Yes – it doesn’t matter that much WHAT you say, as long as you project the right vibe - see our series on how to pick up girls for more on that.
But, I clearly remember when I was first learning this stuff, I got incredibly frustrated with that advice.
There are some topics that girls respond better to than others, so ideally you want to have the right vibe AND an interesting conversational repertoire. And it often helps to get some specific examples of things successful guys say and do when they approach women – if for no other reason than to pick up on the underlying mindset these lines come from. Below is a list of challenges you'll run into on the approach, or before approaching, a new girl - and the solution to each of them. In this case, however, it’s ALREADY on her mind… and you need to address it fast, or she will be gone. Challenge: She’s on the phone - how many approaches have you missed out on because a girl you wanted to meet was making a call?
You can also do this implicitly, by walking up to her and looking at her as if you were expecting her to hang up… most women usually do. Girls will often deny that they were looking at you… they unconsciously know that whoever initiates a social interaction holds less power in the situation (this is why they'd rather get approached than do the approaching). Solution: Approaching her right there and then – even if you speak quietly like I suggested above – is going to create a lot of social pressure for both of you… more importantly for her.
If you really want to meet a girl in a situation like this, I suggest you wait till her stop and get off the bus or train with her. Solution: I usually skip these approaches these days – they can be done, but again the social pressure is pretty high for her. If she’s only with other girls her own age, simply treat the whole group as if it was one girl. How about when you want to meet a girl and you do the approach - or you're just about to - but one of these problems emerges?
Solution: Keep insisting… simply keep talking to her as if you expected her with absolute certainty to stop and talk to you. Problem: She throws up a time constraint in the middle of your conversation and suddenly says she has to go. Solution: The first thing you need to ask yourself is – did you say something to make her suddenly want to leave; is this a pretense you triggered? Solution: AGREE with her, again, and then spin that into the REASON why you should hang out together.
She’s not really giving you a red light here – a red light would be if she left and ended the conversation. This is a yellow light, and as we discussed in previous articles, the way to deal with a yellow light is to REMAIN UNFAZED and continue the conversation with a very chill, relaxed vibe.
And that, again, is the bottom line of all contingency planning – your vibe is much more essential to your success than the specific words you say. Sign up for our email insights series and get a copy of our popular ebook “How to Text Girls” FREE.
The ATX Television festival played host to a "Boy Meets World" reunion on June 7, with stars Ben Savage (Cory Matthews), Rider Strong (Shawn Hunter), Matthew Lawrence (Jack Hunter), Maitland Ward (Rachel McGuire), Betsy Randle (Amy Matthews), Lily Nicksay (young Morgan Matthews), Trina McGee (Angela Moore) and creator Michael Jacobs in attendance to reminisce about the series and drop hints about the upcoming "Girl Meets World" follow-up series. During a press conference after the reunion panel, Jacobs and Savage shared more information on what fans can expect from the sequel series, which will follow Cory and Topanga's (Danielle Fishel) daughter Riley (Rowan Blanchard) in her own coming-of-age story.
He continued, "My feeling is that the premise of the show is about these two girls having a friendship, going off into the world we now know -- ‘Girl Meets World’ will be unique from ‘Boy Meets World’ in that way. Savage happily discussed what prompted him to return to the role of Cory Matthews, telling reporters, "The most interesting tweets we’ve gotten are like, ‘I watched “Boy Meets World” with my dad and I’m so excited to watch “Girl Meets World” with my daughter.' And I just think it’s so wonderful to see how it crossed generations. Still, he admitted that he'd heard from many original fans who are worried that the new show could "hurt the legacy of 'Boy Meets World,'" given their childhood memories of the series. As for what Cory Matthews is like 13 years later, Savage said: "We're still figuring it out. One thing he didn't need to be cautious about was rediscovering that old rapport when he reunited with co-star Fishel. While Cory and Topanga will be figuring things out together, don't expect the same happy ending for Shawn and Angela.
