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Officials in Jackson, Mississippi, finally took action after residents threw a birthday party for a big pothole. There’s a popular old wives tale out there that says that men think about sex every seven seconds which equates to about 8,000 times a day. There is only one thing I can think of that women can use to match the intensity at which men think about sex.
Just take a look at how much money Hollywood has made over the years with these generic romantic movies where you can predict the outcome before you even watch it.
It takes 30,000 words to say everything that needs to be said in order to teach someone how to make their ex fall back in love with them again.
Because I wrote a book meant to be a step by step method for getting your ex girlfriend back and that is how many words it took me to explain the entire process.
It literally will take you by the hand and show you everything that you need to be shown in order to be successful in getting your girlfriend or wife back. Lets focus on that first, why your ex girlfriend fell out of love with you or the resistance you are going to be facing.
Essentially what happened in a relationship here is that your girlfriend got so bored of being with you that she just lost her feelings. This was pretty shocking for me to hear since I didn’t even get a hint that my friend was getting bored in his relationship.
If you aren’t able to find a way to combat this boredom the result can be devastating with her falling out of love with you. In every single serious relationship that a woman enters into with a man she is going to be expecting that man to fulfill her emotional needs. When these needs aren’t met she is going to start doubting the relationship and slowly but surely lose her feelings for you. Lets say that throughout your relationship with your girlfriend you did not make her feel secure, you did not make her feel envied and she had no trust in you at all.
For example, if you aren’t meeting your girlfriends emotional needs (resistance 2) then your girlfriend may go somewhere else to get them met. Of course, there are always those men out there that actively hit on women who are married or dating just because they are jerks. If your girlfriend ever leaves you for another man then that means that she doesn’t love you. I feel that this quote is extremely insightful and applies to what we are going to talk about here with resistance 4 and lying. Lets make a big (and hopefully untrue) assumption by saying that you got caught in a lot of lies during your relationship with your girlfriend. Now, I don’t know about you but I tend not to fall in love with people who I know for a fact are going to lie to me. For example, when I was graduating high school all of my friends and I swore that we would keep in touch.
My point here is simple, all of us are on a path and sometimes that path takes us in a different direction than the other people we have grown close to. Maybe your girlfriend was looking for the next step, marriage, and you weren’t ready to commit. Big differences in the philosophies of the relationship like those can be a force that causes two people to grow apart.
Your ex girlfriend obviously has a lot of resistance when it comes to getting back together with you. In my opinion, overcoming the resistance is going to be your most challenging task because really the resistance is the only thing that is standing between you and her getting back together. So, the question you are probably wondering is how do you defeat these resistance thoughts she has? Well, there are really three things you have to do when you are looking to get rid of her doubts. Whatever the case I think it is really important for you to identify every possible resistance that she may have about getting back together with you. Oh, and I do feel it is important to mention that she could have more than one resistance about getting back together with you. Well, you aren’t going to break down her resistance about getting back together with you in a day. About a week ago I read a comment a reader left on my other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery that was absolutely heartbreaking.
In other words, I tried to explain to her the best I could that this isn’t going to happen overnight and the more you rush it the more likely things will fall apart right in front of your face.
During your relationship with your ex girlfriend she began to notice certain negative qualities about you. Well, ideally what you want to have happen is that you are able to overcome her resistance (through her emotional attachment to you), prove that you no longer display the negative qualities she hates when she takes you back and as a result she will fall back in love with you.
The problem you currently face is the fact that you really can’t prove you no longer possess the negative qualities which invariably led to your breakup right now because the two of you are currently broken up.
Because you really have to be in a relationship to overcome those types of negative qualities. Unfortunately, the resistance thoughts your ex has in her mind (because of those negative qualities) are preventing you from being in a relationship with her. So, right now your focus should be on attacking her resistance and I have found that the most effective way to do that is through the use of good old fashioned emotions.
That is the number of women I have talked to as a result of Ex Boyfriend Recovery (the sister site to this one.) When you communicate with that many women about relationships you tend to learn a thing or two about how they make decisions. For example, if you can tap into the emotional center of a woman and make her feel something so powerful that no one else has the ability to she is going to be drawn to you.
