Our goal is to help you by delivering amazing quotes to bring inspiration, personal growth, love and happiness to your everyday life. To be successful with women, you don’t have to be a bad boy or jerk, but you do have to display the personality traits and behaviors that women are naturally attracted to.
If you want a woman to feel sexually attracted, you’ve got to actively turn her on with your conversation style, body language, vibe, etc.
When you trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman, she will then appreciate all the other good things about you (e.g. Most women do want to find themselves a good guy, but that guy also has to make her feel attracted.
When you make a woman feel sexually attracted to you, she then really appreciates that you’re also a good guy.
If a woman is attractive, most of the guys who see her will be willing to have sex with her simply based on her appearance. When a woman interacts with a guy, his personality, vibe and behavior is either going to turn her on, make her feel neutral or friendly towards him or turn her off.
If you want girls to like you and want to be in a sexual relationship with you, the main thing that you need to focus on is your ability to make women feel attracted to you when you interact with them. When you know how to properly attract women, you will see that picking up women for sex or a relationship is actually one of the easiest things that a guy can do in life. It took me a long time to work out that guys can actively make women feel attracted to them based on what they SAY and DO during an interaction. Instead of trying to get women to like me, they automatically liked me because they were feeling sexually attracted and turned. Your current lack of ability to attract women is the real reason why women don’t like you. I will email you 3-4 times a week with new tips, techniques and examples of how to attract women for sex and relationships. I have been learning a lot of the techniques from the modern man and I would like to say a big thank you for all the things that you and the boys have put out there for men struggling with women. Unfortunately, I haven’t been putting your teachings into action until recently, due to my own stupidity. I kind of have a funny appearence and I notice people scoff from time to time, which can sometimes knock the confidence out of me, but the modern man is quick to pick me back up.
I appreciate all the advice you guys are giving out to help others and hats off to you, for having the courage to do what you have done in the past to acquire the skills you have today. Yes, I have that sincere empathy because I know what it’s like to be in the same position and I am committed to this cause. Anyways Dan, my best wishes for you and your woman for the future, you deserve only the best.
I have tried to be confident and women see right through it, im not a ugly guy and believe that I am a good catch, but im not compitable with a lot of women as well, my shattered self-esteem comes from a terrible childhood that still affects me to this day, my false confidence, I hate where I can’t be myself in my life but putting on a act is all I know how to do,help me someone, anyone. Spending some time with a girlfriend is always possible, no matter how busy your lifestyle is. By the way: You mention that girls like chatting to you, but you are shy when you talk to them face to face. Now my question is: How can you stop thinking about her All the time and place so MUCH value in her?
Please a response would really make my day, I am looking very forward to a response thanks. Its all very well saying do this and do that but if a guy doesnt get a chance to learn how is he going to improve his chances of succeeding if women wont give him a chance to learn,vicous circle aint it?
You see interracial couples all the time, so you can have a relationship with a woman of another race. O yeah I wanted to ask as well whats wrong with being tense or nervous if you are naturally like that to begin with and you have low self esteem due to not being succesful with girls to begin with too and being an alpha male? Hey Dan just want to ask where I’d go to meet women as I dont know any as there arent any in my circle of friends I dont see any at work as dont have a job. Should I just tone down the rock thing when talking to club type girls or sporty women because I don’t really wanna be a fashion chameleon choping and changing every 5 seconds depending on who I’m talking to, or does it really not matter? Recently, but not for the first time, a frustrated friend-girl of mine asked if men are looking for “the perfect woman?” I answered simply: Yes. I think a lot of people, men and women, expect others to evaluate them as they evaluate themselves. We’re fine picking a quality woman and committing to that woman – as long as we feel she was the best woman we could get. For example, I never considered myself a picky guy but lately, I’ve realized I’m picky relative to the available dating population. I see what you're saying and I know a number of people who have made that decision and are generally content with their relationship. Men are taught to find the perfect or close to perfect for them that they can find, that will put up with them good and bad, and work with it. Regarding your last point, the biggest difference for me has been the breakdown of social circles in which I could meet women in the first place.
Me personally I'll call it maturity, your views on dating, relationship and marriage changes, and the pressure to get it right magnifies. I'm not trying to be rude, but your reply comment had very little to do with what I asked.
I find it equally interesting that you zeroed in on height rarther than anything else she used to describe him. Sometimes we need someone to challenge us on reasons why we place a certain value on attributes so… I guess I get it.
What is perfect for you is so different from person to person as each person had different experiences and has different strengths and weaknesses. In my typical fashion, I started to copy and paste the parts I cosigned, then realized I had copied almost the entire post. Right now I have one guy pursuing me and another not pursuing me, though he thinks he is pursuing me.
Looking for a perfect woman (or man) is sheer foolishness, at least in the context that it’s usually phrased in. In my experience with dating, the number 1 most frustrating thing is when you meet the person that you just KNOW will be perfect for you.
Well of course you know I definitely look forward to your post on this issue and it would be interesting to see the discourse on it as well.
