Facebook Covers InformationFacebook Quotes Cover - heal my heart and make it clean open up my eyes to the things unseen show me how to love like You have loved me made by our users. MenuFearless doesnt mean you're completely unafriad and it doesnt mean you're bulletproof, it means you have alot of fears.. Question: I have a question regarding Muslims changing their entire name after coming into the faith of Islam. Islam does not consider it an obligation for any new convert to Islam whose mother tongue is not Arabic to change it to an Arabic name or other language.
Assallamu Alaikum, I became Muslim in June 2011, and just wanted to know that even if it is not mandated to change your name, can you do this as a symbol of such a total life change? As a convert of 10+ years myself, I can tell you that part of the conversion process is the eventually recognition that you are the same person that you were before and that Islam is a natural part of life. When I converted to Islam, I did not embrace Arabism, neither did I reject my parents, close friends nor the teachers and other adults in the community who helped raise me and make me who I am.
The Lamppost Education Initiative (LEI) offers expert analysis of current events which impact Muslims in the West as well as offerings in the classical Islamic disciplines in written, published, and audio-visual formats. I always planned to change my name whenever I married – I wanted to have the same last name as my children, be a unified couple, and follow tradition. From what you wrote in, it seems as though you want to change your name – you just don’t want to do the work!
If you have decided to go forward with changing your name, take the stress out of the legal process by reminding yourself of the fun that comes along. I hope you are able to decide for yourself based on your values and with input from your new spouse. Some of the most common questions I was asked as a newlywed were, "Does it feel any different to be married?" "Have you got used to calling him 'husband' yet?" and, of course, "So are you taking his last name?" When I answered in the negative (for all three questions, actually), the latter query was followed up with further questions.
I decided at the ripe old age of 15, almost 10 years before I met the man who would become my husband, that I would not change my name for marriage. As I grew older, learning more about gender politics and the inequalities that women still face in society cemented that teenage decision to keep my name. To put it bluntly -- as I sometimes do when people really grill me about my decision -- it's not 1950 and I'm not cattle that needs to be branded with my owner's name. If you are debating whether to change your surname for marriage, don't listen to the people who question your decision -- don't even listen to this article -- but take time to ponder for yourself your thoughts on name and identity, and what's important to you. After months and years of speculations, I finally decided to Book a GRE exam date and then start preparing for the same. After a little research, I found out that this is indeed a system bug that is probably unnoticed and even ETS acknowledges that. Bear in mind that there is no way to edit or change First Names, or Last Names or Date of birth after you have registered with a particular Email ID. Please be aware that, at the time of the testing, you are required to carry ID documents such as Passport in Original for verification.
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Even those that are second, third generation Muslims when their parents became Muslim they changed their last names. Rather, it is only highly recommended for one to do so when the meaning of one’s name is something offensive or overly presumptuous in sound, like one indicating that one is pure or the like.
Rather, their last names were connected to tribal affiliations or titles attaching them to certain tribal or regional sectors, like Qurashi, Khazraji, Makki, etc.
I feel as though I want to share with everyone what for me is the most wonderful thing that happened to me.
But I do think that there is something to converts adopting new identities as a way of breaking with our past. African-Americans, we have our own issues with names, but until we can be recognized as legitimate Muslims with names like Keith, Crystal and Michael, Islam is always going to be viewed as a foreign religion.
So with all due respect, I generally advise new converts not to change their names unless they fall within the above clarifications Ustadh Abdullah gave in the original answer.