If a woman begins to associate a lot of bad emotions towards you (see the resistance section above) she is going to be want to get away from you. What we have to do is turn the tables on her so that she starts associating more of those strong and positive emotions towards you.
Those of you who are unlucky enough to experience this feeling know how emotional it can make you. Well, one way to make sure that you overcome your ex girlfriends resistance to dating you again is to make her miss you so much that it literally hurts her to be away from you.
Eventually though there will come a time when she misses certain aspects of your relationship with her and this will cause her to want to message you via social media, text you or call you.
Lets pretend that this graph represents the intensity that your ex girlfriend misses you after the breakup.
Well, it is highly likely that during the sharp incline, when your ex is missing you, is when she is going to reach out to you. Lets assume that she called you at this point of the graph, you picked up, answered and had a very long conversation with her.
Instead of being patient, playing your cards right and showing some discipline by ignoring her call you decided to give in to your own desires and the price you paid for it was the fact that she no longer misses you as much. The better strategy, as I just said, is to ignore her call which admittedly might make her a little angry at first but the end result is almost always the same, she misses you more. With this graph I marked the point at which your ex probably calls or texts you with an arrow. Trying to overcome the resistance when she misses you just a little bit or trying overcome it when she misses you a lot?
I know that for most on this page I have been kind of a debbie downer with me pointing out everything that you are doing wrong.


In other words, you have already proven that you have the ability to make this girl fall in love with you. You know, all the ones that made her so happy that she couldn’t even think straight for hours at a time. I am going to think back to the one of the happiest moments in my entire relationship with a woman.
Now, before I go on I do feel it is important to mention that when you are doing this for your particular girlfriend you need to make sure that the moment you choose means just as much to her as it did to you. Assuming that you do have the prefect moment picked out what is it that you have to do to bring your ex girlfriend back into the moment?
The memory you pick out needs to be so powerful that you shouldn’t even have to mention exactly what happened.
Oh, also I should mention that its important that you pick your spots with this text message. For example, the best time to use a message like this is when you are already having an in-depth conversation with your girlfriend. If you are still confused about how that part of this process works please reference the guides above since they will explain everything to you. Of course, the main purpose of this guide is to teach you how can make your ex girlfriend fall back in love with you. It’s ok though because I am going to show you what you need to do to raise your chances of making her fall in love with you. Ok, if you have reached this point then that means you were able to overcome her resistance about getting back together with you.
Now, I want you to listen up very closely because what I am going to be talking about here is a foolproof method for making a girl fall in love with you. From this point on this guide is going to be focusing on that, how a real man should treat a woman. For example, I have heard multiple stories where women will manipulate the guy to do things that she wants him to do and uses her leaving the relationship as the ultimate tool to do so.
Knowing your own worth in the relationship is essential and is going to make you more attractive to your girl.
While some women may find it appealing to be able to control a man it will get boring after a while and a relationship like that won’t last in the long run. By having good communication skills alone you can add another element to your relationship that most people fail to bring to the table. I was on YouTube the other day and I happened to watch this 20 minute marriage proposal video that had over 9 million views. I want you to do something so romantic for your girlfriend that she won’t ever forget it for the rest of her life. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. I know she has feelings for me but I need to find out the most effective way to make them a lot more powerful and have her respect me more and want to spend more time with me.
Oh and one more piece… It seems really apparent to me that she still wants to be together. Update: Went over to her house on Sunday to look at a beehive (I keep bees and if they were honeybees she said I could take them). Hi there I just got dumped by my girlfriend a week ago she wreckens she has no feeling for me now but I don’t get after 3 years she can just forget, but we did have a boring relationship but we were so in love so I never thought she would leave but she has but I want her back so badly what do I do ?