Both Savage and Jacobs think that TV is long overdue for another show like the original series, and hope that "Girl" will fulfill that need. Jacobs did caution viewers that the world has changed significantly since "Boy Meets World" went off the air, and so the storytelling in "Girl" has to adapt to the times accordingly. World, meet Girl. 11-year-old Rowan Blanchard has officially been cast to play Cory and Topanga's daughter on the Disney Channel's Boy Meets World spinoff, Girl Meets World. In the same holiday episode, "Girl Meets Home for the Holidays," fans will also be treated to the ultimate Boy Meets World reunion. Your information may be shared with other NBCUniversal businesses and used to better tailor our services and advertising to you. At four o'clock, Samantha waits at the parlor doors completely cleaned up for her hour with Grandmary. Samantha works on her sampler for a half hour, then hears a low rumble that gets louder and more noisy, accompanied by angry voices and sounds of scared horses. It is days later; Samantha makes her way out of her house with a gingerbread cookie after her piano practice.
When they're done, Samantha pulls Nellie to the tunnel and says that no one will see them there while eating. The two are interrupted by Eddie Ryland, who says that he sees them and that they're so ugly they'd scare a moose. The next Tuesday after meeting Nellie, Sam is in the parlor sewing with Grandmary and the hour is almost over.
Samantha waits until she is gone before speaking, asking why Jessie is leaving and why Grandmary is letting her go.
As the days pass, Samantha continues to think up fanciful reasons for Jessie's leaving: going to New Orleans to become a singer, that the President has asked her to be a spy in Europe and she will sew for kings and queens and learn their secrets, and that her brother was kidnapped and she must go to South America to rescue him. Samantha says they must find out what happened to Jessie and that if she knew where she lived, she could ask Lincoln what happened.
Two days later, Samantha goes out and tugs on the string of her end of the tin-can phone; she and Nellie put bells on either end so that they could signal.
Samantha runs to Grandmary, saying they must help Nellie's family because they don't have enough food or coal. How elegant households were maintained by servants, the hard work of servants, and the proper position of servants, including how they were expected to keep to a "proper" place and not become friendly with their employer's families.
Inventions and technology such as expanding cities, automobiles, light bulbs, and electrical equipment. Nothing you will read here are clever lines that somebody thought up while sitting on a computer in his basement – all of the strategies you are about to read have been successfully used on real women in the real world hundreds of times.
This gives her time to process the fact that somebody is talking to her, break out of her own internal dialogue, extrovert, focus her attention on you and stop. Walk up to her and tell her that if she’s going to look at you like that, she will at least have to talk to you.
Getting approached by a man in this situation might legitimately be dangerous for her, so you need to adapt your approach a bit. It sounds silly but it makes a WORLD of difference – psychologically, and in terms of responses. If you see a girl in a group like that while you travel though, you won’t ever see her again so you might as well go for it. Agree with her and talk about how you probably won’t have any time in the next couple of weeks either. She probably doesn’t want to be the topic of gossip for the next couple of days, as her friends all tease her for letting herself get picked up by some random dude at work. This is an old technique used by successful salespeople, but it works just as well to meet girls. Today, it seems to be quite common the girls are walking around wearing (white ;-) ) earbuds.
However, it is the child of an original program, and there is no way that I’m not going to include everybody who wants to be included on this piece, because they’re the genesis of the piece. I think the writers and the show have done a wonderful job of staying true to who we are as people. Fans were touched when Cory (Ben Savage) passed on some heartfelt words of wisdom about taking on the world to his baby brother, Joshua, in the final few minutes of the series. Betsey Randle and William Russ are set to reprise their roles as Amy and Allen Matthews, while Rider Strong will once again grace our TV screen as the perfectly-haired Shawn Hunter.


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It was included with the Samantha doll when the doll was available for purchase from 1986 until the collection's archival in 2009; then, it could be purchased separately. She thinks about how Grandmary will look at her if she sees it; she is very stern with Samantha when she is improper. She scolds Samantha on her disarray, mentioning that she is almost a lady but still getting into mischief. There are three ants on it, and Samantha thinks to tell Jessie but sees more ants coming and decides to see how many will come. Sam says that he should be as he is handsome and brave, and that everyone would give up their secrets to him easily. She then asks about a doll she saw in Schofield's Toy Store, and after brief discussion, asks if she may have her.
Samantha gets up from her seat and runs to the window, seeing her Uncle Gard and his "friend", Cornelia, and announces them.
