Where they are looking for one word, one phrase or one speech to recite to change the way things are going. I always like the bad news first so I am just going to go out on a limb here and say that you are like me and want the bad news first. There isn’t one word, phrase or speech that you can say to get your ex girlfriend back. That’s one of the biggest misconceptions out there and I would like to correct this belief right here and now.
The truth is that every romantic comedy and Disney movie has formed this belief that all you have to do to get a girl to fall head over heels for you (or in your case fall back in love with you) is deliver some type of incredible speech where you declare your undying love for a girl and she will be putty in your hands. Of course, there are two sides to every coin and where there is bad news there is also good news. Yes, while I did say that there isn’t any ONE word, phrase or speech that you can use to win your ex back I never said anything about using multiple of them together. Take a moment to consider the average way that a couple gets back together after a breakup. Usually it’s a combination of the moments, interactions and feelings that make a couple get back together after a breakup. Then I also want you to notice how under these arrows I am saying that each arrow is mean to represent a combination of either positive moments, interactions or feelings. It’s a combination of words, phrases and speeches that can influence moments, interactions and feelings which ultimately lead to a couple getting back together. I really want to drive home the point that you can’t get your ex girlfriend back by saying just one thing. Instead, there are multiple things that have to be said in order for you to get that amazing result that you want so bad. Rather than teaching you ONE thing to say to get your ex girlfriend back I am going to teach you EVERYTHING to say to get her back.
Of course, before we can get into that I need you to understand the correct process to use to get your ex girlfriend back. Well, this graphic represents the correct way that you are supposed to go about getting your ex girlfriend back. These three icons are meant to represent the mediums that you will be communicating with your ex by. In my article on flirting I talked about these three mediums and the importance of not jumping the gun on them.
Above I mentioned that I was going to teach you EVERYTHING you needed to say to get your ex girlfriend back. Well, the way I am going to go about doing that is by teaching you what you need to say to get your girlfriend back in each of the three categories. I guess the smartest thing for me to do will be to divide this up into three categories for you.
However, before I really sink my teeth into these three categories it is probably a good idea for me to explain my philosophy on text messaging. I am of the mind that text messages are one piece of a three piece puzzle to getting your ex boyfriend back. A lot of experts say that text messaging is the most important concept to master but I tend to disagree. So this is going to sound really weird but I want you to scroll up and look at the infographic I put together depicting the correct way to get an ex girlfriend back. Above I also made reference to the fact that in order to maximize your chances of success you need to move from one category to the other. Well, my philosophy on texting is deeply intertwined with the belief of moving from one category to the next. Of course, in order to successfully do that you have to say a bunch of things to build a lot of attraction.
After all, an ex girlfriend is probably going to need a compelling reason to talk on the phone with you and she is going to be more likely to accept your call if a lot of attraction has been build through text messages. There are two things I would like to talk about when it comes to starting a conversation over text message. I get a lot of questions about these two things on Ex Girlfriend Recovery so I would like to put all the questions to rest right here, right now. I guess we should start by talking about starting a conversation after the no contact rule. The idea behind the NC rule is that it allows more time for your ex girlfriend to miss you and it gives both of you time to calm down after the breakup. But in order to succeed in getting your girlfriend back you are going to have to inevitably talk to her. Because it is the least threatening method of communication and it allows you to control things a bit more than if you were to contact her through any of the other mediums. You need to send your ex girlfriend a text message that will be impossible for her NOT to respond to. There are a couple of things I want you to take note of when it comes to this text message. I used it because apparently your ex girlfriend is obsessed with Paris and we are going to use that knowledge to our advantage.
You see, I have a theory that every person walking this earth has a topic that will immediately open them up and get them talking. This yearning to see Paris is deeply woven into every fiber of her being and opens her up to talking like no other topic. It would be a little weird if every single text message you sent (to start a conversation with your girlfriend) had a pattern to it. The text messages above are special in the fact that they are only meant to be sent after the no contact rule (an extended period of time where the two of you haven’t talked.) But what if the two of you are used to talking to each other? Look, just because you and your ex girlfriend have hit your grove when it comes to talking to each other doesn’t mean that you can take your foot off the gas. How can you really stand out from the crowd when it comes to gaining the attention of your ex girlfriend? Obviously coming up with an interesting text message is one way to do that but lets get a little more creative here. Imagine that you decide that you want to start a conversation with your ex girlfriend over text message. Most women are looking for one text message to send to their ex that will ignite some sort of passionate speech that you usually hear a Disney prince recite.
Remember my whole speech on how it takes many speeches, moments and good feelings to generate a reconnection?
If you are expecting to get there with just one or two text messages then you are going to fail. In this section I am going to go over some of the most effective text messages but I don’t really have the time or space to list every single text message that you will absolutely need to use to get your girlfriend back.