Sorry for my bad writing (english isn’t my first , I hope you all can understand the central idea, at least. No matter how bad you feel about your ex boyfriend, you have to let these emotions fly away. No matter how expensive the gift might be, it can never replace the gaps that you had in your relationships. I’m sure you are burning to find out how your ex boyfriend is coping with the break up. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. OGUNBO, This man is nothing but a great man that God have assigned to help us in our relationship and marriages etc, i never taught i could get married to Mark because we broke up 4 years ago just because i taught he was cheating with my friend and which was not true, that was how i almost loosed the man that i loved, but i thank Dr.
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While there is no research to back up that claim lets pretend for a moment that it’s true. The reason they are so successful is because so many women are so in love with love that they are happy to fork over money to watch a movie whose outcome they already know. In fact, it’s so complicated that I used to tell people that it was impossible to put an actual word count on the amount of words that it would take to explain such a complicated idea.
Since your ex has already dated you she knows your negative qualities (or the qualities that she thought were negative.) Your greatest challenge is finding a way to overcome these negatives by convincing her that this next time will be different. This way you know everything you are up against and what you are going to have to overcome to win back her love. Heck, she could have an entirely new resistance that I haven’t even listed on this page. For you to even try to win her back and make her fall in love with you in a day is the most idiotic belief you could ever have.
Eventually the negative qualities became so bad that she decided to leave you because of them. The question you are probably wondering is how in the world are you going to accomplish that when she wants nothing to do with you? This is exactly what you want but you don’t want to relieve her of her pain (as weird as that sounds) by messaging her back.
Well, after that conversation she isn’t going to miss you as much so it is highly likely that the graph will take the downward trajectory shown above.
However, instead of responding to her call or text message you decide to ignore it and look what happens as a result.
Well, in this section that is all about to change because we are going to turn our focus to what you have done right. Rather, all you should have to say is a place and a time and your ex girlfriend should know exactly what you are talking about.
This way she is properly primed to go to a place where she can re-experience the emotions she experienced the day that (the memory you picked out) happened. I realize I kind of rushed through everything and didn’t give you the full step by step method that you should be implementing.
Now that you are back with her you can work on combating the negative qualities that she thinks you have. As a result, assuming they do get their exes back, they make the relationship all about the girl instead of making it an equal partnership. When most people point out the problems of a relationship they point to things like not enough sex, emotional needs not being met and lying. If both people communicate properly they will begin to understand what the other person needs on an emotional level. Granted, most of you here probably aren’t looking to propose to your girlfriend but if you can bring just a sliver of the spirit that this guy put into his romantic proposal into your relationship your girlfriend is going to appreciate it on a deep level.
When she is on her deathbed she is going to look back on her life and point to this one incredible act as the most romantic thing ever done for her.
We did brake up but are talking regularly, going out on dates, she didn’t but now calls me babe,baby and says she loves my quite regularly again. I’m confused about how to go about this because when she acts like this I feel uncertain and it makes me more clingy which drives her away and makes her more distant.
We talked for about 2 hours, where she admitted to me that this new guy was kind of boring to her, and that when they’re together she feels the conversation is forced. Okay, if you really want her just apologise and change but it looks you like her best friend her too..
I had a friend that I loved but never admitted my feeling until 5 years later in a drunken day. We still together through this whole time, but, I feel the relationship is going bad and I fear to lose her love.
But I have a serious family limitation who doesn’t allow me to break her resistances.
The most important part to manage to win your ex back after break up is not to show that you need him.


Open up and leave us a comment with your own experiences on how you managed to get your ex back.
My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. OGUNBO for helping and putting a smile on my face by bringing back my man to me, and now we are happily married and living happily, so my friends out there that are having relationship problem, i will advice you contact Dr.
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You and your girlfriend had a relationship so both of you know what the other one brings to the table.
In my own experience most women usually do not go outside of their relationships (to other men) unless their own relationship has some serious problems.
Before you can even think about getting her back and making her fall back in love with you, you are going to have to find a way to overcome this resistance. One thing that we already know is that your ex girlfriend probably has a lot of resistance about getting back with you.
Make sure you look at the situation from her perspective as that will give you good insight into what she is thinking. No, making another human being actually fall in love with you and choose to be with you will take some time. I also told her that when she eventually does get to a point where she is talking with her ex she is going to have to be very patient and not try to rush everything at once.
