Getting your ex boyfriend back after a fight isn’t as impossible a task as people make it out to be. Speaking of advice, everything I talk about on this page, every strategy, tactic and idea I have derived from the foremost experts in the relationship world, stories I have found online and my own personal experience. Now, before I move on to the next section on this page I do want to point out that this page WILL NOT tell you everything you need to know about getting an ex boyfriend back.
Of course, I have also written an E-Book that is essentially a step by step guide to getting your ex back. Hmm… lets take things one question at a time.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
I am going to go ahead and raise my hand here and say that I have fought about some pretty silly things with my exes before. Be as specific as possible when addressing an issue or if ask for specifics if you are unsure. Eventually you are going to have to cooperate with this person to fix whatever problem you may be fighting about it. One of the first pages I wrote when I created this site was having a legitimate reason for getting back together. If you aren’t familiar with the infamous no contact rule then I suggest you get familiar with it. The reason this doesn’t work (most of the time) is that your boyfriend is expecting you to do this. If you are able to successfully make it through the No Contact period one of three things is going to happen. I am going to use this section to advise you on how to approach all of the situations above.
My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. Breaking up is tough, and sometimes all we want more than anything is that person who broke our hearts to be back in our lives.
In case you need a reminder of why you and your ex broke up in the first place, well, we’re here for you girl. Okay, I get this, but also, every breakup IS different, and sometimes getting back with your ex can be a good idea.
We’ve been together for almost 7 years,until 1 day he just texted me that he doesnt love me anymore, at 1st i was in denial and couldnt accept the fact that he was the 1 who broke up with we. Give us your juiciest, wildest, weirdest and embarrassingest (it’s a word) hook up stories! Funny quote with a little helpful advice about not getting back with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend. Essentially I try to take an outsiders view and look at Ex Boyfriend Recovery’s overall weaknesses. More specifically, how to make an ex boyfriend answer the phone and what to do once you are talking to him. If you are an avid reader of this site then you know that I am not a huge fan of calling an ex boyfriend right off the bat.
Before I really dive in to the phone call stuff there is something I need to explain to you. I want you to stop for a moment and really think about how many decisions you made based on emotions today. So, the seemingly innocent decision to get in my car and drive to school can be traced all the way back to an emotion that I want to feel. While I realize a first grader could figure this out I would still like to take a moment to define what is considered a good feeling vs a bad one.
The thing that I find most interesting about good feelings is the fact that we all tend to gravitate towards them. The whole point I am trying to make here is that no matter what we will always be drawn to things that make us feel good. Above I talked about how both men and women tend to gravitate to things that make them feel good.
Anyways, the feeling I felt after the verbal lashing from those football players shaped my perception of the weight room in high school. When you are dealing with an ex boyfriend the task can seem impossible but I assure you that it’s not. Remember above when I was talking about all that “good feeling, bad feeling” stuff? As long as you can find a way to shape his perception and have more pros than cons then you have a really good shot at talking to him on the phone. That all depends on your ability to understand that calling an ex right off the bat is NOT a good idea.
In fact, when I first started this site I used to believe that as long as you could think logically and push the right buttons you could make an ex boyfriend call you and eventually get him back. It was only through interacting with you and seeing different situations that I realized that I was wrong. You see, you need to find a perfect balance between logical thinking and emotional output if you want an ex boyfriend to call you or to pick up the phone when you call.
Not only does it have advantages for making an ex miss you but it allows you enough time to get in the logical mindset that you need to get an ex boyfriend to call you. A few sections ago I talked about a major concept that ties directly into making an ex boyfriend call you. Well, one of the main questions you were probably wondering was how you can get rid of some of the cons.
Now, before I talk to you about what you need to do specifically to get him to call I would like to take a look at the reasons why he WON’T call you. Anyways, after talking with me she was feeling pretty down about her chances and then she said something that I found fascinating. I remember when I was first trying to think of a word to describe how annoying it is to get text after text from someone you don’t want to hear from.