Basically the premise of it is that you are going to pick your happiest memory from when you were a couple NON SEX RELATED. The idea behind this message is that you want to make the memory you choose as clear as possible. Perhaps a fun date you had that isn’t too controversial before you bring out this bad boy. I think I should be more clear about this because I can already sense a few of you reading this and just going from zero to sixty in a second. Lets pretend that you have three memories you want to use in text messages before you bring out the big romantic key west text message above. I mean that before you go from 10 MPH to 60 MPH you move from 10 MPH to 15 MPH and then from 15 to 20 and then from 20 to 25 and so on and so forth until ultimately you reach your final destination at 60 MPH.
Well, it doesn’t take a genius to work out that texting an ex and talking to her in person are in an entirely different ballpark. Of course, you can’t just go from zero to sixty when it comes to this kind of thing which is where the idea of moving your girlfriend up the value chain is.
I just taught you what to say to her when it comes to text messages but you can only go so far when it comes to text messages. Well, it’s kind of complicated so it might be easier if I just told you over the phone. Essentially you are earning your way to talking to her on the phone with a very interesting story. Well, if you think about having a conversation over text messages you get to control a lot aspects.
For example, if your ex girlfriend texts you something witty you have time to think of something witty to say right back. If she gets upset at something you say then you have time to think of how to navigate the situation. Lets pretend that you are talking to your ex girlfriend on the phone and you get nervous because of how fast the conversation is moving and you say something stupid and she gets mad. Well, you aren’t supposed to get caught in a position like that in the first place which is why I put this section together. Below I have compiled the rules for talking on the phone with your ex girlfriend and I have also taken the liberty of including a few great conversation topics to talk about.
Anyways, before I get to those conversation topics lets talk a little bit about the rules of talking on the phone with an ex girlfriend. Have you ever been talking to someone on the phone and both of you run out of things to say and you both just sit in silence for what feels like the longest time waiting for the other person to say something? These awkward silences are your enemy and if you want to get your ex girlfriend back then you need to limit them as much as possible. I am married to my wife so I don’t have to be perfect every time I talk on the phone with her.
If I was you I would prepare a list of 100 topics that you could draw upon in a time of need. So, lets pretend that you are talking to your ex girlfriend on the phone and you hit a point where both of you run out of things to say and you can sense an awkward silence is about to commence. Ok, I promise I will give you a list of great topics to talk about on the phone a little bit later. Your sole purpose of talking to your ex girlfriend on the phone is to get a one on one date. DO NOT ASK FOR A ONE ON ONE DATE THE FIRST TIME YOU TALK TO YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND ON THE PHONE. In other words, when you are dealing with an ex girlfriend the last thing you want to do is make any sudden unplanned moves.
But before I get into the specifics of actually asking for the date I would like to talk about where the date would take place because this matters a lot especially when it comes to how easily you can get a yes. There is something about a group date that is not threatening at all because you are in the midst of other people. If I was you I would ask your ex girlfriend to go on a group date with you and I would say it exactly like this.
Do you remember in the section above that I mentioned that I would be giving you a lot of phone conversation topics to use. I am just going to start listing so take out a pen and paper and jot down the ones that you are interested in using. Talking to your ex girlfriend in person is a whole different ball game then what I have been talking about with texting and phone conversations.
Well, talking to an ex girlfriend in person requires you to not only master wit but it requires you to master the art of dissection. I mean you need to become a master at looking at her facial expressions and be able to tell if she is digging what you are saying or is repulsed by it.
Oh, and when you add in the fact that you only have a handful of chances in person to get this relationship back on track you can understand why so many men stumble and fall at this point of the process.
Above when I was talking about how to ask your ex girlfriend out on a date I made reference to three dates. Well, when I look at these three dates I look at them in terms of risk for your ex girlfriend. The goal here is to have her associate you with fun because it is going to make getting a yes to the next proposition that much easier. The main goal here is to move from one date to the other and in order to do that attraction needs to be built on each one of these dates. So, what I would like to do now is take each date one by one and tell you the goal you are trying to accomplish on the date and what you need to say to accomplish that goal. In other words, that means that you have to invite your ex girlfriend to a place where you know she will have fun AND you have to make sure you go in a group.
Remember, your main goal here is to make sure your ex girlfriend has a great time and in order to do that I am going to give you a few talk tracks that you can rely upon when you run out of things to say.