Yeah, like why wouldn't you want to be with a man that is trying to better himself and has set goals for himself? I think she was saying that she meets men that are really focused on their goals, and therefore aren't looking for a relationship, so she cuts it off when that becomes known. The question for me always is how do you know they somebody's the perfect person until you're actually in a relationship with them, or at least dating them?
Without sexual attraction, there will be no reason for her to want to be anything other than a friend or stranger to you.


Many of those guys will also be willing to have a relationship with her, even though she hasn’t done anything other than look good.
When a girl grows up and realizes that she doesn’t have to say or do anything special to impress the majority of guys, she starts to feel more attracted to guys who offer a bit more of a challenge. When she talks to him, his conversation style is either going to make her feel happy, excited and turned on or it’s not. Women could sense the desperation in my body language, conversation and overall vibe and it turned them off.
Instead of struggling to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting with a woman who was rapidly losing interest, women began to eagerly keep conversations going with me. It’s like learning how to play basketball from an expert, but then never stepping on the court to use the advice. Basically, you should have not cared and just smiled and laughed WITH the situation in a non-desperate, non-challenged way. I plan to keep going, keep discovering and keep teaching all the new things I learn about being successful with women in the modern world. While I was replying, my girlfriend called out from the lounge room, “Honey, you want a massage?” Ahhhh, life is sweet when beautiful women love you!
However, these days I really don’t have much time for it because I have a lot on my plate. I’ve been really slack with staying fit over the past 6 months and am trying to get everything back in balance.
Guys on this site are doing what you are not: CHANGING, TRANSFORMING and getting on with their lives. Does that mean you have been wasting loads of time hiding behind online dating sites because of your fear of women? She seemed caught off guard by both the quickness of my response and the fact that I didn’t need to think about my answer.
While we both might look for the same list of characteristics, the critical difference is that we weigh them differently. This is why a number of men and women have this “I deserve” mentality as they get older and improve themselves through schooling and income. They do, however, want the best woman they can possibly acquire – and this only makes sense. This is not to say men don’t often and egregiously over estimate their ability to get the women they want, but that’s another discussion for another day.
I know for a fact men aren’t the only ones guilty of this but I’m going to focus on them today. Just like video game characters, you can’t have a character (without cheat codes) that has all full status bars! Last week I was talking to an X and still good friend of mine about my relationship status. Once I removed “hook-ups” from the equation, the number of women I even approach has dwindled, substantially.
Yes, lookin like Idris Elba will catch my eye and having money from here to Fiji will make me curious about what you do, but ultimately how you treat me ranks the highest on the list. Most women are taught that men are not perfect so if you have a good or decent one work with it.
A perfect woman is like the New York Knicks, on paper it looks like there’s too much talent to not, then they get on the court and it a different story. In an age where you can text 6 chicks #atthesamedamntime, you can learn alot about her by reading a facebook and where simply having a full time job, no kids and a degree puts you 20 miles ahead from most ninjas, its hard not to win. In high school girls were alot superficial, a fresh throwback with matching Air Forces was all it took. I'm recently divorced and newly returned to dating and I have to say, the whole texting phenom puzzles me. I am chatty but shy and have always had good girl issues (ie, not comfortable being viewed as sexy, not comfortable having se.x without commitment etc).
A lot of people say they want long-term relationships and love, but their actions say something else.
I like him as a person, but his lack of take charge is likely going to land him in friend zone.
Cause for me, THAT stuff is fluid (cept the hoes, I just threw that in to see if you were paying attention LOL). Otherwise, its gonna be like the analogy Tristan gave with the Knicks (I'd say the same thing about the Skins).
I remember when I was 20, I thought that by 25 I'd have the perfect woman be married or on the path towards that stuff and all that.
I think that's just another made up concept that we fool ourselves into buying into because it sounds so nice. The things I wanted from a partner when I first started to emotionally mature are not the same things I want now because the more experiences I have the more I change. You are most-likely an awesome guy and you don’t need to change who you are to get girls to like you.
I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too. Suddenly another guy came over, put his arm around her and says this is my girlfriend, but I know for sure it wasn’t his girlfriend, I think he was merely trying to undermine me in someway. Nothing another man does can make you drop your alpha male position UNLESS you allow it to. Two steps forward and one step back is the pace i’m moving at at the moment, but still moving regardless.
However, if you can accept in advance that the path to success is mostly two steps forward, one step back you will cruise to success and won’t be beating yourself up when you make a mistake.
Last month for example, I probably spent around 90 hours writing articles for The Modern Man, while also maintaining an active social life, staying fit, partying with my girlfriend, chilling out with my girlfriend and setting aside some time for relaxing. My girlfriend is coming along and when she goes to the gym she wears tight, little shorts and a small top showing her flat stomach…sexy! I’ve had a troubled life,whys that such a big deal,same with not knowing how to flirt or body language?
I mean basically if the girl is attractive I’m interested no matter what scene shes in. For example, I don’t care how much formal education a woman has or how much money she makes.