Seriously, I remember when I was a teenager walking with a group on a mountain trail and gnats started buzzing around everyone’s heads.
We have already established that an ex boyfriend is likely to run away from things that will give him bad feelings. In this (made up) scenario your ex boyfriend now views you calling him as a con on the pros vs cons list? Lets switch gears here and focus on those women who are trying to call their ex boyfriends. First off, there is a specific way that you have to call your ex boyfriend to ensure maximum success. It’s funny, out of all these mistakes this is the one I think I feel I have the most insight into because in a way I live it every single day.
Your ex boyfriend may find it very annoying if you were to force him to do something that he doesn’t want to do. Right off the bat I will tell you that I sense the person who is saying it is extremely desperate.
Any time anyone ever texts this to me I start freaking out and wracking my brain with everything that could have possibly gone wrong to cause the emergency. Well, when it comes to relationships men don’t negotiate with women who give them ultimatums.
Funnily enough, you would probably do what I wanted so you could get your phone back but you would always hold the fact that I gave you an ultimatum against me.
This is the part where I am going to give you in-depth instructions on how you can make an ex boyfriend potentially call you or pick up your calls.
I am assuming that getting an ex boyfriend to call you is just one little aspect of your overall goal which is probably to get him back. All of these concepts are going to tie into a deeper gameplan with one goal in mind, to make your ex want you so bad that he calls you.
For one, it is really important for you to obtain that logical mindset that I keep talking about. What I would like to do now is go into the specifics of the gameplan so you have a really good idea of what to do to make your ex boyfriend call you. I love it when you meet someone new and you are literally on the edge of your seat anticipating their next text. There is something magical that happens when you actually build an emotional connection with the person you are texting. If you ever get to know me really well then you would know that I am the type of person that needs to get my beauty sleep. You see, at that time I was a senior in high school and I really wanted to see my girlfriend more than once a weekend.
Seriously, if you were to walk into my room tomorrow at 5:30 in the morning and poured cold water on me I would still be sleeping.
THAT is how you make him call you and you are going to do it through the least threatening way possible, through texting. A guide that is supposed to be about phone calls and we are going to spend a huge chunk talking about texting.
In other words, you are going to get your ex used to associating you with good feelings before you talk on the phone so that when you do things will go extremely well. Below I have compiled a lot of text messages that you should use to get your ex to associate you to good feelings.
If there is one thing I have learned about the women visiting my site throughout this past year it is that they want results fast.
If your ex does respond positively to the first texting example that will give you the ability to use another texting example on this page.


Now, if your ex does NOT respond positively to the first texting example then you need to take a step back and realize that he isn’t ready to build an emotional connection yet. That means YOU have to have the willpower to cut the conversation off right when it is starting to get good.
That will make him associate that good feeling with you since YOU were the one that gave it to him. Another important thing that I would like to mention is that you shouldn’t continue the conversation too much longer after you send this initial text. Because your ex is likely going to fish for more compliments and you want to leave him wanting more. I love receiving messages from a girl that I am interested in and I am going to guess that your ex is the same way. Another great message I received was a girl walking down a hotel hall just talking about what she did all day. One of the best video messages I received was a girl masterfully flirting by commenting on something I said. Do you remember when you read that get your ex boyfriend to call you guide on your phone or computer?
This text message is all about making your ex boyfriend remember a good time the two of you had together. Lets move on and talk about the two types of phone calls you really want to receive or make! I would like to now turn our attention to the real reason this guide was created, phone calls. But really at the end of the day the main goal here is to get on the phone with your ex boyfriend so you can work on getting him back. More specifically, have you ever gotten a phone call out of the blue from a guy you had feelings for? Of course, if this type of phone call is done correctly it can be a very powerful way to get your ex boyfriend on the phone. Leading Phone Call- A type of phone call where you lead him or warn him that you are going to call. Up until this point we have been talking strictly about how to get an ex to call you (or to pick up your calls) but one thing I haven’t gone into is what you are supposed to do once you get them on the phone.
