Anyways, men who get their hearts stomped on by their ex girlfriends often come to this site trying to make sense of the events that have just turned their lives upside down and that is where I come in. And I am going to help you right here right now by teaching you to use one of the most powerful emotions to your advantage, regret!
In this section I am basically going to sum up exactly what this guide is going to cover and how it can help you with your ex girlfriend. If I am assuming these things then it is pretty much common sense that in order for her to want you back you are going to have to make her regret letting you go. Well, below I have put together a game plan outlining exactly how we are going to go about this process.
Of course, before I really start tackling these subjects one by one lets talk a little about the power of regret.
Simple, it means that if humans had the ability to time travel they would turn back time and NOT break up with that person. Well, if I was dating your ex and in my mind I dubbed her as the one that got away then given the opportunity I would get back with her.
Now, imagine if you could do this to your own ex girlfriend in your real life situation right now? When you look at getting an ex girlfriend back from a birds eye view it makes sense that in order for her to want to take you back she is going to have to regret letting you go.
One is about a man who ended up getting his ex girlfriend back and the other is about a men who didn’t.
So, Joe ended up finding my site, Ex Girlfriend Recovery, read through it and thought my advice was brilliant.
He really wanted his girlfriend back and thought my strategies were his best shot to do that.
When it actually came time to implement my strategies he didn’t have the strength of mind to follow through.
I don’t think its too shocking that Joe ended up being a little too clingy with his ex by contacting her and she ended up moving on and finding some other guy.
Both of them wanted to implement my strategies but the one difference between Joe and Max was the fact that Max actually implemented the no contact rule.
As a result, his ex was the one who became infatuated with HIM and not the other way around.
Well, because after a breakup (especially if your girlfriend broke up with you) then on some level she is probably expecting you for her to beg her back.
All Joe did was reaffirm his exes belief that he was still into her and as a result he did nothing to make her regret her decision in breaking up with him. Before I get started I am going to make a pretty big assumption about you and your girlfriend. After years of relying on you for emotional support it is quite easy to take things for granted. Have you ever noticed that women have this constant need to remain friends with their exes after a breakup? So, what we have here (if you remain friends with your ex after the breakup) is a situation where your ex girlfriend has no way of missing you or regretting the breakup. It takes the ability for her to rely on you emotionally out of the equation and completely reshapes her thinking.
Believe it or not but Frank Sinatra is going to help you in your quest to make your girlfriend regret the breakup with you. For example, if I had a girlfriend that broke up with me because I didn’t make enough money and the very next day I created a business that earned me millions a year then that girlfriend would be felling pretty bad about her decision. Above I talked about the important of a no contact rule and how it can almost single-handily work to make your ex have feelings of regret. Well, if you truly want a double whammy of regret (yes, I did just say that) then you should start implementing the FS Effect immediately when you start the no contact rule.
On the other hand, someone who earns $500,000 or half a million a year (for those of you can’t count) is considered MASSIVELY successful.
If you really want to have an impact on your ex girlfriend then you need to raise the bar of what you are trying to accomplish in your life. Ok, lets talk a little bit about how to raise the bar in your life so you are considered massively successful.
These three aspects of life are intimately intertwined and if one aspect of them lags a little bit then the others suffer as well.
So, if you are a bit overweight and you know you should be hitting the gym more then don’t just go there with the intent of losing weight.
If the epitome of financial success for you is to make six figures a year then that is all you will ever strive for. However, if you change your paradigm and shoot for half a million a year then amazing things are going to happen for you. Getting her back and ending up together long term (maybe permanently) is what I would call a MASSIVE success. Well, you are obviously reading this website and you like what I am talking about but do you really buy in to what I am saying? Sometimes it takes a little push (from you) for them to realize that they made a mistake in letting you go. Now, when I first created Ex Girlfriend Recovery I wrote a pretty extensive guide on jealousy here. So, before you read on in this section I recommend that you take a look at that guide and read on how to properly use jealousy for your situation. Actually what I would like to do is give you an example of one of my favorite jealousy methods that I think would really work well for your situation.