Instead, you want her to miss you on an even more intense level to the point where she is actually hungering for you to message her back.
You see, they are so frightened that they are going to lose the girl again that they will completely disregard their own personal needs in the relationship. While all of those can be harmful to a relationship I really think a lack of communication is worse. They love those moments at the end of romantic comedies where the protagonist declares his undying love. It was a normal relationship with the normal amount of fighting, but overall I was very happy and I thought she was too. She said she thinks two people can be in love and not be compatible, which I do agree with. I did nc for a week after we broke up but we started to text again as there was a marathon coming up in which the both of us signed up months ago. Sorry we don’t have a number but the email is being checked everyday so, you can send the whole story there instead if you want. She wants to marry me, I want to marry her, but If a marriage happens now, this will be the same to kill my mother (I’m a only child, she is divorced and have serious psychological diseases).
This means that you have to forget the midnight phone calls telling him how much you miss him, the walks around his house or his favorite cafe hoping that you bump into him. Read some deep, inspirational positive quotes that can help you open your mind to love and motivation. OGUNBO for help and i assure you that he is going to put a smile on your face because he has done mine.
She is no longer in love with you and the worst part about it all is that you knew what things were like when she was.Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back? Well, when it comes to actually getting her back you are going to have to overcome any resistance she may have about what you bring to the table. But I asked her what about us made us incompatible and she couldn’t think of anything. But she seemed to make excuses for him, saying she thought maybe it was his friends controlling nature that caused him to be so boring.
A week before the marathon, I rarely replied to her in which she asked if I’m alright due to my silence to her.
He said my ex told them I’m not going the fact we haven spoke to each other about it.
He will not fall for it and there is absolutely no chance you will get your ex back acting like this. Bring back these nice moments and you will have a good chance to get your ex back since it will remind him the wonderful memories you built as a happy couple.
Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there.
She thought that I could at times be very abrasive, arrogant, emotionally unsupportive, and she felt that I didn’t give her enough attention.
We are admittedly different but our personalities complimented each other very well I felt.
I told her it would be best if we didn’t talk any longer as i tried to get rid of the cheating that might occur. It will not only help you to let go, but it will also help you get some great ideas on how to get your ex back. Anyways we talked and she said she liked talking to me because she feels she can truly vent about her life with me. The day before the marathon she texted me deciding that she’s not going for the marathon because she said I don need her anymore. Since then i broke up with my then girlfriend in hopes to be free so i wouldn’t feel guilty about my love confession. I tried to change her mind but failed and had a small argument and eventually I went alone. We talked a little while and for about 2 to 3 weeks I gave into the normal temptations of begging.
If you want to get your ex back you have to dig deep and fix the real issues that ended in breaking up. And then, he will get an inner approval that he can do whatever he wants and you will still love him. Yeah that’s right, karma is a bitch and sooner or later they will get what they deserve. Iyere, casted out on him that made him come back to me, today me and my family are now happy again today. If you want to get your ex back, just go on with your life and show him what he’s losing. We hung out again this Monday, by which time her friend had made her go on a triple date of sorts (which she had objected to but went anyways and found out that this guy was pretty nice). Not only will you manage to get your ex back, but you might get stuck in the past and risk that you are left behind when everyone else is moving on. Iyere, for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great help. I guess they started talking according to her, but she’s not sure if she likes him or not. That Monday night in question we got physical, not sex but she let me kiss her all over, and we both enjoyed it. She’s also afraid of getting into a cycle where we break up and reconcile and run through it over and over again. And when we tried again we fixed almost all of the issues we had before, I thought we were better than ever. I identified the relationship problems and realized they are mostly just respect and effort things. They are problems I have worked hard to fix and believe I have been at least partially successful in doing so. She says she has no reason not to believbe me, because when we’re together she can see these changes and agrees they are very good.
I told her that while I can make no guarantees for the future (nobody possibly can), I can promise her that I will do my very best to have a relationship that works, and whether it’s with her or any other woman I will not make the same mistake twice.
Admittedly I have a way with words, but I would never intentionally mislead her for my own gain.



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