This is going to be the final section of the guide and arguably the most important one so make sure that you are paying attention. I have thought a lot about how to structure this category and I decided to start with two general ideas. I have talked on the phone with a lot of people in my life so this is really something that I consider myself to be an expert on. Of course, in order to control someone you have to really get them hooked into your conversation first.
I have never met any of these celebrities in real life and yet somehow I am fascinated by them.
Of course, you don’t have to tell a Hugh Jackmanesque story to hook your ex into the conversation. The Afterthought Effect- The emotional feeling your ex boyfriend is feeling towards you after he hangs up the phone from your phone call. This would be considered to be a negative AE and something that you need to avoid at all costs.
A week or so later he calls to congratulate me on my new job, we chatted he smiled and laughed, I smiled and laughed.
Using this page it is my goal to help you understand what you need to do to get your boyfriend back after a monster fight.
The 20,000 words in that guide will literally lay everything out for you step by step so I recommend you check it out if you want to drastically improve your chances of getting a boyfriend back.
Guys don’t want to be with their girlfriends, they want to be with their friends and have a guys night out.
The boyfriend will usually complain that the girl spends too much while the girl will complain that the boyfriend doesn’t spend enough. Can you imagine how boring the world would be if everyone agreed about everything and there were no arguments? So many couples choose to call each other hurtful names rather than work together to communicate their real issues. Most fights end up being nothing but who can call who the worse name or who can hurt each other the most. On that page I basically state the importance of having a real reason for getting back with your ex. By successfully implementing it you go from being the girl that he had to the girl that he can’t have and that makes you so much more attractive in his eyes.
My long distance ex and I completed our 1 month of no contact and he reached out to me missing me and saying how much he loves me and wanted to marry me. If you try again, avoid using the same kind of messages like the last message you sent because the last message kind of indicated you’re giving him the power on when to talk to you. No matter what happened with you and your ex, it’s normal to go through a period of time where you miss them and want to get back together with them. Getting back with your ex is (usually) a step in the wrong direction, and we want you to look forward to the future rather than staying stuck in the past. I dated a guy for a few months, and he broke up with me due to some misunderstandings, which I completely understood and forgave him for, now we are back together, as he admitted that breaking up was a mistake.
My ex suddenly stopped speaking to me and a few weeks later he made an excuse to my friend about his friends being jealous of the amount of time he spent with me, so that’s why he stopped completely. It is through these weaknesses that I can learn more about how to improve the site as a whole for you. While I am sure this is an inappropriate example nothing can illustrate my point better than it. Once that drug user uses that drug and gets the good feeling they don’t just stop there. This is especially true when it comes to relationships but before I go into that lets talk a little about bad feelings. The reason this is a major mistake is that right after a breakup there is no logical thinking. However, there is one aspect of NC that I really haven’t ever gone into, the stabilization effect. Admittedly, after a breakup your cons are going to be a lot higher than your pros on your exes list.
Doing that is essentially the same thing as poking a bear, eventually the bear is going to explode but if you wait until the bear calms down he is going to be much more receptive of you.
Look, I am going to make this really simple for you, the key to getting any guy to call you is to give him a reason worth calling.
This particular woman really wanted to get her ex boyfriend back but there was just one problem, she made every mistake in the book.
In fact, I have made so many mistakes in my own personal relationships that I sometimes wonder why my (now) ex significant others stayed with me as long as they did. Gosh that was so annoying because no matter how many times you swatted at the gnats they just kept coming back for more.
Unfortunately, the more you call or text when he doesn’t want you to the more likely it is that you are going to reinforce his decision of why you give him bad feelings. Every day I get women contacting me trying to force me to answer them and help them with their problem.
That is essentially what an ex boyfriend would feel if the above statement was said to him.