Grandmary says she is well and remarks on the car, saying Gard has ruined the peace with "that horrible machine." Gard says that Grandmary must keep up with the times, and that he can't teach Samantha to drive without bringing it. She is distracted by Jessie coming out of the kitchen in a hurry and asks what she's holding. She has practiced every day for an hour; it feels very long to her and she can't wait to get outside afterwards. Samantha tells him to leave, and he says that's he's going to tell and starts towards the house.
Grandmary, not looking up from her own lacework, tells Samantha to sit down and not ask questions of her elders.
It is a few days later that Nellie gives a practical solution of Jessie maybe having a baby.
Nellie says she knows where they live—a woman who makes herbal medicines for headaches lives across the street from Jessie and Nellie was sent there once by Mrs. Samantha loses all her nerve, wondering if they have the wrong house or if Jessie and Lincoln have moved away. The two girls each creep into their respective houses and Samantha sneaks up the stairs and back to her room without getting caught.
Grandmary is initially shocked, then laughs and says yes—if Samantha can give up her treasure, then the family can find a way to help Nellie. You will have to go direct in this case, as you simply won’t have enough time to mess around with anything else.
Then offer that maybe you might make an exception and take 20 minutes to grab a quick coffee with her, but you’re not sure yet.
And, in case you missed it, check out the video below for a sneak peek at GMW's opening credits—complete with Boy Meets World's signature paper airplane! Eddie Ryland, her next door neighbor, is in the hedge between their houses and was the one who startled her and calls her dumb.
Samantha, with her bow drooping and stockings damaged, decides that she should go see Jessie. Samantha stands quietly, as while Jessie will lecture her she will also clean her up; as she was lecturing she has gotten the grass and dust from her hair. She says aloud that it must be boring to be grown up, and Jessie replies that it depends on the person and that Samantha will not be bored even when she is grown. Jessie says that Samantha should keep such ideas to herself as she's made enough trouble today.
Grandmary says that the doll is quite expensive at six dollars [1] and that if Samantha is to be responsible, she must learn the value of a dollar. Grandmary looks at the ceiling and complains that he's brought the automobile again and that she won't know what to say to the neighbors.
Samantha excitedly asks if Gard will let her drive the car, and Gard says he'll take her for a ride right then.
Jessie announces that it's pepper for the sewing room as there are hundreds of ants up there. She takes some breaths and leaps before making her way to the tunnel—a hole worn in the lilac hedge between her house and Eddie Ryland's.
Nellie looks scared and Samantha yells at him, saying that if he says anything to anyone, she'll take his new pocketknife and stuff it full of taffy. She says that Samantha has done well these past few weeks and there is something upstairs on the bed for her.
Samantha wonders if it was a bad idea to bring the dolls as Nellie has never even owned a simple doll and Lydia is quite beautiful. Nellie says Samantha can look in the window standing on her back, and Samantha says she's stronger so Nellie can stand on her back.
She unbuttons her shoes and takes off her stockings, hangs her dress in the wardrobe, and gets into her nightgown, thinking it sweet and warm.
She is working on her sampler, as she is very angry and does not want to speak to grownups as they take away her friends without telling her why.
She gives a smile and says that Samantha is quite a fine young lady before hugging her warmly. If they’re learning in that generation, Ben continues to learn, so does Danielle -- together, they have always been better than separately.
What kids know, what I personally believe enters very little into how the world works, because I look around and I’m astonished every day at what comes out of the four big screens: the television screen, the telephone screen, the movie screen and the computer screen," he said.
Seriously just look at how adorable this conversation is!)And now, it's time to catch up with the youngest member of the Matthews family in Disney's highly anticipated new series Girl Meets World. Get ready for giggle-worthy hijinks, squee-worthy Cory and Topanga (Danielle Fishel) moments and more.
She hurries up the walkway and into the house, slowing down at the front door so that Elsa does not catch her. She inspects her clothes and, finding the torn stocking, has Samantha take off her shoes and stockings and asks if her knee hurts. Samantha asks if Jessie knew her parents, and Jessie says that Sam knows they died two years before Jessie came to work for Grandmary so she didn't know them. Samantha does try to be a young lady, but it's easier for her when she is being watched by Grandmary; she thinks everyone is more ladylike around her.