Now, the trick to this little talk track is the fact that you have to have a really intriguing story to tell. Her: Wait, what do the police even do when they can’t find who to give the money back to? You will find that a lot of times your ability to attract a woman will hinder on your storytelling abilities and it makes a lot of sense. If you become a master storyteller then you are going to have a fantastic chance of building attraction with your ex. Well, for one this is considered a one on one date whereas the group date was in the midst of a group of people. Of course, there is also a reason for why the coffee date is only considered medium risk and not high risk. You see, coffee dates usually happen in the middle of the day whereas super romantic dates happen at night. This is a risky talk track but the goal with the medium risk proposition is to turn up the charm a bit and the best way to do that is to tap into your romantic side. Did you notice how this talk track was specifically reminiscing about the past and how great things with you and your ex girlfriend were? To determine whether or not your ex girlfriend is ready to re-start a relationship with you.
In my experience most women know by the third date if they are interested in a relationship with a man. Nevertheless, sometimes women need more than three dates to determine if they are ready to restart a relationship with you.
So, on top of giving you a talk track for asking your ex girlfriend to be in a relationship with you again I am going to teach you about timing. Believe me when I tell you that you will be able to tell just by looking into her eyes if she is digging you or if she is unsure about you. Is probably going to need a little more convincing before she will say yes to getting back together. Figuring out if she is in the right frame of mind is going to a big deal because it is going to determine whether or not you are going to use the talk track below on the third date or a date in the future. Asking an ex girlfriend to get back together with you is tricky because it’s such a nervous moment. Just know that the talk track that I put together below is meant to maximize your chances of getting a yes while at the same time cutting down on your nervousness. Now, the thing that I really want to highlight here is noticed how in the talk track I zeroed in on a feeling. It’s important because it build anticipation and highlights how good your ex girlfriend has been feeling. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back.
So I sent her the last text today, mentioning about the best weekend we spent together when dating. To get an ex-girlfriend back, you have to start by making her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you. For example: If a guy was too needy, clingy, jealous or protective, he needs to be able to show her that he has realized why he was thinking and feeling that way, as well as let her see that he really has changed.
If she isn’t interested in forgiving you, it means that your behavior, body language, vibe and overall approach to her has been unattractive. Your ex became your ex for a reason and at the time of breaking up with you, her feelings for you had changed and she no longer wanted to be in a relationship with you.
If you’re looking for advice on what to say to your ex-girlfriend to get her back, you may already have fallen into the trap of saying what you think she wants to hear, but if your efforts have so far failed to get you the results you want, maybe it’s time to accept that what you thought she wanted to hear was wrong, right?
Something many guys do when they desperately want an ex to change her mind is to beg and plead with her to be given a second chance.
This is a mistake on many levels, but not least because resorting to begging and pleading is not an attractive trait in a man. Your ex became your ex for a reason and if that reason is connected to a change in your attitude or behavior in the relationship which led to you becoming clingy, overly possessive, or needy, hounding her in this way will do nothing to change her feelings for you.
Women are not flattered by a guy begging in this way; they are completely turned off by weak, wimpy behavior and insecurity of any sort in a man.
A big part of begging and pleading is often to make every kind of imaginable promise in an effort to get a second chance.
You can’t take any kind of effective action to fix things if you don’t actually know what needs to be fixed.
A woman does not want to have to spell out what needs to be fixed, she wants a guy to be tuned-in enough to her body language to be able to figure it out for himself.


She not only wants him to be able to recognize the problem, she wants him to take the lead in doing something about it, and showing her through the improvements he makes that he has learned from the mistakes he made and become a better man as a result. If your words are not backed up by actions, you’re simply making empty promises and she has no reason to feel any differently about you. Another trap many guys fall into when trying to get an ex to change her mind is to blame her for their mistakes. Unless a guy is able to recognize and admit to the mistakes he made, he’s not in a position to learn from them and take effective action to become a better man as a result. An ex-girlfriend becomes an ex for a reason and getting her back comes down to demonstrating that real improvements and changes have been made. Focusing your attention on what to say to your ex-girlfriend to get her back is missing the point. You need to demonstrate through the way you behave and your attitude that you’ve learned from the experience and you’ve made changes for the better to become a better man, and, more importantly, a man with attractive qualities that will make her want to take you back (e.g. Empty promises are not enough to change the way she is feeling, and getting her back is all about showing her that you mean what you say and you’re making changes for the better.
To get her to want you back, you need to show her that you have what it takes to make her feel the way she wants to feel in a relationship, and that means developing the qualities that make you a sexually attractive man she’ll find hard to resist. The process of getting her back begins with figuring out what changes happened and, from there, you then need to take action to make the changes and improvements needed to fix things. Change your focus away from what to say to your ex-girlfriend to get her back and place it on what to do to get your ex-girlfriend to see you differently and feel differently about you again. When you are able to admit that you made mistakes and you are able to accept the break-up, you are in a strong position to begin the process of getting her back. View customer success stories, browse our products or watch this mind-blowing video about success with women by Dan Bacon (founder of The Modern Man). In just a moment, I’m going to show you how to get your ex girlfriend back… so buckle up, because there’s a lot to cover.
