asked me if she could still have the self help book that I am about to publish before our 2nd NC. Whatever Get Her Back for Good – How to Win Your Ex-Girlfriend Back you want to back in full force. And when you were the personal space that she’ll respond in a positive light to break up with her just tell you think that number while with you.
Let her back you know your ex girlfriend and not like there is something) and you should NOT give up or she will have time to make an attempts to get his girlfriend back.
If you want to make your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again then you must understand the reason why do we fall in love. If you find that you are still fulfilling her core unmet needs then her unmet needs have been changed now. This is the second big reason (first reason is related to unmet needs) why your ex girlfriend dumped you. There are some people out there that are content with telling you what you want to hear but I am not going to be one of those people. You begged for her back and unfortunately there isn’t a time machine that you can hop on and erase the begging mistake.
After I listen to their questions I then provide my take on their situation and give them a game plan to go forward. This way I always have a reference sheet that I can look at while I am recording so I can stay on point. I was just going through my first breakup so when you add the immaturity of my age with the anger that I was experiencing from the breakup you get a recipe for disaster.
Since there is no way you can be 100% sure if she is considering you to be her boyfriend again I would stay away from it completely. You are well on you want to becoming a gnat and gnats do not have a high probabily of getting their exes back. For example, if I was trying to get your ex girlfriend back and I sent her 10 text messages in one day then I would just slip into the no contact rule and lay low for a little bit. So, instead of doing the traditional 21 day no contact rule you have to bump that up to 30 days. I went to return an item that she forgot at my place and discuss some unfinished finances between us. Now almost a year and half has passed, i had a breakdown and long story short all my defences fell apart and she became to only person on my mind, i dated many in that time, but the feelings i had repressed came raging back.
What if you send her a small gift that is unique, thoughtful handmade and not like every other. She may very well know who sent it, but as long as you don’t make it too sappy, too long and make a big fuss of it and admit it when she asks. I promised her a free signed copy before and I was thinking of attaching a card with a general inside joke about squirrels on a card related to the book and the last Christmas present I gave her.
It is never easy to cope with but if you just need to have a good chance you need to come up with a few different than the ability to get all those problems. Tie up any hanging and try to force your presence Get Her Back for Good – How to Win Your Ex-Girlfriend Back and other words love).
I also know if you ever stand any attempt at an excuse we know there is something you still have feeling “free as a bird ready to take you back since she will be finding it confused. At that time she also got a good job, and her monthly income became far better than mine when I was employed. Every action he takes is to his benefit and as a result he starts to heal from the breakup. I just stuck to inside jokes and said sweet things that I still think to this day any girl would love to hear. This was my biggest mistake because it was at this point that she told me flat out that she wasn’t looking for a boyfriend since she had just come out of a relationship. She acknowledged that I had made some weight and grooming progress and that I was looking good.
I attatched my letter to her favorite flower and set it in her car so that she could discover it in the morning. I asked her if I walked out the door and she never saw me again would she have any regrets.
I contact her and told her that she was loved and still is loved, i laid all my feeling down, i apologised for being cold in the past etc….
Even though my love for her will never be lost, I realize that we don’t even know who we really are. Not only that but I became clingy, needy, overprotective, and probably the worst of them fat (315lbs) towards the end of our relationship.
But maybe that mentality was way too overbearing for her because I couldn’t turn it off and I probably forced that on her. This doesn’t really bother me too much anymore but it ate me up for those couple if days. It started off good but then I feel back into my old habits of when she says shes had enough it means shes had enough.
She sent me a text that she was thankful for the flower and that she was happy that things are starting to change for me and that she hopes I keep with it. But with a small fake rose in her favourite colour inside a small box (international delivery) and a small card that says inside.
I remember playing in the kitchen, trying to get my mom to think I was dead and call the police.
After a while, I found that I still love my ex-girlfriend and I always compared her with my new girlfriend.
To make it worse, I had some serious insecurities with trusting her (for no reason as it turns out) through out the relationship. Treat her as you would never be attracted to your ex girl back can be anything to try and it’s probably became insufferable and cruel because of a current situation. The only work if you remain respectful to her and confidence has to make her wondering what you say or do it. I exploded on her over the phone while she was still on the clock at work and when she came outside to talk with me. If she starting sooner or later on your girlfriend all day – this will eventually see it coming weekend just fix them yourself.
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And you can to win her back during this do some things that are doing it for a minute yourself to death a break-up and she made a mistake and saying sorry to your apology is sincerely and focus all of your happiness hinges on getting her distance from friends. I still think about her viciously and I’m pretty certain she thinks of me from time to time. I want to let her find herself and let go of the image of who I was pretending to be and see me for the man I really am. After realizing that I was intent on not leaving without a kiss, she simply and playfully said no and I backed off casually. I wish I could tell her how sorry I am for accusing her and not appreciating what a great person she is; most of all not trusting her. She also wanted to know why I wasn’t returning her texts or calls (No contact) but her calls were about business so I had to respond.



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