Now, before I really get into the meat of this method I feel I need to give you a few disclaimers. Instead of just teaching you the method (which I plan on doing) I would like to explain the effect it has on a woman and how it can work to make her regret the breakup. Off the top of my head, a movie that just came out (and this might date the article a bit for future readers but I don’t care I am trying to make a point here) that meets this criteria is Fifty Shades Of Grey. I am sure there are some exceptions to that but for the sake of making a point here I am stereotyping. Realistically, a guy would take his girlfriend or two friends who are girls would want to go see that movie. This is important because you are going to use this stereotype to your advantage when it comes to your ex girlfriend. The greatest part of the whole thing is you get to stay in the clear because the text is so general it looks like your not trying to make her jealous. Now, you may still be wondering what this has to do with making an ex girlfriend regret letting you go.
The whole point of trying to make your ex girlfriend jealous is that you are trying to illicit a reaction from her. Because if she is having a reaction like jealousy then that means on some level she still cares about you.
Even if she won’t verbalize the words she will know deep down that she still has feelings for you and that is exactly what you want. Now, I am not saying that guarantees you a shot of winning her back but it is a step in the right direction because you will hold sway over her. I would feel bad if I didn’t at least mention the connection between the GIGS (Grass Is Greener Syndrome) and regret because without a doubt their connection is deeply intertwined.
GIGS- The Grass Is Greener Syndrome occurs when a girl breaks up with a guy with the thought that she can do better than him.
Simple, if your ex girlfriend leaves you with the thought that she can do better and she determines that she can’t then she is going to regret her decision to leave you.
In fact, my very first girlfriend way back in High School (a long time ago but bear with me) had a bit of the grass is greener syndrome. Our relationship was pretty tainted with fights and arguments so after we went our separate ways I completely ignored her and didn’t talk to her on purpose. She of course tried to move on but the new guy she started dating couldn’t live up to the standard I had set with her. I didn’t know any of this until she called my best friend (who I happened to be standing right next to) looking to see if he could convince me to give her a call.
There is all sorts of interesting things you can do with these little messages that go to your ex partners phone and that is what I am going to talk about right now.
This article is going to talk about the strategies that go behind texting which I imagine is going to prove to be extremely valuable to the readers of this article.
Alright, so with this section I am going to be talking about two BIG ideas that you need to implement if you want your ex to regret the breakup with you. Believe it or not but it is actually VITALLY important that you learn to pinpoint the high point because it is going to really come in handy when it comes to your ex. Lets say that I am texting your ex girlfriend and we are having a really interesting conversation about relationships. Notice how after this point the quality of the conversation begins to dip pretty drastically.
It’s simple really, they wait until the conversation quality dips before the end the conversation and this leads me to my next point.
There is nothing memorable about ending a texting conversation after the quality of the conversation drops. When you are texting your ex girlfriend MAKE SURE you end the conversation right at the high point. You see, to her, if you are having a good conversation then the conversation will most likely continue. The ZE (Ziegnerik Effect) basically states that human beings remember uncompleted tasks better than completed ones. This works wonders for getting her to respond to your future text messages and it will also raise your value in her eyes. Oh, and in case you didn’t know, raised value in an ex correlates directly to regret.
Seeing your ex girlfriend in person is always a tricky subject because often times it goes so fast.
Well, you are expected to respond to her question in a timely manner and some guys get so caught up with extracurricular things that they really struggle to focus and they stumble with their answers. Ok, I highly doubt you will be faced with that situation but what I am trying to get at here is that you are highly attracted to this woman, you clearly want her back and if she is FINALLY sitting across from you it can be easy to be caught up in the moment and lose track of why you are seeing her in the first place, to make her regret letting you go.
So, what I would like to do now is give you my best tip for seeing your ex girlfriend in person.
Now, I don’t want to overload you with too much so I am just going to give you this one tip. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. I had a fight with my girlfriend and i keep saying shits up, I was too clingy and over thinking.
Hi, so I’d been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and was the happiest guy alive when I was with her. Sorry to add more, but it’s also difficult because with exams coming up and me going back to uni in the next week I am worried that it might not be repairable. I’m getting more muscular, and i dress better than i used to when we dated, how to just cut her off? A girl I was talking to ended our relationship because I am planning on moving soon, and she still has a couple years of school. Without going into a whole backstory, this girl still comes to the coffee shop I work at, which is also the same place we met.