For me, the fact that a woman graduated from Harvard and makes $250,000 a year is great – it also doesn’t matter. When I said ‘perfect woman’ most women probably envisioned an attractive woman and left it at that; whereas, most men probably envisioned a highly functional, well-rounded attractive woman. Similar to if your character has a lot of power but no stamina or vice versa, you need to accept a woman might look great or suck in bed or vice versa. For a while, I wondered why I was having less success in dating, but I realized the dating game hadn’t changed.


What are some specific differences you’ve seen dating in high school, college, and post-college? Men can't even pick up the phone to CALL me, yet want me to cook for them on the first date (I probably should take my FB photo album of my culinary creations down as an instigator, but whatever). At the end of the day, we don’t have to agree on what defines perfection because I’m not looking for the perfect woman for everyone. College, especially a university you have to show a little more personality, make yourself stand out. As a result, since I was his idea of perfect, he felt he deserved me and operated out of this sense of entitlement – never willing to prove himself to me or work for it.
It's all fun and games, I just wanted my question answered instead of immediately turning the tables.
Actually let me rephrase that, this statement reflects the difference between a man who is of a mindset that he is ready to settle into a relationship with substance versus a man who is not interested in anything serious.
A lot of people in their 30s seem into disposable relationships and to me the 30s are where you hone in on what you want and lock it down, the 20s are for disposable relationships if that's what you are in to.
I have done my best to cut that short, however one day soon I may not be able to run that fast.
He has no game and that would be OK if he had enough of the other things I was looking for in a mate. Few men believe a woman can be sexually open and not fall in love with every man they sleep with. Now what I myself need is someone who is as whole as they can be by themselves before I come into the picture. I have met a couple of guys that I felt would be perfect for me but in getting to know them and realizing they have other goals they want to attain before thinking about a serious relationship. Not to mention you start getting all kinds of expectations about their perfection and how you're meant to be together and all that and it just complicates things. View customer success stories, browse my products or watch this mind-blowing video about success with women. When the woman would have seen that behavior and reaction from you, she would have instinctively pushed the guys arm off of her and his snake-like attempt to undermine you would have been foiled. This is what we do and we really do want the guys that we help to enjoy amazing success with women and reach their true potential as men.
Sure, sometimes it is one step after another, but not always and that needs to be accepted in order to feel confident and ride the wave of momentum.
When I was working 50 hours a week in the corporate world, I had 2 girlfriends and allowed them to see me once a week each. Guys have posted up loads of success stories here, commenting on their success and tremendous new confidence with women since reading The Flow. I also dont know any women to ask out and I just dont know what to do or where to begin im told get out there but wheres there? On the other hand, if there is a Michael Jordan available in that same draft, you’ll feel like a fool knowing you picked Tim Duncan over Michael Jordan when they were both readily available in the same draft.
I can definitely find someone that I'm compatible enough with, and so can anybody else. So even though I was allegedly perfect to him, he didn't treat me that way or make me feel as if he felt lucky to be with me. Honestly I'm embarrassed to have dealt with such an a$$ – I thought I was smarter than that myself! I know that tomorrow I'm going to be interested in a whole set of stuff that I probably think is stupid today. I simply walked away feeling a little frustrated, as I didn’t want to cause any trouble.
If something feels like it will be very challenging for you, take one step towards it, then take another. How do you get women throwing themselves at you like you’ve seen them to do other guys? This isn’t really that big of a deal except for one hiccup: There is no such thing as a perfect woman. This isn’t because I like dating uneducated, broke women, it’s because I don’t need (or expect) a woman to take care of or provide for me.
With age, you begin looking for something more than sexual compatibility, and you realize that the game is a lot harder to play than you remembered in your youth.
Therefore you way the pros and cons, accept those flaws that aren’t going to be detrimental to the relationship.
Someone who has dated enough to know what he wants, but not so much that he's jaded about women and relationships.
If you feel like you want to be more sexually open and youve thought about it and you feel you can handle it, then do whatever the hell you want, girlfriend. Therefore, if she can have an intelligent conversation and not spend all the money I make, we will be fine. As both sexes “move up” in the world, we gain this sense of entitlement about the opposite sex. I never thought much about it before because I was never seriously looking for commitment – I always stumbled into it by chance rather than choice.
I was wondering, if it’s not too much of an inconvenience, what you may have done in that situation? Men take this for granted and as a result, they might take the almost-perfect woman for granted if they “win” with her too early in life.
If I need to reevaluate my standards and preferences, so be it, but one thing that hasn’t changed is I’d rather settle for nothing than settle for anything.
Someone I can trust and have the confidence in to follow his leadership even when I'm not sure of the final destination. I cant help it if girls would judge me on my looks im average looking with a bit of fat like medium build but not morbidly fat so whats the problem?.
I’m aware i wont find the perfect woman, however that doesnt mean i shouldnt hold out for the pretty damn great one.
Regardless of our station in life, we need to move away from the “I deserve” mentality and closer to the “I desire” mindset. Take it from Superheauxbitch herself, its not for everyone, but if its your thang, do that thang. I do not mind the condition she has long as I love and respect her that what makes marriage work .



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