Brianna cheated on her boyfriend and in this episode I help lead her down the path to redemption. For those of you who read the show notes here is a quick rundown of Brianna’s situation. What do you say we get down to the game plan for how to get an ex boyfriend back if you cheated on him? You can’t expect an ex boyfriend to want to take you back immediately after a break in which he found out you cheated on him. In this episode I explained the idea of paranoia and how paranoid some men can be after their exes cheated on them. The last thing you want to do is give your boyfriend any ammunition that could potentially make him dislike you anymore so make sure you don’t flirt with any guys. You need to make sure that you cut ties with the person who you cheated on your ex boyfriend with. Well, if you cheated on him then you are going to have to constantly reassure him that it was a one time thing that will never happen again.
I explain this much better in the episode but basically if there is ever a situation where your ex boyfriend accuses you of cheating in your current relationship you need to be willing to prove your innocence to him. Today we’re going to talk about a situation that, quite frankly, I’m shocked that I haven’t covered. We’ve already talked about what to do if your ex-boyfriend cheated on you in one of the episodes. First, let me give you some general knowledge about men who have been cheated on and what goes through their minds. I know multiple people in my life who have been cheated on who are so scarred and messed up that they haven’t dated since. In addition to the headwind of you cheating, you’re going to have to go out of your way to get him back. Too many women say, “I want my ex-boyfriend back.” But then when it comes down to it and they’re still friends with the guy that they cheated on their ex with, that’s going to cause massive potential problems.
There are a lot of steps and hoops that you have to jump through to get your ex-boyfriend back if you cheated on him.
My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. I just found out your website, so until now I did everything you say not to do after the break up. After this we decide to not see each other for a while, so he would accept and deal with the cheating.
You missed him and he got better with the new one or got back to the person you used to love, but right now you can only see his good side. As bad as it is to picture you in bed with someone else, it's the loss of trust that really takes its toll on your now ex boyfriend or girlfriend. The good news however, is that even after you've cheated the relationship can still be saved. So unless your ex is violent or throwing things across the room in your direction, your first move is always the same: silent acknowledgment. When things have calmed down sufficently and the brunt of the rage has subsided, it's time to own up to what you did.
Right after you've been caught cheating, this is the only type of apology you should be making. The last part of the apology, where you promise never to cheat again, is tremendously important. Here's where things get tough, and where most people who've cheated on someone make their biggest mistakes while trying to get them to come back. The longer you steer clear of an ex you cheated on, the more their mind will play tricks on them.
Most important of all, you should both agree to bury whatever happened between you in the rubble of the past, and to only concentrate on going forward. This optimistic viewpoint gives your new relationship the best chance to succeed, and it also draws lines between you and your cheating past that shouldn't be crossed.
For a complete list of ways you can get your ex to trust you after being unfaithful, check out The Magic of Making Up. This instantly downloadable guide to getting back together contains specialized sections dedicated to cheating, as well as Clean Slate Techniques you need to know before moving forward. You'll learn how to get your ex to feel safe with you again, even after an affair, and even if they feel they'll never be able to trust you again.
When she first finds out you've been unfaithful, your girlfriend will go berserk with emotion.
One thing to realize is your girlfriend's not breaking up with you because she doesn't love you anymore.


No matter how she chooses to punish you for cheating, don't mock her for it or fight back against her by pretending not to care. Once her rage subsides and you've accepted that things between you are over, it's time for one last really good apology. At the end of your apology, you must let her know that you would never, ever do such a thing again. All this time alone will give your ex a sobering look at what her life will be like without you. There are two relationship guides that really specialize in how to get over cheating in a relationship. The second resource, Pull Your Ex Back, plays on the hidden psychology of your girlfriend's mind and uses it to bring her quickly back to you. Visit our Resource Review Page for more detailed information on these and other instantly downloadable guides to relationship repair. Tailored to fit your own relationship situation, learn shortcut strategies to winning her back by drawing out your ex's true feelings for you.
I guess I have to wait for the voicemails from all of you before I can cover certain situations. Today we’re going to flip the script a little bit and talk about what you need to do if you cheated on your ex-boyfriend and a breakup resulted.
If he has a question, be willing to prove to him that nothing is going on and you are his completely. But after a while started the paranoid fase, and he was always talking that we was always thinking about what I have done and details, we were sad all the time, sometimes even in silence for hours together. He still says that knows what he wants and its a future with me, but I think I need to do something so i search and found out you. I am not sure mine is the worst case you have ever heard of, but I am sure it will come close. During the breakup conversation, I made it known that I regretted my mistake and that it would never happen again.
But I tried to.I have gone through 3 long distance relationships before I was linked with my bf.
Seocndly, I did not feel that we were committed as we were not even engaged and we were yet to see each other. I was with my ex for 4 years until he had to move 9 and a half hours away for his education 2 years into the relationship.
I am so sure that afterwards he will just be bitterr towards me because he has always felt that our relationship was an unfair one.
I also want to add that I started the NC two days back after conversing with him regularly for the past 2 months. That’s not to say that it will take years to get him back, but it could take years before he’ll trust you again. You mentioned that you tried no contact before but you only lasted two weeks, which is pathetic. A woman who did cheat on her ex-boyfriend is going to have to do something a little bit different. You need to cut the other person that you cheated on your ex with out of your life completely. There is an aspect to this whole story that I think I should make clear before aaaaall else: I have found my soulmate. I let him know that I have always loved him, and my actions were a result of some kind of lacking within myself. I cheated on him last year (not physically) and he found out via social media in Jan of this year. KaranastasisThe techniques taught within this guide include 5 different approaches to winning your girlfriend back. In the show notes, I will take a screen shot of the email that she sent me to give you motivation and help you understand that this is not an impossible situation to recover from. If you’re trying to get your ex-boyfriend back when he’s in an angry mindset, you’re not going to get him back.
Too many women, especially ones who have cheated on their exes, think it’s a breach of privacy to show their boyfriends their text or Facebook messages. I knew from the moment I saw him, and even he (who doesnt particularly believe in these things) said that talking to me for the first time felt like as if we were just continuing a conversation that started way before (it didnt, we met there for the first time).
I told him that I cheated on him in September and we tried to work it out and it seemed like we were stronger than ever. In fact, I’ve helped a lot of women get their exes back who have cheated on their exes and admitted that they made a mistake. But if you were to attempt to get me back, I would approach it the way I’m going to teach you here.