Hi there looking for a bit of advice i have just came out of a 10 year realstionship and we have two children together she told me her feelings have changed etc towards me she tells me to move on etc but as soon as thers girls commenting on my Facebook etc shes texts me saying i hope your new gf makes u happy when im bot with a girl i dont know weather she still loves me and is confussed???? I have good spirits visiting this website, so if someone can talk to me and help me it’d be just awesome right now. However, if I have learned anything from my tenure here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery it is that what people say and what people do can sometimes be completely different things. Through this page I am going to show you exactly what you need to do in order to leave your ex with feelings of regret. I know that what everyone on this site really wants is a step by step plan tailor made to help them get their ex boyfriends back.
One of the biggest concerns from visitors to Ex Boyfriend Recovery has to be if their ex boyfriend would even consider a reconciliation. Of course, what you say in public, or on the internet and what you know to be true can be completely different. So, when I started reading all of these forum comments of guys saying that they didn’t ever regret letting their exes go I got curious to see just how many of them were searching the internet for advice on how to get their girlfriends back.
In the example I gave a few sections above I literally proved that there are actually more men regretting letting go of their exes than women. It all seemed so fun in your head yet after your breakup things aren’t going exactly how you thought they would go. The Quick Way- Essentially regret will kick in 1-4 weeks after the breakup of a relationship. Well, when you date someone for close to a year you get used to talking with them every single day. I want you to imagine that in every relationship you get into with a man you are going to be given a number between 1 and 10.
The only problem with that is the fact that sometimes men don’t realize how good they had it with you.

Now, I want you to imagine that he dated another girl and she doesn’t compare to the standard you set.
Right now the goal you are shooting for is to become someone that your ex would regret letting go. It shouldn’t come as a shock that men are attracted to beautiful and intelligent women. If I were to take these two women and line them up against a wall and ask random men to meet each one of them separately something tells me that most of the men would choose the intelligent woman over the non intelligent woman for a long term relationship. Throughout my book, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO you constantly hear me talking about the Ungettable Girl. Because if a girl is like this then that means she isn’t going to be overly available to a man.
So, the first big thing I think you need to realize is to STOP making everything in your life about your ex boyfriend.
Every woman who I have advised to master the art of moving on to create an opportunity to get their ex back has been given an opportunity to get him back. Now that you have the basic principles down one pressing question remains, when do you put all this moving on to get an opportunity into effect?
If you have never heard of the no contact rule then I am just going to let you know that it is an ESSENTIAL part of making an ex regret leaving.
The no contact rule is a widely accepted philosophy that after a breakup you should enter into a period of no contact with your ex. However, if you have some weird circumstance where it’s not possible for you to complete the 30 day period then just run it by me in the comments section of this page and I will get back to you within a day and give you some help on what to do. I can tell you that as smart and clever as I am when it comes to dealing with people it drives me up the wall when I know for a fact that someone is ignoring me. When I started this section I talked about how the no contact rule can work on two fronts to incite regret. Getting an ex boyfriend back is hard work and most of the women who fail on here fail because they are lazy. Look, you can’t expect to just do the no contact rule and wake up one day to have him at your doorstep. In other words, you need to use that time of solitude to become someone that he will regret. Remember, life starts at the end of your comfort zone so it is time to step outside the comfort zone and make yourself into the best version of you that has ever existed. So far, this whole guide has been about one thing, making an ex boyfriend regret his decision to leave your relationship.
Many of you probably think I am going to give this huge monologue on power and how you must always have the upper hand but I promise that this isn’t a mistake because of not having the power. Now, I know the two of you are broken up right now but if you think back to your relationship were you constantly talking his ear off?
Now, lets fast forward to the present where you are bombarding him with text messages and calls.
With every text or call bombardment by you, you are further cementing his position that he is glad that the two of you don’t date anymore.
However, every time you break no contact to selfishly feel better just to talk to him you could be damaging your chances at making him truly regret letting you go. While it has opened up my life in many different ways it has also forced me to dissect every little thing that happens in my personal life. But for me it is literally like torture because I know whats happening while its happening and I can’t do anything about it.