If you recently split up with your girlfriend then you’re probably hurting REAL bad right now. I know the pain you’re going through right now and I know that it won’t stop for a LOOOOONG time. Sure you can carry on with your life… bang a few new girls at a party, go out with your friends and try to forget about the girl you lost. OR you can use proven techniques that thousands of guys are using right now to get their girlfriend back fast. There are a few areas of “getting your ex girlfriend back” which I want to cover, so by all means skip to the section that makes most sense to your current situation. It’s been a few days, weeks, maybe even a month and the wound is still raw… now what do you do? Understand why she left you – The first step is to understand why she dumped you in the first place dude! Leave it at least 2 weeks – Don’t be needy or act desperate, it’s not going to help you. Get back in touch – After a couple of weeks, get in touch either with a text or a Facebook message.
Keep it casual – Always meet up with her in the day for lunch or coffee so it’s casual, like you’re meeting a friend.
Go in for the kill – After several casual meetups, invite her along on a night out with your friends or say to her that you’re going to be somewhere and she should come along. The key to remember here is that you’re laying down the important groundwork with the casual meetups. Pimp up your Facebook profile – Your Facebook page is a constant message that your closest friends and acquaintances are reading. Get in touch – Go back to “situation 1” and follow all the steps from “Get back in touch”. Right then, you haven’t spoken to her in months, you know that she doesn’t have a boyfriend and you’re still kicking yourself about the breakup.
Write to her – The very first thing you need to do is write to her, Facebook, email even a freakin hand written letter dude. Rinse and repeat – Follow everything from the first and second situation, until she takes you back. There are a few ground rules you MUST follow that I haven’t mentioned yet, they are solid mindset tips that will help you get her back (trust me they work). Be persistent – Think alpha male who knows what he wants, not a pathetic needy loser who’s begging for attention. Embrace change – Show her that you’re willing to be a better you by changing your ways.
Don’t sulk – The moment you accept your defeat, is the moment you will never get her back, so stay positive and know that you’re going to get her back in time.
So as I said earlier, I used Text Your Ex Back which really helped me get my girlfriend back. But I did try a another product that I think is seriously worth mentioning because I picked up some killer tips from it.
I got some really great tips from this guide, if I hadn’t have gone through the other two then I would have just used this one but it would have taken me a while longer to get her back.
Then you’re not doing the steps correctly or you’re still portraying the same crappy qualities that she dumped you for in the first place. So there you have it, this is without a doubt the best advice you will get on understanding how to get your ex girlfriend back in the fastest way possible.
My girlfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago, we were talking frequently until 3 weeks ago when she moved to Portland, OR (we lived in California together).
Hay, I broke up with my girl like for 2 years now, but it’s all coming back to me, it was my fault, I physically assaulted her. Im a lesbian and was with this girl for four years going 5 on july.she ask space for 3months no communication,no seeing each other so I gave her space but i broke my promise not to call,text and see her.
I had already been arguing with my girlfriend for awhile, I had been sick and on alot of medication one night when she called and tho has got heated. I have been in a releshp wth my ex grlfrend for 4yrs she was my school sweethert we came from far she loved meh soo much we did everythng toghet na untll she had a crush on some guybt she found out the guy is in arelshp wth anther person she came back to meh cryng i accpted her back bt then after a mnth se change start sayng we break up bt then she apologies back for her word iknw ehe was up2 smthng i broke up wth her she didnt even say why or sory she said alryt naw its been 3weeksi tryed callng her bt she nat intrested shes is sayng she want to be single an forcus… so do you think she is a relshp wth smeone else i need advice shoild i just move on?
I recently lost, my girl it was my fault I got hooked up in internet adiction, porn sites and dating sites, she read my corespondance to the other women and even contacted them to see if we had met up. Out of these three breakups which “situation” do you think has the least chance of success and which do you feel has the best chance of success?
Well, if an ex girlfriend breaks up with you then that probably tells us that something (for her) isn’t going right in the relationship.
HOWEVER, there is a huge misconception that men have when trying to get an ex back in this situation.
The same cannot be said in the situations where you break up with an ex or where she breaks up with you. Usually I start off these guides with a massive insight into the actions that brought you into this situation.
In fact, I have written multiple books (Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO and The Texting Bible) based on these incredible insights. I don’t think you need me to create this laundry list of reasons for why you broke up with your ex girlfriend. Heck, YOU know why you broke up with your ex girlfriend and while I am a huge proponent of trying to get your ex back for the right reasons it seems like no matter what I tell you, your mind is already made up and you want your girlfriend back. So, instead of focusing on why you broke up with your ex girlfriend I want to talk about her and what she is feeling. I suppose the most logical place to start is immediately after the breakup and why your actions will actually work against you.
