It’s tragic in a way, because most women make all this sacrifices just for their husband. How to Catch a Cheater: 10 Easy Steps Using Simple TechWhen Marriage Counseling is a Good Idea?
This woman needs to grow up and get classes on how to respect her husband and how to be feminine. I feel so grateful and only have words of testimonies about a powerful spell caster called Dr.Moon who helped me to bring my lover back within the space of 48hours. Sounds like you have all the possible reasons why a mom has a hard time accepting, liking or being civil to stepmom.
It’s nice to see this as a step mom, it gives me a better understanding of what the birth mom may feel.
Yes, one would think that they would be appreciative and happy that their kids are handled in such loving manner vs tossed aside.
Sometimes the ex wife is just so bitter and miserable with her own life, she becomes determined to make her ex husbands life miserable and anyone he tries to move on with. The craziest thing about it is, SHE WAS THE ONE WHO WAS having an affair with a much older man, and married that man as soon as the divorce was final.
I actually got along with her until she overstepped boundaries like smoking in the car and having my daughter perform day care services for her.
Did your husband’s ex help him through school, help him get established in his career, put her own goals on hold to start and raise a family and then see him walk off with his higher earning potential to move a younger woman who hasn’t paid those dues into a nice, new, more expensive home while she is middle aged with kids, long out of the job market and has little prospect of finding a new partner?
If your ExHusband remarries a woman who CARES about your children and treats them kindly – shut the F up! Sounds like my life, minus my husband going through a divorce since him and his ex were never married. Sounds like my husband’s ex, she got the kids taken by CPS, but is mad that I show up at school events, and that they live with us. I felt it was the right thing to do, to interact with the kids, and show an interest in them. The question that arises is the obvious one: how is it possible that someone who swares he loves and promises to respect you to be so hateful of women?
No man is going to want to be with a woman like this because she’s a typical feminist. We had been apart for about 3 months, At first I never felt i was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, But i loved my lover so much that i won’t give him up for anything in this world. She sees her ex-husband being a different man with you.  It can be painful to see the man you think treated you so poorly, treating another women like a princess.
You actually did something worthy of her negative feelings:  Are you consciously or subconsciously trying to make her look like a bad mom? Aside from the reason about actually trying to get the bio mom to hate , those are all the bio moms issues and have nothing to do with the love and care of the kids.
I’ve been accused of doing too much, trying to be the mom… So I backed off a little and then was accused of not caring enough! My husbands ex had been diagnosed with being bi-polar, and having a borderline personality disorder. After knowing my bf (now husband) for 1year I took the time and stepped forward to get to know his ex. I know for a fact my husbands ex wife hates me because I am about 17 years younger than her.
She genuinely loves my daughter, treats her good, and I feel my daughter is safe when she goes to my ex husbands (my daughter father) home. Get off your high horse, stop believing that because you were able to reproduce, that you are entitled to control your ex husband with these kids until HE DIES (for God sakes, Mosquitos REPRODUCE!
Would you prefer it if the new wife hated your children, and excluded them from their life, therefore making their time with their father miserable?

She is one of the most hateful individuals that I have ever met in my 35 years on this earth! You have basically just described my husbands ex and I am struggling to deal with her hateful ways. Don’t let her idiocy ruin your life, one day the kids will see her for what she is and they will realize they were wrong about you. I always try to see her side of things, like how would I feel in her shoes, but at the same time she lacks the maternal aspect of being a mom. She only gets weekends and one day a week for 3 hours but lets everyone believe they are just visiting us. I have a daughter from a previous marriage and my ex husband has remarried and moved on, as have I. We’ll show you how to regain your self-respect and heal the hurt by breaking the pattern. This can break a relationship apart because these type of men are not really faithful, nor reliable. Have you given yourself completely to your husband and your family because you think that this is the most important thing in your life? If you think your husband hates you, there’s no way you can make him love you again by just being passive in everything he throws on you. When you are starting to think my husband hates me, it’s high time you follow these simple instructions to over come your relationship problems as soon as possible.
An irrational fear, as the chances of that happening are basically nil, but a common fear nonetheless.
When she looks at your strengths, all she sees are her weaknesses.  If she never thought she was a good business woman and you own your own business, that insecurity is magnified.
With your support, your husband may now see that he should exercise his visitation more or that he’s now able to provide more stability for his kids.
The bio mom needs to really truly honestly take a look at why she hates and she would see its not the stepmom it’s her jealousy and insecurity!
Then I was hated on cause I did better then her as their stepmom then their own mom…Yet if I was a not caring stepmom I would still be hated upon.
She is hell bent on making sure the father of her children is miserable if he refuses to meet her insane demands – and her demands are constant and unrealistic. My husband forgave her many times, but there came a point he just couldn’t continue living that way anymore. There are plenty of women who get married, have children and maintain a balanced relationship, maintain a career and financial independence.
She is always asking my husband to have the kids while she goes away for work or wants to go out, which means I’m the one looking after the kids.
Then there are the super crazy ones like my husbands who couldn’t careless if the children are happy. You joined the gym but failed to keep up with the pace because it’s difficult to raise the baby and do sports at the same time. Same could be said for your intelligence, physical appearance, age, housekeeping skills, creativity, fashion sense, how much her kids enjoy being around you and your happy marriage.
The issue, as I see it, is most ex-wives I have seen are bitter because THEY MADE THE CHOICE, of their own volition, to have children and stay home to raise them.
I can’t help feel that I am doing her a favor and in turn she is just a nasty person to me. Fast forward thousands of years later and many men still think that gender equality is a joke. You would think the bio mom would be happy to see her kids so loved, instead of threatened by it.
I never speak ill of her to her kids or anything, I do what a mother does, hairs, showers teaching them values, helping with homework..

She was forced to go to treatment center, we still don’t know if it was for her mental issues or drug issues. She basically alienated all those people, and her mother had to start paying the friend to pick up the kids, keep them, etc. She only stepped up because of her insecurities, she was afraid her children might actually be happy at their dads… To me, that indicates a very bad individual. Most of the women I know were bored with their careers and wanted babies and their ex-husbands gave them a pretty nice stay home life, raising kids, going to yoga and coffee dates with girlfriends.
We receive a lot of letters from wives that report my husband hates me and they sound desperate because they’ve tried everything. Children will make this situation worse, meaning that you will probably consume yourself more and more in them.
Do you want the school faculty, PTA or your neighborhood moms to think you’re a better caretaker than she is?  Take a look at your behavior and your motivations. What is even worse is that she torments the older child and that child is on the verge of living with us permanently. Then, when their husband meets a nice women who is not draining their bank account and bleating on about how much she has sacrificed, they think, that seems like a better deal. It makes me really angry when I do so much for the kids and I love them and she can’t even acknowledge my existence. You’re going to have to be honest with yourself to see how you might be contributing to the high-conflict dynamic. Her concern has only ever been to make sure her ex husband was unhappy, and that everyone believed she was MOM OF THE YEAR.. And then their mother found out they actually liked me, and they were happy, and she got insecure and started spreading rumors and started telling them horrible things about me.
If you think that we are living in a forward thinking society that has left these dated concepts behind, look around. Susan Forward wrote an amazing book that talks about Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them.
And perhaps it’s time to move on because you will never manage to turn his head around. We live a very good life and the children see a loving relationship and live in a beautiful home that is organized. When he started staying over on the weekends, he would start to get unnecessary texts and calls from her. My husband hates me because he is stuck in the old world where men were hunters and brought the food on the table, provided for everything, while women were staying back home like slaves.
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My husband’s ex-wife has even told the children awful things about my young daughter.
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