Samantha suggests that she could earn the money by making boomerangs and selling them, having read about it in The Boys' Handy Book. But with three girls, the money they make doesn't care for them well; she mentions a lack of food and coal for heating specifically. Eddie stops in his tracks, stares, covers his back pocket where the knife is, backs away, and runs off. Samantha sits down, but is so upset she can only fidget with her sewing and has to redo all her stitches.
Samantha almost forgets that Jessie has left, and forgets to say thank you as she runs upstairs two at a time and to her bedroom.
She says it's okay for Nellie to play with Lydia, and points out that her hat comes off and the dress has buttons. Samantha hugs Nellie and says that they can't go in the day because they'd be stopped, but they can go at night after everyone is asleep and meet at the tunnel.
The two girls are shy before Samantha says they came alone because Samantha didn't know what happened to her and no one would say.
Nellie is nowhere to be seen, and Eddie is there playing with gum by taking it out of his mouth in long strings and stuffing it back.
If (probably when) it gets a greenlight to series, the show will likely appear in the network's 2013-14 schedule.
So which lucky actor has been tapped to join one of the coolest families in TV history?The Glades' Uriah Shelton will appear in the series' upcoming holiday episode as teenage "Uncle Joshua," Cory's laid back and effortlessly cool little bro.
Sam makes her way all the way to the third floor and to the sewing room, where Jessie is working on a dress for Grandmary. Sam says it's okay; she's more worried about making sure she doesn't have to explain it to Grandmary.
Samantha thinks Cornelia is pretty, but not right for her uncle; she thinks someone more like Alice Roosevelt would be better, as she is in several papers and doing exciting things. They greet each other formally and Samantha squirms, worried Grandmary will know she's been up to trouble. They are wearing long coats; Cornelia has a hat tied down with a scarf and Gard has large goggles.


Samantha is shocked with disbelief; she is good at imagining fanciful things, but not hunger and cold. Nellie cradles Lydia as Samantha tells her what happened the day before with Jessie and how no one will tell her why. Grandmary turns off the gas lamps before bed, and Nellie can use that as a gauge to know that Samantha can come meet her. The two girls head down the gas-lit streets; while on familiar streets they think of the journey as exciting, but once they cross the railroad tracks, the streets become dark and narrow with dark, narrow houses. Nellie peeks in the window and says that Jessie and Lincoln are inside along with a cradle. To compete on a playground in an elementary school, what they need to know, what they feel they need to know has to be addressed, it has to be written to.
Sam asks if Gardner will marry Cornelia and Jessie tells her that it is none of her business and that children shouldn't ask those questions.
She touches the locket pinned to the front of her dress that has a picture of her mother and father inside, then asks Jessie about New Orleans. Samantha replies quietly that Cornelia says that women should be able to earn money and not have to depend on men; Grandmary cuts off Samantha again by saying that Cornelia has quite a few notions she should keep to herself.
They make their way up the walk, beating the dust off their coats, and in a few moments Hawkins announces their presence. They go into the hall to get Samantha into the coat and then she and Gard head down the walk, Samantha with the too-big coat on. She then smiles and says they should come see her treasure; she reaches into the cradle and picks up a bundle, introducing him as Nathaniel. Samantha frets that Nellie will have to work in a factory again and get sick and asks what she'll do without her.
Samantha has not gotten very far—the whole thing should read "Actions Speak Louder Than Words" when it is done, but Samantha is only up to ACTIONS SP. Samantha goes back to her work, saying with a sigh that she would name the doll Lydia after her own mother. She asks why Grandmary wouldn't tell her about a baby, and Nellie says that grownups don't like talking about babies coming. Grandmary asks how she knows and Samantha says that she and Nellie went to her house to see, expecting punishment.