Our commitment is to establishing an authoritative voice for American Muslim scholarship reflective of the historical tradition and contextualizes Islam in light of the challenges and cultural particularities of Western societies as was the case in all societies where Islam spread historically. The requestor will file a petition within the local municipality or court to request the name change of their child.
Letting coworkers and friends know you’ve changed your last name should be a happy moment, allowing you a brief chance to share a detail or two about your wedding day.
The expectation that women should change their last name for marriage, swapping their own identity for their husband's, is -- inarguably -- sexist. I do think it's unequal that children automatically take their father's name, but other approaches are not yet as widely accepted as women keeping their surnames -- though I think this is will change with time. Whether or not I have the same last name as my child won't stop me loving them or feeling attached to them. However, that's the name I had for the first 29 years of my life before my wedding, and that's who I see myself as.
A few decades ago it was common to assume any married woman you met was a housewife; that's not a good reason for women to stay out of the workplace.
I love my husband dearly, and hope we are together until we die in each other's arms at the exact same moment at age 100, but it would be naive not to realize that something like a third of western marriages end in divorce.
If you, however, are not as fond of your name or do not see it as part of your identity -- perhaps because it's from a parent you don't have a good relationship with, the name is something you got teased for, or you just feel it's not particularly you -- then I think marriage is a great opportunity to take a new name.
If you, too, do think "it's just nice", ask yourself what you find nice about it before committing to a decision. All you need to do is register with the ETS Website, and choose a test center and get going. I have some of my friends who don't have a Last name, have had serious problems in the US consulate while filling up the DS-160 form. Of course, if you make a mistake, you could always register with a new Email ID and New user name.
In case of any discrepancies, there is going to be some big trouble and that could really effect your mental composure which in turn might have a drastic effect on your performance. It aims at providing valuable resources, advice's and the Do`s and Don`ts of doing MBA in India. I understood that to change your first name is okay, but to change your last name is not permissible. During the Prophet Muhammad’s (saws) time, he changed the names of a number of women whose names were too pious sounding, like the name Barra (ultra-pious). This, I think stems from a number of things, but something that I suspect is unique to the contemporary Western mindset. If you are looking to answer the question how do I change my child’s last name, you will need to begin with the formal approval of the court. I don’t want to spend a lot of time and stress going through the legal process of taking on my spouse’s name.
I recommend you have a frank discussion with your spouse about this choice, and think about how you identify yourself in regards to your last name.
Most of the work comes after you’ve filed the appropriate paperwork, and start the process of updating your accounts and records.
It’s a fun way to get used to referring to yourself as the new Mrs., and it will help others adjust to your name as well.
And I say "inarguably" because no one could claim there is an expectation of the same name-change in men. Also, with this logic, would I no longer feel like I'm part of my parents' family if I take a different surname from theirs?
But I believe this should be the case for men as well, and that neither gender should feel obligated to switch names. One common problem that is faced by many Indian Applicants is regarding the Multiple first name and the Multiple Last names. If you notice the above picture, it says that "Required fields are marked with an asterisk (*)" and the last name is a required field !!


I have two children whom now carry my last name now, and I am bothered that I may have made a mistake in giving them my last name.
I believe that we assume that there is something anit-Islamic about our past, when that simply is not the case.
Are there no boys in your family to carry on the name?" And then, in a conspiratorial whisper, "Do you not like your husband's last name?
Several times I've introduced myself to someone on email and received a message back signed off with "P.S.
In these days of blended families, the idea that everyone in a family would have the same last name is a touch old-fashioned. Reflective Groom' on meeting me for the first time -- just as people familiar with me greet him as. But the things that make weddings nice are that they bring together family and friends, celebrate your love, and are an excuse for an awesome party. I am sure the system will not let you navigate to the next page without filling this information. I am Mechanical Engineer and a Post Graduate Diploma in Manufacturing(MBA), Operations and Supply Chain from IIM Calcutta, IIT Kanpur and IIT Madras (PGPEX-VLM).
The Companions, as Ustadh Abullah said, only changed their names when they implied something pretentious or idolatrous. If one parent is estranged from the child, the custodial parent will typically need to provide proof that the notice was given or attempted to be given to the estranged parent. Also, those having a middle name could just enter the same, provided if the same is present is the ID document. I blog about MBA Admissions, Higher Education and Just about anything that I find Interesting. Sometimes notice cannot be given because there is no known address for the estranged parent.
And if it is so nice to have the same last name as your spouse, perhaps it shouldn't only be women stepping up to make the change. Also, the ETS registration system, for some strange reason, doesn`t allow you to put "SPACES" in between your multiple first names and Multiple last names. There should not be absolutely any mismatch between ID Document and the ETS registration form. This same trend can be detected in the European and other traditions (although I plan to exhaust more research on the matter) such that last names that are familiar today originate in some sort of occupation, tribal affiliation, or regional ascription.
I tried several times but the system would just not accept the space between my first name. In these cases, the courts generally ask that the custodial parent run an ad in the newspaper that serves as a public notice to the name change. Most jurisdictions require the custodial parent to run the ad in the newspaper anywhere from three days to three weeks. So, in the end, you have not done anything inappropriate by giving your children your last name unless they are not biologically yours. In the case of divorce, the custodial parent wishes for the child to have their last name for logistic reasons.
There are cases where the custodial parent re-marries and wishes for the child to take on the name of the custodial parent’s new spouse. If the parent is in the process of getting a divorce or in the beginning or middle stages of adoption proceedings, the parent can usually include the name change petitions with these proceedings and do not need to be file these separately.



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