And it’s definitely not the fact that you believe that the Karate Kid is the bad guy of the movie.
Now, I don’t know what you said or what you did after the breakup but the mere fact you broke up with her is going to upset her and it creates this invisible headwind that you have to somehow get around if you want to have any chance of getting her back. Obviously in this graphic you are the sailboat and you are sailing towards a destination which I have marked on the far left of the graphic.
As you can see, I have labeled the headwind as your ex girlfriends anger with you since YOU broke up with her. Well, usually they turn their sails to the headwind and move from right to left kind of zig zagging their way forward. I guess what I am trying to say is that they almost get by the headwind by going around it.
Alright, so what I established above was the fact that your ex girlfriend is going to be upset that YOU were the one that broke up with her.
Your first instinct tells you to apologize or make some grand gesture but that doesn’t work. Let’s say that you were walking down the street one day and you were looking at your cell phone. Seriously… My daughter has kept me up all night because of colic and is screaming behind me as we speak and my wife is trying to console her. It’s that simple act of consoling a crying baby that makes us human because we know the baby is in pain and we want to help make it feel better. Well, your ex girlfriend is subconsciously expecting the same thing to happen to her after a breakup. One day the two of you are getting along swimmingly and then all of a sudden you break the news to her that you don’t want to be with her anymore. Now, If you have ever been blindsided in a relationship by something then you probably know what I am talking about. She doesn’t want to experience this feeling ever again so if she were to decide to take you back then she would always be living in fear of having that feeling of being blindsided again. Seriously, what is the first thing that friends say to a woman who has had a boyfriend who just broke up with them. Getting an ex back isn’t very popular and the closer you are to the breakup the more intense these feelings of anger are and then you have the added benefit of dealing with the taboo of taking an ex back so fast. This is one of the many reasons that I advise that you go into a no contact rule after a breakup NO MATTER WHAT. I think it’s a universally agreed upon fact that in most cases time going by can diffuse anger. Thus, by that logic if we let some time go by due to the no contact rule your ex girlfriend won’t have the same anger that she was having towards you right after the breakup. Obviously your ex girlfriend is going to be super upset after the breakup and after some time goes by (preferably by a NC rule) she isn’t going to be as upset.
Look, one of the biggest misconceptions about the no contact rule is that it’s going to solve all of your problems. That if you use the no contact rule on your girlfriend she will somehow magically forgive you and everything will go back to the way it was before. Well, before I get into that lets talk about the advantage that you do have over other men. Now, I have already talked about the disadvantages you are faced with if you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back if you broke up with her but what I have yet to talk about is how good of a chance you have of getting her back and if you have any advantages over any of the other situations out there. Lets hit the pause button, zoom out and take a look at the big picture of the situation you are in. Thing #3- The best way that you can combat this anger right now is to implement the no contact rule. The fact that you were the one who broke up with her can actually serve as an advantage when it comes to getting her back. I often use this example to describe men for the women on my other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery but I am going to reverse engineer it for you since I feel it applies to women and I even mentioned this little example a bit in my last article. Lets pretend that a woman is faced with the very tough decision of choosing between you and your clone.
The ONLY thing that differs between the two of you is that she dated you and she hasn’t dated your clone yet.
Now, I don’t know about you but that automatically puts her in a position where she is going to have to seek YOUR approval to get you back. One of the things I like doing here at Ex Girlfriend Recovery is assigning a certain percentage value to a certain situation. Oh, and just so we don’t get out of hand with percentage the max percentage you can get is 100%. In fact, I would say that if you had something like a 40% chance of success that, that would be an amazing number.
One of the biggest advantages that I have over other people in my field is that I interact with a lot of men and women in the comments of my articles.
Now, some people are willing to get their exes back but they have problems following instruction. Lets say that I am trying to teach two men to get back with their ex girlfriends after they broke up with them. Now, lets also say that I come up with the very best strategy for getting an ex back in this situation and I teach it to both men.
Man A listens very intently but when push comes to shove he falters from the game plan and ultimately fails to get his ex back. Man B, on the other hand, not only listens to the game plan but implements it to a T and gets his ex back.
I taught this very same strategy to both men so that means that my strategy had a 50% success rate, right? When I talk about the percentage of success I am only taking into account the people who followed the strategy perfectly. In other words, if any alterations were made from the strategy I taught it doesn’t count because those alterations can really matter to your ex girlfriend. A situation where YOU broke up with your ex girlfriend has the best chance of success out of all the situations out there. I would say that if 100 men attempted to get their exes back in this particular situation 40 of them would succeed if they used my strategy. This is the premise of the strategy that I teach in Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO and I am not going to be teaching you all of it today. Yup, I already talked a lot about this and told you how important it was to diffusing your ex girlfriends anger.