Jessie's husband Lincoln is a porter and brings home tales of the city as well as postcards for Samantha and occasionally candy. The girl is surprised and says that she is—calling Samantha "miss"—without stopping her work. She's paid a dollar a week [2] and, while it is not as much as in the factory, it has better conditions. Samantha agrees, saying that he one time she asked Grandmary she was told it wasn't a proper topic. She asks if Nellie knows the way, and Nellie shakily replies that she thinks so and it's not far. Lincoln comes out to find a tangle of girls with frightened faces and laughs aloud before getting the girls inside. Eddie is about to say another thing, but Samantha cuts him off and says that if he doesn't leave right now, she will take his beetle collection from behind the shed, put it in the church offering plate on Sunday, and tell his mother he did it.
She offers that if Samantha does her daily tasks well such as piano practice, she might earn the doll.
In the factory she worked every day but Sunday until dark in poor conditions that have ruined her health. Hawkins is working on a meat pie; she asks why Samantha is rushing so, saying she looks like thunder.
Sam asks why Jessie lives in such a drab area, and Nellie says it's the colored part of town. Eddie says that their driver is taking her back to the city because she's sick and his mother doesn't think she's strong enough to work properly; Nellie is in their kitchen waiting. Samantha, not feeling respectful, replies that Grandmary was wrong to not tell her why Jessie left.
Samantha eagerly promises to practice the piano an hour a day, make her sampler beautiful, help Mrs.
She was sent to work for the Rylands because the air is better, the hours are shorter, and Nellie is fed well but does not see her family much.
Samantha jumps out her chair in shock and asks why; Grandmary silences Samantha with a look, then thanks Jessie for her service, says she has been a great help, and that she will be missed. Samantha says that Jessie is going off to be an actress while Nellie takes off Lydia's hat and looks at it. Hawkins that the Rylands are sending Nellie away and her family doesn't have enough food, and that they have to give the family something. Samantha goes on, saying that Jessie will become famous and come back and introduce her and Nellie to actors and actresses (and no one else in the town). When pressed why by Nellie, Nellie replies that it's just the way grownups do things before saying they've made it. Samantha wants to punch him in the nose, but knows she can't--not even if she was a boy would she do it because not even a grown-up would do it. She almost says she won't tease Eddie, but cuts herself off before promising something she might not do. Samantha is again shocked, and then gets the idea that the two can meet every day, and Samantha will teach her everything. Nellie says she doesn't think that's true, because when her baby sister was born a midwife came over and she and her other sister had to go out with her uncle; when they returned the baby was there and there was no stork. A grown up would also not grab Eddie's gum and shove it into his hair either, but Sam does exactly that because she is only nine and that's only half grown.
Nellie says that she can't and when Samantha asks if the Rylands won't let her, she says that she's got her job to do, calling Samantha "miss" again. Jessie thanks Grandmary, then stops by Samantha and tells her to be very good and she'll miss her. Samantha asks what a midwife is; Nellie explains it's a woman who comes when babies are born.
She then runs to the Ryland's kitchen, leaving Eddie howling and trying to get gum out of his hair.
She leaves the basket at her feet and puts Lydia in her arms, telling Nellie to take her to be her friend. Grandmary says Jessie must care for the baby, and Samantha says she can bring Nathaniel because he won't bother anyone.
Samantha gives her name, says she doesn't have to be called "miss", and sets her cookie down before offering to help so they can play. Samantha tells Nellie about her life and family; Nellie is amused about hearing about Gard's automobile. Her uncle said the midwife brought the baby in her black bag but Nellie looked in the bag and decided there was no room for a baby in there with the doctor's things. Nellie is embarrassed; since she can't stop Samantha, Nellie helps her finish quickly so no one will see her working.
Hawkins tells her not to fret, getting an onion to peel, and says that there are things that Samantha does not understand and that Samantha should think that Grandmary knows best. Samantha is more upset, feeling that she can't know if Grandmary or anyone knows best because she doesn't know anything.
He pulls out a chair for her and gives her a polishing cloth so she can work as she speaks.
Sam begins to polish a silver bowl and says that Jessie is gone; she is not surprised that Hawkins says that he knows. Hawkins smiles with an understanding look in his eyes, but then says that Jessie is fine and that it might not be easy, especially when young, but she should just trust what is going on.
Grandmary becomes upset, starting to fuss at Samantha that she will never grow into a proper young lady and that she is trying to teach her the values of things. Grandmary stops in the middle of her fussing, then nods and says that Samantha's sense of value is just fine.



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