You keep hearing how you CAN get your girlfriend back, as long as you're patient, make the right moves, and take the proper steps at the right times. In actuality however, any lack of contact coming afer the breakup is most likely a good thing.
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Your ex boyfriend might have refused to talk to you, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get him back. Speaking for men, we don’t really cut off communication with a girl unless we have a pretty solid reason for it. In my experience, the most common reason for a guy to stop talking to his girlfriend is because she has been harassing him.
When you are messaging him constantly or commenting on all of his facebook status updates, you are telling him that you are not still needy and desperate. Maybe your instincts will have you believe that harassing him will make him come back, but it’s not so. OK, I understand it’s a little hard to comprehend the fact that he might move on during the no contact period. If he has a new girlfriend and she is not letting him talk to you, then you have a serious situation. Basically, when you stop pushing, he will start wondering what happened and will try to contact you.
However, if he doesn’t contact you during the no contact period, then you will have to take the matter in your own hands and contact him. For the reply, you can either pick up a message that I wrote in the fourth step of the 5-step plan. After you initiate contact with him, you have to make sure you don’t project an image of neediness.
I am on the NC right now after I broke up with my girlfriend, but her birthday is coming up, should I send her a birthday wish text message or not at all?
I would really appreciate your advice as ive read a lot recently & your piece has been the most hopeful for me so far.
Yes, I do think there is a chance and you should read this article to know how to implement no contact rule in your situation.
Hey Kevin , me and my ex have been broken up for 2 weeks and I’m heartbroken we had been together 2 years. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for around a year, and he said that he just wanted a break and that he is very stressed right now. If your ex girlfriend won’t talk to you, what you need to do is take a step back and think about the ways you might be turning her off. When a break up happens, it’s normal for a woman to want to put some distance between herself and her ex boyfriend.
She wants to try to get him off her mind and calm her feelings so she can think straight and work out whether or not she wants to be with him at all.
For her, having that space helps her begin to move on with her life, go out to party with friends and maybe even flirt with some new guys to make herself feel better. Yet, for the guy who has been dumped, not being able to be in contact with his ex girlfriend feels horrible. Emotional text messages never make an ex girlfriend feel more attraction and respect for a guy. Another reason why sending emotional text messages to an ex-girlfriend is a problem is that she has to GUESS at what emotional state he is when he sends the message. She can’t see his body language, listen to his tone of voice and assess his overall attitude and vibe via text, so she has to guess how he would be thinking, behaving and acting if he said something like that to her in person. During a break up, a woman will almost always assume that her ex-boyfriend is being insecure, desperate and needy, rather than guessing that he is feeling confident and emotionally secure at the time of sending the message. If you want to get your ex girlfriend to talk to you again, the only text message that you should be sending her is one that arranges to get her talking to you on the phone. When she’s talking to you on the phone, she can hear your confident, emotionally secure tone of voice and ask questions if she doesn’t understand what you mean. Your girlfriend would have given you some reasons why she broke up with you, but a woman will rarely tell you the real reasons.
A guy can make all kinds of promises to his ex, but unless he can work out how to make her feel the way that she really wants to feel when in a relationship, she won’t be interested in anything he has to say. Feeling confused and not knowing what else to do, some guys contact their ex girlfriend and say things like, “Please tell me what I did wrong and I promise that I change” or “I will do anything you want me to. So, before you do anything else, it’s important to understand why she broke up with you so that you can fix those things before you contact her. Think back to all of the fights that you and her had and think about the specific things she said to you. Ultimately, when you know the real reasons why your ex broke up with you, you can make the right changes. Many guys assume that by saying, “I promise to change if you give me another chance,” they are giving their girlfriend what she wants (i.e. Yet, in most cases, promising to change isn’t enough to make a woman give her boyfriend another chance.
After a while, a woman gets to a point where she feels like nothing will ever change and she just wants to feel the pain of a break up and move on, rather than having to continually go through the same cycle with him for life. Remember: Your ex girlfriend broke up with you because you stopped making her feel the way she wants to feel in the relationship.