This is because I want to make sure your ex girlfriend is at a place emotionally where she will at least be responsive to you. Like I said above one of it’s many purposes is to get your ex girlfriend at a place emotionally where she will accept messages from you. Once she is in this place that’s where we can turn our attention to part two of the process.
Then you move to phone calls and then to the small in person interaction and finally the romantic in person interaction.
You get your ex girlfriend all worked up to where she is hanging on your every word and then at the climax you suddenly just end…. After 3 days i regret that so i wrote sms that i forgot few things, we met for a few minutes, it was cold short conversation. Then she told me how she had a thing with this guy and they slept together ( fuckfriends ) because my ex had feelings for the guy because she told me that he understood her … bullshit.
I recently got dumped by my girlfriend, After valentine day we haven’t talk but on that day she seem a little bit off. I was searching for help for getting my ex fiance back when I found your site and I am hoping you can help me. I started to realize that the grass isn’t always greener, and we did have a great thing going and the relationship probably just needed some work and better communication. It’s like that but the difference now is that you already know what she loves and likes talking about.
We have been texting a little more and I have been throwing in a lot of humor which is one thing she always liked about me – she has been more receptive lately. Based on how emotional she gets when we argue through text, I don’t think she is over our relationship yet.
Yeah – they started dating almost immediately after her and I saw each other and I was still unsure about getting back with her and wanted to wait a little longer.
In other words, you will be talking to your ex through text messages, phone calls and in person interactions. In other words, first you have to text your ex girlfriend and build attraction through that medium. While I do think that it is super important to master I think each piece of the three piece puzzle is equally important.
It just so happens that Paris is your ex girlfriends because she has never been and has always wanted to see it.
If that is something that you want then I suggest you take a look at Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO. However, it’s interesting and draws upon a story that you knew your ex girlfriend was interested in once upon a time. Again, if your girlfriend responds positively then you wait another day and send the next text.
Eventually you are going to have to move to the second rung of the ladder which is talking on the phone with her. I am sure you could ask my wife and she could cite all the times that I have just sat on the phone like a doofus waiting for her to break the awkward silence.


Well, if you had prepared a nice little list of 100 topics to talk about then all you would have to do is pull it out, point to a topic and the both of you would be talking like old times. If everything goes according to plan then you will have built enough attraction to get a yes to a high risk proposition. So, I went online and researched and apparently if police can’t find anyone to give the money back to then they usually pocket the money themselves.
That fact alone makes your ex girlfriend feel more comfortable when there are other people around.
That fact alone has shaped the perception of dates to every woman and we are going to use this to our advantage. The idea is to leave your ex girlfriend wanting more so it makes getting that third date so much easier. Actually, I was watching this show last night and they showed these huge water falls and it made me think of you.
In fact, I would say most men trying to get their exes back have trouble getting past date one so the fact is that if you made it this far is a good sign. Its been almost a year since we broke up, but I didn’t follow any of the rules on this forum because I just read this today. I might be a little bit nervous but I like to know if this actually does count as positive. This will happen when you can show her that you have already fixed at least made improvements to your issues and personal problems that contributed to the break up.
I mistakenly thought that I had to be that protective to ensure that I didn’t lose you. Unless you are making your ex-girlfriend feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, then much of what you say will go in one ear and out the other. Getting her back means getting her to change her mind, and that means getting her to feel differently about you again, but words alone will not change the way she’s feeling. They’ll hound her with telephone calls, text messages, emails, and they may even show up at her work, and all because they’re desperate to talk to her and to get her to listen to them as they beg her to change her mind. For example: She might say that his clinginess and jealous behavior led to her choosing to dump him, but he’ll attempt to make it her fault by saying that some aspect of her behavior led to him behaving the way he did. Attempting to pass the blame achieves none of this, giving her absolutely no reason to change her mind.
Instead of thinking about things to say to get your ex-girlfrien back, you need to think about things to do that make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you as a man. When she then became your ex, something about you must have changed to cause her to feel turned off, so what changed? We've already helped 1,000s of guys to achieve amazing success with women and we would love to help you too. You feel sick to your stomach, with no energy, you can’t be bothered to see anyone and you just want to be left alone. Let’s say that you broke up, it’s been a few months, maybe even a year and you’ve heard through friends that she’s got a boyfriend (perhaps you even saw it on Facebook which would really suck).
Get some new threads, workout at the gym (get the body most women want), eat right and drum some positive thoughts into your head.