But I think that’s the reason why you’re not going to get your ex-boyfriend back, until you overcome this headwind that he will have because you cheated. I think it is a little bit, but when it comes to getting an ex back who you cheated on, assume that he is extra paranoid about everything you do.
We got into an argument recently and he told me that he did not want to be with me right now because he did not want to hurt me him like I did. Anyways, my question is, how is one supposed to proceed with steps 4 and 5 (Reassurance and Prove Innocence) if they are not with the person?
He took me back for one week and broke up with me the next and we’ve been broken up ever since.
However, Brianna, I’m going to approach this like you were trying to get me back and what you would have to do to get me back. This is the approach that I would recommend if you’re trying to get an ex-boyfriend back who thinks like me. Number two, he’s also wondering whether or not you’re actually talking to your girlfriend or if you’re talking to some guy.
Everything was almost fine until he saw a message in my mobile when we were checking for a notepad in my mobile. Please if you could just jot down some pointers in a certain order that I can do and implement so as to win him back without thinking that I’m causing drama and being a total b*tch even after cheating on him. If he sees you on Facebook, flirting with some guy or liking his pictures, he’s going to think, “Cheater.” You don’t want to be branded a cheater, even though you cheated on him.
Then we dated for two and a half years (they were rough, but magical), and I cheated on him (a year ago from today), and I was just, a terrible person for a long time. I’ve been trying to do the NC rule but he constantly text my phone saying how much he is going crazy without me but he knows he needs his time so that he wont hurt me in the long run. Well, firstly, I told him immeditely (and even though it was only a kiss, I think it was as bad as it could be), and he did not want to break up with me.
He felt good and he was concerned about me.) Yesterday he showed me chat with a gal whom he may get married. This was the biggest mistake I have ever made, and all I want is for this person to be back in my life.
His family and I too are extremely close but they know nothing of the reason behind the break up.
Him and spoke every day after the break up and he just wants to be friends now and date other people.
Let him know through your actions and words that you are his completely and you don’t have eyes for anyone else. I started dating the other guy, he was a very interesting guy, and that was also pretty complicated because he had been in a similar situation with his first love (except he was the one that was cheated on and that broken up with), so he was a big help for me to deal with.
I have literally read all you’ve had to say on LDRs and wining trust back and the friend zone. Than, after three months, he said we need to not talk to each other for a month, so he could calm down, and he started dating someone else (well I know that he started talking with her earlier, a few weeks after the break-up), and now they had been together for like nine months..
The problem was, that he was all of a sudden the guy I fell in love with in the first place. So then came MY months of desperation, with the calling and crying (mine period was a month or two longer, but much less intense, so basically it was very similar).
I have always loved him, but I was a selfish monster since the break-up: throughout his and mine desperation period as well. So I twisted story telling my bf I lied to see his reaction as he told me he is fine with girl who had sex. A mutual friend of mine says that he is pretty sure they are going to break up soon, and even though I am not even that sure I want to be back with him again, I am certain, that he is my soulmate.
Wow, after telling my story, I dont even know what my question is ?? I wanted to ask if I had a chance, but that depends on so many things… I know this is a long run.
Sometime around his no-contact month, like a few days before it started, he told me some things about how he is a roller-coaster, and that we are each others roller-coasters, and that even if my new boyfriend doesnt make me as unhappy as he could from time to time, but he woulndt make me as happy either. So basically he said (and he was of corse right), that he knows his downs were very down, but his ups were also very up. Well I guess I just, after reading loads of your articles on the site, thought that you have a very good insight into relationships, and this has been an ongoing battle in my soul for some time now, so… it would be nice to hear a new perspective.



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