Even though you are saying, “My ex girlfriend won’t talk to me,” what you need to realize is that the negative emotions she feels for you right now are not set in stone. If you are serious about getting your ex-girlfriend back, what you need to do is figure out exactly where you are going wrong and what you need to do instead. You need to focus on triggering her feelings of love, respect and attraction for you, rather than triggering feelings of anger, disgust, disappointment and apathy. My name is Dan Bacon I am 100% committed to helping men succeed with women and relationships. I've already helped countless men to get their woman back and I know that I can help you too.
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Watch the free training and you will learn how to get her back NOW without having to waste time ignoring her, or waste energy trying to convince her to give you another chance. When you call him and tell him that you miss him, you are telling him that you are miserable without him and you will do anything to get him back.
There is literally nothing you can do that won’t make you look like a crazy, jealous and stalky ex girlfriend.
If you are lucky, it’s just a rebound (Read more about him and his new girlfriend) and it will end soon. He might not even be able to cope with your silence and start acting a little crazy (angry texts, angry phone calls, mean facebook messages).
This means that the only reason he was so calm about the breakup is because you were making him feel like he still has you. Of course, before you contact him, you should make sure you have gone through the no-contact period and have done everything you are supposed to do during this time (Read the things you should do during the no contact period). You can go ahead and message him right away if you want as long as you don’t message him something needy. Everything you do or say should send out a message that you are a confident and happy person who is living her life to the fullest.
My best guess is he is having second thoughts about the relationship and he just wants to explore his options.
I was somewhat needy and text him about 6 times no response so should I just not contact anymore? Apply no contact and realize that you and your baby are better off without him in your life. She will try her best to avoid calling him, texting him or seeing him in person as much as possible. Instead, they just make her feel like her ex-boyfriend needs her for his emotional security and stability, which is something that women are instinctively turned off by. Get her on the PHONE and arrange a meet up where you can regain her respect and attraction for you by showing her that you’ve changed. If he can’t work it out on his own, most women would rather cut their losses and try to find another man who understands. He loves his ex-girlfriend and is willing to do whatever it takes, but she simply isn’t willing to teach him.
For example: If she said, “You never pay attention to me,” she was telling you that she was feeling neglected. Then, when you get her on the phone, you will be able to explain to that you fully understand why she felt the way she did and she will feel happy that you’re taking her concerns seriously. Why? When a relationship gets to the point where it has broken up, a woman has usually already given a guy plenty of chances to improve before that point. By fixing your issues, you will automatically begin to feel more appealing to your ex girlfriend when she next interacts with you. He understands that you are hurt from the breakup, and he understands that you want to convince him to get back together, and he is tired of it. In fact, everything you do that makes you look needy is going to make your ex boyfriend less attracted to you and more sure about his decision of breaking up.
If this is the situation, then there is nothing you can do unless he decides to end his no contact. If he decided to start no contact, then every message you send him is only going to make you more needy in his idea. If you are unfortunate, he might end up marrying the girl and you will never get to talk to him again.
The second one is an obvious ploy to get him to talk to you and the third one is simply boring.
You can set an alarm for 30 minutes on your phone and not reply him until the 30 minutes is over. If you want, you can become acquainted with her, but I think it’ll be better for you to just contact with him and move on. He kept texting casual convo which made me mad because I thought he felt bad for me and would move on and him not wanting to be with me made me feel like a doormat. I was with my boyfriend for 5.5 years, in this time we were madly in love with eachother, we brought a house together & everything was fine until about 4 months ago i would say! As for whether or not he will come back, no one can say for sure, but it’s worth trying.
A month after the first break-up, we saw each other in our hometown and we got back together. However, I made a mistake and texted him a few days afterwards and he said that it is over and that he is moving on.. At first he said we can get back together and in the mean time we’ll just be friends. He wants to stay on her mind, not out of her mind, so he texts and messages her as often as he can. He will wonder why his ex girlfriend suddenly stops wanting to talk to him and just won’t make any sense. If she said, “I’m always the one doing the dishes while you play your video games,” she was telling you that you were taking her for granted.