Before I get started I do just want to say that everything from this section on is going to be very important so make sure that you are paying attention. Also, the act of entering into a no contact period alone can sometimes cause an ex boyfriend to call you.
However, at the same time you want an emotional mindset to bring out the good feelings that he associates with you.
In fact, there have been times where I anticipate a text message so much that I get angry when I don’t receive a message as fast as I want it to come.
It’s almost like everyone starts out with a very logical brain but the more and more you build an emotional connection with someone your brain becomes more and more emotional and the most ironic part of it all is that we love it when it happens. Instead, I want the phone call to be like old times, to help rebuild the emotional connection that you both used to cherish. If this is the situation you find yourself in DO NOT use the texting example in the same conversation you used the first example. That is completely ok it just means that you need to go back into no contact period for a while and give him more time.
Yes, for the first time during this entire process you are going to talk about your feelings! Essentially, you are going to say something semi sweet, as I will demonstrate in the graphic below, but what you are really looking for here is to see if he says something sweet or semi sweet back.
It is through those text messages that you can tap into your ex boyfriends emotions and cause him to replace his bad feelings towards you with good ones. But you also have to take into account the fact that most guys don’t call girls unless they like them in some shape or form. It’s important for you to realize that with this type of phone call we are flipping the script.
However, if he makes up some excuse for why he can’t talk you then you need to hit the reset button and try again at a later date.
When I am interested in a girl there are two important things I do to keep them coming back for more.


That means that you are going to dictate where the conversation goes and how long it will last.
It is going to take hard work, good timing and the right strategy to position yourself in a place where you have a chance of winning your ex boyfriends back.
I know this may sound a little goofy but I honestly want to become the number one authority in the world on helping women get back with their boyfriends (if they choose to.) I work on this site every day and will respond to every single comment so feel free to ask a question if you have one.
All of a sudden you become angry, frustrated and say some very hurtful things to someone you really care deeply about. However, I naturally go curious and decided to look up what the average couple will fight about.
So, yes you have a pretty darn good shot at getting your ex back if you broke up directly because of a fight. In my opinion a good legitimate reason for getting back together with your ex is if you were broken up because of a fight. Emotions are running high and your first instinct is to call up your ex boyfriend and apologize hoping that you can somehow save the relationship.
Let me put it to you this way, have you ever liked someone so much that you texted but they never texted back?
The goal of this page is to help you get your ex back but I need you to understand that even though your boyfriend contacting you like this is really good you can’t get too overconfident. It isn’t as good as (option one) above but the fact that he contacted you means you are on his mind, a lot. If you really want to get his attention back, focus on interesting topics, you broke up over a very interesting one.
So read these quotes for a few reasons you shouldn’t get back with that loser who broke your heart, stop looking at his pictures and start realizing how terrific you are!
Until such time that my friend told me he was cheating while were still together,wats worst was i caught him with another girl. After all, the main point of this site is to prepare you so that you have the best chance to get your ex boyfriend back. I know at times I can get a little bit wordy but I really want to push the importance of you reading this entire guide and not skipping a section.
While I certainly do it for entertainment purposes I also do it because I know that if a show or movie is written well enough it is going to make me feel good. Anyways, I had a bad experience while I was there when some of the fitter football players made fun of my appearance.
However, the main reason for that is the fact that emotions are heightened after something emotional happens (like a breakup.) Of course, with time that emotional headwind you are facing from him is going to lessen.
Of course, it wasn’t until she stumbled across Ex Boyfriend Recovery that she realized that her behavior was not ideal. So, as you read the list of mistakes I am going to compile below I don’t want you to freak out if you have made one or all of them.
That feeling of nagging can sometimes burden a man and unfortunately that burdening can lead to pain. For now, I want to point out something incredibly annoying that women can sometimes do when they get desperate for an ex boyfriend to pick up their calls.
While I respond to every single person in the comments section of this site I no longer respond to emails (unless they have to do with the E-Book.) If I responded to every single person through email I would literally get nothing done. It is through your exes emotions that you will get him to call you or pick up your phone calls.