Because you waited so long to respond I was constantly checking my phone for your response. Can you imagine what would happen if you got a guy used to a certain schedule when it comes to texting you and all of a sudden you interrupted that schedule? The second a guy feels that he has something to lose (which would be you in this case) is the second he realizes just how much he cares for that something or someone ;). I guess the ultimate trend is that you have to have moments where you are very available to a guy and then suddenly become unavailable and then swing back to available and then back to unavailable and so on and so forth. I guess the question on the table right now is how do you implement this trend to re-attract your ex boyfriend?
I would like you to take a moment and revisit the section I wrote about on the no contact rule and how it can help you. You want this to happen because if he gets antsy about you contacting him it means he wants it to happen deep down. Remember, the point of this is to spread your interactions out so you leave him wanting more. One of the biggest mistakes I see women make after the no contact rule is going from zero to sixty way too fast. Yes, the ultimate goal we are trying to achieve here is to put you in a position where you and your ex can chat all day long without a hiccup.
So, the smartest way is to slowly work your way to a point where you can talk for a long period of time throughout the day. I am a guy so I can tell you that most men daydream and usually when we really daydream about a girl we like it can be a powerful way of igniting our true feelings for that girl. One of the most powerful ways you can re-ignite your exes feelings for you is through the power of daydreams. In other words, you are going to cast your daydream bait out there and hope he bites the line and starts daydreaming about a future with you and him in it.
The daydream that someone would want their ex boyfriend to daydream about if they were to use this particular text should be a romantic getaway in Hawaii.
If you don’t leave your ex boyfriend wanting more during an interaction with him (texting, calling or in person) then that interaction should be viewed as a failure. Well, the idea is to really get them hooked into what you are saying and then all of a sudden end the conversation…. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. So after a year of dating, my boyfriend and I slowly started getting distant because baseball started for him and track and work took up a majority of my schedule. Last Sunday, No Contact finished, so I decided to send an interesting text… no response.
So the next day, I send a heartfelt message saying how I apologize again for how things went down and that I wanted to start over and sent hopeful wishes that his semester is going well. So later on that day or the next day (I forget), I respond say I’m doing well and ask how his work has been. So then I skip a day because it was the third day and respond the next day (Friday, saying how I really like the album and I ask how he’s been), no response. My boyfriend of six months dumped me a few days ago because he didn’t fall in love with me, but he said he loves me and cares about me. Time and experience teaches them that they made a mistake in leaving the relationship with that person. For example, Joe thought the idea of a no contact rule was brilliant but found that when push came to shove he couldn’t actually cut his ex off.
So, when you do the exact opposite of what she is expecting it kind of catches her by surprise and she doesn’t know how to handle it.
In other words, you are not allowed to use this during your NC period or when you are working on yourself via the Frank Sinatra Effect.
Well, this is a topic that both of us find stimulating and we end up talking for two hours.
We last about almost 3 week but we were lovers for a long time, but I want her back, we studied in the same collage and in the same class section, what should i do to get her back, p.s. University meant I left the area that we both lived in and I could no longer give her the time that she wanted and needed. I might not be able to see her for another 3 weeks and even then she might have exams and in that case it might be months before I get to see her again. She went to school 2 hours away from the school that I went to, but the distance wasn’t bad. Imagine if you could be such an influence on your ex that you could make him choose to come back to you.
I am sure that you have probably spent an hour searching for one and then you came across this site and saw that my guides were insightful and helpful.
I called it Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO and basically put all of my knowledge down for you to absorb.
Many of these sources were forums full of women asking men if they ever regretted breaking up with their exes. Saying in public that you really regret letting go of your ex girlfriend can be perceived as a weakness but I know enough about the way relationships work to know that a lot of what men say publicly is meaningless. That means that every month about 9,900 women are typing that particular phrase into Google.
In other words, statistics say that more men than women actually regret letting their exes go. I think the best way I can explain this to you is to explain the regretting process of men.
I remember after I broke up with a girlfriend I started regretting my decision a bit later I think it was predestined though. One of the biggest problems I think that women have when it comes to getting an ex back revolves around how much effort you put into getting him back.
