Made available to the insecure masses are hundreds—possibly thousands—of self-help books that try to repair a self-esteem problem in mankind that Jesus Christ fixed once and for all 2,000 years ago through God’s plan of redemption. In a nutshell, self esteem is nothing more than how you see yourself, and based on what you see, you will conclude what your worth is and how valuable you are.
The spiritual health and self-esteem of a Christian is determined by how much that person knows regarding what God has said about them in His written Word, AND whether or not they believe it. Your identity as a disciple of Christ and a son or daughter of God must come from His Word and the way that God has planned it rather than getting it from someone else that may or may not know God for themselves. Imagine that you witnessed a big time mob boss murder someone, and in exchange for your testimony in federal court, the government has to put you into the Federal Witness Protection Program. They don’t ask you who you want to be—they just create a new identity for you and push you into it with very little training. So, you spend the rest of your life learning how to live by a new set of rules that only apply to you as long as you live according to this new identity. Knowing everything God has said about you and choosing to believe it will change what you say about yourself (if you really believe His Word). You are fearful of losing your lover because you think there is someone out there better than you. A low self-esteemed man will not heat a woman fully and a low self-esteemed woman will be too self-conscious making the act rigid.To have great sex, one must feel hot and sexy, relax and release. If people insult you or talk negatively about you, if you were sexually abused in the past; all your life, you live feeling unattractive. Low self-esteem will take a toll on your love-life, it will make it a struggle to love you because you don’t love yourself. You become easily tossed about, you lack the guts to be decisive and stand by your decisions. You look back over your life and wonder, what have I really done with my life that is meaningful? You avoid people because you think if they get close they’ll find out you are not all that amazing. Yes you have big dreams, yes you can make it; the world is ready for you to shine but you refuse to show up. You don’t get to connect with people on a heart level, you cover up on the outside with fine clothes, money, material things because you fear being vulnerable. Dayan Masinde is a Nairobi based Kenyan artist specializing in Poetry, Fine Art, Portrait Art, Murals, Creative Writing, Music, Illustrations and Animation. A recent study at New Flinders University has found that teen girls who spend more time on social media are more likely to be unhappy with their bodies and therefore have low self-esteem.


Teen girls spending more time on social media, posting their weight-loss progress selfies, are more likely to be dissatisfied with their bodies and have low self-esteem, a new study has found.
Researchers at the New Flinders University interviewed more than 1,000 high school girls and found conversations about appearance were “intensified” on social media and were more influential because they involved peers. The girls, who were first interviewed aged 8 and 9 years, were asked about their social media habits and self-esteem. The time the girls spent on social media had blown out from one hour a day to two-and-a-half hours. Although 80 percent of the girls surveyed were classified as being of normal weight, 46 percent said they were dissatisfied with how much they weighed. Young girls seeking affirmation via social media were “setting themselves up for negative mental health outcomes,” social commentator Melinda Tankard Reist said. Experts believe social media has a more powerful influence on teenage girls than traditional media because it is so pervasive and interactive. The sad truth about self esteem is that mankind has become very impressionable to the opinions of others and has allowed how other people see them to influence the way that they see themselves.
I know this all sounds too easy, because it literally eliminates the pressure to clean up your life and become worthy of what Christ has done for you. Even worse, when your partner is to blame, you actually think you are the problem and should count yourself lucky for the rotten love you have. You speak with a loud voice, create drama, create scenes, dress provocatively, post updates on social media to attract curiosity.
And so for no reason, you suspect your lover, become jealous and want to track your lover’s every move. Your partner can’t make you love yourself, how you view yourself is your sole responsibility.
And even if you have a lover, your whole life revolves around that lover, you make no friends and don’t want your lover to have friends.
He is often described as "The Artist Inspired by Love" because of his use of artistic expressions to inspire, celebrate and help understand the mystery of love. By then 90 percent had a Facebook account, with an average of 475 friends, and were uploading pictures of themselves to the internet, Sun-Herald reported.
We live in a culture that rewards exhibitionism (and) everyone is judged on their physical appearance,” Reist said.
Without knowing the Bible for yourself, you have no way of knowing if you are being led into un-truths that will keep you from experiencing true freedom in Christ.
Yes, it is true that your past has been forgiven and forgotten, and it does mean that God has given you a clean slate…a new beginning.


You now have rules that you are not used to following, and you don’t get to return to your old life in any way, shape, or form. Your enemy would love nothing more than for you to return to your former life where you are unprotected so he can kill you.
There are thousands of people living in the Witness Protection Program with new identities.
In the moment of your decision to follow Christ, your position in life went from sinner to saint. You refuse to take charge of your life despite the many real stories of people who got themselves out of a tough situation. You put no effort, you are scared of risks and failure, you tell yourself it is impossible. To expose the lies that you have believed about yourself, you must discover what God says about you! Sure, you have the same body, same hair style probably, same set of clothes, you probably still work at the same job, etc. Your protection and salvation from this insane murderer is found within the confines of your new identity. A good person wants to love you but you decline, choosing instead to commit to someone who messes up your life.
So many people read this verse in light of who they are and how they currently see themselves. Your safety is in your new identity where you can be protected by the organization that gave you the new identity. It must become your reality—you must find ways to brainwash yourself and change the way you think and look at yourself! Embracing this reality is the only way that you can permanently change your behavior and truly change your own opinion about yourself (your self esteem). It doesn’t matter what you have done in the past…even if you have committed crimes yourself!
Because you are a new person with a new identity, they cannot prosecute you for those crimes anymore because you are this NEW person now. Your old life has no use for you anymore…it has become forever insignificant and irrelevant.



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