Each time it has happened, he has promised to change, but he just keeps falling back into his old ways. I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too. I am sure that’s not what you want, that’s why you should take a step back and go on no contact for a while. One day I missed him a lot and I threw a little tantrum saying things are getting tough whenever I miss you.
He told me that he regretted breaking up with me, that he missed me,loved me, and I missed him too really, but a few days later I had to leave back to college and that meant not seeing him again. And one of his kind of close friends said that he really didn’t want to do this that his grades were just slipping. View customer success stories, browse my products or watch this mind-blowing video about success with women. If he still doesn’t respond, then you can either try again after 15 days or try to move on (my advice will be to move on, but I have a feeling you won’t take it).
I don’t want to sugarcoat it but if a guy lets a girl decide whom he talks to, then he is pretty serious about her. As well as all this i was very unhappy in my job to the point ide cry at breakfast from frustration, i let go of myself & the person he fell in love with, i nagged him a lot & made him feel bad for having fun! If he doesn’t want a relationship right now, does that mean that he doesn’t want a relationship all of school? I told him I would be home that night after having an emotional breakdown but ended up falling asleep on my friend’s couch.
We decided we only wanted each other and to stay together until they were in College and then be married. You see our relationship was starting to head south at the end of our relationship, and it was apparent that he was very stressed out because of school, exams, and pressure from his parents. He said the more we love each other, we would miss each other more and he don’t want a girlfriend who lives 100s of miles away.
He told my mum that there is zero hope for us he doesnt want this no way no how despite the fact that i found out that 2 months ago he asked my mum for my hand in marriage!
I saw something on his profile then, got me pissed and I deleted him, him and all of his friends then. I just want to fix and revive our relationship, I realize that he still has feelings for me but I am terrified that he is going to just give up and move on completely.
Then i went into stupid phase recently begging him to give us a chance while he says theres no hope & he doesnt love me the same way as before! We own a house together & hes already called someone to come talk to us about our options & either selling or getting one of our names off! I took a flight to see him without telling him, he opened the door for me then kept saying we can’t be together. Im my heart im praying to God he sees sense because he is truly the man i wanted to have a future & partnership with.
When I said something about it he sent a text he was fed up and wanted a break and for me to leave him alone. When he got home he talked saying that I could live in the apartment and he would stay elsewhere. He said I just kept bringing him down with me when I was upset and that he couldn’t take it anymore.
He left to go spend time with family and when he came back we got in a fight and I ended up calling my parents saying I couldn’t be there anymore. I was too angry at the time and I wanted time alone as I know he just don’t want me to stay in his flat.
And I still love him a lot…I try so hard to distract myself but deep down I still want him.
On the way home he began to cry, which he never does, and I tried to get him to talk to me. We sat in the car and he told me he didn’t want to be distanced from his daughter and cried more.
I then told him he cant force himself to have feelings for me that aren’t there and he began to cry more.
That night his mom came to get him to try to take his mind off of things and she ended up telling me I was being selfish. I responded by saying I needed to leave to get help for my depression that made him feel like I brought him down with me. The next day my parents came to get me and that night he texted me saying he hopes I made it safely. The first few days I texted him saying I missed him and that I loved him but he would ignore my texts.
He called saying there is no chance of us getting back together but we can be friends and see where it goes from there. I also noticed he was talking to his ex who from what he told me didn’t make him happy.
A week after he broke up with me I texted him an update of the baby and that I did indeed tell the doctor that I have been depressed for years and I had gotten anti depressents. He said Thats great to the baby update and Thats good to me getting help and somehow it got brought up about us getting back together and he said he would never have feelings for me again. We didn’t text for two days then he texted me asking a question about something and I asked him about his family who has been ill and how he was doing. His response was just the word alright and he said he was tired so I said okay and to text me later.
He keeps telling me one thing then tells me another and Im confused and I feel like he is too.



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