I love the effort I really do but the fact of the matter is that you are putting your effort in the wrong place.
Both of these women were considered to be the same level of attractiveness except there is a huge difference in personality between the two of them.
In other words, the guy is always having to work to get her attention and while many guys whine about the chasing process deep down we all kind of like it. I know that is a weird thing to say for a site that specializes in reuniting women with their exes but it’s almost like you have to train yourself to NOT want your ex boyfriend. You still want your ex boyfriend back but you have accepted the fact that even if you do everything right things might not fall in your favor. If you are faking moving on then it is really not happening and you are more likely to be insincere.
However, experience has taught me that nothing should ever be set in stone and there are certain situations where 30 days isn’t practical. If you are able to lull a men into a sense of false security where he is hopeful for the future and can see happiness with you and then you sweep the rug out from under him something amazing happens.
In other words, as long as you do the no contact rule with no breaks it should stir up some type of regret within your ex boyfriend. When I first started this site I was a little afraid to speak up and hurt your feelings so I let it slide but I am not like that anymore. There are things that you can do that can cause an ex boyfriend to NOT regret letting you go. While there is still a lot more to cover on that subject I think it can speak volumes to look at some of the most common mistakes people make. It’s not like you are doing anything too crazy like throwing a rock through his house window.
I am not saying that this was the reason he broke up with you but it was an annoyance that factored into his decision. You may feel something inside of you that tells you to talk to him because he is your “best friend” right? In this section I am going to literally teach you what you need to do to make any man regret leaving you. Believe me, if it was easy then every broken hearted girl would have the ability to wrap a man around her finger. However, if you are willing to put in the work then I assure you that you are going to put yourself in the best position to get an opportunity to win him back. Yes, I am going to literally tell you how you need to interact with me in order to get me to fall for you. For example, if I really like someone I try to figure out exactly what they did to make me like them. Now, I do feel it is important to hit the pause button here so I can explain exactly why I chose to use an example of us meeting for the first time. Lets say that the two of us found each other attractive, we talked for a few hours and exchanged numbers so we can stay in touch. This is a really good sign because any time that you can get a guy to check his phone for a response it means that you have value to him in someway. I know it is a messed up game to play but it’s worked on me every single time and its worked on billions of other men too. Actually, lets move on so we can see how we can apply this new found trend to your ex boyfriend.
One of the hidden aspects of the no contact rule is the fact that it allows you to ramp up the tension. Well, you can’t leave your ex boyfriend wanting more if he knows he can have you all the time. However, it is more powerful if you do it the way I am trying to show you as opposed to doing it right out of the gate.
If I go on a date with a girl I like and I am so enthralled about my dating experience with that girl that I daydream about her when I am trying to fall asleep then that is a really good sign for her because it means that the next day I am going to wake up and the first thing I think of will be her. You get a fishing pole, put some bait on a line and then you cast that line into the water in the hopes that a fish will bite the bait and get hooked on your line.

Notice how it is not specified if it is you or your ex who will be taking this trip to Hawaii. Eventually we barely hung out and I understood he was genuinely busy because of colleges, baseball, and having guy time with his friends. In hindsight I should have lengthened the response a bit more to seem like I’m busier.
I think she is married and has two kids now but if I could go back in time I would marry her. Our relationship was great but marked with patches of serious downers where she threatened to break up with me and we had breaks.
I don’t understand why she keeps coming in, knowing there is a chance she may see me there. In essence, I suppose it can be argued that this guide is all about improving your chances of making an ex want you back which is what almost everyone on this site wants.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? Heck, a lot of people have already succeeded in trying to get their exes back through my guides.
Of course, as I predicted above most of the men that chimed in said that they didn’t. Now, obviously if a breakup occurs the number that you were given has fallen below a satisfactory level. We are always obsessed with getting the newest things and sometimes that carries over into our relationships. One thing that I constantly notice about these type of women is the fact that have more in their life than men.
So, while you have hope alive you don’t want to be caught in limbo land so you start doing things to kind of move on.