It’s crucial that they see the guy you want to be seen as… which is a confident, independent, happy and outgoing guy. It’s vital that you find out why she hates you… because this will help you to build a solid action plan. Apologise for what you did wrong and say to her that you respect her wishes, also that you truly wish that she finds a guy that will make her happy. If you did, then that’s awesome, keep the communication flowing and suggest meeting up for a coffee because you want to stay friends with her. It took me exactly 4 weeks, but I have a friend who used the same techniques and it took him 7 months. He started stalking and harrassing me, and would harrass any guy I dated.I told him never to speak to me again, but he still tried to get me back, was watching and following me in person and on line ,so I called the police and filed a report, and later filed a no contact order. We broke up because she got jealous about other women who were giving me attention, and i lied about one of these girls at a party and i just got too comfortable and didn’t show interest. My gf mentioned to break up due to another man and no more feeling with me, I’ve stopped this action taken as I can’t take it! In the mean time go and get your self together work out hang with friends and make your self happy. You are her comfort zone you know each other so she is just there with you after what she thinks is good is not. The next day I saw she had took us off of a relationship on Facebook and I lost it, I gave her my password and she out of current mistrust searched through my emails.
Express your self about what was the underlying problem with the situation between you both. Therefore it is going to be a bit harder because the headwind that you have to overcome is whatever feelings you gave her that made her think that she didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore. They honestly believe that the entire process of winning an ex back (if they broke up with that ex) is going to be a cakewalk. Nope, you are here because YOU broke up with your ex girlfriend and now you are regretting your choice and want her back but you haven’t quite figured out what you need to do to get her back. So, you are traveling down your merry way when all of a sudden you hit this really strong headwind. Especially if you made it known that you still care about her but just didn’t want to be with her.
As you were looking at your cell phone you accidentally bumped into a person walking down the street. However, if you haven’t experienced what this is like then lets let you in on the experience.
She will always be under the assumption that she wasn’t good enough and there is nothing more than women love to prove to men that they are good enough. Of course, when it comes to getting an ex girlfriend back there is no percentage that is that high.
It is through these interactions that I am able to preach my message and see the kind of results they yield. Instead, he opted to follow his own and while that can work sometimes it didn’t in this case. I think i’m mentally prepared to be in good mood and to spend time with her and i believe she would agree.
But around january 2016 , she came back to talk to me … she asked me if I was still her friend.
The problem, that not even 3 weeks after our date, she starts telling me she is seeing someone and is falling for them. If this was all like starting from the beginning, and you know she doesn’t like you, what would you do to keep her interested in you?
She didn’t respond and I said this is tearing me up, but I need to move on because this is dumb. Once enough attraction has been built there you can move on to the next medium with talking to her over the phone. The work the corners, change the speeds and even throw a few waste pitches to get errant swings.
Then you move on to the second text message where you are specifically talking about a date the two of you had where you went and saw cirque du soliel. You only get a few shots on goal so you want to make sure that every time you talk to your girlfriend on the phone you do so with a purpose.
A coffee date can also be considered more romantic than a group date which is why the risk for your ex is a little higher. You know, when you look at relationships as a whole that trip is the way things are supposed to be.
I messed up by making myself look desperate to talk to her in the conversation and kinda scared her away a little. She messaged me once during NC but it was such a passive conversation, almost awkward, I have to say. Just tell me what you want and I’ll do it,” but the problem with this is that it only highlights the fact they obviously don’t know what it is they need to change to fix things.
Something like “Hey, so I got the job… (yay for me) starting in a week” fancy a celebratory coffee? This means you need to upload pictures of you partying with other pretty girls, smiling, traveling, doing things that you NEVER did whilst in your relationship with your ex.
Well then after we broke up i made out with one of the girls and i told her about it and it devestated her. She she leave it becaue she thinks she found the one to replace you then she finds out the grass is not greener on the other side so she comes back.
She took a light hearted conversation to be factual and believes that I am a cheater and our relationship was over a long time ago. Heck, I would say it’s one of the prime reasons that Ex Girlfriend Recovery has become so popular.
Your ex girlfriend will still probably be upset after the no contact rule but she will be nowhere near as upset as she was immediately after the breakup before you did the no contact rule. In my mind this ruins things because the strategy that I taught him is very different than the strategy that he actually employed. I felt that as time passed by she wasn’t as happy, and I guessed it was because of the long distance. Then I said is there anything we could do about our relationship and she told she doesnt want to get back, maybe sometimes meet for a weekends. My ex and I dated for about 11 months, and only 2 months into it she started staying at my place.