More specifically, consistently hooking him into conversations that reinforce your good feeling vibes. The reason I like this text message so much is that it gets your ex used to comparing you to a good feeling.
So, I am going to recommend that you use this text message as a way to open the conversation. For example, you can pretend like you forgot something about the memory and are asking him to recount it for you. I do want you to tap into your emotions but I want you to be really conservative on how you display them. Instead of looking for a way to make HIM call you, you are going to take the reins and call him!
What if you and I were to talk on the phone and you did an amazing job of hooking me into a conversation. We recently just talked on the phone for the first time in a long time but instead of me being left with positive thoughts of you I was left with negative ones after we hung up. Luckily, I put this page together for you to break down the overall strategy that you should use if you had a big blowout with your ex. As long as you fight in a healthy way (where you don’t horribly demean the other person) you can actually have a healthy discussion that strengthens the relationship. Sure, you may be so angry that you could punch a hole in the wall but there is no need to yell about it. Don’t you owe it to yourself to give the relationship a try, enduring the fights in a healthy way?
I know this may seem a little harsh but trust me when I say it is vital for your particular situation. Now, there is actually quite a bit more to the no contact rule than just cutting yourself off from your ex (like what you are supposed to do during it and how long you have to implement it for) but I don’t want you to worry about it because I created a very long and in-depth guide detailing everything you could possibly want to know about the no contact rule here.
Take solace in the fact that he is thinking about you and there are clearly some unresolved feelings from his side. The truth of the matter is that it isn’t an ideal situation but your chances are hardly over. I noticed he flirts with other girls and asked him about it then got defensive and turned into a huge jerk about it.
But one night over Skype we had a huge fight over the topic of human evolution and the origin of the human species.
I’m just saying, because you should keep in mind that it depends on the person and the situation. I have been thinking a lot lately and have noticed one area where this site really lacks is when it comes to phone calls.
The decision that I made to watch a TV show on my iPad is done with the end goal in mind, making me have a positive feeling. Your goal with every interaction you have with your ex boyfriend is to leave him wanting more.
Doing this will give him a mental visual of the memory and hopefully bring up those good feelings from within. All I am saying is that you have to do a good job with the text messages in the section above for this to work. Add in the fact that I don’t like drama or confrontation and you have me sitting through one of the most boring dates of my life. I also feel it is important to point out that no matter what anyone says there are no guarantees when it comes to this kind of stuff.
Lets take a moment to break down why the no contact rule will work especially well in your case. Surely there must be something wrong with them so you logged on to their Facebook account only to see that they have been posting updates all day long.
Before 10 days I got into a fight with him as we were not talking for 5 days because he was with his friends. I don’t like being judged for getting back together with him, it was a decision we made together. Instead, you will just be reinforcing the emotional mindset that you probably already have. Seriously, if you have never seen this guy interviewed before stop what you are doing and go watch him. Anyone who says they can promise you that they can get your ex back 100% of the time is a scam artist and I would say you are better off moving on then listening to their advice. Sure, you are angry but the next day you always text them back hoping you still have a shot. Well, your best play is to take things really slowly and make sure you check out my step by step guide on how to get him back here. He got mad when I said that the human species originated in Africa and it escalated in to a huge fight I know it left a sour taste in both of our mouths, but for me it was just a fight. Know, that you have him hooked but in order to reel him in you are going to have to doing everything just right. Every time I check my phone for a text message from my best friend I am still thinking of you.
No joke, I spent a month writing it and it is by far the most popular page on this website. So we had a fight and 2 days later he starts online dating and a couple of days after that he stopped contacting me.
I was still upset about our fight and I have a lot of pride so I didn’t contact him either. But I was still hoping we weren’t breaking up and that he was just taking a break to cool off.
So after 2 weeks of silence he contacts me and is clearly pissed off that I haven’t been in touch with him!



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