The point of this exercise isn’t to tell you that you have no hope or anything morbid like that. Every single one who has done this successfully (that I have heard back from) has always said to me that their ex started chasing them again.
I am still a fan of the 30 day no contact period so if it is within your power to complete one I would say to complete it. Instead of walking home depressed and with his tail between his legs, you sweeping the rug out from under his feet will create this sense that he lost something and this sense makes a man realize how much he really liked you in the first place.
When the two of you were first dating he was probably on the edge of his seat for every text response.
With this in mind you are going to have accept that fact that you may have to make some major changes and put in some major work. I can’t promise that you will succeed but I can promise to raise your chances substantially. After a while I started to become hyper aware of these trends that women do during interactions that work almost every single time.
The reason I did this as opposed to using one where the two of us are imaginary exes is that I want you to grasp the concept first.
In other words, your ex boyfriend is almost expecting you to become annoying and beg him to take you back at some point.
You want him to wake up the next day and be checking his phone every five seconds hoping that you will text him. So, the day after your initial first communication (which wasn’t supposed to last all that long) I want you to enter into a full no contact mode for a day. Now, you have waited 30 days for this moment and now that it is finally here you just let loose and we talk all day long.
Well, the fishing analogy holds true to what you are going to be trying to do with daydream bait.
Me and him are both going to prom with different people and I just miss him so much and I want to be with him again but idk if I should wait till after prom before I contact him or try to talk to him more before prom so we can hangout there. But eventually it got to the point where the love he gave to me was vanishing and I became very needy and sad.
He texted twice in these two months saying that I shouldn’t keep thinking about it and that I should move on in life, because he wants to see me happy. Lately we’ve been fighting over everything and one day the fight was large and he told me the doesnt love me like before and he wants to break up. So, around the one and a half hour mark the conversation quality begins to drop off slowly. However, as time went on I found that people wanted more and more of these step by step guides. Now, maybe when you were planning the breakup of your relationship in your head you thought it would be a good idea.
It is only until he goes out into the world and experiences the horror that is other women (who are not you) that he will finally realize what a mistake he made. It isn’t impossible that a long lasting relationship can become boring and sometimes if a guy feels like this he may want something new. Look, I totally have your back when it comes to getting him back or making him regret letting you go. You see, more often than not these type of women really want to feel loved by a man but their whole life doesn’t revolve around that principle. The point of this is to put you in a position where you have an opportunity to reignite a connection and the best way to do that is to show your ex that your world doesn’t revolve around him.
For example, if I were to be invited to a party and meet a very pretty girl I am sure that I would like her within minutes. However, somewhere along the way it changed and he started getting annoyed with all the attention he was getting. While the texting between the two of us commences we are going to have a long conversation. So, when he sees that the opposite is happening, you ignoring him, he begins to get antsy and may even want you to message him a little bit.
I miss him so much I get sick to my stomach and cry myself to sleep I really don’t know what to do. I would always mention how things were different and he apologized and said he would work on it better. T was cousins with a guy I had an one night stand with so I thought it would be weird is I had a relationship with T and I didn’t try anything.
The first 1 month, there was no contact between us but he felt that I want him back from my posts on facebook and told my friends that he doesnt want me back. She told me yesterday that she needed another break after finding out drugs were involved when I went on a night out with some old friends that she doesn’t like. It’s good that you already apologized and if she contacts you within that week, talk to her. Maybe you thought that you would spend all of your time with your best friends hopping from bar to bar meeting new girl after new girl.
It is a period of complete silence where you don’t talk or respond to your ex in any way shape or form. Now, that doesn’t mean I am going to date her because I am smart enough to know that there is more to a relationship than just sheer looks.
Eventually I said we needed a break to breathe and figure things out which he disagreed and said we could work it out. But all of a sudden, one day he called to tell me he slept with someone and hence not sure of his feelings towards me.
He keeps posting on social media hinting that he misses what we had but I am not sure if he is really sincere. When I knew I stopped my posts on facebook and deleted our pictures and deleted his number from my whatsapp so I show him that I dont care.