It makes me jealous, sad, and shocked at the same time that she would move on that quick…her replies are a lot shorter now, but she does remind me of the hurt I caused her very often. I don’t want to look desperate, nor do I want to say anything bad and become a common enemy of her and her new bf. When it came up today, i just asked her to talk and she said she was busy…am I rushing this ? She claims she is in love with this new guy after dating him for a month, which to me is immature, and a sign of a rebound. So, I would say that after three positive phone conversations you can go ahead and ask for a date. If I text her again in a week, should I start with the NC opener or the other openers suggested? Anyway, the other day I started a conversation, as mentioned above, and her reply was rather neutral and bored. All I needed to do was love you and trust you, but I wasn’t able to do that back then. You may push her limits till she is afraid of you or hates the very thought of you.If you are a good man, she will miss you and call you. I made a lot of mistakes after the breakup, begging to come back to her, argued a couple times, freaked about her dating. She is blaming you for cheating because she is not being 100% with you about what she is doing.
I just started the no contact phase and am giving her time it’s been 3 days no contact.
It’s still fresh, I have sent her a very brief letter trying to keep an image that I have calmed down now, and apologized once again for how cruel I was, and for even saying the things I had. Also we have a trip in few months and she said that there is one bed, so i should sleep somewhere else, i said nope problem, but then she told she is kidding. He also doesn’t seem like a quality guy in terms of education and lifestyle, which her and I value greatly.
Of course, I think it’s hard for most people because they let so many extracurricular things get in the way of happiness. Now that has changed because I realize that in a relationship, you have to each other your full trust, rather than loving, but not trusting.
We’ve hung out like 7 times since the break up and things got pretty affectionate 4 out of the 7 times.
I was leaving the state around half year and she had ask me to stay but, I insist to leave due to good opportunity. I sent her mother a 4 pg front and back letter explaining in order of occurrence everything, assuring I am not a cheater and just everything, I was completely honest, and mature in every way. I thought thst i could not get over my ex but I am living and making the best of the situation everyday. I already feel the chill down my spine, on that day my love come to a end she said she want to break up with me.
She thinks I’m trying to sabotage her and her new bf, which I have said nothing negative about her new bf. Assuming I should start NC over….for how long ?Do you think she is using these tactics to make me want her more? It’s just been a rough past summer for me in general with my grandpa passing away and adjusting to all this change.
One is a love letter and the other is an apology letting her know I accept the breakup and wish her the best.
When we were together I was a jerk and didn’t make a big deal about it and it hurt her.
This was a charity show hosted by her and her friends at school and I went with my friends.
I do love the girl and I’m attempting to get her back by going to her school which is an hour away and serenading her wih a guitar right on campus haha.
So now what Idk is should I text her the night before and say something about it like goodluck don’t be nervo use it’ll be okay, just good luck or nothing at all? I noticed how unhappy she was, but I never asked her why, since I had a plan to surprise her.
I started feeling less attracted to her overtime and missed being single and hanging out with my friends. We’ve broken up before about 2 years ago and I did the same thing just outside of her house. Because my reasons were i couldnt imagine myself living with this person in the future so I decided to break up. She keep saying no more feeling with girl, what can I do to get her back again coz I too love her. I really though we would get back together yet she kissed the guy and few weeks ago she told me she still has feelings for the guy. And sometime i know i forget little things about her like what time she get off school, i’m always working, always want to spend time with her. 8 months into it, she wanted to move all her stuff in officially, and that scared the crap wasn’t sure based on how things had been going lately.
I am stopping contact for about 3-4 weeks and going to enjoy my life and date other women, start some more hobbies, travel, etc. She has me blocked on facebook and snapchat, yet we still keep in touch through text and phone calls and shes friends with my mom on facebook still haha.
Now shes gone i want her back, after couple days have pass she text me back saying she feel really appreciate what i did for her and said i was a good guy and wishing me find a better girl, she wanted to give me the stuff back that i gave her for christmas and her birthday.
I told her how I felt and that for the time being I wanted space, and she stormed out saying she was done.
I sent her a message on facebook saying I made a mistake and that I got emotional and said things I didn’t mean. We got into some heated arguments and I might have said I didn’t see a future with her, but was just missing my own space more than anything.
I told her didn’t want to break up, and that I had decided to move back to her city, and part of the reason was for her. I just had to cut her off because my feelings were involved the whole time and I got hurt real bad.Then she got mad at me because I was gonna leave her again as a friend and she was blaming everrything on me.
She said she didn’t really feel like talking to me right now and that I really hurt her. Atleas give a consideration that i was a faithful dude down to be in it for the long hall .
Im shouting to the whole world that i’ve moved on with her that im doing ok and fine. I know if i pull at her more while she still mad and bitter shes just going to pul away more.
I always thinking about her and now these thoughts that i want her to comeback is starting to pop on my mind.
On top of that ahe has the type of girlfriends who like bashing dudes cause thwy dont have one or not satisfied qjth the ones they have.
She would always tell her friends about me and how much she loved me and even tod them all about our sexual life.



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