She hung up shortly after when I was talking, claiming she was going to have fun with her friends…. So, every interaction I have with her after the initial meeting is going to shape my perception of her. I did this for 3 weeks after that he called me because he knew that my father is in hospital so I sounded cool. She needed my support and it was hard because all I wanted to do was be with her and she just kept doing her thing regardless of how I felt. He added me on Facebook and we talked there a few times, we met again without arraging it though and we teased each other.
On February 28th she broke up with me randomly saying she needed more support and time to be herself with out me, said she needed space.
I texted her two long paragraphs, one was extremely brutal (pessimistic, narcissistic c*** who loves to whore around being the main one). So, maybe the next day I decide to send you a text to say hello hoping to have another amazing deep and insightful conversation. The second text was the day after, and it was my respectful goodbye, to which she replied with careless responses.
And so we talked on the phone, got everything out and he genuinely seemed like we would be together again. We saw each other on easter and it gave me more hope and said she wanted to give me another chance one day but she just wanted to be friends for now.
Suddenly prom tickets were going to be on sale and he said he didn’t know if he wanted to go with me because everything was confusing right now.
I’ve already apologised and told her I will leave her alone until she feels like talking, but she has exams coming up and I want to make sure she is alright all the time because she is insecure. Well, I found out that she only wanted to be friends and she needs to live her life with out me and she said she needs to put me in the friend zone box for now. He told me I should go with my friends because he thinks I would have a better time with them and he said he wasn’t sure if he was going to go but if he did he would ask another girl. He said nothing about it besides why I didn’t tell him earlier and a few days later we were at a bar each one on his own and he texted me to say he liked me too but he was scared of the distance (because I was leaving) because he just got out of a long distance relationship at the start of the summer.
I got so upset because I would be there with my friends while he would be with his date and it made me so mad.
Long story short I fought for this girl for so long, she never cared for me in that way, she had already hurt me to the extreme last year, many times, she eventually missed me when I wouldn’t speak to her, let alone ignore her (at the time we worked with eachother, she was my manager ?? ) finally I gave her one last chance, eventually we became a couple, it was beautiful in the beginning till the end of January, then it all went to hell. A senior boy then asked me to prom and i said yes because one it would make him jealous and two I would have sometime to take nice pics with and just have a good time with a friend. This girl is my first love, and right now I just don’t want her back, though my emotions tell me different.
When my ex found out about the senior he deleted all our pictures except for one from prom last year and unfollowed me on Instagram and Twitter. Its wrong of me to say this, but even though I don’t want her back (this was her last chance) I want her to regret dumping me, and I want to be the one who got away.
It literally broke me because I feel like there is no way of getting back together because he unfollowed me. I texted him the other day (it’s been like 3 weeks since the breakup) just to ask how baseball was going and he responded within 30 seconds and sent long paragraphs about it and asked me how track was going. The convo lasted 30 minutes and I told him I had to go to bed and I’d see him the next day. I got back for Christmas and a friend that was his friend too told him he was about to make a move. And I’ve been going out more than usual with my friends and having a great time with them but I have moments where I just get sad and miss him so much.
We texted all day long and we met once outside his house for a quick kiss because he just came from work.
I told him to come with me and my friends for coffee but he was already out so we said to meet up later. He didn’t answer the next day when I called him to meet up and discuss this so I went to find him. I asked him to tell me why he did this and he said I didn’t deserve to know because I spoke to him badly. When I asked him why he did kiss me if he wasn’t sure about it he said that he wanted to be sure and now he is.
After one more time I accidently saw him we didn’t see each other or talked to each other for about a month and a half. About two weeks ago I went to the hospital and when he learned about it from a common friend he showed he cared about me for the first time, not to me though, to our friend. Now I’m in my home town for the holidays and I walked by his shop a couple of days ago with some friends. We stopped a little further to take something to eat and we saw him crossinf the street twice looking our way.
Later I found out from my best friend that happens to be sisters with his best friend that her sister asked her a lot all that time when I was going to go to my home town and that means he asked.
Even though I am still in love with him I don’t want him back right now but eventually I will, I just want him to realise he did wrong and what he lost and come back begging. My bff told me to be friendly but not to much, distant but not mean and not to show my feelings to him.
She says that when I meet him I should said hi and even talk to him a little, just the basics.

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